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this name is old and stupid....well first off my name is stephanie.dont judge me before you know me.im pretty nice.i like meeting new people,so im open to friends, but im extremely shy, so yeah. i dont give that good of advice so i'll help you as much as i can

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hey i was thinkin of after my shower putting gel in my wet hair and scrunching it. do i need to blow dry my hair as/after i do this? can i just let it air dry? thanks

what i do is get out of the shower and then like run the towel on my hair so its not that wet but its damp and then i put gel in it and then put some hair spray in it. and then go in my room and turn the fan on to let it dry. but you can dry it after you put the gel in if you want but it might make it seem straighter

my friend, who i have a crush on seems to like me. hell just starting eating my food w/ like the saem fork or hell drink from my water bottle. i also caught him looking down my shirt the other day. but whenever his other friend ((whose a girl)) comes, hes like all over her. maybe he just thinks were really good friends ((which we r, but i wish we were more))? wut do u think. . .

well i dont find drinking out of the same drink is odd or anything because i do it all the time, or eating with the same fork. also i think when he looked down your shirt its just a guy thing. but it does seem like he might like you. so would ask him for yourself.

does anyone know what the best hours to tan are

thanks in advance
i rate high

11 to at least 4:30. well thats for new york but it might be different.

what do crabs look like...like what color? and do they move? and how do u get them? sorry im just curious!!

there are many kinds of crabs. heres a picture of one http://oceanexplorer.noaa.gov/explorations/islands01/log/sep29/media/crab_600.jpg
im not sure what your asking when your saying how do you get one so maybe leave something in my inbox.

i'm usually teased and pushed around at school, and i'm a bit of a push over. its weird tohugh.... the people who are mean to me, are also the people who only get good things coming to them, and they expect me to be nice to them!
i end up being nice though, because i know what its like to be treated nastily

im not sure of what your asking. but i know how you feel. i've cut because of that, but it just wasnt that, but i havent done it in about a year, so im all good now. but you have to stand up or they will keep saying stuff. like try to improve on what they are teasing you about. tell someone you trust like an adult.just tell them to stop but be strong about it. sorry if i didnt really help

How exactly is being anorexic bad for you? People has said that if you're anorexic your body loses all these nutrients but what are the actual like 'symptoms' you get if you're anorexic. Besides dizzyness and fatigue.
Thanks I'll rate 5 for any decent answers!

Physical Effects

* Loss of menstrual periods
* Dry, brittle bones due to significant bone density loss (osteoporosis)
* Dry, brittle nails and hair; or hair loss
* Lowered resistance to illness
* Hypersensitivity to heat and cold
* Bruises easily
* Appears to need less sleep than normal eaters
* Digestive problems such as bloating or constipation
* Muscle loss and weakness
* Severe dehydration, which can result in kidney failure
* Fainting, fatigue, and overall weakness
* Eventual growth of a downy layer of hair (lanugo) all over the body, including the face (the body is trying to stay warm)
* In severe cases: heart trouble, low blood pressure, low heart rate, low body temperature, poor circulation, anemia, stunted growth, and even death

Emotional and Behavioral Effects

* Difficulty in concentrating on anything else except weight
* Isolation from family and friends
* Emotional regression to a child-like state
* Irritability
* Feelings of guilt and depression
* Dependence upon alcohol or drugs to handle the negative outlook

**got it from a site**

ok this may sound gross but whatever.. ok my b/f has only ate out 1 girl and thats me. he had an other g/f but never ate her out and he was the 1st person that i let eat me out so there is no chance of him having any infection in his mouth if he ONLY ate me out and if i never let anyone eat me out..... am i right???????????

-so he never ate out his ex
-he ate me out
-i never let anyone else eat me out
-so..he never ate her out he ate me out and i never let anyone eat me out

so therefore he couldnt possibly have any infection right?????????? so basically what im asking is
could i have an infection???

he wouldnt get an infection only if you had something that was hereditary, or something like that.

i just got braces~& i heard that you could have chewing gum but you couldnt have bubble gum

also what are some good foods you can eat with braces?

when i had braces i had bubble gum and i ate everything i eat today. if you like corn on the cob you have to cut the corn off so they dont get stuck. make sure there is nothing in your teeth when you talk because it is kind of eww-y

I get sick very often. If something is "going around" i KNOW i will catch it. Is there anything i can do or take (like maybe vitamins or something) to help my imune system so i wont get sick so often?
Thanks

take vitamins everyday, and drink a lot of tea, it might taste gross to you but it will help. because i tea

Hi, I'm going to the Vans Warped Tour with some friends for the first time this summer. What are some good things to wear/bring? What should I expect? Can you buy CDs there?
Thanks!

i hate you! i want to go sooo bad. now im mad. ok, for things to wear: you need to wear stuff that doesnt make you hott because its going to be boiling there and since your close to people all the time you will get hot, and wear like a shirt of one of the bands or one of your favorite bands.you can buy CDs there and all other stuff like shirts and stuff. there might be some mosh pits, which means you might get hit. bring a camera but dont loose it or make sure the place doesnt see them because they will take them away. bring a lot of money since they are so expensive, water to if you want or you can buy it.have fun!

Im writeing a paper on second hand smoke and weather or not people should be aloud to smoke in public places ( resterunts, bars, amusment parks, ect. )and i need peoples opinioins..
if you think that they should banned public smoking or if you think that it should be aloud nd why (if you want).. i rate !! so help me if you have the time thank yaa!!

i dont like smoke/ smoking i find it gross. but i think the public places should decide if smoking should be banned, its their decision. i dont think they should banned it from everywhere because if people dont like smoking in public places then dont go there, its as simple as that, but when people who own the place say there is no smoking then there is no smoking, and people who dont follow that 'rule' should be banned or something because its like not giving respect to the people who built it

what does 69 mean?

giving oral sex at the same time. like a girl gives a guy head while the guy eats her out.

Is it right for a girl to ask a guy out? please answer..i rate!!

guy to ask you out. dont ruin your chance. good luck

Im just wondering, this is a quick question. I slept over my new friends house. Shes extremely pretty, rich, but shes diabetic and she smells like fish. Badly. I know she sprays perfume down there, she's told me. But she cannot find a way to get rid of the smell. What should I tell her as advice?

she might have a yeast infection. tell your parents and then go to the doctors. heres a little information on yeast infections:

Causes, incidence, and risk factors

Candida albicans is a widespread organism with worldwide distribution. It is normally found in small amounts in the vagina, the mouth, the digestive tract, and on the skin without causing disease or symptoms (approximately 25% of women without disease symptoms have this organism present).

Symptoms appear when the balance between the normal microorganisms of the vagina is lost, and the Candida albicans population becomes larger in relation to the other microorganism populations.

This happens when the environment (the vagina) has certain favorable conditions that allow growth and nourishment of Candida albicans. An environment that makes it difficult for the other microorganisms to survive may also cause an imbalance and lead to a yeast infection.

Yeast infection may follow a course of antibiotics (particularly tetracycline) that were prescribed for another purpose. The antibiotics change the normal balance between organisms in the vagina by suppressing the growth of protective bacteria that normally have an antifungal effect.

Infection is common among women who use estrogen-containing birth control pills and among women who are pregnant. This is due to the increased level of estrogen in the body. The increased hormone level causes changes in the vaginal environment that make it perfect for fungal growth and nourishment.

Yeast infections may also occur in association with diabetes or problems that affect the immune system (such as AIDS or HIV).

I had something about this about 2-3 months ago.

I have this huge cat scratch on my nose & its just in 2 lines... I think its scared... but I was wondering how I could get rid of this scar & how long it would take?

thanks!

put some vitamin E on it like aloe and it will go away. it might take about 2 weeks.

In school, everyone always makes fun of me because of my flat butt...So I thot I would take this summer to improve myself. Does anyone have any instant exercises that can make my butt look toned and bigger? Thanks!

i would to squats.

okay well im 15/f, and i recently found out im pregnate. Before i found out my boyfriend broke up with me, we don't talk anymore, he ignores my calls and he won't read anything i send him...so is it useless to tell him??he's 15 to, and lives about 45 min. away. I think I'm gonna keep the baby too, I haven't told my parents yet. I'm a "goodygood" so noone would expect it...and i don't kno what to do...i tried to tell my best friend...but she didn't believe me...what do i do? how do i tell my ex. and get him to listen to me?

first you should make sure your prgnant so you dont have this talk if your really not.you have to tell your ex. because he has to have some responsiblity for the baby to, not just you. you have to tell your parents too.just say something like "mom, dad i think i may be prgnant." something like that but you might have to think it over

Ok i just had sex a few days ago for the first time. We used a condom i made sure of it!! Ever sence like the next day ive been liking having clear stuff come out of me. Its kinda like the stuff sometimes you get before or after your peroid but its not after my peroid or before. I asked my one friend that already had sex and she said no she didnt have anything like that. What does it mean?

*-*thanks a bunch*-*
~*~If your nice about it and dont make fun of me ill rate you a 5*-*

since it was your first time, and it is clear i wouldnt worry. but if you get worried then you should see a doctor

I just overdosed. I do it all the time but this time I think I did to much. I keep passing out so I'm making this quick. No one would understands my problems so I can't tell anyone. I feel freezing I have no air conditioner though and I live in FL it's 90 degrees. Something's definatly wrong. What should I do?!

you need to go to the hospital. you could die! call someone to pick you up or call the ambulance(sp) make sure you dont drive, you might pass out again

This question is for someone who knows a lot about nutrition and working out.

Okay, I just started to work out for about an hour and fifteen minutes a day at the gym (cardio). I get hungry afterwards. I'm trying to lose weight (I'm a female, if that helps at all, and I'm not trying to build more muscle), so what foods would be okay to eat after a workout? Thanks in advance!

i get hungry when i run to. but anyways after you work out i would eat like fruit or veg. something healthy. or maybe yogart

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