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I'm a 15 year old guy and, as I write this question, I have a pacifier in my mouth.
I was wondering, what do you think of a teenager secretly sucking on a pacifier?
Do you think I am normal? What should I do?
Thanks (link)
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it random but ok people really dont care what you suck on really but try gum or a sucker it works just as well
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So the only bra store that's near where I live is la Senza and I want to get measured but I want someone who has gotten it done before to tell me exactly how it goes. I'm TINY soooo I'm scared that they'll laugh or something and I hear stories about how La Senza only has large bra sizes (but I just want to know MY SIZE so when ever I go to the store I'll just look at the size on the tag, buy, and done!). (link)
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they will stick you in a cup and if its to big theyll give you aa smaller one and so on and so fourth nothing to be worried about and who gives a crap what they think and trust me im sure they have seen worse
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So my ex bf might come over tonight and I'm like super horny. I'm scared I might go way to far. I don't want to have sex. But I'm so horny and I really want to see him. Idk what to do. Please help. (link)
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just masterbate be fore he shows up then your not horny sorry im a little late next time message me and ill get right back with you
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ok so my bf and i r going out and i went to his house yesterday we started making out and one thing lead to another and he took off my shirt and bra.we continued making out but i eventually put my clothes back on after like 3 minutes. I'm only 14 and a female and i feel like I'm a slut because we've only been going out for 3 weeks. he said that he loved me and he always talks about the future in like years but i don't know what to think. am i slut? (link)
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You arent a slut you are a normal teenager hun.... we (me included because i am a teen) all like to have fun at our age its ok you are not a slut
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Ok, I totally love this Michael Grimm from the America's Got Talent show. He's handsome and so talented. He also has manners! Wow.
Anyway, I'm not obsessed with him or anything but I really loved him performance on stage. Is the song he sang an original? Like, did Michael Grimm write the song he sang on America's Got Talent? What's that song called anyway? THANKSSS! (link)
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'you dont know me'
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what is cum used for (link)
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getting girls pregnant thats about it...
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The other day I was flipping channels and caught America's Got Talent right when this guy was about sing and play his guitar. He was SO cute and his name was Michael Grimm. He did an awesome performance and I really want to see it again, at least. He's really talented and I hope he wins!
Where can I watch Michael Grimm for free online? Preferably the America's Got Talent T.V. show but anything will do. He's dreamy. ;) (link)
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short sweet and to the point youtube or google video
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i recently read online somewhere that theres a trick for guys to last longer.they said if the guy while peeing stops for 3 seconds then starts again and then hold it again for 3 seconds it strenghtens the muscles and will in turn help the guy last longer. i was just wondering if this is true? and if anyone has any other methods of helping guys last longer let me know! thanks
ps. i was already thinking of when getting close to orgasm to stop and do oral stuff and other stuff to her to hold myself off for a while.
anything help will be appreciated thanks again =] (link)
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you cant train yourself to last longer but when you do come close give her oral and stuff like you said it works very well...and slowing down makes you last longer
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So my boyfriend has fingered me before and I just kind of breathe deeply to let him know I like it. What else can I say to him or do besides that? (link)
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moaning always turns guys on tell him dirty things like what you want to do with him and stuff... and after wards to make him feel a little better give him a handjob to say thank you if you want to
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my boyfriend and i were having sex for about thirty minutes and i got tired and just had to finish him off oral-ly. even after i did that, it took another hour-hour and a half for him to finish. A) why is he taking so freaking long? B) how can he NOT take so long? any ideas?
this fact is keeping me from wanting to sleep with him that much, and its taking a toll on our relationship. (link)
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you have to make it more intense for him he will finish faster that way.. thats about all you can do
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my boyfriend and i were having sex the other day and i got on top. i wouldnt have any problem with that except for the fact that after about five minutes of being on top, my knees started KILLING me. so i had to get off. :( which didn't satisfy my boyfriend. i wanna know how to keep my knees from getting sore while on top. oh, and if you're going to name this one position where i'm "bouncing" using my feet, i'm not into that. so please don't tell me that. thanks. (link)
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try a different place that is the easy thing to do try that if that don't work tell me and ill give you more advice
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Im gonna try to keep this as shortt as possible. Basically, recently when i smoke weed, i experience some crazy stuff. Its just the weirdest scariest feeling to me and its the same feeling everytime and i hate it. It doesnt happen to anyone else im ever with when i smoke, and i know its not hat the weed is laced or anything because its the same exact feeling no matter what weed i smoke. Everytime i have a n opportunity to smoke, i convince myself that it wont happen this time, that its just all in my head and i cant think about it. But no, it happens everytime. I thijk tonight might be my last night getting high if i cant figure out the reasoning for this. I wanna be able to feel good when i smoke, not like a strobe light, paranoid, tingly, and like im dying..
The best way i can describe the feeling is that i get very confused and woozy suddenly and everything starts spinnibg. Then it kind of feels like im trapped in my body and half of me has no clue where i am or what im doing but then at the same time i know exactly whats going on. My whole entire body tingles and sometimes i cant feel myself and it feels like my fingers kind of go through everything i touch. Everymove i make feels delayed or like chopped, i cant really explain it but im praying someone knows what im talking about or someone has gone through this because i need to know that the same exact feeling happened or happens to someone else
could this be what they call "the strobe light effect?"
if so, how can i stop it from happening when i smoke?
Im not on any medications and i dont have any wierd health problems.
If its not the strobe light effect then what could it be? I want to know whats causing my body to react that way tk weed and it cant be that im alergic to thc because ive smoked for a year with no problems before it started happening
Thank you very much:) (link)
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uh you cant stop it it is just being HIGH like bad high... the best way to gstop it is to STOP THE WEED
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Hiya. I am looking for some songs to have sex to with my boyfriend. My boyfriend gets nervous easily and he said if we had some music on or something it would be easier for him to do it with me. It sounds fine to me but I don't know what some good songs to have sex to are.
I guess the music genre doesn't really matter as long as it's good for sex? We've only tried having sex twice so we're really new at this whole thing anyway. I looked up some suggestions but I just kept coming up with songs that were good for stripping. haha
Sex music suggestions anyone?
THANXXX (link)
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ok first off music or no music he will still be nervous its ok make sure he knows its good to be nervous...it makes it exciting plus there is no good sex music reallymake him comfortable... if he is comfortable he will like it
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Is it safe? Does it make condoms less effective in any way, shape, or form? Any risks?
I'm on the pill, so there's not much risk of getting pregnant (and zero risk at STDs since my boyfriend and I are both STD-free for sure). But I want to use condoms as a back-up so I'd like to know how well this back-up will work.
Any advice on this subject will be greatly appreciated. (link)
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nope its like lubericant it will work just fine you are safe as you were before
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Sorry, "mental health" was the closest category i could find, haha :D
AH so this is an odd question, i'll try to make it sound serious though...
So, it's never really bothered me before...
But I realized lately that i find WEIRD things...attractive. like, sexy, whatever you want to call it.
Like, I don't know how to describe it really. I just find things that people normally dont care for, really sexy. only with guys, by the way, and its a bunch of different, random things...its always the little tiny details i focus on, though.
haha this question sounds so stupid...it's very frusturating that i can't explain it.
ok so here are a few examples off the top of my head...
-when guys adjust their ties(or look nervous in general, really)
-the way the joker slowly turns around/slowly lifts his head up... (in the dark knight)
-little facial twitches guys make (again, being nervous, also being suprised or angry)
-small, quick noises some singers make while..singing. cant describe that too well.
-aang the avatar when hes ...powerfully bending...HAHA wow...im a loser...on the other hand...PRINCE ZUKO when hes really pissed and/or...powerfully bending fire. haha what is WRONG with me
-on tv shows/movies, when a guy will say something really little, like one word, where they'll say it in a husky tone, or their voice will waver or something like that...and i just replay that one second of them saying the little thing over and over because i love how it sounds...
-im 15, and it seems as though i tend to find older men attractive...like, much older men. i usually, ahem, CRUSH, on guys anywhere from their late twenties (such as heath ledger) to their early 50s (such as alec baldwin). i really never like teenage celebrities or guys in their earlier 20s...i would prefer Michael C. Hall to taylor laughtner ANY DAY! ;)
-i dont really find guys' bodies that attractive...i mean...DONT get me wrong, a tan guy with a sixpack is great, but i dont seem to obsess over them as much as a lot of my friends...for example, most of the conversations between us while talking about guys go like:
friend- OH MY GOD he has such a gorgeous BODY!!!!!!
me- yeah i guess...he has a weird face though...
hahaha wow this is really pathetic..but dont worry people, i can laugh at myself.
but..ultimately, i was just wondering if anyone else finds themself doing anything similar to this? or am i just a complete freak? haha.
oh, this isnt some weird fetish or something, right? that would suck...
thanks! (link)
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your not pathetic or weird... these are normal things called fettishes everyone has certain fettishes they like peoplr ussually devlop these in teenage years...
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i am well soon to turn 15 and me and my boyfriend really want to have a baby. my boyfriend is 100%loyal to me. i guess i want to know if i should go through with this. i mean what to tell my mom i dont know my 16 year old sister is already thinking she might be pregnant to. i also would like to know if it is expensive to be home schooled and be home with my child. thank you. (link)
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its very expensive plus for a 15-17 year old girl it is even more painful and they will be required to have surgery plus stiches after birth and the baby will more then likley die its not worth the risk...... how would you feel knowing you tryed to have a kid and it died inside you or right after birth
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I was just wondering, what do you think about girls that are taller than their boyfriends? Do they look ridiculous?...I'm not sure what to believe and this problem pretty much affects my love/dating life as it wasn't only once when i've never given guys s thought for being shorter than me. I'm 5'9" (aka 175cm ).
Thank you. (link)
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ok are you kidding me??? it doesnt matter height has nothing to do with it i see girls hanging out with their boyfriends and the chicks are like huge and the dude isnt its natural plus no one would even care
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Okay so this guy and I graduated high school together and we never really talked in school until we graduated and fall of our freshmen year of college he contacted me over facebook and we just started talking,texting and sometimes talking over the phone.We eventually hung out like one time and we talked and just watched a movie and he didnt even try to kiss me or anything and he wanted me to call him when i get home just to make sure I got home okay which i thought was really sweet. Well that was the only time we hung out because during our winter break we both were sick and couldnt hang out but we still talked and texted each other until january then we stopped texting each other. It wasnt anything bad we just stopped talking for some reason I texted him at like midnight like 2 weeks after we stopped talking and he never answered me. I found out like 3 weeks after we stopped talking he asked his ex girlfriend (who is really good friends with my best friend so shes a friend of a friend but we hang out sometimes together because we have a mutual friend) and she told me this like to rub it in my face sort of but she said she didnt like him or anything but they went out to dinner together though nothing happened after that they just went out to dinner and that was it. Well turns out like 6 months sicne we lasted talked to one another I saw today I got a text from him at midnight last night saying hey how have you been I havent talked to you in a while. So im not really sure what to make of it. Should I text him later today is it too late to text him? Should I just ignore his text? Do you think he is playing me or just wants to talk be friends? I dont know what to do! If you could give me any advice I would love that. Thanks. (link)
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it sounds to me like he likes you and the other chick knew that to but you didnt realize it so talk to him if you like him ask him out on a date try to start something
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So I heard all the reasons NOT to use soap during intercourse.
But what if I did, and felt great discomfort afterwards? What do I do? (link)
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look to be honest you just have to wash it out or it will desolve after a while... plus DONT USE SOAP DURING SEX
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I had sex for the first time 3 years ago, and have had sex pretty regularly since. I have always heard that it hurts the first couple of times, but it ALWAYS hurts me. And getting aroused is not the problem. I know people say it's because "you need to relax" or "try foreplay" but that isn't the issue. This may be too much information, but I can get reeeally wet, and I'm completely comfortable with who I have sex with, so not being able to relax is not the issue either. I can have a clitoral orgasm, so I prefer oral sex. But it just does not feel good vaginally. Could it be because I'm a very small person? I'm 5'3" and only weigh about 95 lbs. I feel like my vagina stays as tight as it was 3 years ago. (link)
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yep your just small and the person(s) you are with is to big for you sorry... it will go away after a few more years though
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