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hey everyone! im caitt♥ yes, im only 13, but trust me ive been through alot. from parents getting divorced, to bad relationships, to losing friends, to people from my family passing away, to my whole family being on a hitlist. so yeah you can pretty much ask me anything. i usually get a chance to get on this site at least once a day. dont hesitate to ask me questions. send me something in my inbox and your question will be answered the same day! also if you add me as a favorite columnist, i automatically add you because you added me =]. thanks for reading. byee♥

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gimme some cool words to integrate into my daily vocab please!

hey, go to www.dictionary.com

-caitt

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earplugs dont work very well. at least not the ones i have. is there a good brand? i saw this ad for headphones that block out sound but you cant sleep with them on. what can i do

hey, there isnt a subsitute for ear plugs. just try a few bands out find one that works best for you. try asking your docorot for good ones.

-caitt

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ok, well..theres this boy that i like and i dont know if he likes me, we used to lived next to each other and we used to hang out EVERYDAY but, thne he move and now i only see him at school, but we talk on the computer and we call each other reguarly, and he acts normal around me and when someone else is there with us he acts different. He had a girlfriend, but my friend told him that I liked him and the next day he broke up with her, my friend says he likes me, but i dont know, cause it's been a week since he broke up with her and he hasn't asked or acted like he likes me, and the day he bokre up with her, he said "so your going out with 'blahh' and i said wat? and he said wrong person, sorry...does that mean anytything?! does he like me?

hey, i think he might have some type of interest in you. you can confront him about it and straight up ask him if he likes you. try www.links2love.com for some tips/help. in your conversation say something likee who do you like these days or somethng of that sort. also dont forget to mention that your single =].

-caitt

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Ok so i have this friend...and I think he's bulimic. I saw him eating the other day and when he was done...he threw up and it looked like he made himself throw up.

What should I do? Should I confront him about it? Tell someone? Both? Please help, im really worried about him.

hey, yes confront him. explain to him that its very dangerous to be bulimic. if the problem continues at least you tried to help.


-caitt

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Okay- I'm 13/f and I know a boy who is one of my best friends and I really like him we had a relationship before but it didn't work out - we were like....9 so of course it didn't but I'm starting to get the feeling that he likes me. Like he stares at me until I look at him then he looks away- or hes always defended me but now that his cousin has come down to visit (he's not to nice) when he gets mean he defends me as much as I defend him- and he is starting to stand next to me when i around- he blushes when I'm around- when I sleep(his sister Is my BFF) over at his house(we all sleep on the floor its like a normal thing at their house) he tries to sleep next to me(blush)-and when we talk he looks deep into my eyes and acts like I'm the only thing in the world that matters. Do you think he likes me and Is to shy to ask me out? Because I'm to scared ask him.

hey, im pretty sure he likes you. invite him to go to the movies. try www.links2love.com for some advice.

-caitt

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well i think im kinda chubby but people tell me all the time im not.. but i have stretch marks on my inner thys and my hips.. and i dont like them.. how do i make them go away. and i have a gut. how do i get that to go away?

hey, they have some stretch mark scar things at places like CVS. stretch marks are a part of life. as for your stomach, do sit-ups.

-caitt

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does the 6 second ab thing work at all? and if it does when will i see results?

hey, doing sit-ups works much better.

-caitt

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Everytime I wear my bra it annoys me sooo much because the straps always fall down and I have to keep pulling them up every 10 seconds litarlly! I have to wear a bra and I don't like strapless ones that much. How can i feel the strap to stay up ?

hey, you have a few options. if you dont wear a padded bra now, then buy one. padded bras ususally make bras fit better. get a strapless padded bra. buy a smaller bra.

-caitt

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i was just wondering if having sexual intercourse "feel" the same as masterbating?

is it better or worse?

thanks

hey, its going to feel alot different. people often say sexual intercoarse feels better.

-caitt

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hya im 13 n i weigh 11 stone!! well ive lost half a stone naw but its taken me weeks i go 2 the gym n i generally eat healthy but im going on holiday soon i want to get down to atleest 9 half n thts in bout 4 weeks any1 hu has any ideas please write something quik.... im relli sad because of it fanks x

hey, what are stones?

-caitt

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How old do you have to be to get your lip pierced in the state of PA without parental consent? Thanks.

hey, i think that you have to be 18.

-caitt

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I don't feel the same way about my boyfriend anymore. In fact, I feel that its time that we ended our relationship. There seems to be a catch, however. We haven't seen each other much this summer, but we do talk on the phone almost every night. I don't know if its appropriate to end the relationship now, or wait a couple of weeks until school starts and we see each other every day again. What should I do? Wait it out, or say whats on my mind?

hey, well what i would do is say something to him like this. "we never really see each other and because of it i dont really feel the way i used to about you, so i dont think that our relationship should go on if we cant see each other". then let him comment. i did this jsut last night, my boyfriend said i will see you every second that i can. so depending on the comment make your decision.

-caitt

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Though the rest of my body is in fairly good shape, my upper arms have more flab than is preferred, especially as they get nearer to the shoulders. I have a busy schedule and my breaks come in irregular and short intervals. What are some simple exercises I could do at my desk/when I'm waiting without any work out equipment?

hey, well buy those little weights that weigh like 5-10 and do some excerises with them at your desk. but as always push-ups are the best thing for arm flab.

-caitt

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okay i just bought an mp3 player and i have no idea how to put music on it!! please help!! i dont want to pay for anything so if its free it will help a lot thanks!!!

hey, go back to the store were you bought it from and ask them. you can also read the manual that it came with.

-caitt

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I tried to dye it back to my natural hair color and the people who did it made it red and it was supposed to be brown. How long will it take for my all of my hair to grow back with my normal color?

hey, the exact thing happened to me wiht the exact same colors. well i think its been about 2 years since it happened. its baically all out but theres a little still on the ends.

-caitt

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okay i wanted this headband to go with one of my outfits but i dont know where to buy one. if you ever saw the hills on mtv, lauren wears one a lot. its black & thick at the top but gets thinner until it goes behind your ear?? anyone know where they sell those??

thanks!

hey, go to www.claires.com or www.icings.com

-caitt

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i was wondering if anyone knew how to get my hair like this:

http://www.prohaircut.com/Colour_vision_175.html

i recently posted another question like this, but my link was broken and i was wondering if anyone knew how to get it like this. i have a curling iron, but i dont get the curls exactly like the link because they do not appear as tight. THANKS! =]

hey, nobody hair is ever going ot look as perfect and as good as that models. its just too unreal. it might look almost like it if you get it professionally styled. just try different curling irons [ your friends curling irons or your relatives ] and see which one works best on your hair. dont try to copy that ladys.

-caitt

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Whats the best self-tanner ya`ll have used.
Thank ya!

hey, well most lotion self tanners dont work well. use spray tan. neutrogena works best.

-caitt

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((15/f))well me and my cousin(guy) and my best friend(girl) wanna be something that like goes together for halloween.. like a certain theme. watz a good costume idea for 2 girls and a guy?? or if not specifically; like to say something like hes the pimp and we r his pimpettes? but we dont wanna do that cuz its kinda like oldd .. but yeahh does anyone have any creative ideas for us?? thankss guys

hey, umm theres always the cop and robber thing that ive seen people do. that gets pretty old tho. try go to www.iparty.com or www.partycity.com

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I was wondering if anybody knew any online stores where you can buy cute little hand-made wallets/clutches? I'm not really into patterns, but I am into cute designs like music notes, clouds, etc.
LaX=SeX

hey, you cant get hand made ones. try www.claires.com or www.icings.com

-caitt

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