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k so picture day is tommorow, and i have a zit right smack dab on my face, and its so noticable. HELP! (link)
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ahh i know how it feels, deff. sucks. just cover it up with foundation, or maybe if they have that that thing called lifetouch at your school you have to pay alittle extra to do it, they can fix it up in the picture for you. hope i helped :]
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i need to learn how to do a cartwheel, and a backhandspring~ A)because i think it would be really fun to learn how to do it and B)- because its the requirements for cheerleading squad...i didnt make it this year but im trying out next year.. i dont really want to go to a gymanstics place so im trying to teach myself and i pritned out some instructions online but i really need some step by step instructions (remember:im a beginner an im really afriad of getting hurt) i REALLY appreciate your help!!! (link)
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if you go to these two sites they show you full details of how to do both and its easy too :]
http://www.wikihow.com/Do-a-Cartwheel
http://www.wikihow.com/Do-a-Back-Handspring
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WEll this guy liked me last year, and then we broke up because he didn't have time to have a girlfriend (his words) and then we started hooking up a lot right before summer and then when summer came he was like i don't want a girlfriend but I still want to hang out with you and I was SO angry because I don't just hook up with guys for nothing. Only when I like them. so i didn't talk to him during the summer. When school came he asked me why and I was like because i don't want to be the girl you just hook up with. and he's like ohh i guess you're right.. but I still like him and I don't know what to do because I really don't like him sometimes and I know that if we go out it will end up bad like the last time but I Like him!! I don't know what to DOOOOO! (link)
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well i obviously think he doesn't deserve you. sorry hunn but its the truth. he sounds like a pretty desperate player or something, i understand that you like him a lot but if he's the type of guy who wants to just hookup with you, thats just not cool but also pathetic. you know you can do better then him, i'm sure you'll definitely find a better guy then him. hope i helped. :]
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all right, so after he found out I liked him, it turned out he liked me too. but he doesn't TALK to me. and he hasn't looked at me all day. maybe it's cos he's shy, but isn't that pathetic? a little glance in the hallway isn't too scary, is it? augh.
whenever I smile at him, he looks the other way. but the other day, I glanced at him to see he was looking at me, and that was it.
basically, is it cos he's really shy or doesn't like me etc.? thanks! (link)
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you should talk to him, ask him why he doesn't talk to you or whatever. this is not gonna sound good, but he's probably just using you so after you talk to him and things still don't work out or he still doesn't talk to you then you should definitely set him off straight.
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so when i masturbate i can only orgasm if i use a vibrator thing.. like fingering myself doesnt feel good to me at all.. is that normal? (link)
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yes, its normal. everyone has deifferent ways of getting orgasm. most just have to use sex toys and most needs a guy to finger them or whatever go feel good. maybe you're just used to fingering urself alot so you want to try something better. hope i helped :]
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okay so is there any way someone can explain to me how the actual sex thing goes? this guy that i like wants to have sex with me friday night and so i want too but i just need to know what to do.. and dont tell me im to young or shouldnt do it. ill use a condom blah blah blah.. thanks! (link)
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well basically you guys starting out from kissing to making out then you get on top of him and he should finger you or w/e, but if you really want to know how just look up porn videos. srsly it helps alot :]
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I'm going to have sex with my boyfriend. He is a virgin.. and I'm not. I think it's kind of weird like i feel like I'm going to end up being a teacher. How do I go about this? He says that he is ready and how he wants me to be his first. So how should I get this to go well? (link)
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just go slowly, im pretty sure that if he says he's ready then he's deffinitly ready, it doesn't really matter whether someones a virgin or not that makes them ready, i guess it just comes out naturally from them.
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well recently this guy asked me out [in front of a bunch of people from school.] i said yes cuz i didn't want to hurt his feelings again... [ he asked me out on friday but i said no.. :/]
and now i really regret saying yes because i REALLY like this other guy who goes to a different school. And i don't wanna hurt him but i'm not sure what to do. i want to be friends with him really bad but right now i just want to be with one person...
help. please. (link)
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give the boy a chance, you never know when you might get to like him. but if not, then you should break up with him & tell him you just want to be friends .
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Okay, well....I started going out with this guy named Dustin last Friday. Just today, I decided I didn't like him. And I felt like a jerk, because I like a bunch of other guys (im a flirt lol). So I decided to break up with him. I didn't think it was fair to me that I was going out with someone I didn't like, and I didn't think it was fair to him that I liked other guys. So I dumped him. So I like this other really hott kid named Derik. I told some people, because I figure he'll go out with me. Well, Dustin is convinced I'm going to go back out with him. But he's going to hear that I like Derik. I honestly don't know what to do. :( (link)
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give yourself sometime before you go out with anyone else. it'll hurt derik alot if you go out with a new guy after dumping him, and dustin will just have a bad thought about you, so wait it out a little before going out with another guy. :]
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i have this best friend i've been bestfriends with for a while now.
lets say a year or two?
i always feel so bad because she calls herself the ugly duckling.
she's pretty, and guys are really into her.
but for some reason (please dont think this is conceited sounding..)
whenever me and her are together, the guy ends up being into me and not her.
she gets so upset and has creid on my shoulder about it and told me how jealous she is of me.
it's flattering, sure.
but it hurts to see her like this.
now.. the guy she likes.. lets call him "bob."
bob and her have had a thing for a little,
nothing serious though, they never even kissed,
it was just a mutual liking eachother thing.
but now bob texted me and tells me he likes me.
i don't know what to do.
he said he wants to hook up with me and stuff,
but i would do that to my best friend.
he said if she doesnt find out, it really cant hurt her.
i cant even tell her that bob likes me, because i dont wanna hurt her.
when she gets upset about those things she takes it out on me and it makes me cry.
i don't know what to do.
hook up with him or not?
i'm starting to like the guy but that just makes metters worse.
what do i do!? (link)
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this is gonna sound bad but, you should set him off, because your friend WILL find out and she'll think your backstabbing her and not only will it hurt her so much but it will definitely ruin both of your friendship. tell him you just want to be friends. you dont have to tell her that he likes you as long as you arent backstabbing her by leading him on.
hope i helped :]
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How do i know when im ready for a cupped bra size? I wear like those cami-cut off bra things now but everytime i wear a shirt i can see my nipples. Does this mean i should start wear cupped bras??
What's the smallest bra out there??
help me. any answer is greatly appreiciated. (link)
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i think the smallest bra cup size is 34' A or 32' A
:] most girls ages 12 and up is ready for cupped bras.
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omg. i have a singing competition TOMORROW well i have to hand in the form to what song im singing. i have no freaking clue what song i will choose. ive thought of these so far..
Bye bye blackbird - Shirley Bassey
If I ain't got you - Alicia Keys
Over the Rainbow - Wizard of Oz
Fly like a bird - Mariah Carey
Deja Vu - Beyonce (but i cant get all those high notes. the same with the mariah carey song. i cant sing EXTREMELY high like they do, but like at a moderate level i guess)
any other suggestions? seriously give it your best shot cause tomorrow i'll wake up and just choose whichever song you guys pick before i go to school. it means alot to me and its for a teens art festival coming up soon. i think i sing pretty good.. maybe i could practice in front of my parents and friends to see if im good.. im kinda shy about singing around people that arent my family though, too. like usually in chorus people sing super high especially for this broadway musical im in now called Oliver!. sometimes i have to fake sing cause i wanna sound like the other kids and not sing too.. like.. different. my parents are from africa so like.. no offense but i dont really sing like white people (im not racist!!!!!! lol just to make that clear). but like any song sugestions? i guess i'd be an alto.. sometimes i can get a little higher but not too high like da sopranos. thankyou!
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if i aint got you :)
good choice for you
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whats a moderator? (link)
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the creator of a site or the owner, something like that
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my friend ashley wants to be a 9th grader so bad even though we are only 8th graders she used to hang out with me like everyday now she only hangs out with her 9th grader friends!! what do i do? (link)
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try talking to her, communication is key.
because when you talk to her about it, she'll understand how you feel and she'll make space for you in her life again.
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i am an athlete at college and i am bulimic...i also just found out i have a heart murmur...i think its caused by my bulimia...is it pssibl that i might have a heart condtion? (link)
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Im not sure if you do, but my suggestion is that you talk to a doctor about it. Only the doctor could help you hun.
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my younger sister doesnt have her period but she is wearing pads what do i tell her? (link)
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how old is she? is she at the age where she could 'possibly' have her period. My guess is, she probably is on her period but too embarrassed to let you know. my other guess, is maybe she is just practicing so that when she have her period she knows what she's supposed to do. I think that it is a good thing for her to use them now.
hope i answered your question =D
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ok so this is kinda complicated but when i'm at pasta parties with my coach she will be really nice to me and stuff and we'll get along great. but then at practice she is always like never putting me in the game and my headcoach says i'm on of the best players on the team. but she NEVER PUTS ME IN! i just dont know what to do. advice?? please dont say talk to her because it would be awkward. (link)
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Your coach probably just wants some other player to get in the game too, since she already knows that you're one of the best players, she probably needs some of the other players on the team who doesn't play well to start cooperating =)
Don't take it too personal or anything if she doesn't put you on the game much. And I know you don't want to talk to her but it's best if you tell her to put on in the games more often, if you try talking to her then it'll work out better for you. remember, communication is key. =)
hope i helped =]
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Last night was a school dance. I didn't have a date (not for lack of trying), so I went stag for the day-date with my friends and the dinner. After dinner, we had an hour until the dance was supposed to start, so we went to walmart, where another of my friends works. He couldn't go because he had to work, but it turned out he got off work at 9, so I talked him into coming tot he dance when he got off work to be my date. After he got to the dance we danced every song except one and we held hands when we were in line for pictures or waiting for the rest of our group. When we went for ice cream after he opened my doors and put his arm around me when we were walking. I had a good time, and he said he did too, but I was wondering if I should ask him to go out with me again, and if so, how soon? 16/f (link)
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You should ask him out when you feel like you're ready =)
It seems you both like each other, thats my opinion, so I guess you both would make a great relationship, but no need to rush at all, when you feel like you're ready then ask him out. Hope I helped =)
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I am always hungry! I'll eat when I am depressed, bored, and everything. When I am full (really), or feel full, I still eat. I can't help it because since I am always hungry I need to eat.
I have tried diets, and just plainly tried to go to 3 meals a day, but I can't do it! I will feel sick if I don't eat within 2 hours. I am overweight but I really want to stop eating a lot. I also have low metabolism like REALLY low.. so low not even exercise or food alone brings it up. So I am always tired which may be triggering my constant hunger. What can I do?? (link)
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Hun, I think you may have some kind of eating disorder. You should probably talk to your doctor and see if they could help you. I'm going though something kind of like that. I eat a lot and I'm always hungry but my problem is I can't seem to gain pound. So my suggestion for you is to probably see a doctor.
Hope I helped =)
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