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Thanks everyone for your advice but there's another problem. Many of you said that I'll go to him since he is shy. What if he rejects me? or what will i say to him once we are facing each other? Pls. help me. I rate 5's.
who cares if he rejects you atleast you tried. just tell him how you feel and that you want to be more then just friends.
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hi does anyone where i can go or some awesome websites that have really nice icons with lots of different ones? the icons like MSN ones. Thanks alot in advance! i rate 5's!
you could try www.iconator.com
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does anyone know where i can go and somewhere link the music i want so it can be able to play on xanga or something? like it's from a CD and i got it into my computer but i want to be able to link it that everyone can hear it. hope you can help. thanks!
umm you can try www.videomusiccodes.com
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I just got a boyfriend 2 days ago, but i havent had a b.f. in a while and i dont noe how to like act like his girlfriend and not just his friend. I only see him a few times a day, cus were not in many classes together, but i dont noe whut to do! Id appreciate anything! =] .. i rate high!
the best advice i can give is to just be yourself.
if he doesnt like you for who you are your wasting your time. and if hes going out with you he must like you for you. and you must be doing sumthing right so keep doing it.
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does bronze tanning lotion stuff really work? i mean does it really make you look tan or does it turn your orange? and how many times do you have to put it on before you look tan?
yes it works just dont over do it. in my opinion i would just go sit outside for an hour in my bathing suit.
hey this is nikki okay my best friend is mad at me and i dont know why she wont talk to me or look at me and i dont know what i did to make her mad. well anyways she was all happy yesterday at school but when she got back from the feild trip i called her and i was talking to her and she said who is this and i said nikki she goes what i aked her what was the matter and she said nothing and then she was like call me back later so i fell asleep anyways she got on the bus and was pissed for some reason i tried to talk to her but she kept telling me that nothing was wrong with her so i dont know what to do. i mean how can i get her to talk to me she wont even look at me or anything can you plz help
well maybe you should give her some space till shes ready to talk. maybe she was just haveing a bad day.
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my best friend and i have always stuck 2gether, but lately she found this other friend who she keep on hanging out with...i know that you are allowed to have more than one close friend, but i kinda feel hurt that she rather hang out with that girl then me. She has been totally ditching me lately. she acts like i am her best friend when the other girl isn't aroung though, but not the same as she used to...please don't tell me to forget about her because i just can't...please help...
thanx a bunch!
the same thing happened to me and my best friend as soon as we started highschool, we stopped hanging out as much and now we barley talk. we used to be always together. i think this could have been avoided if i told her how i felt. this happens alot. people change and meet new people. talk to your friend tell her whats on your mind. maybe you can become good friends with the other girl to. all three of you can be best friends. maybe throw a sleep over and invite this new girl.
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my friend and i where always good friends but lately when i started to seem to like a guy she starts to like them to. like a few days ago i started to like a guy but then asked her if she liked him she said yeah. i dont want to sound mean but if i get to like someone and he meets her she wont notice but shell steal him. and th other day shes says ill leave him 4 u but then a week later she said i think ill ask him out. what can i do to make myself happier and not end our friend ship. 13/f
tell her that when she does this to you it makes you upset. thats the only thing i could think of that can solve your problem.
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Well this is what happens:
[PLEASE READ RATE 5 ***** BIT LONG LOL]
Me and my mates say to our mate Hannah, your voice sounds like a mans voice, we say it in a kind of nice way, jokey if you get what i mean. Then the head of year comes intoday to our form room while in PSE and calls my name out and a group of my friends the 5 of us including the head of year go down to the inclussion zone, where the bad kids go and miss there lunch/break etc. We went in and she accsorted us to sit down they have a desk and a chair then a blue screening where you stick posters/displays on, then another desk and chair and a screen its like that so you have no comunication with any1. She called us in to a little room 1 by 1 and asked us about the name calling thing. I went in and told her that we were joking about and stuff but ovboiusly she took it seriously.. i felt so let down by one of my OWN friends. Also this other girl called grace ive apparently been "bullying" just by saying, "look at your selfs before you critizize others," becuase she and her mate elli were taking the piss out of my chubby mate sal calling her fat and ugly n stuff. So that is 2 reports in the last 24 hours so it got put on my system "BULLY" hannah was ment to be my friend but dobbed me in our group joke. im not sure weather to be her friend after this? I mean if i be or get reported again then it gets even seriouser, and i could do this by ignoring her, touching her, giving her dirt looks like evils and stuff. But im pissed off with her so of course im going to do that and grace and elli do it to me so im not gonna let them so i stick up for myself.. but then i get told off badly again. So yeah my so called friend dobbed me in our joke.. should i trust her again?
SORRY ITS LONG RATE 5 *****
xx lush meh xx
ofcourse its your decision but i think you should talk to her. explain that you were just joking. obviously you hurt her feelings. somtimes you have to watch what you say around certain people things can get taken the wrong way or you can hurt someones feelings with no intentions of doing this at all. ofcourse hannah could have went about this in a different way then telling on you, but if you care about your friendship with her you need to talk to her about it and tell her your sorry.
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there is this guy and i have liked him for 2 years now. We went out last summer but the day before school started back we broke up. My dad found out some stuff we did and talked to josh and told him not to talk to me ever again. josh has a girlfriend now but i still want him so bad. My dad told me the other day i could talk to josh again. And i really want to but we havent talked in so long and i dont know what to say. I dont even know if he wants to talk to me anymore. Any ideas on what to do? i'll rate high for answers!!!
just talk to him. if he tells you he doesnt want to even be friends atleast you tried. he has a g/f now so i doubt you guys will be anything more then friends. so move on and forget him theres plenty other guys out there.
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15 F
My problem is I'm not sure how to act around guys that like me. I have had only 2 guys that have told me they like me and both times I've kissed those guys.
Like I'll meet them at a dance, and we slow dance I have no problem talking and being with the guys but after the song ends I don't know how to act. If I see the guy later and he is around me I will just look up and smile and nod my head...I had a guy thinking that I was some exchange student because thats all I did. Don't get me wrong, I'm totally outgoing and friendly. I love to be around guys but I never know how to act with guys that like me because 1. I don't have much experience and 2. I'm nervous.
Normally I only crush on guys and never even think that there is a guy watching me, so when that happens I'm at lost.
What would be some good ways for me act NORMAL around guys that like me?
just act urself and dont be shy. if they like you they should like you for who you are. the best advice is to just be yourself.
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People tell me that i'm fine the way i am but i'm fat. i'm 5 7 and 188 lbs. i dont look seriously obese but am-i-fat.com says i am and i'm gonna trust their expertise. is there a way that the website's wrong or am i doomed of obesity?
well i wouldnt believe a website. if you feel uncomfotable about the way you look then excercise, and eat healthy. join a gym or somthing. do anything that will make you feel compfortable about the way you look.
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I dont know what to do. My dad lives in Georgia, and I live in Mass., with my mom. Ive been thinking about how much i miss my dad, and how i want to live with him. But, I dont want to leave my mom and my friends here. How should i bring this up, and what should i do?! PLEASE HELP ME!
since all your friends and mom live in mass. i think you should stay there and just visit your dad when you have vacations off from school. if you move with your dad eventually tou will just begin to miss everyone back in mass. if visiting is not enought maybe talk to your dad about him moving to mass. explain to him how much you miss him. and how much it sucks to be so far away.
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I met a wonderful man one month ago. We were dating happily for 2 weeks when all of a sudden his ex-girlfriend now wants him back. They have 2 children together. He is now not sure what to do, he doesn't think she will ever commit, but he thinks he needs to try for the kids. He phones me every night and at the moment we are just friends. Do you think I stand a chance at keeping this man, and any advice on how I can keep him. Do you think I should be bold and tell him that I want him and that I would be the best thing for him ? He does really like me.
you should tlak to him and ask him what he wants to do. it sounds like its up to him not you. if you really care about him you will respect him for what ever desicion he makes. and stay friends with him if he chooses his ex. and who knows maybe it wonlt work out between them and hell relise he still has feelings for you. if its ment to be it will be.
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Okay. I have no clue what to do for my boyfriend or even if I should get him something for our 1 month anniversary! can someone please give me Idea's. He likes Sports, and Just the Guy kind of stuff..lol
thanx
well a 1 month anniversary isnt really that big of a deal so dont sweat it or worry so much about wat to get him. since he likes sports you could get him tickets to a game, a jersey, or a gift certificate to a local sports store in your area. but really its only one month so dont go crazy and over do it. stay simple.
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I met this guy and he is really nice and cute and i really really like him but the only problem is he lives in a another state plz help me! i'll never see him agian>..!
wow. first off that really suucks. but if he likes you and you like him you can probly make it work as a phone relationship. and you can save up money and ask your parents if you can visit him and he could do the same. i know this isnt what you wanna hear and you probly know this already but it probly wonlt work. most long distance relationships have little chance of working. maybe toou guys should just stay friends and date other people till your older and if your still interested try sumthing. wats ment to be will always be.
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well in school i am reading this book called OFF THE ROAD i dont understand it so can someone gimmie summary for each 50 pages of it? thanks!
ILL GIVE 5S TO ANYONE WITH AN ANSWER!
i have never heard of the book and i tried to look it up at sparknotes.com. where i usually get help with summaries of books i have read. so the i googles it and the only thing i found was this try this link
http://www.experienceplus.com/reading_room/archives/000062.html
if this doesnt work you could always coppy a friend. thats what i usually do or ask a teacher for extra help
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Hello,
I have a problem. I'm conservative and the guy i liked is shy. So what do I do? Will I be the one to do the first move? But i'm a girl and its not proper for a girl to do the first move with boys and they say it could make a boy turn off.
if hes shy he might never ask you out. its perfectly normal for a girl to make the first move. and im sure it wonlt turn him off some guys like it when girls take charge especially when there shy.
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i'm going on a trip to a law center this week
theres no dress code, but you should look presentable..we're part of a mock jury..any ideas?
well i could help if i knew if you were a guy of girl. but its ok. if your a guy just wair a nice siut and same for a girl one of those nice girl siuts or u could wair a nice skrit nothing that shows to much skin.
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