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Oral SEX
My boyfriend been asking me to do Oral for a while now and I finally started doing it. But he holds my head and make me choke and he even get on top of me and put it in my mouth. I don't know anything about this because everything I have done sexually I have done it with him, He taught me everything about sex. But is this a normal for Oral Sex. I NEED MALES TO ANSWER THIS QUESTION ALSO.
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no not normal for him to jump ontop of you i dont do it and wouldnt
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honestly, you should choke. if he is shoving it in all the way back, you have a gag reflex there. that is why you are choking. secondly, he obviously likes sex aggressive, but ask him if he could maybe be a little more gentle.
If he didn't teach you enough, learn from "other sources" :D
Hope I helped.
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sex is better aggressive. if you want to know more about sex, you should like watch porn to sdee if how other people are doin it
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If you are not comfortable with it, it is not normal. Talk to your boyfriend and let him know your boudries. You can't let him walk all over you and let him take advantage of you. If he doesn't listen to you, end it. Hope this helps.
-cindy <3
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'Normal' has a very loose definition. If you are uncomfortable with it, then no, it's not normal. You need to confront him about it. If he continues to do things that you don't like, break up with him. It's just not worth it.
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If you aren't confortable with what he's doing, tell him. If he continues to do it, give him a suprise and give him a little bite, that'll make him back off. Try suggesting him standing up and while you are on your knees, grab around his bum cheeks and then suck, much more confortable.
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Doesn't sound like you are enjoying yourself...so in that case no it is not normal. Either quit doing it, or tell him that you don't like it. Make sure he respects your feelings or you are in for a world of hurt in other areas of your life.
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Yes that is pretty normal and a lot of women don't like it actually!!
However, if you aren't comfortable with it, you need to tell him this. Sex of any kind is always going to be a big deal because it is very open and intimate and if you want it to be good, you need to tell him what you are and are not comfortable with. So tell him you don't feel happy with him holding your head and so on and try to work out another way of doing it so that you are both happy.
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Often times, males will put their hands on a female's head guide them. You need to hell him if he's pushing down too hard, so that he can know and stop. Sex should be something that you both enjoy, and if you aren't enjoying something he's doing, he needs to know so he can correct it.
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