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AHHHH!!! im freakin'
alright. see heres the thing. last night i had a dream where i was hanging out with my bestfriend (hes a guy. im a girl) and ive known him a loooonng time and when i first met him i liked him alot but i had a boyfriend (still have the same bf) and i ignored my feelings for him and really they went away now that i know him really intamitly as a bestfriend. so last night i had a dream that was with him and we were 5 years older and i was laying on him and stuff and we were making out and then we had sex. and im really worried cuz i liked the dream :( and being that i have a boyfriend and hes my bestfriend and on top of that i am really good friends with his girlfriend. so all of this is freakin me out. do you think it was just some random dream or something more?
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It could be that you like him. On the other hand, it could just have been a dream.
Lots of people dream about lots of different things. You can have dreams where you are doing things you would never even consider doing in real life, so why should this be any different?
The only thing that would make it different was if you had actual feelings for him, so the question here is, do you? If you forget about the dream for a second, forget that you ever had it. How do you feel about him? Dreams are only manifestations of worries, hopes, fears and desires in picture form. Now, it might be that you were feeling particularly hormonal at that time and.....a little horny perhaps. For whatever reason, perhaps you had been thinking about him that day, those feelings were transferred to someone you were comfortable with. In other words, your friend.
So as I say, the only time you need to worry is if you actually have feelings for this guy. Take some time, think about it and then try not to worry too much.
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hey, i think taht you still mgiht like this guy. havign dreams about guys are very normal. especially if your crushing on them. chances are the dream isnt realistic. i eamn it could happen but the chacnea re slim. tlak to him about your feelings tho. cait♥
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here is the thing..i think that you might still have feeling for this guy and you have been blocking them out because you have a boyfriend and you know his girlfriend. I think you should deside if you like this guy as a friend or something more.
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I think what this dream is trying to tell you is that you can't put your feelings on hold for your best freind and that they have returned. The best solution to this problem is to tell him how you actually feel about him or else you will lose him forever.
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Never take dreams too seriously. That can lead to a lottt of trouble, as I've seen. Don't take it as a big deal. If, down the line, you two are single and happen to like each other, then let itself work out from there rather than trying to break everyone up over some random brain activity in your sleep.
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