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how do i keep my vagina clean?...not smelly

wash it.. soap and water..
there are some products you can buy in the stores.. but in all actuality its not that bad - guys dont notice..

if you feel that bad about it talk to your doctor alone.

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does anybody know which sport is best for working the tricep muscles, or the arm muscles in general?

swimming.. or even soccer if you play goalie

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Ok,I'm a guy that has always liked women's clothes.And am finally starting to go out dressed,but I really need some help with fashion....like what are the best placeses too shop and what are some clothes that I should have to start a basic wardrobe?? I already have a few skirts....black,gray and deninum. What will I need for spring and summer?? also what about shoes ?

well - im not sure about your mall or anything..
but go out with a few girl friends and just go shopping:)

if your a teen - mid 20's try abercrombie, hollister, american eagle, wet seal, pac-sun ..

for shoes - its summer. flip flops :) always ones that match your outfit.

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two year old is left with babysitter cries when mother leaves and continues to cry during the day, wont drink or eat, always quiet and to herself.

consult a doctor..
or maybe the baby just doesnt like to be around strangers

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my b/f is such a jerk he only cares about himself. He calls me names and screams at me. He used to push me around. I can never be mad im always the wrong one. He allways says the meanest things. I go through so much at home and he dont care he still calls me names and says he hates me.

wow. get rid of him. no one deserves to be treated like that.

"I can never be mad im always the wrong one" - even if.. he shouldnt treat you like that. EVER.

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how dose it feel to have sex i never had it but i want to try it?

well, you shouldnt just want to try to have sex.. having sex is a huge deal and share it with someone you love and want to share that moment with.

as for feeling.. it all depends on your body - everyone is diffrent.. its diffrent for everyone.

some girls may bleed the first time.. and some may not. in teenager terms its called popping the cherry. im not sure about more literal terms. however, some say they get an orgasam the first time..some dont. its diffrent with everyone.

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hi well i just broke up with my ex about 2 going on 3 months and he quit school the day after we broke up well his bestfriend and him is saying that i am bisexual and i need to leave his sister alone b/c i dont need her or something like that. well my boyfriend now got told about it and now he dont know who to believe i never wrote a note about saying stuff like that what shhould i do i think he is trying to ruin my life at school he is physco and nuts well get back with thanks

uMm.. okay? well tell someone about it maybe a counclor so then maybe the problem can get resolved

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Hey, Okay I really want a boyfriend.. I mean I know how to flirt and stuph... but uhh is there any other ways to like get a guy?

okay... well if you really want a boyfriend then go for it! just because you think you know how to flirt it may not be the right way. dont be too forward and dont be all dressing slutty. dress nice and be sweet. find out things he likes to do. and just be yourself. dont go out there searching for a bf..and getting one just because - get one because you like him and want to be with him.

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hey can anyone help me? i am 13/f there is this guy at my school who i really like and think he is totally hot and cute and sweet and nice. he is all i think about and i am always talking about him to my friends. but the problem is he ignores me and is annoyed by me but i really just wanna be friends right now but he won't even talk to me anymore!!!! can anyone tell me how to get his attention? i need some help!!!! thanks so much!!!!
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well if you annoy him then best bet is to stay away from him.. haha. try to find out what hes into and start a conversation with him. be nice and ask him his sn..and talk to him there..maybe ask him to the movies or just to hang talk to him and dont be too forward. form a friendship before relationship.

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well i think im really in love and at the movies this guy that i'm gong out with touched my boobS and i think it was by acident. but than he did it again but he sqizzed them and .. i liked it . than he touched my pussy... and when i say this i mean he went into my pants and fingerd me during a movie than we started making out. He soon took me out of the movie and we had sex. i'm 13!
i'm a A/B student i have lots of freinds and i'm a good girl. (When this happined 3 weeks ago, i hadn't even had my 1st kiss yett... so that made it ever weirdr)
wut should i do?

uMM.. wow moving kind of quick? what do you mean what should you do. its done and over with.

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im 13 and ive never had my period but ive ad the white stuff that comes before it for like 2 years. is this normal? and how long after the white stuff does your period come? thanks a lot.

haha - just cause your 13 doesnt mean you should have your period. everyone starts at a diffrent time in their life.

edit:: yes it isnt called cum. it is discharge. guys call it cum - cause their retarded. who ever yelled at me back the fuck off. i was trying to help. its normal for girls to do that..and it doesnt matter if you have done that for awhile. it may still occur after having your period aswell. periods suck. its just another thing you have to deal with. :(

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I heard that when a girl masterbates, she sticks things up her vagina. Like what? I dont really understand that.

uMm.. okay you must be kind of young if you havent heard of this. when a girl masterbates she uses her fingers to please herself. its hard to explain.. haha go online and look it up!

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oh well my friend has this really great boyfriend. and i think i might be jelous..but i dont know. she knows that i thinks hes cute/hot and i promised her i would never go out with him jsut for her. but im knida jelouse of her. what can i do? thanks!

its alright to be jelious - yah i have tons of friends with hot bf's and i have a bf of my own.. so what! as long as you dont break a promise. its alright to look but dont touch:) find a cutie of your own.

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Ok well theirs to boys.. The one ive been on and off with since last february.. And we've been threw everything you can image together.. He was my first serious boyfriend and we did everything for each other.. But one day he cheated on me.. And its been about 2 months and every since then he's been denying it .. But i know he did and i know he just didnt want me to know but for the past 2months he;s been telling me he loves me and is sorry for everything.. Last night we went for a walk on the beach :) And he told me he loved me and cared about me and i know he wasnt lying.. And one of my xbfs Dan likes me again dont get me wrong i still care about him and what not but dan is taking me to prom and i didnt tell the other one.. and he said if i ever get back with dan he is never talking to me again.. But im deff. going to prom but i dont want to hurt dan because last time i left him for my other boyfriend.. which is the first guy i was talking about.. Should i just tell the first one im going to prom with dan and see how he reacts.. and see what happends from then on?! please help...

huMm.. kinda confussing - i think you should go to prom with dan and have a good time and not worry about what the other guy thinks. it was his mistake for cheating on you and now he is paying the consequence from it. dont feed in to his sorrys. most guys that do cheat on girls do it because their looking for better ((sorry to say)) or peer pressure. if we was looking for better, or she really pressured him into doing it.. it was STILL his decision in the end to go through with it or not. therefor, no matter how sorry he is CHEATING ISNT ALRIGHT. EVER. simple as that. i personally think you should tell the 1st guy how it is and have fun with dan. :)

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i've had a "friend with benefits" for almost a year now. we didnt really have feelings for eachother but now i have feelings for him and im the one who got attached. i don't know if i should just continue being fwb or i should stop because of my feelings? Whats the best thing to do?

first off i personally feel that fwb is so wrong. if your going to do stuff with someone i mean even kissing you should feel some kind of emotion for them. i personally dont agree with that ONE BIT! but, if you feel this way tell him/her that your begining to feel some feelings for them. talk about it with them - and then make a decision

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ok my boyfriend and i have been going out for 2 1/2 months and on sunday im going to his house for a couple of hours... ok well we kiss all the time and i want to be able to kiss him in other places. please give me ideas of where guys like to be kissed nothing like head or anything cuz we've both said were not ready for that. thanks bunches

make sure he and you are ready to move on first.
neck - back and ears. guys go crazy...
also ive found that biting gently on the guys lower lip makes them go crazy!:)

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I ahve ben going out with this girl for about 11 months and we both want to do things together but we never have time between school and sports we dont really get to see eachother and her parents are going out next weekend and she'll be home alone should we just do it then or should we wait and not have to take the chance of her parents coming home early and catching us what should we do????

wait. in time all things will happen. dont take the chance of getting caught it sucks. it doesnt really matter how long you two have been together - wait till the time is right. personally i dont think you two should be worrying about not beign able to do stuff because of school and sports. focus on them for now. wait for the summer when you both have more time to really think about whats going on. because once you do stuff you cant take it back.

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ok i have a problem i wrote this embarssing email to my friend and i told him stuff lik i lik him and really ambarissin stuff lik that and i wanted to kiss him i fell lik he doesnt lik and he read and he didnt care but he sent it to his step brother and his step brother sent it to everybody in my class and i said some stuff bout a couple of them and i didnt want them to no how much i acctually liked him and i dotn no wat to do i really wanna cry im so upset plzz help

well theres not that much you can do. it was your decision to send this email to this guy and him being a jerk ((so you shouldnt like him after this)) sends it to his bro then to the class.. not cool at all. seek some kind of revenge ;-) haha

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Is it ok to date a second cousin, through marriage?

date yah im sure thats fine.. but marry - thats a diffrent story. dont committ yourself too much - thats kinda gunna be weird in the end.

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My friend is thinking of committing suicide what should I do?

get her help imeditally! suicide isnt something to play around with. i should know i have tried in the past.. and i have lost someone that did indeed go through with it.
contact her parents asap and tell them whats going on, he/she may hate you but in the end its saving his/her life and a life is so precious and valuable.
if your afraid to call them or contact them yourself tell your parents and ask them to contact his/her parents.

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