Ny name is Kerry Jeanne. I'm 19 in my second year of College. I'm about to transfer to another college in Southern California where the weather is beautiful and the city is alive! I love to give people advice and help them through sturggles in life. I happily live with my amazing boyfriend and roommate. I have a bulldog and a shih tzu. I'm very crazy, happy, outgoing, optimistic, funny, sweet, caring, and a total introvert. I'm spunky and always have a smile on my face. If I could have it my way, I'd be goofy all the time but when the time is needed, I know when to get serious. Life is great:)
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Age: 19
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What colleges in the US have really good business administration and management programs? I eventually want to get my masters... Thanks:) (link)
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Most state and uc schools have some type of buisness administration/management program. If you're in high school or junior college - I suggest setting up an appointment with your counsilor who will better help guide you in the direction you want to go in. Asking what US schools are good is a really broad question. Your counsilor will better understand what exactly it is you're looking for in a school and a surrounding enviornment - and match you with the perfect schools. Good Luck!
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18-female. my guy friend is 17/m
so i've known lets call him "nick" for about four years now. he recently just broke up with his girlfriend of three years, yeah shocking! i've always liked him so i was kind of happy about it. but then i heard from my cousin that he was "talking" to another girl. i was really upset, becasue i mean really? another girl already? and so one night i was like nick is there something you have to tell me, and he was like well like what. and then i was like i hear you have a "new girl" and he was like what! no!! who?! and i told him and he was like haha noooo where did you hear that from and then he always denied it well then the next day he was texting me all day and this girl is my cousin's cousin if that makes sense and she invited herself to his house because my cousin is next door neighbors with nick. well i was like nick why dont you go over there to see your new girl? and he was like SHES NOT MY NEW GIRL! why do you think she is? i dont have a new girl, i dont want one. and i was like why would she invite herself over there, to see you? and he was like i dont know, cant we be friends and why do you care anyways? and i was like because i hate being lied to! and he was like you dont ever even believe me and he knows i have a trust issue and i felt bad because he sounded SOOOO convincing you know? so i was like okay sorry i belive you, i wont bring it up again. well then that night it was me nick my cousin and the "girl" at my cousins house. the "girl" tries to get ALL the attention, its quite annoying. well then nick asked if she wanted to play air hockey downstairs and so just them two went down and after they were done they stayed down there and we watching a movie!!! i was so pissed, but i wasnt going to say anything well because i told him i wouldnt bring it up again and i didnt want to seem annoying because i knew he would say shes not his new girl. i just dont understand though? and my cousin was spying on them and texted nick and was like stop being a "pussy" and kiss her and then he said they were talking about it? i almost started crying. what should i do? am i over reacting? i dont want to seem annoying and i've already brought her up twice before! do you think there just friends? i know hes attracted to me, its not like i'm looking for a relationship with him though becasue i know he wouldnt want to get into one right away. after that night, i havent talked to him at ALL. any suggestions, comments? what do you think is going on. (link)
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Yes you are overreacting. Showing jealousy is not attractive to "Nick" at all. Your jealousy is most likely pushing him away. You can't fight with him about something like this because who he dates is none of your buisness. He will pick who he wants and you can't control that.
It does sound to me like he does like you, but let things take it's toll naturally. Don't rush into anything and don't accuse him of anything. Have some confidence and independence. He probablly just really likes this girl as a friend. It's okay for guys to have friends that are girls. If you see it as a threat - it will become a threat. You really don't have a right complaining to him about her because he's not your boyfriend (yet). Let him have his space - but don't stop talking to him. If he's into you he'll come around. Good Luck!
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so as you all know valentines day is coming up.
i want to surprise my boyfriend with something sexy, but the problem is...i don't really have anything planned out yet haha.
so i was thinking something possibly with lingere but nothing to skanky, were teenagers, maybe just a cute top?
any advice for plans? thanks! (link)
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If you want to surprise your man with something sexy yet sweet on Valentines Day - go to Fredericks or Victoria Secret and pick out something really sexy. You could decorate your room with rose peddles and chocolate, and even pink and red balloons. Then have yourself in your new outfit on your bed waiting for him as a surprise. Honestly, a change in the bedroom is always a plus for a man. Good Luck!
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my best friend has been going out with her boyfriend for about 2 months. this is her first serious boyfriend - shes 16, and im happy for her. only thing is, she is head over heels for him, but its really obvious he doesn't like her like that. i am NOT jealous, i would never date a guy in the same species as this one, haha, but im not the only one who has noticed the apathy on his part. she sets up all the dates, she asked him out, and he doesnt even hug her when they say goodbye! theyve kissed but to me it seems like a formality on his part. -i a really intrapersonal person, i can pick up others' feelings easily, but even my other friends notice-
also, she invites him everywhere when we have girl time. like, when its just her & me, its normal, but whenever she invites a handful of friends over, all girls, he has to come, too. i dont mind once in a while but its getting rediculous. he's obviously never had a girlfriend before (not to be mean but hes really nerdy and quiet, im not prejudiced against that type of guy 'cause i like shy guys haha but quite honestly he's just... boring) and is just riding the wave.
even worse, she kinda acts different around him. i mean obv girls act dif around their boyfriends but when all her girl friends are hanging out and he happens to be around, her attitude completely changes and shes not as fun anymore.
i dont know what to do. if i brought up the whole not inviting him places things, she might get mad at me, (i wouldnt blame her). also i do not want to be the one to tell her [and i dont think i should tell her... even though if anyone should, it would be me] he doesnt like her and break her heart. should i just stay out of this? if it was me, though, i'd want her to tell me.
opinions? thanks so much. (link)
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Honestly, I think you should stay out of it. Some guys just have very introverted personalities and for all you know this guy could be head over heals for this girl but just not show it, or may not even know how to show it. Not all guys respond to women the same way women respond to men.
Also, if this is his first relationship then why are you surprised that he never plans the dates and/or outings? Maybe he just doesn't know how yet. If your girlfriend seems happy then don't ruin it for her. There's a reason why she's keeping him around and if he ends up breaking her heart, it's another life lesson learned.
As far as the girl nights go - talk to her about that. Guys find it attractive when a girl can spend the night with her closest girlfriends and not have to be attatched to them 24/7. It shows independence and confidence. Try telling her that and how a girls night...is strictly a GIRLS night.
Good Luck!
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Ok so before I begin I know what they say...you made your bed now lay in it.
i met my boyfriend(?) 6 months ago and then like a few months after i started to give him my car so he could use it while i was @ work .. i know it was a bad idea but i liked the idea of seeing him. last night i got the worst phone call of my life. He had crashed my car, however nothing had happened to him. My parents didn't even know I had a boyfriend let alone he was using their car (registered under my dad) and along with that he was operating a vehicle with a suspended license. he has been caught 3 times operating a vehicle with a suspended license & has not been arrested.
so now the car is trashed & my parents are going crazy on me. they made me quit both of my jobs and they're only allowing me to go to school. i turn 18 next week and im wondering what i can do to get out of this situation.
they're forcing me not to talk/see him. and the only reason i didn't tell them about him was because they wouldn't have approved bc of religious views.
i could move in with him but he has no, i have no job we aren't going to get anywhere. plus if he ever fails to do what he promises to do i can't return to my parents bc they won't accept me (link)
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No matter what, your family comes first. You're parents don't approve of him and they have a perfect legitimate reason not to. Their intentions for you are only good, so don't ever think your parents are 'out to get you'. Think of it this way:
Your boyfriend knew he had a suspended lisence and has been caught 3 times, yet it didn't bother him to do it again and get you in trouble. In this situation he should have been thinking of you and he wasn't.
Also, if you move in with him when you turn 18 - I highly doubt you will get your parents approval, and it is not easy living on your own especially without any support.
Honestly, it may not be the advice you want to hear but you should move on from this trouble maker because you deserve better. Focus on graduating and earning your parents trust back. They are the most important people in your life and trust me, they will forgive you and they will always love you.
Good Luck!
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before my current boyfriend, i had slept with two guys.
one guy twice, and one guy once, so only 3 times.
my boyfriends good in bed, but even though its feels good,
i never orgasm from him.
i've actually never orgasmed during sex...
am i doing something wrong or what?
i don't want to say anything to him because i don't want him to think he's doing a bad job.
any help would be much appreciated. (link)
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For mnost girls, it's not easy to orgasm. It's not because you're 'inexperienced' or that your boyfriend doesn't know what he's doing. Find out for yourself what feels good to you and then physically show those new techniques to your boyfriend. This will turn him on and teach him the ways in a very sneaky way! ;)
Good Luck!
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so this guy i sort of like wants me to give him a handjob and he wants to finger me..this is a really weird and probobly stupid question but lets say he fingered me, would it be possible that if his hands werent washed good enough and had touched himself down there recently, would it be possible that i could get pregnant from that? i mean im not going to tell him to wash his hands..and what if its still under his finger nails..ugh im just paranoid but idontknow what to do..and i dont even know how to give a handjob?! he knows i dont..but i actually have no clue..what do i do? (link)
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Sperm dies seconds after it is released into the air. You have absolutely nothing to worry about. The only possible way for pregnancy to happen due to this, is if he ejaculated on his hands or fingers seconds before he performs fourplay with you.
Handjobs are easy and not complicated at all. Simply hold on to the penis, (like you're grabbing onto a handle bar of a bike) not too tight but tight enough for him to feel and go up and down until the deed is completed. Good Luck!
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this guy i rlly like .. ui went out with and then he broek up with me bc he was havin emotional problems.. well we talk all the time on the computer.. he is perverted in his ways.. i love him.. well he asked me if he can violate me.. lol what does that mean.. thanks and i will rate you (link)
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If a guy can't handle your emotional problems then he's not worth your time. It sounds like to me like he just wants to have sex. I'm sure he cares about you but he obviously isn't mature enough if he can't be there for you during hard times. When you're in a relationship, the man you're with should not only be your lover but your friend as well.
As far as the whole 'violation' comment, thats just creepy. Please stay away from him. You deserve better.
Good Luck!
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I can never tell if i'm hot or cold.
It'll be freezing outside and i think im hot.
Or i think im cold, but ill get all redfaced from being hot.
Weird.
Whats this called? (link)
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You could be anemic. Try taking Iron pills (vitamins) however I do suggest you seek medical attention. Good Luck!
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so i have been wanting to read the vampire diaries, by L.J smith. and i was wondering what the 3 books are called in the series, because i thought they were called the awakening, the struggle and the fury, but the first book says the awakening and the stuggle on it, haha so i was jw. and any opinions on the books, good, bad, summaries,, thanks :D (link)
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The Vampire Diaries by L.J. Smith Series:
The Awakening
The Struggle
The Fury
Dark Reunion
If you're into Vampire books, I highly reccomend the Twlight series by Stephenie Meyer.
Twilight
New Moon
Eclipse
Breaking Dawn
Glad to see that teens are still reading! Good Luck!
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22/male
I'll try to keep this short, here are the facts:
She's super cute, definitely a 10.
I'm an average looking guy, shy, but people tell me I'm really nice and sweet.
I've partied with her 3 times, and she has been nice to me in person even though I've been somewhat shy.
She has relationship problems, guys always treat her like crap for some reason.
I live an hour away now, but I move to her town in 4 months.
Recently, she's been talking to me quite a bit, and saying she wants to hang out with me. But I know she hangs out with a lot of guys. And she knows that I'm moving down to her town soon.
I think I'm probably a good change from her bad relationships. Is that unheard of for her to go for a guy like me? Could it last or am I just a stopgap until her next ahole guy? (link)
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Some girls are drawn to a*holes. It's just in their mentality, some girls even think they cannot do any better. But if you can prove to her that you're not like that - it will sweep her off her feet.
Having confidence is extremely sexy to any female. But don't go beyond and turn that confidence into cocky-ness, know where to draw the line. You should first start out by asking her out on a date and see where it takes you from there.
It may make you a bit intimidated that she talks to other guys where she lives but it does not mean she's 'hooking up' with them. They may just simply be friends to her. Have the right attitude and confidence and you will do very well.
Good Luck!
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I have a UTI at the moment, and I've been taking medicine to help the pain. I'm supposed to be getting my period soon.. Will the UTI make my period arrive later or will it even effect it?
16/f
Thank you :) (link)
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A UTI will not effect your period, however if you haven't seen a doctor yet, I suggest you do so A.S.A.P as UTI's can become very severe when not treated properly. Good Luck!
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