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stealing public property, t ping houses, beating up on friends, hanging out with friends, going to mehlville games, going to the movies, going to t time, walking around the neighborhood, having people over, confusing people, making people make funny faces, dropping my pants in front of girls that i dont know, mooning people from cars, driving without a permit, BAGEL BITES!!!, soccer, basketball, football (even though idk how to play), making the bird, wearing spandex and listening to brittany spears in my room, paintballing, hunting, shooting, making fires, lighting stuff on fire, seeing what burns, painting myself various colors, seeing how long i can put off my homework, doing stupid stuff, throwing my shoes at people, spray painting random things on random buildings, sneaking out, having fun, making people guess what im thinking, staring at random things just to make people say "what are you looking at", walking backwards, and mimicing girls i like infront of them, and of course giving advice.

things i dont like are:

girls that think they can get guys by wearing short skirts (b/c 98% of the time it works), people that try to mock me openly, people that hate me and try to get other people to do the same, people who make fun of my friends, people who call me stupid, people who eat my food, people who dont give me money, people who ask me continously for a piece of paper or pencil, people who try to be popular, guys who lie about their virginity, guys who hit girls, girls that cheat on guys, guys that cheat on girls, soda, roast beef sandwiches, taking care of things, cleaning up other people's mess, people who send me text messages, people who IM me constantly, people who think i can get them laid, people who look for "the love of their life" before the age of 21, people who are prude, people who are scared to have fun, workaholics, alcoholics, people who get addicted to smoking, people who do stuff under peer pressure, people who say the word "immature," people who think they are in the popular group, tv, and homework.
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13/f

alright. um..

i like this guy A LOT (we'll call him bob). he has a girlfriend & they've been going out for like more than a month. the thing is, they don't do anything. i never see them talk & they have only hugged like once. that's all the farther they've gone. my bff has been going out with this guy for 3 weeks & they hang out a lot, talk evweryday, are constantly holding hands, & have kissed like 4 or 5 times.

my problem is, is that i don't know if i could ever go out with someone like that. someone that doesn't act like a boyfriend should. so my question is, should i move on? should i wait for him? if i do & we end up going out, is he gonna act the same way? i just don't know what to think or do.

help? (link)
maybe they have something different between eachother, and they dont do that kinda stuff around you because:

A: they like their privacy and dont want pricks like you goin around sayin shit about them
B: they're shyer and just enjoy being together & doing those kinda things
C: hell maybe their mutated snuffuluffages and they enjoy mingling their snozzlehooffers together when their alone because their embarrassed.


15/f. there is this one guy that i really want to go to the freshman dance with. we sit next to each othe rin science class and we have a lot of other classes together. i just don't know if he likes me. we talk in science but he's also really shy. like he will talk to me but he's not the person to like wave in the hall.

also he is kind've "popular" i hate labels, but i feel like it is neccesary to do it here. his last girlfriend was this really pretty & "popular" girl and they broke up a couple weeks ago. but to me he doesn't seem the popular type. i think that his old gf was the only reason he is popular, plus he's extrememly hot. but if you see him in class he is friends with a lot of guys are can be considered "nerds" and he doesn't dress all hollister like every other guy does. he's just different.

so my question is how do i get him to notice me more?

plus i catch him staring at me a lot during other classes. does this mean anything? (link)
just because he stares at you don't mean squat, i used to stare at goth girls a lot because i was a wierd kid, but that didnt mean i liked him.

i dont care if he's popular and your not, if you dont see him with you, or you dont have a good feeling about it dont worry about it and go on with life.


has anyone or you used the tantowel? i want to buy it and try it but i dont want to if i dont want to if it doesnt work...


Thanks! (link)
only way to get tan is to subject yourself to harmful UV rays and die at the age of 75 of skin cancer, thats my plan, because id rather die "young" than live my life looking like a deformed orange.


Alright im gonna be excercising to lose some weight but a thought occurred to me. i noticed since well im fat (just avergae) that means certain body parts are like big like my thighs for example. well i have a lot of hair all over my body. when i get skinny will the hair on my thighs/upper body start to like fall off or will the hairs move closer to each other and will i start to have thick hair? because since my body structure is gonna change i wonder if my thighs/upper body are either gonna look hairier or less hairier. i would hope it would look less hairier cause i look like a gorrilla. lol (link)
why would it change???


when do you think is the best time to make out?

i feel like i do it too much in the worst situations.. (link)
whenever the hell you feel like it.

if you want to and they want to then why not?


THere is a trend out there I guess its spelled emo. Anyways my son has been talking about it for two years but never really acted on it. Two days ago he started dressing im all black and yesterday he puts on eyeliner. I love my son very much, he has always MARCHED TO HIS OWN DRUM AND IVE ALWAYS SUPPORTED HIM. HE IS MOSTLY ANTISOCIAL AND LOVES MUSIC AND THE COMPUTER...HIS NEW FOUND LOVE IS THE CURE. I JUST WANT TO KNOW MORE ABOUT BEING EMO. NOT TO DOWN HIM BUT TO SUPPORT HIM.....PLEASE HELP (link)
if his life consists of music and computers, dont you think there's something wrong with that? sure he's 11, and he's got time to change, but ask for him to have some friends over, or get invlolved in school yourself to meet some parents and in the long run get your kid a best friend, or someone else to talk to except you....no offense. :)


Ok im 18/f. So ive always been attracted to guys. By that im mean i think guys are really cute. Ive never really had a boyfriend. I had to small things. When i kissed them though i never felt anything. Im dont really have a desiree to date girls but for some reason i like boobs. I like to look at them. i really dont want to be gay, but could i be???? Sorry if this seems strange (link)
hey nothing wrong with that, i like to see some nice titties ever once in a while too

but seriously, your body doesnt pursue the vision of hot or not based on gender as in, it doesnt say oh im gay look at that girls jug's, it says oh would you look at that, or pretty want to touch, its really confusing to some people, but you come to realize it.


18/Female - Okay, i have a dilemma. I haven't had great luck with guys - i've been cheated on, lied and all that. I am currently dating someone right now. We've been dating for a little over a month. He has mentioned that i ask too many questions, and that i say too many stupid things. I don't think i ask too many questions, or say stupid things. Because of my bad luck with guys, i tend to ask questions like "would you cheat on me? do you even like me? where do you see us going?" I've had about six guys all say the same thing - that i'm annoying, and that i need to relax, and just go with the flow cause when i try to hard it ruins the relationship. My current boyfriend just lost his job, so i haven't exactly seen him in a while (few weeks), he gets mad when i mention seeing him, or when i try to help him out. Am i really that bad of a girlfriend? How do i just go with the flow, and not worry about stuff? How do i stop myself from asking too many questions and saying stupid things? (link)
well that sucks, honestly get a nerdy boyfriend, he won't ask many questions, he'll be very quiet, he'll get turned on easily, and if things get serious, he'll be a millionaire when he starts his first major career.


okay, well my mom does pot, and she tries to hide it and stuff, but come on im not stupid ive known for liek ever, anyway that makes me like fucking hate drugs for soem reason, im not saying i havent made mistaks and done it before but thats not the point, but that was only once. anyway, my bestfriend and boyfriend, well do pot every idk not even month or so, and lately just this past week its been like 3 times, and he knows how i feel about it and it hurts me, and i dont want to control him at all, but i dont know what to do, he says he wont do anything after 4.20 from now on...but i mean how cna i talk to him and stuff, or should i just let it go some how? please help. (link)
ask him why he does it. and if you dont like the answer, convince him to stop, if you can't influence him then dump him.

random fact:

did you know that if you eat bacon every day of your life, you have an 80% more chance of developing lung cancer and emphazima than you normally would had you not?


i have only been with two guys. im a female 15. i have never been dumped by a guy but i think my boyfriend is implying that we should break up we dont see each other that much but we talk to each other everyday. hes a very blunt person though. he feels as if he doesnt have a girlfriend..but i do care about him and his feelings. we've only been going out for 1 month but have been talking since january of this year. i know if he doesnt want me then its okay because i can do much better but what can i say to him and what can i expect for him to say to me.

hes already said," dont you think we've been going out for a long time now"
i said no
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well, talk to him? he ISSS your boyfriend afterall and even if he does dump you, big wooop, no one cares. get a new boyfriend who you DO care about, and since you dont think you've been going out with him for a long time, then it shouldn't be a problem because you're not as attached as if you would have been going out with him for a year.


im 15/f. if i find out a guy i like likes me back, i usually lose interest in him. am i not ready for a boyfried or what? its seriously annoying and id love it to stop (link)
well get a big sack of apples, and then give them to me because apple prices went up where i live.

and as for your problem, tell him you're not interested in a boyfriend.


I'm 13.
Me and my bf have been going out for 2 months and total on and off for a year and we havent kissed.
He is a shy guy and the only things he does is put his arm around mea nd hug me everyday. I'm having my 2 best guys friends to talk to him about what he should do to his girlfriend (me) and I dont know if thts bad. But I'm crazy abt him but shoudl i wait for him or just kiss him. PLEASE HELP ME LOTSSSSSSSSSSSSS.
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yeah, and you know what your guy friends are going to say they're going to say "dude your the only prude guy ever, kiss her god damn whats the big deal." you should have told him that yourself, good job.


i burnt the inside of my mouth really bad. it hurts. my mom says i cant go to the docter. i burnt my tounge and the roof of my mouth. i can bearly taste anything at all. i have a really big blister on the roof of my mouth. im afraid itll pop. i keep messing with it its too big and right over my tounge. (link)
suck on an ice cube, duh.


my mom says i dnt love her but i show it in my own way wat do i do?? (link)
responsible.


There's some thing I'm wondering about our body and if you could tell me if you're a professional or if you know for sure before you answer each one then thanks:

Ok Well Asia had a baby and only eats junk food yet she has a beautiful somtache without fat and if she only eats junk food I don't think she excercises. And I remembered anerexia and I was thinking, how could her and other anerexic girl's stomache be skinney like that? When you're starving for long time does your somtache suck in and stay like that and that's how?

Chelsea used to be so huge and to be that thin I can't beleive it. What excercises did she probably do and how long a day did it take her to get her body now? And how long do you think it took her to get her body (years?)

Robin is so old yet she dresses "hip" which is kinda freaky but this last eposode so showed so much of her somtache by wearing a hoodie that goes up to her boobs. What excercises and how long a day would it have taken her to get a somtache liek that?

And I'm looking for excercises that would make me have a flat tummy but won't get abs. I'm a size 1 and I'm not fat but like I guess the word is bloat on the tummy?

thanks! (link)
its not so much as fat, their workouts consist more of running and long, but not so intense workouts, this strips you of your fat, to give you that look, and yes they do this on a day to day basis.


i have a short tongue, and whenever i hook up with a guy i feel like i'm not good at it because i can barely even get my tongue in his mouth. what can i do about this?? (link)
well they came out with a new hammer. its really flat and big.

you lay what part of your tounge you can on the kitchen table, and slam the hammer on your tounge really hard and then well, you get a flatter, longer tounge.

if you believe that you can do anything about it, well i think you know what im thinking so im going to assume that you that.


so for 4/20 im hanging out with some friends
basically im not popular but i guess i sorta am i dunno how to explain it.
anyways for 420 me and 3 of my friends are hanging out with a few reaaaaaaaally popular guys which is pretty nice.
i dont want to do drugs becasue thats gross, but maybe drink a little. but i dont wanna get drunk. so i need advice for how to act drunk
and since ive never been drunk before, what if my mom calls i probabaly wouldnt pick up but like if you were drunk you wouldnt be able to answer normlally right?
thanks! (link)
ok, you want everyone to hate you for being fake? then trip over something.

otherwise, you take some drinks or sips or w/e and just go with it, only drunks like drunks, but not even drunks like people who act drunk.


this kid, Max, and i are pretty good friends. well he has a girlfriend, Jane. well, there's a dance this weekend that has a reputation of a little of dirty business going on there (that i'm going to). well he was like saying how i'm such a s*** for going to it, and people only go there to have sex with clothes on and he kept calling me a s***. he pretended he was joking but idk if he was. then he was like why are you going to it and i said something like "im just trying to have fun what happens there stays there" or something, and then he radnomly said "omg i wanna make out with my girlfriend soooo bad". it was weird. what could he mean by all this? why is he acting that way? (link)
well either he:
A. wants your attention because he likes you
or
B. He's an ass and should be clobbered over the head with a shoe.

and i dont see this kid every day, so between the two, i wouldnt know.

clobber him over the head with a shoe any way, thats always funny. :)


okay well i talked to my b/f today. and he did the normal hey i gotta go. and i told him to wait. i asked him what was wrong. and i wanted the truth. at the same time i heard his dad ask if is was well lest call her lily. my b/f said no it was megs. and i asked who "lily" was. and he said listen we need to talk. and all of a sudden my heart sunk. he goes megs ive been cheating on you with "lily" and i started crying and i asked him for how long. and he said a month ago. i asked him how. and i asked him if he still was. he said he broke up with her. and that it would never happen again! so my question is....should i break up with him?!
cause i kno im only 14 but i feel like i love him. and he told me he loved me.
so should i? (link)
shooooooooooooooot that sucks.

get a new boyfriend, this man is going to be a trashman when he grows up. but dont worry, he'll be pickin up your trash when your vacationing in hawaii, because he'll spend all his money to move to hawaii with lily, so lily can be with her family. so dont forget about him, cause when your on spring break in hawaii your senior year in college, you'll see him pickin up his trash and his lily bitching him out. :)

seriously any girl whose had a bf cheat on them, believes that it's only going to happen again.


My boyfriend and I just recently started having sex, and we were both virgins before hand. I had given him handjobs before and he fingered me, and he only lasted a few minutes when i gave him a handjob. I heard that when a guy first has sex with a girl, he doesnt last very long. My boyfriend lasted about 2 minutes. Is that normal? If it is, then how long will it take for him to last longer? Is there any way I can help him last longer? (link)
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