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oh man rumors
My whole grade thinks im a slut because they believe stupid rumors people start.
Ok so my story: i hooked up with a guy ive like for a year last friday about 5 times. It was us and one of our good friends at his house. Well that saturday he asked me out and i said yes so hes my boyfriend now. when monday came our grade cought wind of it and starting making stuff up like i gave him a blow job and hand job and all this stuff and im such a slut when i wouldnt do that anytime soon! im like prude compared to most in my school!!!
so people have bets like "well if she didnt give him a blow job yet she probably will by the end of the week" and "theyre just going out to hook up." or "theyre like SUCH a bad couple"
were not!!!!!!!!! hes the best boyfriend i have ever had i really like him SO MUCH but what if he cant handle it and looses his friends and stuff. hes going to break up with me i think soon if this continues. now i dont know for sure but maybe. i dont know what to do. i need to talk to him ASAP but any advice?
i usually dont pay ANY attention to what people say about me but i only am because it concerens my boyfriend too! thanks so much <3
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i would completley be like"you think im the slut look what your wearing huh dont be going around when you dont know half of the story i never touched him.I like him alot and im only (your age)and if you think ill ever do that stop thinking of yourself".id be very up set you need to show self pride.tell your boyfriend that he need to tell people that i never did those things also tell him what your thinking na dthat you like him alot and doenst want to brake up ecause of this hole rumor.
hope i helped
katie
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Well, don't feel bad for being bothered by these rumors. They are really inappropriate and that would get to anyone.
What you need to worry about is whether your boyfriend will choose to let these rumors destroy you both or not. That's something you should confront him with.
Ask him how he feels about the rumors and what he thinks. You might also want to try asking him if he could have said something that could have led people to turn it into something else. I know you may think that he wouldn't do that, but you never know about people today and what kind of things they will say or do to hurt someone's reputation.
As for when someone from your grade confronts you with a nasty rumor, just tell them that you'd appreciate it if they would mind their own business or just smile and walk away. Do or say anything but getting upset or showing that you are upset. People who start rumors want attention from the person it's about. They want to hear them get angry. You and your boyfriend should figure out a plan for dealing with these rumors and use the same methods.
-TheTeenGirl
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i think itll be fine, dont worry the rumors ill fade and your boyfriend sounds like he wont just dump you for that. just talk to him aout the rumors ask him to help you fight back, and just relax, if his friends are good friends they wouldnt be talking about him behind his back. good luck and trust me, rumors fade and its best to ignore them.
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Talk to your b/f tell him that you have heard the rumors, but since the two of you know they are not true, eventually people will stop saying those things. If he is really that interested in you he will not sacrafice your relationship for rumors.
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