i am 22, i love helping people. I have been through alot even though i am still young. I know alot about friend problems, dating, meeting people online, seriouse realtionships, sex, computers, and even parenting. i dont know anything about music that would be one thing i am not good at. I am more than happy to help any one who needs it.
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Occupation: at home mom kind of
Age: 22
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Ok so I like this guy, I sit in the middle of him and his friend in class.
One day in class his friend and him always scoots super close to me, it's really weird so I always push them both away. Another day the guy I like was like "are u cheating on me with my friends?" it was really random because we weren't going out, so I just laughed and said no. He always waves hi to me in different classes and I just smile and wave hi back, he never talked to me before I sat by him. His friends say hi to me now also.
He always takes my pencils and one day he took my notebook and so as I was pulling it away he was like " I have a crush on u." but I didn't know if he was joking or not.
Does he like me? (link)
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sounds like he does :) good luck
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one of my really good friends (shes 14) has been having sex with this one guy for over a year now. she used to be going out with the guy, and not she's not, but she's still having sex with him. she's been hurt before because of this guy, and i just don't want her to get hurt again or get into a bad situation. she has b.c. but sometimes forgets to take it and doesn't read the instructions on how to make up for lost pills. i don't want her to mess up her life at such a young age. any advice on the topic would be great. thx. (link)
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talk to her. maybe occupy some of her time allow her to see you can have more fun without sex. introduce her to good guys that will show her how to have fun at your age without doing grown up things.
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hi, im 17 and my boyfriend is 27 and i know he's really old for me but ya i dated him for about 5 1/2 months things went up and down and so recently ive been really busy with school, so i couldn't meet up with him as much. Anyways i got a text from him after school saying lets meet at college campus at 2;30pm and i was like no because, i have after school activites to go to. so after that he Never called or texted me again.And i even sent him a text 2 weeks ago saying how are you? and he never replied. Does that mean he broke up with me? or should i call him or just forget about it and move on? (link)
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forget him and move on. age does matter so wait till you can find some one more on your schedule who will understand.
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My baby will be three and a half months old next week and he is my first. My husband and I don't want to have any more children for another 3 or 4 years, at least, and so I've been breastfeeding our little boy. My mom told me that you can't get pregnant if you are breastfeeding and that I should breastfeed for as long as I can to put off getting pregnant or having to go on birth control pills again. Then, I saw a link on some breastfeeding moms site I was looking at about a woman who got pregnant while breastfeeding her 2 month old.
Is getting pregnant while nursing common? I mean, I've been having unprotected sex with my husband ever since I was able to do it again with him, thinking that I am safe. I haven't had my first period yet since giving birth but I thought that was normal and now I'm scared I might be pregnant and that my mom was totally wrong.
So, what are the chances of getting pregnant while breastfeeding? (link)
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that is another rumor like if you do it standing up your safe. well it could be likely you are pregnant
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Alright well a about a year ago i expieremented with a girl and ended up dating her then we broke up and i hooked up with a few other girls and i actually love it haha but im not super open about it like i try to hide it as much as possible cause im in highschool and you know how people like to judge. And then there is the whole my mom thing. My sister is a striaght up lesbo and my mom knows and is cool about it but if im gay too she is gonna shit herself and feel like a bad mom. she even told me like jokingly that i wasnt aloud to be gay or she would kick me out. So know i have to date boys and not let my mom know. But im pretty sure ill im intrested in is girls. what do i do? (link)
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well you could hide it till college when u have alittle more freedom or you can just come out. Hiding it till collge would be my bet but i am not really an exspert in this area haha
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am a female and i had sex with my bf for 8 months and unprotected and he has cummed inside of me. but i realise that my period hasn come yet and i feel this horrible pain in my puvic area.. also my breast are so sensitive and they hurt so much. i also started getting dizzy and i berly can stand strait some times.. Can i be pregnant?? (link)
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Yes you can be i would go to the doc or take a test asap
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17/F senior.
Okay so I'm a little worried bout the age diference between me and this guy I like who I'm going with to prom too. Here's the thing: he's a freshman and I'm a senior. We have the same birthday week so when he finally turns 15 I'll be 18. In other words right now he is 14 while I'm 17. Although he is extremely mature for his age like already has a job ad everything. He definately does not act like a freshman. I'm bout to graduate and he's only gonne be a sophmore. So if we dated this summer I would be a freshman in college dating a sophmore in high school. Another thing is if we date I know it will be endless crap from my guy friends for dating such a young guy even if it's only 2 years because the whole college to high school thing makes it sound bad. Basically I'm wondering your oppinions on this. Is he too young? Or should I ignore what everyone will say and go for it anyways? Thanks!! (link)
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I woudlnt go there what if you want to move to a physical thing then you would be in real trouble. wait till he is of age
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can u get birth control without ur parents knowing? (link)
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yes just make an appointment at your local health dept.
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Hi , I was wondering what happens if you do not have sex or masturbate for a long a period ? is it unhealthy for the sexual organs ? like make them inert or inactive or something ? (link)
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Nothing is wrong with you if you dont. Its ok things stay the same, some people just have times when they dont feel like it. its normal and everything will be ok.
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My boyfriend thinks I'm dirty and weird, cos I like porn films and magazines. He thinks it's just for men. Am I dirty and weird, or is he being a prude? (link)
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he just isnt as comftorble as you are or he could be intimdated by your openess. most guys would love a girl that open.
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do all girls masturbate and some just dont admit it? or do many really not do it? (link)
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I wouldnt say all girls do but more then 50% i would say do. There is nothing wrong with it.
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Hi,
I am 21 and Ive recently been feeling really horrible and slutty about during my teenager years of how i lost my virginity with someone who i knew but wasnt my boyfriend and he then went and slept with someone else that same night i found out later on. Not only this incident but i also feel ashamed of another person who i slept with who wasnt my boy friend wither about a year after that.I was single so that is not an issue but I just feel really slutty and im worried its going to affect my future relationships if they find about about it. I just genereally feel guilty of how i acted in my teenager years with boys and need to ask whether or not anyone thinks I should feel worthless and not worthy of having a serious relationship? (link)
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Every one does something the regret in the past learning from it is the only thing that matters. you cant change it only learn from it so just let the guilt go every one has a past dont sweat it.
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19f.
i'm still a virgin and the thing that scares me the most about sex is it hurting like hell the first couple of times. within the past month i've had two exams where i've basically had to have that annoying silver clamp open up my vagina so they could swab to make sure i didn't have any infections. well the first time it was fine - didn't hurt when it went in or anything. well today when the silver clamp was going in it hurt sooo unbelieveably bad and the doctor could tell i was tense so she was like here i'll rub one finger a sec it usually helps people ease up, but that still kind of hurt. i've never been fingered or anything so now that just having that hurt i couldn't imagine what its going to be like the first time. is there anything that could help me maybe loosen up a little bit? thanks!! :) (link)
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maybe masterbate alittle bit or try a toy. but i dont think it will hurt as bad as you think, if you are with the right guy it wont all. just relax and dont worry about it
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17/f
So my best friend Laura has been getting really really close with her boyfriend lately. So close, that unfortunately I feel like she's been shutting me out. =(
We'll make plans with each other, like to meet up somewhere. But usually what happens is that I'll text her saying like "I'm here. Where are you?" and she'll text back "Oh sorry, I went out to breakfast/lunch/dinner/whatever with John. I'll meet you in like half an hour"
It's other stuff too, like the three of us will be walking in the hallway, and then it'll be time for John to go away because Laura and I walk to class together, but lately she just branches off with John and says to me "I'll see you there, kay?" Like no..it's not 'kay'.
When all of us (and I mean our entire group of friends) sits together at lunch, those two will be at the end of the table, ignoring everyone else. It gets on my nerves. It's like everything not having to do with John has become way less important to Laura.
=( I don't mean to come off as like a controlling bitch, it's just that me and her have been inseparable since like fifth grade, and now she keeps blowing me off. I'm feeling more and more shut out from her John world. (link)
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When you get your 1st real boyfriend you will understand. dont be to hard on her she will get over this stage and see what she is doing. maybe try to hang out with othere friends for awhile and allow her to do her own thing. Then you both will have something to do and be happy.
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hey my sister is driving me crazy wat do i do (link)
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Ignore her. if she is young give her something to keep her busy. let her watch tv or play a game on the computer. if she is really bugging you maybe she just wants you to talk to her. treat he like you would your friends and be nice
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19/f.
I'm still a virgin but I'm planning to have sex soon. The thing is i've been on birth control probably for 2yrs now for my period and other things. I'm afraid that the guy will be like "ohhh we don't need a condom your on birth control!" but I definitely want to be as safe as I can and use both. I know the guy shouldn't care if I asked him, but I'm a bit worried. What if we're in the moment and I'm like wait do you have a condom? And he's like no, we don't need one. I'd feel like a total idiot but I'm not doing it without one!! I know guys hate wearing them but better then getting pregnant right? :)
So basically, how can I convince him (if he doesn't want to, i'm not sure yet..) to wear a condom even though I'm still on birth control?
thanks!!:) (link)
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first of all buy your own condoms and have them with you. that solves that and if he doesnt want to wear one he doesnt want to have sex. Be foward no condom no sex and if he refuses then dont take a risk
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Me and my bf were going out for about 3 months until he broke up with me but he didnt tell me why and i want him back real bad. What should I tell him to get him back or what should i do? (link)
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Just move on if he doesnt tell you why then either he cheated or he isnt ready for a relationship. dont try to push him in the end you will just be hurt. so let it go you can find some one that makes you happy. by pushing him it will just drag out getting hurt
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is a fish a good pet? or is a dog better? i cant decide, people help me!!! (link)
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Get a fish if you can let it survive for more then a few months then move up to a dog
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Hello i have a 11 week old Toy Fox Terrior we got her about 2 weeks ago. I'm having troubles with her biting and eating her own feces. I've looked online at ways to teach your dog not to bite and it seems like ive tried it all. The first couple times she started biting i yelped like a dog and that seemed to startle her now i do it and it doesnt even phase her. I tell her no firmly and she does it anyways. I put her in her kennel then she calms down and is up to it again. I dont expect her to listen to everything i say i know shes a puppy. But any advice would be appreciated. Thanks (link)
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use a spray bottle every time she does any thing you disaprove of give her a little squirt of water. soon she will learn that she will be sprayed and will stop doing what ever it is that she shouldnt be. good luck
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19/f
So my boyfriend and I have been dating for over 7 months now. I've given him oral sex many times, but he's never done it for me. So when I asked him last night, he said he thought it was gross. I asked what part was gross, and he said the er..fluids that come out i guess. Then he went on to say that he wasn't ready, "just not yet". Which made no sense to me. How is this fair? What should I do about it?
I was really offended like I gross him out. Or that he doesn't want to make me happy. Because I do it for him, and it's not like my favorite thing in the world, but I enjoy making him happy. (link)
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When me and my bf started dating he would do the deed for me but i wouldnt him. I didnt think it was gross i was scared i would stink at it. It may be more he is nervouse then he thinks it is gross but he doesnt want to show his weakness. And if he thinks its gross then tell him you decided his was gross to. some guys are just rude and dont want to but i would throw it to him be scared he will stink at it.
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