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well im going to be a sophmore next year and i have absolutely no idea what i want to be. obviously i have a dream job, and mine is to become an actress, but in case that whole deal doesnt work out, i want to have another thing for backup. freshman year i just took basics and this year i basically am too but junior im going to really need to think about what classes i want to take because its going to make a difference in colleges and stuff. does anyone know of any quizzes i can take or any thing like that to help me figure it out? thanks! (link)
Dear Job Interests,
Follow your heart and acheive your dream. That's all I need to say. You can't just give up the firwst time something doesn't work out. If yo want an actressing job as bad as I think you do then you willwork til you get it. Do you think it is easy to just be an actress. NO! You need to work ll day and remember your lines. It is alot of work but if you really want this job then you will work til you drop.



Hey. Do any of you guys know what "SOL" means, because a tee-shirt says " Ur SOL pal" (from Hollister). Thanks! (link)
it is an abreviation for sole like you know your sole mate and stuff like that.



I will turn 15 this month, and I will test for my driving permit. What does the permit test in Texas consist of? Is there an actual driving part or is it just written? And will I have to take the test again in a year when I get my license? Thank you. (link)
Dear Texas Permit Test,
Unfortunaly I am not able to help you with this topic. I do think that it is both because all driving tests consist of the same thing.



hey! =) well lately its been REALLY hot and HUMID and i love straigtening my hair ..i think i look a lot prettier when its straightened and i have more confidence i know sounds kinda weird but whatever. but tomorrow or the next day im probably gonna see this adorable guy and i wanna look cute! lol im gonna be wearing cute clothes but then what about my hair? i cant srunch it and leave it down it doesnt work..i would have to srunch it then put it up in like a bun but i just think i look different and not as pretty. but if its gonna be humid and i straighten it then it might get all frizzy and like unstraightened a little bit! but maybe not? i just dont know! cuz even if im outside for a little bit then it gets weird when straightened but i want to wear it like that! gahh what do you guys think i should do..curling it doesnt work either!! =( i know the guy shouldnt care but i just have more confidence when i "feel pretty"

well thanks. (link)
Dear humid+straightening my hair = not good,
I think you shold do what you want to do nd as for it not working when you are outside just try to stay insie most of the day!! Hope I helped!



There is this bunny sickness that has hit more than one of our bunnies. The bunnies become very limp and act like they have no muscle ability left, they just tilt to the ground. They have green liquids seeping from their nose and mouth but their ears are clear of all mites and visible infections. What is killing my bunnies? (link)
Dear Rabbit Diesease,
I am supposed to have all the answers but unfortunatly for this specific topic I don't have an answer. I think they might just have a bad diesease. You could look it up on th internet and maybe descride it in www.ask.com or www.google.com. They will maybe have the answer for this topic. Sorry!



sorry i don't know wat this goes under but i am wanting to be an foreign exchange student. i don't know anything about it though so i was wondering wat you could tell me about it. anything will help i want to know where good places to go to are. i am thinkin about london, scotland, or australia but i really want to go to scotland although australia looks pretty cool to.please any help would be great! (link)
Dear foreign exchange student,
I think that you need to follow your heart and do what you think is right if you want to be an exchange student "right on", "girl power"! But as for asking me for where to turn for all the advice about it, I can't help you but there will be a name under exchange student in the yellow pages in the phone book. I think if you call the number in there and you ask then any question they will be able to answer it A.S.A.P because they are trained specialists to answer everything thats comes there way. Hope I helped!!
Good Luck and will power!!

Alli


13f well im a disco chic and i love the disco days and dont think disco is dead but anyway does anybody know where i could get some disco clothes from the disco era.i love to be flashy and outgouing and i thought what better way.o yeah i live in north carolina if it helps.much love peace.TWEETY (link)
Dear Where To Go,
Sorry but I am un-able to help you with this, because I do not know where to go to find disco clothes becase I unfortunatly do not lie in the state you do. Go to google.com and find where the closest place to go is to find disco clothes.

Alli


Me and my friend have been friends for a while and recently she told me about her cusion. i met him and a couple months later we started going out. just last week he broke up with me suddenly because he said he wasnt ready for a girlfriend. then the next day he e-mailed me back saying he was stupid he did and he still really likes me a lot and misses me. now he is on vacation and he said when he comes home he will have made a decision about going out with me or not. I really really like him but if he ends up asking me out i dont want to sound easy and say yes but i really like him but i just dont want him to do it again!! Also i've never made-out before and im dying to with him because he is the only one i would but now i dont know what to do!
help me please!
-confused- (link)
Dear confused about a guy,
I think you need to follow your heart. If you really like him then you should go out with him if you really like him. If you are frad of him breaking up with you that should be the least of your worries. Just be yourself and don't try to be someone your like. Guys usually like when girls are themself. If you guys really like eachother and talk to eachother then that will open so many doors and some day maybe you will make-out. Hope I helped!!



does anyone know some good sites to find some 50x50 avatars? (link)
Dear 50x 50 avatars,
I really can't help you. I do think that google would be the best thing to go on, that helps me with all of my problems. I always fall back on google. Just try it, google might surprise you!


Hi, i was wondering if anyone had any interesting ideas on how to celebrate me nad my boyfriends six month anniversary. I wanted to do something really special for him, since he has been so great, any ideas? It is also my birthday the day before that as well, so if that helps to get better ideas i dont know. He is 16 and i will be 15 the day before our 6 month.

Thanks (link)
Dear 6TH Month Anniversary,
Maybe you can take him to his favorite event maybe a his favorite sports event or whatever it is he likes. Then take him to his favortie resteraunt. Then you can go back to your house a watch a romantic movie. Then he will be happy that you remembered all of his favorite things.
Hope I helped!!



Okay, i dont usually do this, but i cant trust my friends with this one. I have a boyfriend who ive been dating for 13 months. in the last four months, ive started to fall for a guy i work with and have been working with for two years, we are jokingly refered to as the work couple. lately my boyfriend and i have been fighting a lot, and i spend more time at work (im working full time this summer) i dont think that i will be truly happy with either relationship, but the situation im in right now isnt appealing either. i feel like im losing interest in my boyfriend, yet i love him just as much.

what do i do? (link)
Dear I've Got Twy Boys In My Love Life,
I think that you need to set yourself straight by thinking who do you like etter and who do you need more in your life. What is the use in having a boyfriend if you don't barely see him. You see the other boy you work with more and you like him. I am not telling you to dump someone I am just asking who do you need more in your life? That's the question.Good Luck!



be prepared, its a bit long.


my boyfriend have been going out for about 5 months. he's amazing. it was actually one of those best friends for life, turned love, things er whatever. but the thing is: he has jealousy issues like no other. he always tells me that guys are flirting with me, and he doesn't like it. i admit, i do flirt with guys, but its my nature. i grew up with guys. and i dont see flirting like most people do. i know its bad, but i cant seem to get it through my boyfriend's head that i only like him. and not anyone else. i try to explain i dont mean to flirt. but he just says 'okay' in that sarcastic, i know he's lying sort of way. and to top it all off. he 'flirts' with other girls too. if he wants to say that i do. but i know he doesnt mean it.

[bt the way, "flirting" in the sense. would be me pushing a guy. or pretending to throw him in the water. or the definition of childish flirting. i'm not even talking about like, kissing other guys or anything]

..and i definitly don't want to screw things up with the one guy that i dont have any problems with [well, besdies this].


so, im asking.
could anyone give advice on how i could possibly.
try to stop "flirting" with people.
or how to get it through his head, that i dont mean to.
because i think he only partially believes me. (link)
Dear Jealousy,
I think that you need to get it through your head that you can't flirt with other guys maybe sometimes you don't mean to but you are taken and you need to know that you can't flirt until you break up. I think he isn't jealous but if he is he has a right to be because you are flirting with other guys. Not trying to be mean I am trying to make a point. Hear me out, would you like it if your boyfriend flirts with other girls? I dont think you would and I think that is exactly how he is feeling, like his loved on is kinda sorta cheating on him because she is flirting with other people. I hope I helped nicely not rudely!!



my boyfriend & i have been dating for almost 6 months. we love & respect each other very much. the furthest we've been is 1st, & we don't even do that anymore. i try my best to respect my parent's wishes which consisted of hugs, cuddling, & an occasional kiss. lately it seems like they're becoming more & more overprotective with this rule. my boyfriend came over last night & i had a stomachache & didn't feel good. so, he put a pillow on his chest/stomach area & let me lie on it. he spread his legs out so i could lie down while he sat down comfortably. our "private parts" weren't touching indirectly, because i know my dad doesn't like that. he was rubbing my tummy to try to make me feel better. no one told us to stop so i thought they didn't mind it. then i overrheard them talking about it today & how disgusting it was. how my "private parts" are above & below my tummy so he should never touch there. so then i told my parents later on i wouldn't do that but i just feel bad that they keep assigning random rules left & right & i feel like a bad person, because i do. my boyfriend is hurt everytime i tell him we can't do something because my parents don't approve of it, but they always feel uncomfortable telling us that. he feels like they don't trust us. & i feel the same way. why don't they? we don't do anything majorly wrong. i'm trying so hard to gain their trust. when we're alone, we do the same as when we're around them. i don't want to do nothing around them & then do more with him when we're alone [nothing past a peck] because i feel weird about that. like i'm sneaking or something. someone please help me fix all of this. i've talked to them about it many times but they just don't listen. they say they're too old fashioned. but they're really hurting my relationship with my boyfriend. we have a lot of love & sometimes we want to show it physically, but just with a hug & an occasional kiss. they're married & have sex, so why can't they understand that? ugh i can't take it anymore. thanks if you can help. (link)
I think that maybe you should talk to thm and say how you feel that you can't gain the trust that you deserve from them and that yo are really hurting. I mean if your parents are that much over-protective then you might not even be able to like kiss or something then your boyfrend might dump you because you can't do nothing more than a kiss to him and I think he knows that he can not gain their trut either. I don't think you can get rid of overprotectivness I just think that you can help the situation by asking them to trust you and that you won't let them down if they give you a chance. Maybe they aren't overprotective maybe they are just doing it for your own good. But my first suggestion is to ask them why they don't trust you and say that it really hurts your feelings. GooD LucK!!



I'm going to try to become a vegatarian. I just want to try it out and see if I can live without meat. I heard it helps lose weight. I AM NOT GOING TO BE ANOREXIC! I'm just not going to eat meats. I know meat has a lot of protein, so besides meat what are some healthy foods that have protein? (link)
Well I think if becoming a vegetarian is something you want to do then you should. As far as other foods that have protein some foods are:eggs, fish, dairy products, beans, veges. To name a few. If you want to find out some more I suggest that you go on a website like google and look up some foods that have protein in them.
Alli


my boyfriend has gone away for about 2 weeks and I wont be able to talk to him until he comes back. I want to suprise him and have some really special things for us to do when he gets back. Could you guys help me brainstorm some ideas?

I love him so much I want to show him (link)
Dear Special Things,
Take him to an event of his favorite like a soccer game or a basketball game then maybe out to eat at his favorite resteraunt. Then maybe go back to your/ or his house and then watch his favorite movie then he will be happy that you knwo him so well because you know all of his favorite things. GooD LucK!



I'm 14 year old gurl. okay to my question..I like my moms bestfriends son, my mom and his mom have been friends since highschool and there now around 40 years old. Anyways I like her son and he likes me too..we have discussed dating eachother, and really want to but our parents won't let us because their afraid if we break up that it will destroy their friendship, I just really want to date and be with him but dont want my mom and his to hatte me for it.

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I think you should talk to your mom about dating him. Tell her how much you like him and maybe she will understand. If she still says no you should beg and plead to her. Tell her that her friendship with his mom will not get ruined!!! I know that if I were you I would be really upset if my mom didn't let me go out with a boy I really like just because she is being a worry wort. Tell her to take chances. I hope you get to go out with him. good luck!!
Alli


Okay, this may not seem like a problem, but I started babysitting for this one family this summer. They have a pretty big house and good jobs, so it's not like they are poor. I think they overpay me though. I know I shouldn't complain, but they paid me $40 for watching a 4-year-old and a nine-year-old from 6-11pm....and they pay me $100 a week to watch the 9-year-old while they are at work during the summer....watching the nine-year-old basically consists of watching tv or watching him play nintendo or watching him fish. it's not a hard job, and I enjoy it...should I say something about the high pay, or just take it as them appreciating me and being nice? I don't want to get more than I deserve.... (link)
Dear Paid Too Much?,
I think that if you feel that it is too much money then you should say something but just think maybe they know they are giving you alot of money because maybe they think you are a great baby-sitter and they want to keep you so that is why they are paying you alot, just be gracious and take it. Be the best baby-siite you can be! Good Luck!!



okay if i eat breakfast, little lunch and dinner, would that help me lose wieght and also exercise like walking? (link)
Dear Food Diet,
I've heard that the best food to eat is breakfats that is the most healthiest kind of serving to eat. If you walk and excersize you will be losing weight in no time. Good Luck!!



well my parents just got divorced and i am 14 by the way and um well my dad cheated on my mom and now since there divorced he is showing me all to these diffrent women and i am really pissed about that what should i do



Help me!!! (link)
If I were you I would tell my dad how I feel and I would ask him to keep his love life to himself and not make me meet with any more wimen. If it makes you uncomfortable then you should definately do something about it. Good luck!!!
Alli


My cousin had a friend over. They asked if I wanted to see a movie with them at home. I said okay. I went. My cousin's mom told me that I couldn't go because my cousin never asked her. So I had to go home. My cousin never apologized. I got a phonecall. It was my cousin's friend, who asked, "Hey, do you have any money?" I said no. My cousin's friend asked, "Well, I have a proposition for you. I heard that you like me, so if you go to the movies with us and pay for me to go, then I'll call it a date." I said that I don't even know my cousin's friend and won't be used like that.

Should I be offended? My cousin is one of my best friends. (link)
Yes you definatley should be offended!! I would be extremely angry if somebody did that to me. You should talk to your oussin and ask them to never do something like that to you again and you should tell your cousins friend that they should just bug off. It was not right for them to try and get money off of you.
Alli




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