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i'm pretty tall & i have a hard time findingg good jeans.
all my jeans end up getting pretty baggy & stretch out. i want them to be tight & long & sorta flare [ but not be like totally hippy bellbottoms haha ]. but i really cant find any jeans that are like.. under 40$ maybe? that fit this description.
i'm 14/f, 5'6'' inches tall, jean size: [ i think ] juniors 3Long
where can i find good jeanss? =/
thanks!
Well, i`m tall too, an pretty skinny. I buy my jeans from abercrombie/abercrombie and fitch and/or true religion, apple bottoms, frankie b`s and rock and republic.Abercrombie may be the cheapest. Kohls, Nordstrom, and other big deparment stores have them!
Hope i helped.
OK, i am kind of short, like 5'1 or something(if that much) and i weigh 95 pounds. I know that's not overweight, but i have this stupid little pouch thingy and it makes me feel fat. How do i get rid of that wothout dramatic weight loss? Just exercise?
Personally, I hate excersizing [hehe] but yeah. I hate doing sit ups, push ups, but i LOVE dancing. Do you? Pick something that you like doing that involoves moving [jogging to the mall, dancing, swimming] and go with it! You`ll be having fun while getting fitter [is that a word? haha] Also, there is always, yoga, tae bo, pilates- they can all fix that! You should totally lok into that!
Let me know your desicion [misspelled -_-]
Hope I helped!
i need help on finding a place to get a cute 8th grade graduation dress..i have a petite figure with litte boob and a small butt??
please help me !!!
OMG. I am exactly like you, hehe. Two really good, cheap places would be Delias or Alloy. Try to go for something short, cute, and flirty! Since your graduation is in the summer, go for something pink, yellow, orange, red, etc. you know? I know that Juicy Couture has cute things too, or L.A.M.B by Gwen Stefani. Escada, BCBG, Macy`s, even Nordstrom! You may think that only designer places have cute dresses, but I`ve learned that even places like JC Penny`s and Macy`s can even have cute things [but rarely hehe].
Hope I helped!
i was just wondering if there's a way to make your screen name a different color instead of blue/red..like i want to make it orange or pink when it IM's people. is that possible? if so can you tell me how you do it?
No sorry, you can`t do that.
ok i have a realllly close friend, but the prob is that she lies a lot and i just dont like that. i dont want to like turn in to her by hanging out with her a lot you know?? but she lies to her parents a lot and friends too. i dont know why. please help... What should I D O !!!???? thanks you1
Well, first of all, if she`s your real friend, she will understand when you tell her that it bothers you. Also, it depends on WHAT she lies about. If it`s bad things, then you should either HELP to fix her, or stop hanging out with her. You can CONTROL what you do, right? If you don`t want to be like someone, then don`t! If the lies don`t involve you then don`t worry, but if she drags you into her lies, dump her. Friends should always be truthful to each other, and will you every know when she`s telling you the truth?
Hope I helped.
What can my friends and I do for fun on weekends?
Movies and bowling get boring. What is there to do (for girls AND guys) if just a handful of us are hanging out at my house? We all get along and have a good time, but I just wanna make sure nobody gets bored....i know we could rent movies & do board games, but anything else?
Ok, so ifuou guys wanna hang out at one of your places, there is LOTS of stuff you can do!
First of all, if it`s hott there, you guys can swim if any of you have a pool. Crank up some music, and party in the pool, haha.
That`s enough to keep them entertained for HOURS. Also, there is always playing truth or dare. OR spice things up with truth or dare by playing dare or dare. Be sure to have lots of whipped cream in stock, if you know what I mean [; Board games can usualy get rly boring and messy, so don`t rly do that. If you have a big house, you guys can play something rly silly like hide and seek haha. Even though yer probably like 13, it`s still fun. For example, in my house, we have a movie thater, big screen and all, so you guys can close all curtains and turn off all the lights and atch a rly scary movie with LOTS of carbs [;
Funfun.
Hope I helped you!
i am looking into buying some perfume. but it cant be too strong, i dont want people to smell it miles away, but if i hug someone than i want them to smell it. what is some nice smelling perfume that is not too strong?
ps i dont really care how long it lasts. btw im 16 if that helps
OMG! I had the same problem!! I was at the mall and about to die because i wanted to find what kind.
Here are just a few:
~ Givenchy; Irresistble
~ Escada; Rock `n Rio
~ Betsy Johnson
~ Davidoff; Cool Water
~ Angel; ANY KIND, they all smell great
~ Ralph Lauren Rocks [one of my personal faves [; ]
~ Clinique by Happy
I have all of these, and you should smell them ALL and see wich one you like best. Most of them are kind of fruity and totally summerish.
Hope I helped!
Let me know which one you choose, mk?
My dog seems to be walking weird. His leg/his hip. He's limping for days. What can I do for him ?
I can't take him to the vet. WE HAVE NO MONEY.
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Well, you could always try rapping hiss hip/leg and letting him rest for a while. HOWEVER, there are also some vet.`s that do buissness for free, like a community clinic...search around/online/yellow-bookks. These people really CARE about animals and will do anything for free.
Hope I Helped...
Let me know what you do!
is there going to be one?
DEFINATLY.
i LOVE that showw xD
i`ve seen each and every episode...my mom is friends with jeanna xD
I put this question to mental health cause it is messing me up.
Whats with all those 12 year olds wanna have sex? And whats with them 15 year olds suggesting they should go for it?
This was the question:
havent started my period [EVERRRRRR]
but i was wondering if its still ok to have sex
my friends mom had sex before she got her period and nothing happened to her .
could that have just been her
can i still have sex and get my period ?
This was my advice after the feedback I got:
DAMN NO.
If you didn t have your period yet it means you are 14 years old. And 14 year olds having sex is Gross.
Your friends mom can do as she pleases. She might be a skunc, just cause she did it it doesn t mean it is ok to do. Probably your 23 yeard old weirdo boyfriend told it to you so he can convince you to allow him to pop your cherry.
Do as you please.
This is the feedback that I got:
no my bf is not 23 and i was just wondering im not even thinking of having sex i was thinking like what if i never get it at all then maybe i could have sex when im married and im not 14 im 15 ! THANKS FOR NOT HELPING BITCH !
This I added after the feedback:
Well thanks for harassing me and calling me a bitch and all, you are only making a fool out of yourself and letting people know how immature you are. Are you even aloud to be on this site?
Anyways, you are being totally unfair, you are just mad cause you didn t hear what you wanted to hear wich is "u go gurl, u r ready whenever u feel like it". Well fine, shoot your self up and look where you heading.
I complained countless times to the administrator, but he seems to be asleep or something. Why wont my rating change? I know people get banned when they rate a one. I never asked the girl to get banned, just to change my rating but unlike others, I am not afraid to admit that
""""Yes, ratings are important for me""""
Is there a place in this site where I can complain and actually get heard or even some feedback?
Also I really believe that some administrators are overusing their powers here in this site. I wants got banned till Friday, bitched about it
and then it changed till next Friday.
It seems everyone can call me a bitch and get away with it, while I cannot even point out to someone that he did something stupid without getting banned. Notice I said "someone did something stupid" cause I never called someone stupid.
That is EXACTLY what i think...
I`m 13/f and everytime i read about these kids wanting to be fingered, having sex etc. is BEYOND disgusting. I think those children should go see a psyciatrist [misspelled] and imancipate themselves because if their parents are telling them this is ok, they are TRULY stupid.
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so i like this guy and he used 2 like me back but i didn't show much interest since i was busy with school and friends. well i don't really know him. he's in 10th grade and i'm in 9th and we never talked but he gave me A-LOT of hints. i don't wanna spell everything out , just trust me on this. but i think he thought i'm not interested or don't like him so he sorta gave up and didn't look at me that much anymore in the last couple of weeks. so i wanna get him interested again without being pushy and stuff like that and being abvious cause things like that scare him of. please don't tell me 2 talk 2 him cause it would be weird and i'm really shy. just help me with ma additude and things like that so he'll notice me again , and i wanna show him what a great girl i am but more in a indirect way. i only get 2 c him twice a day so pleeaaasse help.
and remember i need help how 2 return his look and stuff like that cause i always used 2 avert his gaze. don't tell me 2 talk 2 him , first i want him 2 notice me again!!!
thx
mk, so the first step would be when he looks at you, smile @ him flirtatiously. Then, maybe wink sat him. Also, TALKING TO HIM ISN`T GOING 2 SCAARE HIM! he`ll have fun and get all giddy- it` kind of cute. When you finally get up with the nerve to talk 2 him, FLIRT, look nicce, and SMILE. But don`t forget, the Golden Rule is to NOT tll hm that you like him until either he tells you or one of his friends tell you. If lots of his friends are smiling @ you or looking @ you or something, then he likes you. And if he DID like u before, he`ll realize how cool you r && get with you.
Hope I helped! PLEASE let me know how this goes...
Kthxx.
I don't know what to do with my life anymore...my mom OD'd for the third time in her life today... and I think this time is bad. Everything in my life is falling apart. I don't know what to do with my life. I'm only 15 and turning 16 in 4 days...All my family live in Rhode Island but they are all messed up too and my life is pretty much here where i live now... I don't know what to do. My dad doesnt care about me he only cares about his drugs and alcohol. I don't wanna live the rest of my life without parents.
I would like to first start off by apolozing for your mother and your situation. The thing is though, your parents are probably not ready for children and they should get help FAST. Let them go to rehab, and in the mean time, you can be with a nice, sober, CARING foster family. Basically, your life and your parents life can be "cleaned up" by YOU. Just notify a teacher that isn`t a dingleberry that you can TRSUT and is wise or authorities and they will get you and your family help.
Hope I helped.
Let me know what goes down.
ok so I like this guy A LOT!!!!!! And he is probbably the hottest guy in school (everybody agrees) but he is kinda poor and my group of friends are well classed but im probbably the richest girl in my school now i no they will look at me wierd if i date him but i really like him!And i think he thinks im a rich snob because everybody keeps telling him he can't get me because im richer and way out of my leage since i usally date high schoolers. But he is just perfect for me how do i let him know that?
should i listen to my heart?
or my friends?
PS: im noy a rich snob and i would probbably prefer a guy who isnt rich but noone knows that!
Mk, well first of all, being rich isn`t a crime [; Yeah, I know how you feel and that us rich kids gotta stick together, but if you REALLY like this guy then go for it. If you`re friends look down upon you, then tell them off and if they were your true friends, they wouldn`t care. Also, start hanging out with him more often and let him know that you are NOT a snob. Many people stereo-type rich people and automatically think they are snobs and bitchy [sorry 4 the language]. For YOU it should NAWT matter if he is rich or poor, black or white, ugly or hott- as long as you like him =}
4get about the whole rich/poor thing! And besides, it`s not like you`re gonna marry the guy!
Hope I helped...let me know what happens!
I don't get why in high school some people called me a bitch even a few guys. I haven't done anything wrong or said anything really bad about them?
High school is just like that. They may be jealous, hear rumors, etc. EVERYONE in high school is like that. They SUCK.
I hope i helped haha.
ok so ever since i started using "Acne Free" i've been having less pimples on my face but now they're showing up in weird places like a have a really big one on my butt ( i know gross.) and it hurts so much when i sit down and i've been getting them on my back to, and they're not small, they're big. how can i get rid of them and preventing them from happening?
Well, for btoh areas, you can buy/us Neautrogena's [misspelled] Acne Oil-free body wash.
Also, you SHOULD NOT pop them- they`ll get worse and leave a scar...
Hope I helped!
Let me know what you do....
Today i found out that my b/f was talking about me in english. My friend told me that her b/f(who is mi b/f's best friend), told her and to even ask one of my BEST FRIENDs about it, so i did. She aggreed with it. She said he really only talks about me when we are in a fight, but theyre mightve been some other times too. She sed she mightve over heard him telling his friend that I'm a bitch but shes not 100% sure.
He usually isnt the type to lie about something like that, but idk. Like recently other guys have been hitting on me nd he just laughs. And i noticed that he ALWAYS interrupts me when im talking to him. He doesnt pay as much attention as he used to do cuz he cant remember half the things i tell him...
he also sed tht one day the girl who told me bout his talkin called me a bitch (as a joke tho) and he laughed. I do believe that the girl would say that, but not seriously.
Should i just let it go this time?
Please help
If your boyfriend cannot treat you with the respect you deserve, then kick him to the curb. This isn`t something that is just ONCE, if you let it go, he wil keeo doing it. Also, if you choose to take my advice and dump him, tell him why so he knows.
Let me know what happens!
Hope i helped!
okay so, i recently told the kid i liked that i liked him. i know he liked me like 2 months ago and weve been friends for about a year now. we talk almost everyday online too. he's always the firt to IM me. soo when i told him he laughed and asked me why. and i was like i dont know i just do. and he made a small joke about me wanting to marry him or something. he said that he was jk and he just thought it was funny because he was high. then he started asking me random questions like what i did that day and stuff like that. i dont get it at all. i told him yesterday and we havent talked since. im afraid to IM him now cause i dont want him to think im like madley in love with him but its weird cause we were pretty good friends. not the best of friends but pretty good ones. he hasnt talked to me yet either. the last time we hung out was on friday but he didnt show any signs of liking me. like when we usually hang out, before he got his car taken away, he would always like say smart ass things and pick on me and take my shoes and stuff like that. we only hung out for like an hour and a half friday but idk. he didnt act like he did before. should i act like nothing happened and talk to him like usual? im not the kind of person that is like hey we need to talk about this. before when he liked me, i didnt like him like that. i liked his friend, but no one knew. except for my best friend. and she wouldnt have told anyone. i dont know what to do. i like him alot.
do you think i should casually just ask him to come to a party with me and my friends this weekend and see what happens from there?
do you think i should IM him and act like nothings up er what?
thanks in advance ;)
Ok, well, fist off, he probably got a little paranoid- boys are like that. Just talk to him casually and act like nothing happened. I hate 2 break it 2 u, but he might not like you OR he doesn`t KNOW if he likes you or not. And like yeah fer shur party with him, flirt, do whatevs...have fun! IM him and just be all "hey wsp? Y are you bein all emo on me haha" you know...jokingly. I hope all works out w// u....tell me what happens!
So, once again, my laptop won't burn a cd. I click start burn, it says its loading, shuts my comp off. Advice I got was do a virus check, and I did, and there is no viruses. So what next? And, I have tried different disks.
Well, it may be because of your firewall OR if you have a PC laptop, it may be just because your computer is lagging.
Hope i helped!
Okay, so my hair is light brown, really really thing comes passed my shoulders and is super straight...I want to make my hair wavy, but I'm not sure how to, any ideas? Or any other ideas as to what I could do with my hair? Thanks. =]
if you REALLY hate your hair, you can always go to a hair stylist [I suggest Nathan Sages in Beverly Hills- he does my hair and all the other celebrities [;] and permanantly curl and DYE your hair. Depending on your skin complexion, of course, nathan will TOTALLY help you ;). If you don`t want to go with the permenant thing, when washing your hair, comb it underwater when the conditioner is in it, and rinse it with COLD water- no matter how much you are freezing. Then, when you get out, mousse your hair and then BRAID it. When it`s braided, you should spray it with either Hair Spray OR leave in conditioner. Then, either sleep with it or put a hair dryer over it. Later, when you take the braids OUT, you can scrunch it up with mor emousse. ALSO, you should TOTALLy get a crazy blowout haircut with layers!!!!! Then, part it and it would look HAWT!
I hope I helped!
what are some good stores to get really cute bikinis? (price range from around $20-$60) thanks. =]
You should look around department stores... ALSO
abercrombie [abercrombiekids.com OR abercrombie.com]
victoria`s secret
Hollister
Juicy Couture [kind of expensive] [http://juicycouture.neimanmarcus.com/store/catalog/catalogPage.jhtml?tid=C6&itemId=cat3101&parentId=cat104&masterId=cat103&cmCat=]
Baby Phat
Tilt
Pacsun [pacsun.com]
Everything But water
Tilly's [tillys.com]
Roxy [roxy.com]
and just look around @ Department Stores...
I Hope I Helped!