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I've read a bunch of places that if you put mayonnaise in your hair it works great as a deep conditioner. I was wondering though if it leaves a bad smell once your hair is dry and everything. If you've tried it, has it worked and does it leave a bad smell in your hair the next day? (link)
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yeah i tried it it does work great as an conditioner but deff wash nit a couple times after so ur hair is not so greasy and just like smackywacky16 said the smell will be gone and ur hair will look great hope i helped
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ok well theres this guy i work with and i thought he hated me because he never spoke to me, but turns out he has a crush on me...someone told me! and from then on it was kinda obvious. well the person who told me is like communicating between us , and she gave me his cell number and told me that he wants me to call him! but idunno i dont want to be the one to make the first move! you know? and hes the one who was intrested in me first so i think he should do something! what should i do....i want to talk to him, but not like that. Oh and the reason we cant talk at work is cause we're from different departments! thanks in advance (link)
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if you want him than do something obviously hes to shy to call you and what could it hurt and i know its hard to make the first move beleive me but you wont get anywhere if you dont and you dont have to talk to him about anything you dont want i know its eaiser said than done but call him and make small talk and if it doesnt work out at least you can say you tried hoped i helped good luck and remeber in this world i know its hard but you gotta take or fight for what you want
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well i am having a party in june probably, and it is for 14th b-day. it will be at my house, and im allowed to invite girls and guys. what are some fun party ideas? i dont want anything cheesy, but still fun. i have a pool but i dont know if it will be ready in time, and i have volleyball net.....so is there anything else we can do to have fun? (link)
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yeah if you cant have the pool or nothing you can play a little game called truth or dare or how about spin the bottle or make up your own games that you think would be fun like suck and blow with a credit card you have to pass the credit card with your mouth without letting it drop you know ect. hopefully those arent games that you think is wrong to play but it alwalys made a party i went to intersting so hope i helped and good luck
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There's this guy I've liked for a while now and he took me out on a date Saturday night. I had fun and so did he. Yesterday I thought I might as well tell him that I liked him because everyone was under the impression that he liked me--not only did he take me out, but I went over his house and met his family and he picked me up, drove me home, payed for the date (it was a dance and he bought the ticket and went through a lot of hassle so that I could come), and walked me to my house and everything. When I told him I liked him, he told me that he liked this other girl and he was having issues and was unsure. I'm just really frustrated--how come he was sending me mixed messages? I'm really angry at him for leading me on like that and taking me out, just so I'd be there if things with girl #1 didn't fall through. I'd like to give him a piece of my mind but I don't even know where to begin. I wrote him an angry letter that I might give to him...and it's all about how he pretty much led me on and played little boy games with me and how he's an a-hole, but he's also a great guy, generally, and just because he didn't treat me right doesn't mean I'm over him yet. I even say that if he were to ask me out, I'd say yes. (Although I didn't write that I'd probably have to see a little more effort on his part, although it's true.) Should I give him the letter? (We don't go to the same school and we rarely see one another so I'd have to give it to a friend to give to him.) Or should I give him a piece of my mind someway else? Or should I just give up and leave him alone? What should I do? Thanks. (link)
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if you really dont see him alot the letter's a bad idea you dont want it getting in the wrong hands and he's just playin mind games like so many other guys do and most gurls let them so you should deff give him a pecie of your mind either face to face or over the phone or something tell him that you really do like him and your not his rebound bitch and he should respect you and your not going to be his door mat he eigher likes you or he doesnt theres no in between because your not gonna wait forever i hope i helped goodluck and if he cant make a choice than fuck him you dont need somebody who only wants you when its convient to him my inbox is always open if you need advice
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how do i know if i like a guy? like. . . i cant tell the difference because i might have a crush on my best friend. OR do i just see him as my best friend, because i cant tell. i get excited to see him and im also anxious to talk to him. but sometimes i ignore him too. i dont know, i just wanted to hear your guys opinions. any stories of your own experiences? =) (link)
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beleive me its really normal i had the same proble mixed emotions i once had a guy that at first i couldnt wait for him to call than when he did call i didnt even want to talk 2 him then when he didnt call me i wanted him to maybe you have the same problems i have commitnent you wat to be noticed by him you want his attention to know that you can get it or maybe you really like him and dont want to well i hope i helped my inbox is always open goodluck
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OKay, this is how my story goes.
I fell inlove with this guy who i aked out- he rejected me. Apparently he liked me, but not as in going out. I'm going out with someone I really dont have any feelings for & he's going out with a fit-blonde-gorgeous person. I'm jealous i can't get this guy off my mind.
I really really really really want to be with him. The thing is- I want to start out by getting close to him & then being more "flirtatious" h e l p = )
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i know how you feel but your setting yourself for dissoppiontment he said he didnt like you like that but if you think that theres a chance that he can or could flirt make him laugh play take his book you know stupid shit make him only see you and you said your going out with somebody you dont like end it with him because its nhot fair to lead him on goodluck i hope i helped
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hello, i have a question.. we all no that at the start of a relationship that its great, all the attention and excitment.. but wat about in 6 months time. ive goten my relationship to 7 months now, and most the affection has stopped the little things he used to do has stopped and i asked him if he was only geniunly happy to see me after he haddent seen me in a while.. he went quiet, then i felt bad for asking.. he said that were different, but he still felt the same. he said that he gets excited over fishing and camping, thats wat he loves the most. so is that giving me the hint that im not the right girl for him or is it just something else..how do i fix this situation? i dont no where hes coming from. please help im so confused.
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it seems like hes driffting apart from you things are changing and you dont like where there heading and rightfully so since he like camping and fishing so much ask to join him try to bring the relationship closer together but you can only try so much and if you still feel that the relationship is not where you want it to be than its time for a serious talk you know and maybe he is trying to tell you something he didnt say anything when you asked him if he missed you also he said you guys were diffenet so its his loss you havent changed he has so try some of his intrest and if it doesnt work than maybe its goodbye time before you get hurt goodluck i hope i helped
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Where can I get some plain, black pants? Nothing fancy, and not Dickies. Just plain black pants that are like jeans, but not. Anyone have any idea where I could get some? I'd appriciate it a lot. =) Thanks! (link)
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yeah i hope you dont mind shopping at walmart they have nice black pants
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my stomach can be contained when i suck it in, but my butt is pretty big! maybe its just because im african.. but its kinda annoying since it sorta sticks out, XD;. Im not that fat, but im not skinny either, so it kinda looks a little out of proportion when my stomach isnt that fat. how can i get everything like.. in shape, basically? should I just run everyday (I already need to do that for stamina)? i dunno if it will affect these 'areas' lol. also, what foods make you get a bigger butt? i'll eat less of them, too. (link)
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people say to run but acutally its bad for you in the long run try the stair master beleive me it works it hurts like a bitch but it works and walking is great exersise beleive it or not its one of the best work outs ever and if you want to tone your lower body do leg rasies leg lifts butt flex and shit remeber it takes time to see results so dont give up i hope i helped goodluck
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About 6 hours ago I got punched right in the bridge of my nose really hard. I was fine at first but for about 5 hours I've had a bad headache. I just took some painkillers and an arnica tablet for the bruising on my forhead, nose and inner eye but I'm worried about getting black eyes. Is there anything I can do to keep things to a minimum or ease the pain? (link)
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try ice ice always brings down the swelling and keep it on you know it might be cold but it'll help i know it sounds obivious but you never know untill you try
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Would masturbating me considered a sin? I guess this question would be for Christians or something, but it doesn't have to be... (link)
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technically they say it is for priest and shit but honey let me tell its one sin that god will forgive and forget every time you do it because every body masterbates seriously everybody masterbates so dont worry about it acuatlly the doctors say to masterbate its healthy for you so go head and masturbate all you want
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does any one know the poem "the kitchen shears speak" by christianne balk i have to write what the poem means and what its talkin about and what primary literary technique she used in this poem please i need help its so confussing but if your will to give it a try here is the poem
This division must end.
Again I'm forced to amputate
the chicken's limb; slit the joint,
clip the heart, snip wing from back,
strip fat from flesh, separate
everything from itself. I'm used,
thrown down by unknown hands,
by cowards who can't bear to do
the constant severing. Open and close!
Open and close. I work and never tell.
Though mostly made of mouth, I have no voice,
no legs. My arms are bent, immobile
pinions gripped by strangers. I fear
the grudge things must hold.
I slice rose from bush, skin from muscle,
head from carrot, root from lettuce,
tail from fish. I break the bone.
What if they join against me,
uncouple me, throw away one-half,
or hide my slashed eye? Or worse,
what if I never die? What I fear
most is being caught, then rusted rigid,
punished like a prehistoric
bird, fossilized, and changed
into a winged lizard, trapped while clawing
air, stuck in stone with open beak.
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maybe its just her telling to tell the people that through life shes been torn apart shes been speechless and sometime she was there but nobody noticed her maybe shes trying to put her lifes pain in a poem saying sort of in a way that shes stuck ex.
the constant severing. Open and close!
Open and close. I work and never tell.
Though mostly made of mouth, I have no voice,
no legs. My arms are bent, immobile
i hope i helped at least this what i think about when i read the poem its actually pretty good i hoped i helped
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I am 29 yrs old. I dont have any friends.I have a wonderful boyfriend who is very outgoing and confident.Every now and then he says I need to make some friends. I cant. What do I do, call some girl up and say will you be my friend?? How cheesy. I go out with him where his friends hang out but no one engages conversation with me.They do for a minute then go. I am an attractive person that is not the problem. But how does someone who was abused as a child, not allowed to have friends, phonecalls or sleepovers, and a 10 year marriage where I was not allowed to work or have friends, change and get friendships. It seems so out of reach for me.Help!!! (link)
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hopefully you told him what your telling us maybe you should to really communicate with some people and other people who have the same problem maybe like a supporrt group hey dont bang it until you try it you might find that it actually helps u know and explian to him that your happy and it takes sometime for you to feel comfortable around other people goodluck hope i helped
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Okay, so I'm a 14 year old female. There's this guy in one of my classes, and he's a junior. Since the beginning of the year, he has always paid "special attention" to me, like teasing me and stuff. I even recall a while back in October-ish, I was walking in the hallway afterschool, l and he was with his friend, and he stopped to talk to me.
Now, he's always like looking at me in class, especially when I talk to any guys. But I don't know if I'm just imagining the signs or if he teases me just to look cool in front of his friends. Or maybe he's just a friendly guy. Eh, help, please? =] (link)
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thats tough because hes a junior whitch is probley a few years older than u so maybe he just frenidly flirts you know like sister/brother sort of flirting maybe you shouldnt read to much into because of your age but hey if you really think he likes than ask him because your never gonna know if you dont, if you dont want to ask him plain out than beat around the bush ask him if he would ever go out with somebody younger and in a lower grade you know what i mean hope i helped goodluck
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I'm 22, F: Last semester I had a class with this one guy that I really like. He's very kind, outgoing and smart. I'm drawn to his personality. To make a long story short, I only "talked" to him a couple times, and even then, I didn't really feel myself...not because he's uncomfortable to be around, but because I feel so shy and akward when I'm really attracted to someone. When I feel comfortable, i open up and have tons of things to say, but getting to that point is the problem.
Anyway, today I saw him on campus and we talked a lot, but I felt so jittery. He's so outgoing, and I felt like I was talking a lot too, but I felt like something was holding me back from really speaking up. At times I was outgoing and comfortable, but I felt like I had persistent butterflies.
So, how do you open up to someone of the opposite sex? Any tips as to how I can be more confident, relaxed, and myself are appreciated :) (link)
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take deep breaths and tell jokes you know find small things to talk about like movies or an assigment and like you said you already started to open up so dont pull back it seems to me like you really like him try to relax and be yourself goodluck
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what can i do or say to turn a guy on (link)
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honey flirt flirt and flirt not really sexual flirt but let him know that your a women you know make jokes show some skin once in a while and bring up a very exotic subject but dont make yourself something your not and dont sound to sluty make him want you because you got what he wants hope i helped
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i'm going to be doing a lot of running soon to get in shape for soccer. If anyone can tell me some breathing exercises to help me while i'm running thats great, and if someone can also tell me how to avoid getting a cramp in my side that would be great as well. Thanks so much. (link)
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breath in short breaths not long ones its tires you out more and when you keep yourself hydrated dont drink so much and drink slowly hope i helped goodluck
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ok so theres this guy that ive been friends with for about 5-6months+! we can tell each other ANYTHING. but anyway...hes the sweetest guy but lately hes been acting a little different. everytime i talk to him it's "ooohh please dont fuck me like u did last night" but hes only kidding bcuz i never had sex. im a virgin. but then he started immitating all the moans and noises i would make if we did have sex...does it sound like he wants to have sex with me? but then the confusing part is he'll turn around and act normal again...off and on. should i be worried about him wanting sex from me? i mean...he just hit puberty so...can't really blame the guy for being curious right?
and i wanna have sex with him...dont get me wrong im not a slut!
...but should i do it?
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no one can make that decision excpect you but honey your 13 in my opion your still way to young once you loose it your never get it back and if i was you i would wait because there are a lot of complications that happens after sex the relationship changes phycially and mentally i mean im still virgin and im 17 so please dont rush into anything i know people who regret and he sound really immauturre you know so please wait like i said you can never get it back
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So there is this guy that likes me, and I like him too. We arent going out though. But lately i've been thinking about him like 25/7! Is this normal? I feel stupid because, what if he isnt thinking about me that much? Or at all!!?? Do alot of girls think 24 hours a day about a guy that they like? (link)
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dont worry many gurls feel this way maybe you should deff back off a bit because your getting to involed with someone you arent even dating and you dont want to hurt yourself or scare him off in the process so dont feel stupid just try to back up and if you really want him than ask him out you said that he likes you so what do you have to lose you know your'll never know intill you take it upon yourself to find out i hope i helped goodluck
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is there ANY CHANCE of getting pregnant if you give head? like anyy chance at all? because i know its stupid, but im just worried. (link)
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no theres no chance at all you cant get pregnet if you give head because the semen didnt go into the virgina but you can deffinetly get stds so if anything be worried about that hope i helped goodluck
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