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there are 2 girls that im torn between
one ive known longer
and one ive known for a month and she is crazy about me! idk which to choose!
:O
im a 15 year old guy btw


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Well it depends, Which girl would you want to get to know more? I mean yeah with the girl that you've known for a while you might know some things about her but not as much as you might think.
Which girl would you want to spend more time with? Which girl do you have more in common with? think about these things and it shouldnt be that hard to figure out.

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So I need help for when I next dye/cut my hair =D
I currently have this:
http://img269.imageshack.us/i/img4277e.jpg/

But, I loved my hair before
Which looked like this:
http://img17.imageshack.us/i/img3915n.jpg/

So, shall I have a full fringe or keep it as a side fringe?
& should I keep it red or dye it black?
Thanks :D

I really like the black, longer hair, with the bangs better. It makes your eyes stand out. I think if you did the black and then had like one streak on each side of blond it would be really cute =]

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I was going to buy some groceries yesterday and carrots were on the list. I went to the produce section to choose my carrots and found a sign that said some of them (slightly more expensive, by the way) were organic. I've been seeing "organic" on more products lately and was curious what exactly that meant. I just know somebody here on Advicenators knows :)

Organic is just a healthier way of growing things, So when they are growing them they dont put anything in the soil to make it grow faster or anything. and there is nothing added to the produce after it has been grown.

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does anyone know of any good message text tones/rings for your phone on myxertones.com? I have been looking for one that is short (for text message alerts) because I have the xenon and my choices are really annoying haha. Thanks!

Well it depends on what type of music you listen to. Hit up my inbox with the music you listen to and i can give you some ideas =]


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I am bi sexual and my gf got mad last night because I was drunk and hugged an old guy friend. She got mad and was like how would u feel if I did that to you. But she goes to her exs all the time and I have went there before too because my gfs roomate used to live with her and there kids like the ex but my gf will come back and her ex has bough her cigs or something and is always wantin her to come over and drink usually my gf doesnt but its realy eatin me up and its causing a lot of tension between us what do I do? I dont wanna lose her

Talk to her. Tell her to look at how jealous she got when you hugged a guy. Then tell her to think how she would feel if you were talkin to your ex all the time, and hangin out with them and everything.

I know this might be hard to bring up, but things are better said than kept from eachother. Communication is the biggest key in a relationship i promise.

And once you guys talk and get everything cleared then you know what makes her mad and she knows what makes you mad. This way hopefully it wont happen again.

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ummm lol i don't know if this is in the right category or not but.. 14 F

Do guys like girls to have shaven pussy's or the hair doesn't really bother them? I was wondering...

What razor would you use to shave "down there"

thanks!

Well it depends on they guy. If your close enough with him to be doing stuff with him, ask him what he would prefer.

Just use a regular razor and shaving cream.

For the first while make sure you shave down too or you might get some narly razor burn!!


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I really want to tell my boyfriend how much he means to me but I'm really nervous about it. I suck at expressing my feelings and I don't want it to come off as something forced, you know? I just want to let him know that he means a lot to me and that I, well, love him.
I mean, I know he might not feel as strongly about me as I do about him but that's okay with me right now. We haven't been going out too long so I don't expect him to say, "I feel the same way about you!" I just feel like I should tell him what I think about our relationship and how I feel about him...

Is it a bad idea since I'm not good at talking about my feelings or is it something that is ok?

Well since for one you say your not very good at expressing your feelings, and for two you guys havent been dating that long. You might want to wait on telling him how you feel. I mean you can tell him cute little things here and there, but dont come out and confess your love for him just yet.

To be honest, it will scare most guys away. So be really careful with what you say.

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there is this boy that i really like at my schooland he knows i like him due to my friends telling him but i dont really mind tbh it was just a crush at first but now i dont just fancy him i love him but i am scared to tell him how i feel incase he just laughes at me and when i speek to him on msn he never replys what should i do ??

13/f

Maybe before you confess your feelings to him, you should start hanging out and talking to him a little bit more. If he doesnt IM you back then maybe he doesnt feel like he knows you enough to talk to yor, or there could be a lot of other reasons.

Start talkin to him, maybe hang out a few times, and then ask him how he feels about you. Then if he likes you, you can take it from there.

Need anything else, feel free to go to my column and ask me personally.

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16/F

I'm tired of being the nice girl that everyone steps on; I want to change. But how do you just stop caring what everyone else thinks?

I go out of my way trying to please everyone and if someone doesn't like me it's all I think about, and i'll do just about anything to try to get into their good graces. I just hate when people don't like me.

How do you just not care what people think? How do you get over the petty girls in high school who hate you for non-existent reasons and just live your life and be who you are, regardless of who hates you for it?

I know exctly how you feel and it finally took someone to completly push me over the edge before i started not caring anymore. I dont know you or how you are so you might be able to stop yourself before you get hurt bad enough. Just have confidence in yourself and just try to ignore the people that dont like you (your never going to be liked by everyone no matte how hard you try) Just be you and the people that are in your life are there for a reason and the people that arent, dont worry about them because they have nothing better to do than to make you miserable.

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If you need anything else feel free to go to my column and ask me personally.

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I feel like an outsider sometimes with this. Like I absolutely love death metal, heavy metal, and various other kinds of metal. Then I can deeply enjoy country, pop, punk, and rap. I like everything and people call me weird because I like metal, like Chimaira and In Flames kinda metal, then switch the song to pop like Taylor Swift, or Katy Perry.

Is this weird? What do you think?

I dont think this is weird at all. I do the same thing. You listen to whatever your in the mood for. There are all different types of music for all people. Dont worry about what other people say. it doesnt matter. music is for your pleasure not theirs.


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i kinda feel like i complain all of the time!
and it drives people nuts.
how can i stop complaining?
and just be happy with who i am?
and my life?

Try to look at things from a different point of view. If something bad happens dont get down just tell yourself that it happened for a reason. If your going to work and your not in the mood, tell yourself it will be a fun day, because if you go in with an attitude that your day is going to suck, it will suck i promise. So just try to have a different view on everything.

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Why are some people so afraid of commitment?

Some people have been hurt bad enough that evertime they think about commitment it really scares them. And some people are just happier playin around and not really bein tied down to anyone. Not being tied down is a lot less drama and a lot less tears.

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my boyfriend and i's one year annivarsary is ina week and im not sure what to get him. i have $70 left to spend. i was thinking about getting him a guitar but i cant find a cheap yet good one. shud i get him that or somethin else? he does concerts and is amazing at many different instruments so i dont wana get him a beginners one. i also wanted to customize it, like write on it or draw since he loves my art but what shud i write? we really love eachother and he goes threw soo much for me just an example, i have had cancer and ben hospitalized so many times for bein psycho and it hurts him so bad as hes ben with me threw it all.. we're both 15 nearly

It sounds like you really care for eachother. And you know what sometimes something that is little, meaningful, and cheap means a lot more than something that is expensive. Think of some of your guys's inside jokes, and make something to resemble it.

For example my ex was really stubborn and we were talking on the phone one night and we were laughing and i told him i was gonna buy him a can of unstubborness. so for christmas i got a can and made my own label that says "can of unstubborness" it sounds cheesy but he loved it.

So something as simple as that can mean a lot more than anything you can buy. But maybe you could go around to some yard sells or something and find an old guitar that you could fix up with your artwork and i bet he would love it.

Hope i helped =] if you need anything else feel free to ask again.

Good luck!!!

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My friend can get on my last nerves. Anything exciting I tell her s do she has to have something exciting all of a sudden too, she is also a pretty big liar.How do I solve this.

A lot of people do this. Its because they always want to be better than you, they always want you to think that they are the best. I have had friends that have done this and im sure everyone has too. There isnt really anything you can do about it, just kinda ignore them and hope they stop, or if you want you can even say something to her about it. Try not to be too harsh though.

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What exactly is taking a break from a relationship? Like what goes on during it?

Usually a break means you guys take some time apart from each other. Sometimes you see other people and other times you just take time.Sometimes you will get back together and other times you wont. Just make sure you guys talk about this first, cause if you end up seeing other people and thats not what they did it can end badly.

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It's this boy at my scool that likes me, and I want to go with him, but he flirts with a lot of girls.

Talk to him. Tell him that you like him but your not down with him bein a flirt. And if he wants to be with you then he has to stop flirting with girls. I know this might sound harsh but if he does quit flirting with girls you know he cares about you and if he says i dont wanna stop flirting then you now he wasnt worth your time anyways.

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Do you usually use Maxi Pads or Tampons? And do you know any kinds that work good?

I use tampons. In my opinion they are more comfortable and make life a lot easier. I have tried many different brands but i usually just go with kotex easy glide. They even have ones now that you can sleep with them in.

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I'm having trouble coming up with things to talk to a girl about. Could someone give me a list of conversation ideas?

Talk about your interests, favorite bands, movies, food,sport all that stuff just get to know each other. hopefully after that it will get easier to carry on a convo.

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how do you know if a girl like you?

With girls its generally pretty easy to tell if they like you, they will laugh at your jokes and play around with you,and always text you and just act happy around you.


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I am going into eighth grade this coming school year and I can either go to a school where my beach house is while my house gets redone (I am going to be living in my beach house either way) or go to the school in the town i am in now, 30 min away from my beach house. i dont have many friends but i am starting to make some. i dont know which school to go to. advice??

well staying at the place your in is never a bad thing... but if your just barely making friends there it might be better for you to go to this new school and start over, That way no one knows anything about you and you can be whoever you want. and make a lot of new friends that you can go into high school with.

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