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I have a question about points on my license. I've consulted Google, but I can't find the answer.

I've been pulled over three times. Twice in New Mexico and once in Arizona.

I got one ticket in New Mexico where I have a permanent residence, and one ticket in Arizona where I go to college.

The ticket in New Mexico was last December and the cop didn't mention any points on my license. Do they have to mention that?

When I got pulled over this past week in Arizona the cop said I would have three points on my license unless I did a four hour online driving class.

So I guess my question is, if I had gotten points on my license in NM would he have told me? And do points from different states combine?

Or do they stay separate? If I have no points in New Mexico and I went back and got another ticket during a holiday break, would they be added to my AZ points?

Thank you!!

Also, do these things show up in pre-employment background checks? (link)
With how thorough back ground checks are now a days, it may or may not show up on your pre-employment BG check. The tickets will for sure, no doubt about that. As for the points, I believe they add up on your license no matter what states they were issued in. Cops do not have to mention it, as I've noticed with experience *a friend of mine ended up losing their license without any prior notice, from tickets in different states* If you wish to know about the status on your license, your best bet would be to go to your local DMV/BMV *varies from area to area, Dept. of Motor Vehicles, Bureau of Motor Vehicles* and they should be able to tell you. Too many tickets *I can't remember how many it is, or how far/close apart they have to be* and you could end up with a suspended license. So drive safely, carefully, and make sure your car is in proper working order, because you CAN get a ticket for having a bad light.


Leah, 16, Female

I met this boy through school, but now we have been seperated and moved to different colleges. He was a great friend back then, but this year since we have left school, I have kind of fell for him, it's like he has got everything I am searching for, everyone has that type they picture in their head, don't they? Well it is him, sometimes he will be like "i love you" he always texts me everyday FIRST with out fail, he uses the words "babe" sometimes too. I am really confused because whenever I say something cute/sweet he goes all weird and like, changes the subject or ignores me for a while. I have tried to hint that I like him a lot, and he kind of fell out with me, he wouldn't text back, until i had to force him to tell me what i had done. I don't know what to do? I don't want to just come out and say I like him, he is going to get freaked out, I hardly ever see him in person because we don't go to the same school anymore, if he didn't like me in any way he wouldn't text me everyday first witihout fail. He wouldn't be all flirty and cute, right? (link)
Sometimes it's just the guys personality. Some guys flirt with everyone, while other's only flirt with the one they fancy. Honestly, I found that being straight forward is more effective than never saying anything. If you are worried about your friendship with him, make it simple. "I like you, a lot, but if you aren't into me that way, please don't make a big deal out of it, I also value our friendship as well." etc etc. Or however you would put it. As for him texting and flirting everyday with you, honestly, I don't know him or how he is with other girls. Like I said previously, some guys are like that with all girls while others, only one they fancy. The only way you'll ever truly know is if you ask him and/or tell him.


Can i girl pop a cherry by using a tampon? (link)
No. The hymen is a flexible enough to allow a tampon to safely go in and out during your menstrual cycle. I have never heard of anyone breaking their hymen due to insertion of a tampon.


Hi!soo, long story short my ex bf(15, I'm 14) broke up with me a couple months ago, we were on and off since march this year, we had been friends since we were 7/8, I have to see him every week though, the thing is, I still love him. The last break up(we had broken up 4 times) went really well because the one before it I had really lost it, I acted almost happy though when he did it last. Problem is, is that he thinks he's a player, he's not(lol), but in a way he kinda is (if that makes any sense>. (link)
A relationship like that doesn't sound as though it would be very enjoyable honestly. Always breaking up, get back together again later, only to break up again? I would suggest *it will be tough* that you just get over this boy. You will find someone who is yours, and won't leave you over some stupid reason. You don't want to be in a relationship where he'll be with you when he wants, leave you when he finds someone else that interests him, then leave them for you again... Only for the cycle to continue. This doesn't mean you two can't still be friends, of course. You can still hang out and talk, but it just doesn't seem as though you two were really meant to be together. Especially with all the problems *to me, constantly being left is a problem*. If you do decide though, that you want to be with him, then just tell him flat out. Tell him you still care a lot about him, and if he does actually care about you, he'll be with you and stay with you without constantly dumping you. You can only be honest and straightforward at this point.


hello internet,im a 13 year old girl and im bisexual.yes im sure,and im proud.ive always liked girls,but guys are attractive to me as well.my parents are divorced,and my mom is bisexual as well but never really dates or has sex with women.my dads a racist anti-gay kinda guy.only 2 people know,by bff who is also bi,and my friend who ive known forever.do not want to come out for a while.but my mom has obviusly thought i am gay before,and in a way i am.shes had her suspicians,and vervbalized them to mke in a delicate manner,and now i dont know if i should tell her or what soon.how can i bring this up?shes accepting as anyone i know,but still hard to talk to.i live in an anti gay town where it is NOT acceptable whatsoever.how should i bring this up?how can i ask anyone out if i love both sexes?how akward can i get?????? (link)
Well, if you are too nervous to bring it up yourself, wait until your mother brings it up again and just tell her that you are interested in both genders. It's truly nothing to be afraid or ashamed of. Especially now a days since it seems that everyone is bisexual or bi-curious. I feel that it is a good thing to explore possibilities, because who knows, perhaps in the future you may end up with a preference of a certain gender over another. If she doesn't bring it up again, then take your time. There's no rush to tell her about your preferences/orientation. Regardless of what you tell her, she'll still love you, since you are her baby. You'll tell her when you are ready.


Hi, i believe im struggling with depression. i think i've had this for about 2 years now.
when i was younger i used to tell myself that i will never smoke and i didn't understand why people smoke such stinky stuff. however tonight, i just smoked 3 cigarettes in one sitting by myself. and now im craving for another.
i have trouble sleeping at night and during the day, i refuse to wake up and go out of the house. i've become a recluse and im missing classes.
a while ago, a friend slept over at my house and i guess she was trying to make small talks so she asked 'tell me your happy memories'. such a simple question, but i just stared at her and couldnt even get a word out. when she fell asleep a while later, i went out of the house and cried.
i have nights when i will just cry unconsolably. i'll just listen to slow songs, switch off my lights and lay on the floor in total darkness and cry.
fortunately, i've never contemplated suicide. not once. but when i see cars, i imagine them hitting me and that thought makes me happy? im not sure if that is suicidal thoughts, but i always think that if an accident were to happen to me, i would be fine with it.
i think that i do have depression at this moment, but i've never asked for help. i dont think my friends here know that i have these moments. i know i should ask for help or ask people what to do, but for some reason my pride or ego or whatever stops me.
in my college, there is a counselling service, but it requires you to make an appointment due 2 weeks later. i've applied for it tons of times, but by the time 2 weeks have come by, i will usually have talked myself into not having depression etc.
i know why im struggling with this, and i know what i need to do, but for some reason, i just cant muster the will to do anything.
thank you for reading this. i just need someone to tell me that i am strong enough to hang on and im okay. (link)
No matter how hard things get, everyone is strong. They just have to find where their strength lays. There's nothing wrong with not being afraid to die, it just means you've accepted what will eventually come to everyone. Life is short enough as it is, don't you agree? So there is no need to shorten it any more than it already is. As for your happy moments, I'm sure you have them, as I believe everyone does. The only problem is.. is that everyone counts all their problems, pains, and sufferings, and are too caught up in that, that they never stop and count their happiness and joys. If you feel sad and want to cry, it's alright. I believe it helps alleviate some of the stress and burdens you bare if not all of it. As for the counseling, if is entirely up to you. It may not hurt to have someone to talk to that won't judge you, or get overly worked up about how you're feeling. You are strong, just seems you yourself need to believe it. So believe it, and yourself.


I have tried everything! From industrial jobs to hospitality jobs. I have made enemies, not friends. When I think I have made a friend, the end result is the opposite. I have asthma, and had no chance of fighting back physically. I have read books til I could not read anymore about verbal judo. Verbally fighting back only to get into deeper trouble. I have a small frame for a male. I can only conclude I should have never been born. I am part of the mainstream of gossip. I have worked with people that moved up the corporate ladder only to ruin me socially and mentally. The mental toll is getting to the same height as a mountain. I have gone to one of the best anger doctors in my province only the end result was this medical professional told me off verbally. No hope. I try not to stare at couples holding hands, countless sunsets watching them. I always say to myself, "why not me?". Then I am back into fear, alienation, gossip, my thoughts come back, and I find the reasons. The people in my past even the few ladies I was with I cherish those small moments. Not many but in the cold winter I hold on. I pray to God to end my life every time I am at an intersection I ask, 'when is it my turn to get hit by a truck?', and bleed to death. No one would care if I don't exist. What do I do when every one I meet I have turned to salt, and I feel they are turning me into rust? In my forties, can't procreate, it is too late, lost my father to cancer. I drank heavily after he died trying to kill myself, but, got pulled back into another bad corner with a new job. Making new enemies. I can't believe these young girls and the idiot guys they go with. These young girls with the tight hot bodies they have giving sex away when my group had to incur so much responsibility to get a girl that is in the world now below average. It is the wrong step on the wrong foot going in the wrong direction. It never stops. If you think Canada is easier, it is tough. I even tried to lie to get in the army in 2001 and got kicked out politely. The mental toll is mounting and drugs don't agree with my body, funny I plan on killing myself through sleeping pills after my mother dies in a few years. Parents had over fifty years of marriage. Most couples that long die from heart break. At least they have had someone. I spent over four thousand on dating services and failed because of 'Word of Mouth',(WOM). I have tried or thought some people have helped me, but didn't and this includes professional people. That word 'Professional' should say next to it 'Do Not Trust At All'. They have said that WOM is not true and not to believe everything. I am telling you, if people talk about you, through visual contact, pointing in groups in public places, it is true, you are pillow talk like me. I am asking what do you do? I have tried everything. I have given up drinking over hundred times, but, for how long, til your nerves are done, so how long? I keep thinking of the film, 'Pump Up The Volume', in 1990, how simple everything was back then, no gas price problems, problems were less. I still had my hair back then, how time flies, so how do I change and make it better and not kill myself? How? Tell me? I have tried to reach out to family only to find family have given up and family can simply give up. Many of the good ones in my family are dead. I cling to old X-File episodes to get a glimpse of the old cars in the background to take me back for a few seconds, few seconds of peace, few seconds to a different decade called the nineties. When I use to dance with girls, kiss them, and when I use to matter, now I don't, suicide, being a Catholic is wrong. Is God watching me anymore, or did God turn the other cheek many years ago? On all of us? Is there anything after God, after my father passed, my answer is "No"! I didn't find anything. Maybe suicide isn't wrong, just depends how you do it. In public or in a hotel room, peacefully. So what mix of chemicals does it right? Let me know! (link)
No matter how hard and painful life gets it's never worth giving up on. When did you lose your faith in humanity and hope in the world? I was born an unwanted child, grew up with severe physical and mental abuse, but honestly, what didn't kill me, really did make me stronger. I suffered from asthma for the longest time. But when I took up martial arts, it truly helped me. It made my heart and my lungs stronger, have you considered starting martial arts? Tai Chi is a good way to start off. It helps alleviate stress as well as strengthen your mind, and body. Many people believe that other eras were easier and better off, but if you really look at it, no era was. There has always been pain and suffering. As for what you have gone through, I am truly sorry it was painful, but perhaps what you are going through is just God's test for you, to see if you truly have faith in him and his plans. I'm not religious, but I know the stories. But honestly, if someone is truly bent on.. ending their life, no one can stop them, as it is the persons own choice. I do want you to know though, that taking pills will be painful, regardless of the chemicals mixed and used. There is no truly painless way to die. It will always hurt, whether it is physical or mental, something will hurt. Remember, life is a long fight. We fight for everything, jobs, love.. you name it, we are all fighting. I'm sorry, but it upsets me to see anyone, stranger or someone I know, to give up on something that they only get once. You don't get to live the same life twice, so no matter how difficult it gets, live it as happy as you can. As for what other's think, who cares? What matters is what you think of yourself. I'm not beautiful, I don't have the perfect body that's always being portrayed on television, but I am still happy about who I am, and you should be happy about who you are as well. Life is beautiful, and so is the world. There is pain and suffering, but without those, there can be no compassion. No light without darkness.


well to me it really hurts and is kinda annoying when I try to put in a tampon even a little bit. so im afraid that when I get married and have sex for the first time it'll really hurt. -ps- i like just turned 13 if that helps at all- thank you. (link)
For many, when a female loses her virginity, it does hurt. As your hymen is being ripped. *aka the cherry being popped*. Since you are using tampons, and it hurts, have you considered using the smaller ones? Like the juniors light tampons? They are smaller, so may not hurt as much. If you are using those ones, and it is still hurting, I may suggest you stop using them and wear pads instead *I know they are severely uncomfortable, but at least it won't hurt* Do also consider, if you are not putting them in correctly, this will cause a painful discomfort as well. So just be sure they are in there all the way and properly. I'm not saying shove it in there, but to try putting them in slowly, this may help reduce the pain, if you absolutely do not wish to wear pads. But enough of the how to tips. Yes, when you have sex for the first time, it may or may not hurt. The pain can vary. Some girls I heard talk about it and said they could not stand it and had to stop and try again at a later time, while others said they did not notice any pain. For you, there will be no telling how much or how little it will hurt until you've gotten married and make love to your husband. By the time you get married, who knows, by then it may not hurt as much or anything. Until then, don't worry about it. Sex shouldn't be on your mind right now. If you are using regular flow size tampons though, go for the light flow. You may have to change a little bit more often, but it may make it easier.


my boyfriend and I have that intimate foreplay,he put me into the top of his body,his penis shove into my vagina without put it in inside,untill we both reach the climax.is it possible for me of getting pregnant? (link)
If he penetrates you (puts his penis into your vagina, though I'm already sure you know this) and he or you are not wearing protection, and he climaxes inside of you, even just on the outside of your vagina, you can get pregnant. Though it would be a bit more difficult to get pregnant with his sperm on the outside, but if you got wet, it makes it easier for the sperm to swim up and reach your uterus. Even pre-cum has the possibility of impregnating a woman. If you do not yet wish to get pregnant yet, I would suggest you either get put on birth control, or have him use a condom. Though they are not 100% effective, it'll still decrease the chances of you getting pregnant. Or instead of him putting it near your vagina, why not do other things, such as oral sex? Then you know you will NOT get pregnant at least.


Is there a way to delete an entire thread from Facebook? I know there is a way to delete a certain message in a conversation, but I am looking for a way to delete the entire thread. (link)
Only if you are the original poster of that "thread". There should be an option to "delete this post" in a small drop box, near the top right corner of the post. But as I said, so long as you are the original poster. If not, there is no way for you to delete it. If it's something someone else posted, and it's something that bothers you or offends you in some way or whatever... You could always report it, but I don't know what good that'll do, as they may or may not have the post taken down or whatever.


I want to find out what warrents that i have... all in different states....sooo i would probably need a NCIC lookup!....ANY HELP would be greatly appreciated!
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http://www.arrestwarrantrecords.com/

www.instantcheckmate.com/

www.peoplesmart.com/

These sites will check your record and let you know what you may or may not have. It will more likely cost something, but in the end it will be worth it. Or you could always call every county's clerk in each state... which would take a long time... So one of these sites would more likely be your best and fastest bet.


hello i have a hp pavilion g7 laptop that i purchased a year ago. now it has an annoying virus that comes up and locks the computer when it starts up. i know there is a way to restore it completly or back to a previous date but i cant remember how to do it. i dont have a restore disc. can someone please help? (link)
Have you considered trying any anti-virus/virus removal programs? Some are free, while others do cost money. But in the end, it is totally worth it. If not, to restore computer to a previous date (it is NOT guaranteed to remove the virus though).

One way is being able to get onto your desktop.

1-start
2-accessories
3-system tools
4-restore system
5-choose date and or time
6-restore

If you are unable to get to your desktop, then at the first loading screen (Where you would push F8, F10, F11 etc, depending on computer model)
HP Press the power button to start the HP. Press and hold the F11 key to launch the HP Recovery Manager from the recovery partition. I am not sure if you need the disc or not. It varies. I've never had the need for disc, but I don't know about HP. Best way to know is to try it.
I would also suggest you get an anti-virus/virus removal program. Avast anti-virus has always been wonderful for me, and one version is free. BUT, it really depends on what you would most prefer to use.
You can look online, as I am sure there are plenty of sites out there to help you in this situation.
Good luck. Hope this was helpful.


How to stop my habbit of gambling.I have lost all my earning&saving.I started thinking of borrowing money.
I could'nt work and sleep well.Yor advice is much appreciated (link)
Many people think of gambling and the inability to stop is an addiction. You keep thinking "This is it, I'm finally going to win this." But in the end, you lose everything. Go get help. There are places out there to help people with these types of addictions. I mean, think about it. You blew all of your savings and earnings, and are now even considering "borrowing" money from friends/family. You may never be able to pay them back, and in the end, losing not only your money, but theirs and them. Gambling is like drinking, it's alright, in moderation. Too much, and you could end up causing a lot of damage to yourself and others.


Hi I am from Dubai. My bf and I have been together for 3 years. I am 24 and he is 23. But he didn't want to tell anyone. I didn't either for I don't like the publicity of the thing. I quickly realized that I wouldn't ever get to know any of his friends. The ones he had here were my friends too. Other than one friend of mine, nobody else knew. His pals back home, to this day, I don't think have a clue that he has been seeing me, or anyone, for 3 years. He knows all my friends, their lives, everything. To me, he was my best friend, my confidante, more than anything else. And I was glad to share it all with him. But he has often told me when I ask about his friends or wanting to meet them, that "they're my friends. Why do you want to meet them? MY friends, get it?"
Obviously I found that weird. I wanted him to accept me into his life, as an important part, a part that people he cares for, know about. And he didn't want to do that at all. He has never, so far introduced me to any friend of his via phone or mail or in person. He tells me things about his family though and I like that. He tells me funny stories about his parents and about his relatives. They don't know about me either, and I get that. What I don't, is why he hasn't ever told a friend of his about me? Is he ashamed of me? Whats wrong in my asking to meet them? If I bring it up, he gets annoyed and it leads to a war of words which I would rather avoid. I've asked him numerous times, but he always says no. So somewhere along the way, I gave up and stopped asking.
We moved in together for about 8 months when I was trying to get a place of my own to stay. It was good in the beginning and we had a lot of fun. But around 4 months into it, we started to fight. I would just be talking, asking about his day and he starts getting annoyed and it usually ended with him telling me to move out and leave him alone. Naturally, it upset me a lot. He's not the sort of person who displays his emotions quickly. The good ones atleast. He rarely compliments me, even more rarely do I get a show of affection from him, leading me to perpetually question if I'm just dreaming up that he really loves me. I realized I was in love about a year into being with him and I told him so, frightened and scared that he would say he doesn't feel that way. What he did, was not say anything at all. Just a "hmm" from him. Due to this, I would say 'those 3 words' when I really meant it and I've kept it to a minimum. Every time I hope he'll tell me that he loves me too, but nothing has come of it so far.
Another thing we keep fighting about is space. Space and time. He didn’t want to see me at all in between. He said he was having too much of me being around. He wanted his space and time and privacy to do his own things. When I got my own place, things took such a turn that I was relegated to seeing him only on Sundays after about 4 pm till around 10 at night, when I had to go home. Essentially my down time with him was whittled down to about 6 hours a week and some weeks go by without me and him seeing each other at all, because he has work on Sunday mornings (which as a fact, I know he does) or he’s too tired or lazy. He doesn’t seem to mind. But I miss him and the fun we used to have and of late, it’s like I constantly have to beg him for some of his time so that we can be together. He takes my calling and texting as irritations and tells me to leave him alone for so that he can build his space-time continuum, or whatever.
Sometimes he just outright ignores all my calls and texts even if he is awake and free and tells me that he couldn’t be bothered to go get his phone. This is his regular behaviour and has been for quite some time; so much that I’m used to it and resign myself to the fact that he is either sleeping or not bothered.
I realize the fact that I am quite insecure about my relationships. My previous relationships came to an end due to distances and not any other factor. So I do not know why this is the way I feel. Talking to him about such things is not possible. I have tried and I have told him many times about my insecurities but he doesn’t seem to think it matters. I get jealous of his other girl friends and he gets annoyed. I have told him multiple times to introduce me to them, so that I may not look at them like they’re going to snatch him away from me. He says there is no need, for they are his friends and that he doesn’t interfere in my life and how I behave with my friends. I have always been open and even introduced him to all my friends. He knows about the 2 close male friends I have and every conversation I have with them on the phone, is in front of him. He, however, doesn’t think this way. Every time he gets a call, from a girl, especially, he leaves the room to attend it. I don’t see the reason why he has to do this. If I ask him about it, he says that its none of my business. We have had fights over this and once he explained to me that he knows I get jealous, so he doesn’t want to put me through the pain when I see him speaking to another girl. But if the conversation is normal, what does he have to hide? Won’t it reassure me that nothing is happening and help me get over this attitude? It is my biggest pet peeve that I behave this way and I feel bad about it always, but I cannot seem to help feel.

I realize I have been digressing but I felt you needed to know a little bit about each of us to tell me what to do in the situation I now face.
Recently, one of his family friends moved here. The girl was new to the city. Her parents knew his parents and they both asked him to make sure that if in case she required any help, he would be there to help her. I had no problems. Naturally I understand that it might be difficult for someone staying in a new place for the first time, to adjust to the situation. Everything was A-okay until she began texting and calling him continuously.
In the beginning I understood, but now, it’s been more than 2 months. And she chooses to call him at late night around 11 to 11.30 pm. I stay over at his place some weekends and we will be having an intimate talk or cuddling when the call arrives. And he always picks up the call. He doesn’t let it ring on. He doesn’t cut the call. He picks up and says “Hey I can’t talk to you right now”. I was back from my vacations and had decided to bunk at his place and we were really having a blast after so long and then, the call comes. I got so annoyed and for a change, he actually tried to calm me by holding me and telling me that she was just a friend. He kept talking to me and soothing me. In some time I felt better and ready to let it go, when he started to get irritated. He kept saying “just let it be. I have my friends. I don’t tell you how to run your life. I don’t tell you when or where you can talk to them. Let a man have his time.” I said that tell her to keep her calls during the evening hours, not late at night. He wouldn’t even agree to that. He was all “what if it’s an emergency” and when I asked him why he cares about a random stranger (he had described her to me in precisely those two words); he says “I don’t have a choice. My parents have told me to do this.” It’s not like he’s a model child for others to emulate. There are a hundred instances where he has blatantly not listened to his parents regarding important issues and he listens to them about this?
She texts him all day, all night, she calls and speaks to him almost every day and frankly, it’s getting really annoying. I was wondering if I should call her and ask her to meet me and tell her to ease off on him. But I don’t want to seem like an overly attached controlling girlfriend. He would hate me if I did that, because as I said earlier, no one knows about us and I’m not sure he’s ever going to tell them. If the girl ever tells her folk and his folks get to know about it, I’m pretty sure he would break up with me. I don’t know what to do and its really bugging me. She has started to call him up at work, he deletes all his texts if he ever has to give me his phone. I don’t know what’s going on here but I crazily want to know. I don’t want to be blindsided. Am I being paranoid or over-thinking the situation?

I don’t really want to talk to her, because I don’t want to cross that line. Our relationship is wobbling as it is. And if she tells him…. Please help. What should I do?
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Honestly, if he won't tell anyone that you two are together, what's the point in being together? I mean, when you're with someone, you want others to know, right? I mean, what's going to happen if someday you got pregnant, and he still refuses to tell anyone? I mean seriously. I understand that you love him, and that you want to be with him, but does he really actually feel the same way? 3 years together, and no one knows about your relationship? Doesn't that seem just a little odd to you? Not to mention the deletion of texts, out and in? In my opinion, thats quite fishy. I completely understand that you don't want to lose him, and that he is important to you, but you need to figure out where you actually stand in his life.


i'm a christian... can anyone tell me if masturbation is wrong, or considered a sin? thanks (link)
http://www.acts17-11.com/dialogs_masturbation.html

perhaps this site will help you. I don't know whether it is or not. Though I have heard many things on whether it should be or shouldn't be. I suppose read this and decide for yourself.


18/f

Almost every time I click on a link to a site it redirects to a different site and I don't understand why. I'm growing really annoyed with this and what can I do to make it stop! thanks! (link)
If it is doing this often, you may want to check your system for malware. Sometimes Malware can cause sites to redirect to sites you don't want to go to, or to sites that the malware came from originally.

Also, what kind of browser do you use? Google Chrome, Firefox, Opera, Internet Explorer, Safari? There's a bunch of them out there. Best suggestion, yes, look for a malware detection/removal program. If it was malware, then that should correct the problem.


What are peaceful fast ways to die without a lot of pain, mess or prep? Thank you (link)
There are many ways to do this painfully and "painlessly", but why would you want to do something like that? Every death is painful, unless you pass away in your sleep. Have you tried going to a therapist and getting help? You don't HAVE to take the medications, perhaps you just need someone to talk to. Even a friend willing to listen. Life gets difficult. Trust me, it can get VERY hard, but it doesn't mean you have to give up. It's the pain we go through that makes us strong, and make us truly enjoy the good things in life.


I would like to ask a dermistologist or Someone that knows .
I have scaly skin in my Vagina it is in where the hole is near the pee hole . It's like real ruff a bumpy.really scaly
Am I in trouble ?

I also would like to know about Ferlitity how do you know?
You can get Pregnaut ? (link)
*I'm a body piercer and tattoo artist*

I have done many piercings in my life, even on other women... down there. I have noticed that a lot of women have small bumps around that area. Even I have them. So I am pretty sure some small bumps around that area is perfectly normal. I've even had tests done and everything came back negative.

If anything though, if they hurt, itch or anything, then I would suggest going to a gynecologist and make sure everything is alright. If there is no pain, no strange secretions, no itching, then it's just the normal little bumps that if not every, then most women have. Nothing to be alarmed about.


Hey 17/f

I'm really sensitive. Like the slightest negative thing said about me and I'll cry inside, and when I get home the water works will come on.
I really want to develop a thick skin but don't know how. What does any one else do?! (link)
I was the same way at one point. In time I stopped caring about what other's thought/said about me. The best thing to do, is realize how wonderful/great a person you are, and never accept what anyone else says otherwise.


Why is 'Allalalalalalalalalala" a nice thing to hear in a mosque, a terrible thing to hear in a plane? (link)
It is meant to be a racist, or perhaps anti cultural joke against the Muslims for the 9/11 crisis back in 2001. Who ever told you this joke is stating that "Alalalala" is a nice thing to hear in a mosque, but on an airplane it's not so good. As it is said that the Muslims are the ones who caused the planes to crash into the twin towers.




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