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weird soccer coach ?
ok so this is kinda complicated but when i'm at pasta parties with my coach she will be really nice to me and stuff and we'll get along great. but then at practice she is always like never putting me in the game and my headcoach says i'm on of the best players on the team. but she NEVER PUTS ME IN! i just dont know what to do. advice?? please dont say talk to her because it would be awkward.
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Your coach probably just wants some other player to get in the game too, since she already knows that you're one of the best players, she probably needs some of the other players on the team who doesn't play well to start cooperating =)
Don't take it too personal or anything if she doesn't put you on the game much. And I know you don't want to talk to her but it's best if you tell her to put on in the games more often, if you try talking to her then it'll work out better for you. remember, communication is key. =)
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There is nothing you can do except work on your game and hope to be played. Your coach may very well like you and think you are a great player, but she might want to give the other kids a chance. Your coach is thinking about what is best for the entire team. Just trust her. Let me know how things work out! :)
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I know what you mean about it being awkward to talk to her but I think I have a way that might be ok, so hear me out?
Could you possibly wait around after practise and say, in a pleasant and uncomplaining way that you really want to get better and be able to play in the game so would she mind giving you some pointers and/or constructive criticism about how you could improve? Said in that way it shows both that you're enthusiastic and that you're willing to work hard and take advice and surely that can only be a good thing.
That way she'll either realise that she's been passing you over unjustifiably, will give you some tips about what she wants you to do differently or it will open up discussion about any othr reasons she's keeping you off the field. Whichever, I figure it can only yield good results.
Hope it works out.
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