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my cat wont stop pooping in the corner! what do i do!
put the liter box there
On July 25th my mom and my step dad will be leaving for iraq for a year and a half. My dad and my step mom are now going thru a divorce. My dad is moving us from waterford to clarkston. My dad had 2 kids with my mom, me and my brother. he also has to kids with my step mom, my younger sister and brother. Now he has to pay child support along with bills, house payments and gas money. This forces him to go back to his old job where he has gotten 3 surgerys in the past 2 years because of it. i have the option of west bloomfield or clarkston schools bcuz i can go under either adress depending on what i choose. Im just not sure were i should go. I know it would be so much easier if i went to clarkston and im VERY sick of my friends trying to guilt me into going to wst bloomfield. plus ill only be going to clarkston for two years, ill be ack with my friends in 11th and 12th grade. SO i gues im saying, what do you think i should do, what would be easier? I really would appreciate if you guys could help me.
Go to the new school meet new people make new friends theres no harm but keep in touch with your other friends they could come in handy haha well and if you still cant decide think which one would be better fallow your heart.
no one cna run your life but you
My best friend, "Chelsea", and I dated briefly a few months back. It ended after a few weeks because I'm a lesbian and out, and she's not out and was afraid to be. Despite everything, I still think about her constantly, and I really care about her alot. I've told her this which resulted in a response of just silence.
Lately, she's said somethings that make me feel as though she might still like me. For example, saying I love you which is out of character for her. But also, when we get around other people or around each other.. she always makes sure that we aren't alone and that she can avoid me if need be.
I'm not sure what to do. I've tried talking to her about it but she wont respond.
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Samantha (17)
Dont you think if she stil liked you that she wouldnt waste time to be aorund you.I understand the clue of liking but trust her judgement if she wnats to be aorund you then good for her if not give it time and see what happens.
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katie
Okay, just to start things off, in the youth group I am in, there is absolutely NO DATING allowed. [and don't worry, it makes sense]
Well, i was talking on AIM last night to one of really good friends and his cousin in a chat room. They invited me to a Flyleaf concert at the end of the month, just out of the blue. I don't know, it just would kind of seem awkward...But I reallllllly wanna go because they are both my friends and such. I think that some of the girls in our youth group might be jealous [they are good looking].
and, I think my mom will be a little freaked out if I said, "Hey, can I go with two 16-17 year old guys to a flyleaf concert?"
My mom doesn't know either of them, but she knows that I can trust them and all.
I don't know what to do at all. Help?
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How do you know that they would never hurt you alot of people say that about people and end up geting raped or what not.But if you say so i trust your judgement.Tell your mom you wanna go and if she says no then trust hers.But if she says yes "yaya"celebrate cause your going to a flyleaf concert
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katie
A good friend of mine recently just told me that he has feeling for me that go beyond our friendship. I had to turn him down and tell him that I couldn't be more than just friends with him. Not because he's not a good guy, don't get me wrong, he's pretty hott, funny, fun, sweet; he's a great guy. I just can't see myself in a relationship with him since we're such good friends. And not only him, but anyone of my male friends (I'm a girl by the way, if you haven't caught on--16).
It's like, once a guy reaches the "friend zone" with me, thats it, I can't date him. I mean, I tell my best frineds (guys and girls) everything from guys I've dated and done things sexual with to why my sister and I got into a fight. They've also seen me at my worst whether it be just woken up, havent shaved my legs in a while (haha), or in an argument with a parent. True, a boyfriend should know almost everything about you and will end up seeing you in those situations but as the relationship builds. Plus if I my best friend becomes my boyfriend then who am I going to complain to guys about?
Does anyone else feel this way or do you think I should give this guy a shot even though I do think this about friendships? Because honestly, if he had told me before we became such good friends I probably would have gone for it.
I feel like the same way.Ya been through so much with them and just cant see you guys together.A lot of people dont date friends because if we breck up it ocward being around them .And what do you mean Give this guy a ashot i know what you mean but you already said no dont date this friend because a few people on the internet said you should you dont even know them dont let them run your life.I understand completely why you dont date friends and your not alone i dont either.Its weird cause there really no diffrence between but kissing hugging more more haha me i dont thik you should date him dont ruin a friendship hoping for luck
if you go to a drug store/gas station. you ask to buy a pack of cigarettes. they want to see your ID, if you are underage, can you get in trouble for adtempting to buy cigarettes?
yes its illegal.....thast why u ask this guy on the street to do it give him money and bam ull be getting lung cancer sooner or latter
What can a 13 year old do to get money? I'm almost desperate. I seriously have no money, neither does my family. I just need some ideas to earn some extra money.
Thanks!
Your a little young for a job but maybe become a bus boy or girl for a dnner but most people dont want the responciblily of a mionor.so try some places
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kati->
okay, there's this gorgeous boy I know. He's completely flawless, and I have a big thing for him. One of my friends tells me that he actually likes me. Naturally, I was thirlled, but there's on problem: HE WON'T GO OUT WITH ME!! There's a lot going on with him, I guess. I mean we still flirt, hang out, etc., but does this mean I should lay off him in terms of flirting? the things have nothing to do with me [more-so family], but does that mean I should leave him be for now? thanks
I think that he may not be ready for a realation ship but you need to tell him that your not looking for the hole friends with benifits i think that he is a nice and sweet lovible guy but why he wont go out with you say that " i like you and i think i show that when i flirt with you and ask you out ...."act innocent and be like 'what do i do wrong...?"so
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Hey,my name is Rachel and iam 17 years old and my granny is ruining my life I know that she is 88 years old,but I don't think this is an excuse for what she is doing to me and the rest of my family.my granny tells me that iam to fat for my own good and talks really bad about my mom and my sisters.on my 17th b-day she made me cry becouse she told me that my mom didn't love me or care about me.I know it's not true,but it still bothered me that my granny would say something like that to me her youngest granddaughter.my 36 year old cousin helped me feel better when my granny made me cry.my granny also tells my aunt how to do things in her own house even though she is 68 years old and she stands over my couse like a hawlk while she folds dirty clothes.If I don't make my bed or fold my dirty clothes she yells at me what should I do.I have to deal with this every weekend all weekend and Iam fed up with her nonesince what should I do?
Tell her how you feel and i know that it most be completly insane with her i know that you most love her but things she does can get on your nerves.Tell her nicely "that if your mom doesnt tell me to fold close or clean this or do that i dont have to unless i feel the need to so untill you become my mom which will never happen dont tell me what to do.You breack my heart telling me that my mom doesnt love me or care about me cause i know that she would do anything for me where do you get off talking bad about my family ...." and if you wanna add more or take things out its ok im only trying to cover some of the basses that you told me you cant stand about what she says....
i really do hope that you solve the issue that is hurting you.
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ok i'm the kind of girl that loves punk and just about anything besides the opera and classical scene. what are some really great bands that are punk? indie? ska? yeah just stuff like that would be great. please & thank you
all my favorites are green day,the used,hawthorne heights,taking back sunday,reel big fish,weezer,nofx
Sorry if this is the wronge category.
Okay, my boyfriend of over a year is turning 21 soon. Problem is, I have no idea what to get him. He is really into the punk/goth stuff. Any ideas?
wel how long have you guys been going out.if its been month year then you should kno but week..
ifs it been long buy a skippy out fit...
ok well im 13 almost 14 and ive only had 2 boyfriends my whole life guys tell me i look hot although im 5'8" and all the guys at my school are shorter if they like me why wont they ask me out....?
im 13 and i ahve never had a boy friend wait for the right one
I know this should probably be in a health section but I couldn't find the right one. Anyways.
I have like this rash kind of thing, all across my neck and the top of my chest. I heard someoen say it might be heat rash once, but I've had it for years and it's never gone away. It's all dry and flaky, and a weird kind of colour. It sounds sick actually but its not that bad! If put a lot of moisturiser on, its goes down for a bit, but its still there, and comes back straight away.
Any ideas how to get rid of it?
Well ahve you gone to the doctors to get cheched out.i have had like little red bumps over my arms and legs and my mom first thought it was poisen ivy but that was when i was three now im 14 and i went to the doctors and he said its a skin eritaion i have this kinda stuff that you have to get perscribbed go to the doctor and get looked at i bet theyll tell you what you need
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how acceptable are erections on nude beaches how do i keep from getting one?
if your not sure how not them dont take the risk of being embarresed it happens when your around other people or sex happy.i dont think you should go if you cant control your sexual feelings
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My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over 9 months. Well, the other day I asked him to take a break for a week because he had been really mean to me and was picking fights. I really have no feelings what so ever for him but he still thinks I love him. He tells me he has never told anyone he loves them but he tells me all the time and he said that we are meant for eachother. I really want to break up with him because I have never cried so much in my life or have ever been so angry. I am very unhappy with him and I want to break up. The only problem is, if I do break up with him he will move 6 hours from me and I'll never see him again. I don't know what to do!! Please help me I'm so confused on what to do!!
Well what your doing to him isn't fair to him.It seems that you don't want to be in a relationship with him but only friends.Tell him that.He should respect that and you can still be his frined but it would be acwared..........
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15/F Alright, so I have been dating this guy, ryan, for about 6 months. I can honestly say that I LOVE him. Bu, lately he has been acting distant, strange. I was talking to a girl online and as soon as he found out I was talking to her he made me stop. It's just weird. And This may be a little TMI but the last time we were doing "things" He just stopped and said, "I can't do this." He's never done rhis before, What do you guys think, and any advice on how i may be able to figure out if he is?
I know why you think he's cheeting on you.Well about the holl you started talking to a girl on computer and he told you to stop.I would keep talking to her and see why he was so tempermetal about it.And about you trying to do things with him and he told he couln't do it.Respect his choices and ask him if something was wrong.The only thing that i could really push is ask him if hes seeing someone else and really fix yourself to him maybe you can tell if he is lieing or not.
im sorry if you find out he is but its better that your not being lead on my his games.
If hes not he should be able to respect why you asked if he is seeing someone.
I hope everything works out the best as possible.
And when one door closes another one opens.
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katie
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What would you wear with a white babydoll topthat flares out a lot at the butt/hips area? There is a seam under the bust area with a little bow on the side. Its SO cute and I want to wear something that compilments it!!
wear black paints that make your butt look so cute
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My natural hair color is dark dark brown. So I bleached it to get some bright color.. And it faded so I dyed my hair black. And my hair keeps fading to this yucky gold-brown-blonde color... How can I make black stay in my hair? I wash my hair almost every day since..my hair gets really greasy and gross.. so in less than 2 weeks my hair is no longer black. What products can i use? Hair dye and shampoo that won't strip the color. This light color doesn't suit me. My skin is light tan and my eyebrows are..like black.
Yoy need to go to the sallon theres last longer and wont get yuky
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katie
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A boy is going to ask me to a school dance. I dont want to go with him. what should i tell him to let him down gently?
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Break it to him easy tell him"hey im sorry but i dont wnat to go to the dance im sorry and i think that yourt great and can find somone great but i dont feel the same way and dont believe in leading somone on" he should really respect you for this
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My whole grade thinks im a slut because they believe stupid rumors people start.
Ok so my story: i hooked up with a guy ive like for a year last friday about 5 times. It was us and one of our good friends at his house. Well that saturday he asked me out and i said yes so hes my boyfriend now. when monday came our grade cought wind of it and starting making stuff up like i gave him a blow job and hand job and all this stuff and im such a slut when i wouldnt do that anytime soon! im like prude compared to most in my school!!!
so people have bets like "well if she didnt give him a blow job yet she probably will by the end of the week" and "theyre just going out to hook up." or "theyre like SUCH a bad couple"
were not!!!!!!!!! hes the best boyfriend i have ever had i really like him SO MUCH but what if he cant handle it and looses his friends and stuff. hes going to break up with me i think soon if this continues. now i dont know for sure but maybe. i dont know what to do. i need to talk to him ASAP but any advice?
i usually dont pay ANY attention to what people say about me but i only am because it concerens my boyfriend too! thanks so much
i would completley be like"you think im the slut look what your wearing huh dont be going around when you dont know half of the story i never touched him.I like him alot and im only (your age)and if you think ill ever do that stop thinking of yourself".id be very up set you need to show self pride.tell your boyfriend that he need to tell people that i never did those things also tell him what your thinking na dthat you like him alot and doenst want to brake up ecause of this hole rumor.
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katie
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