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ok i need help.. please


Question Posted Saturday January 17 2009, 11:03 pm

this guy i rlly like .. ui went out with and then he broek up with me bc he was havin emotional problems.. well we talk all the time on the computer.. he is perverted in his ways.. i love him.. well he asked me if he can violate me.. lol what does that mean.. thanks and i will rate you<333

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kerry_jeanne answered Thursday January 22 2009, 6:44 pm:
If a guy can't handle your emotional problems then he's not worth your time. It sounds like to me like he just wants to have sex. I'm sure he cares about you but he obviously isn't mature enough if he can't be there for you during hard times. When you're in a relationship, the man you're with should not only be your lover but your friend as well.

As far as the whole 'violation' comment, thats just creepy. Please stay away from him. You deserve better.

Good Luck!

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cheifbritneeilu answered Sunday January 18 2009, 5:36 pm:
He wants to get in your pants. Don't do it, it will cause you to be the one with emotional problems in the long run. Theres always harmless kissing that you two can do though :)

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Uniq_The_Geek answered Sunday January 18 2009, 1:34 pm:
Yeah, it means he wants to have sex.. My advice? Don't do it. Seems like it's a game to him, and if he has emotional problems, this 'violation' will make it worse o_O ... So Just stick to no violation. Take care :D


Flirty :)

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sk8rqb6 answered Sunday January 18 2009, 12:41 pm:
it means he wants some most likely weather sex or making out if your not ready forget him move on thats what i want to happen to me in the end itd be worst for both of you. if you want mess around nothin serious tho

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triquetra answered Sunday January 18 2009, 7:15 am:
Cliff note version: "Can I have sex with you?" is basically more or less what he's asking you.

If he's having emotional problems, I wouldn't go for it. Just wait until both you and him are in a stable realtionship before going into anything. I'm not telling you how to live your life, just to be cautious.

I hope this helped,
triquetra

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