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I'm not very booksmart, and I'm definately not street smart. However, if there's one thing I am, it's PEOPLE SMART. That's why I'm good with this whole advice thing. You can ask me ANYTHING and I'm always glad to help. There's almost no question I can't handle, so ask away. Make sure you RATE and leave FEEDBACK, so I can improve my advice.infinate x's and o's,
cindy
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My boyfriend been asking me to do Oral for a while now and I finally started doing it. But he holds my head and make me choke and he even get on top of me and put it in my mouth. I don't know anything about this because everything I have done sexually I have done it with him, He taught me everything about sex. But is this a normal for Oral Sex. I NEED MALES TO ANSWER THIS QUESTION ALSO.
If you are not comfortable with it, it is not normal. Talk to your boyfriend and let him know your boudries. You can't let him walk all over you and let him take advantage of you. If he doesn't listen to you, end it. Hope this helps.
-cindy
Which burns more calories, biking or jogging?
Jogging, your using your whole body. Hope this helps.
-cindy
Me and my close friend like the same guy. But she threatens me that if I ask him out of some sort she'd get people after me.
When I walked into the Art Room [He's in her class] He called my name and hugged me, then she got upset at me and called me a trature..I dont get her..Can anyone tell me whats her deal?
Ahh. This is toughy. Well for one, your friend shouldn't be this obsessive over a guy. Talk to her. Tell her you don't want a guy to get in the way of your friendship. What ever happened to chicks before dicks? Don't let a guy ruin your friendship. No guy is worth it. Hope this helps.
-cindy
i wear my eyeliner under my eyelashes..and like, my eyelashes fall out a lot. is that bad? will they grow back? if so, how fast because i dont want to lose all my eyelashes and like, not have any lol. kay thanks
Don't worry, it's normal for eyelashes to fall out. Just make sure you take off your makeup every night. When you don't take if off your eyelashes don't grow, and if they keep falling off, you might have a problem. Hope this helps.
-cindy
13/f
k so my boobs hurt. lol like, under my nipples and theres like, a lump under each. and if i get hit there(which i often do my little kids lol)it hurts a lot. my friend said it hurt too, so i was wondering if its normal,because they're growing or something. thanks
They're probably just growing. It happens to the best of us. You also might be getting your period. Boobs are always a bit more sensitive during that time of the month. However, if your boobs hurt for over a week, talk to your mom and she can decide whether to scheduale a doctor's appointment. Your boobs shouldn't be hurting for over two or three weeks. Hope this helps and feel better.
-cindy
15/f My boyfriend and I have our one year anniversary next Friday. But he just recently moved about 3 hours away. He was supposed to come and spend the weekend with me but he can't make his way up here anymore. Is there anything in the world that is something special I can do?
Surprise him and show up where he lives. Be like, "I have a huge gift for you. Look out your window." or something like that. Obviously get him a gift as well, you can hold it when he looks out his window. Hope this helps and happy anniversary.
-cindy
Ok- I'm 5'3 and weigh 123. Am i really overweight? I gained 20 pounds over the summer..and ihave been trying to get it off ever since. I run 2 miles everyday, and it made a bit of difference, but not the results i thought would come. Please help. I'll rate high . Thanks.
No, your definately not overweight. Don't worry. By the way, props to you for running two miles a day. Hope this helps.
-cindy
Well..there is this guy, lets call him T. We hung-out tonight and we did some stuff (not horrible stuff..just basics). I'm almost positive he likes me, but its summer and we wont really get to see eachother that much. I had an awesome time and I can't wait until we do it again (if we do). I heard him say 'go out' once, so maybe he was saying 'will you go out with me', but he didn't say it again. I've liked him for the longest time, and by what happened tonight, he probably feels the same. I just wanted to know if you guys think I should go out with him? If I should have a boyfriend over the summer. I know it might be a stupid question..but by what I'm telling you, do you have any input on it?
Thanks so much
If you really and truly like this guy, and he does ask you out, go for it. Don't pass up a potential good relationship. Who knows you might be like Sandy and Danny in the movie Grease. If things start to feel like they aren't going to work, it's summer, be free. When you come back to school in the fall, those things that might have been falling apart just might find there way back together. Hope this helps and have a great summer.
-cindy
i have this boyfriend, right, so our relationship is going really good, excecpt the fact that whenever hes around his friends, he doesnt pay any attention to me and acts like a total jerk. but then when were together alone he treats me like a princess . whats ronge with this picture.. helpp !
I was going to answer this question, then I realized I had just answered it. Here's the response:
Your boyfriend has no right to treat you this way. A boyfriend shouldn't change while he's with his friends, he should act the same way around you all the time. Talk to him about how you are feeling. This way, he'll at least know what he's doing wrong. If he doesn't improve, he's not worth it. End it then, you shouldn't have to get worked up about things like this.
Hope this helps.
-cindy
My parents got divorced 6 months ago. Tomorrow them and my sisters and me r gonna like sit down and come up with a plan, so we can have like a regular schedule to see our dad. He picks me up from school every day and stuff, so it's not like i dont see him. I just dont wanna have like a plan! because sometimes im not gonna feel like hangin out with him. and i know this meeting is gonna get me annoyed! idk, how should i handle this ???
Divorces are tricky, my parents got divorced when I was in 6th grade. I never really got to choose when I was going to be with my dad or mom, they just kind of chose for me and my siblings. Ask the lawyers if there is anyway that the scheduale could be flexible. Also talk to your parents. They are going to have to agree so there are no big arguments over custody. If the flexible scheduale is out of the question, I guess just pick a scheduale that you think will work best. I know it's hard, but if there is no way around it, you just have to be the bigger person and suck it up. If you need any other advice about this situation, you know where to find me. Hope this helps.
-cindy
my boyfriend acts like a jerk when hes with his friends.. he was just over with his friend today and he didnt even give me a hug ! he was being a total fruitcake .. then my friend screamed for them to come back when they rode their bikes away for him to give me a hug, and he didnt ! i dont know what i should do.. help.
Your boyfriend has no right to treat you this way. A boyfriend shouldn't change while he's with his friends, he should act the same way around you all the time. Talk to him about how you are feeling. This way, he'll at least know what he's doing wrong. If he doesn't improve, he's not worth it. End it then, you shouldn't have to get worked up about things like this. Hope this helps.
-cindy
I had my last cycle April 28 through around May 3. I've got something important going on May 30 that I can't miss, but will have to if I'm on my peroid. Am I correct in thinking that there's a 100% chance I'll miss it?
Periods usually come every 28-30 days. I doubt you'll miss it if you've had it for awhile, after all, periods are, at least most of the time, regualar. Are you sure you can't just wear a tampon? I need to know a little more information, otherwise I don't understand why you can't wear a tampon. Hope this helps.
-cindy
i work at a hair salon, and i use biolage gel. i like it, and it works well but it's really crunchy.. is there a kind of styling gel that doesn't make your hair crunchy? if so, what is it and how much is it?
If your looking a good gel to scrunch your hair with, try Garnier Fructis Surf Hair. It works well, and it isn't expensive. It's around three dollars. Hope this helps.
-cindy
Okay, I was at a party and my friend Sara was acting like a slut. She was wearing really short shorts and flirting with everyone (until her boyfriend got there) all the guys were all over her and she was showing off. And, she flirts with the guy I like. What should I do it annoys me so much, and I need to win the guy I like so he won't start to like Sara.
First off, your friend has a boyfriend, therefore she shouldn't be doing these things. Secondly, being a slut is just so trashy. What you need to do is confront your friend. Calmly tell her that the way she is acting is going to make people see her in a negative way. Also, make sure she knows who you like. If she's a true friend and cares, she'll back off. Hope this helps and if you need anymore help with this situation, you know where to find me.
-cindy
i always get headaches and i can never enjoy myself! how can i stop a headache?
I know exactly how you feel. I get headaches over four days out of the week. It does suck. Try to think what the headaches could be coming from. Do you need glasses? Are you drinking enough water? Are you having too much caffiene? If these are all negative and your headaches continue daily, see a doctor. They'll decide whether you need to have an MRI. In the meantime, take advil or motrin and drink lots of water. Hope this helps and feel better.
-cindy
Can someone please tell me what the hell is wrong with me?
Everytime i like a descent guy and then they like me back, i pull away and dont like them anymore.
Whats my problem!?!
First off, you're not a fool. Something inside you must be scared. All you need to do is conquer your fear. Maybe you still like them, but your telling yourself you don't. If they ask you out, go out with them. If you still really don't like them, you haven't found the right guy. Maybe you're all of a sudden start focusing on flaws when you realize they like you. Instead of concentrating on the flaw, concentrate on the good things. This way, you might not pull away so quickly. Hope this helps.
-cindy
my ex boyfriend [ i just broke up with him tonight ] wont talk to me. he practically hates me .. were talking on the phone right now and i love him to death but he just treats me wrong. i mean its just when hes around me hes fine, but when hes with his friends hes just stupid. what should i do ? ;please help'
Give him a little time. Since you just broke up with him tonite, he hasn't gotten a chance to get over it. If he wants a reason that you broke up with him, calmly tell him you were hurt by the way he treated you when his friends were around. Guys who change around their friends are pathetic, he should treat you the same way always. You didn't do anything wrong for feeling the way you do, so don't let it get you down. Hope this helps.
-cindy
im supposed to think of 3 different types of songs for our 8th grade farewell dance (im on student council) and i need a "Rap/hip hop" song, a "slow" song and a "overall" song..by overall they mean how the year meant..and it was good and bad and i cannot think of ANY!
5s for anything.and i mean anything!
slow song:
- breakaway (kelly clarksen)
- a moment like this (kelly clarksen)
- beautiful love (the afters)***
rap/hip hop song:
- miss new booty (bubba sparx)
- SOS (rihanna)
- hips don't lie (shakira)
- gimme that (chris brown)
- beep (pussy cat dolls)
overall song:
- good ridence (green day)
- graduation (vitamin C)
Hope this helps. If you need more songs, you know where to find me.
-cindy
i have two quetion about my period:
1) i have had my period since jan. 1, 2005(i know, happy new year to me right?lol).i only get my period every 2 months, like i had my period last month, april, 24th, so i shouldnt get it until around may 24th.is this ok?becuase i know most people get their period every month.could i just not be regular yet, or is that how my cycle will most likely stay?
2)yesterday and today i noticed red(blood)in my underwear.i shouldnt get my period until about may 24th, as i said above.it hasnt been nearly enough to put in a tampon, at all(i use tampons).what could this be?could i be starying to get my period every month now or is this not even my period?
please help!thanks!!
1) Well, if you just got your period recently, it won't be regular yet. Don't worry that your only getting it every couple of months or so. That's how I was and then it went down to every month.
2) You're probably just spotting. It's usual when your period isn't regular yet. It also could just be a light flow, after all, you just got it. It won't be regular yet. If it's not enought to put in a tampon, just wear a pad.
Hope this helps.
-cindy
i need some good creams or something to get rid of zits!!! i broke out today adn my forehead has like tiny little zits allllllll over it. i hate it. the only kind i know that works is proactiv...which is on the expensive side..and i only want to buy that as a last resort!
thanks
Well, proactive does work very well. I'm sure it's worth the money. Also, you can try Oxy or Stridex pads, they work for some people. However, they might dry your face out. You could also go to a dermotolgoist, and they would be able to prescribe something perfect for your face. Trust me, having an acne free face is well worth the money. Hope this helps and good luck.
-cindy