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well theres this boy nd lets call him "carl" so i started likin this guy nd i told him nd i found out he felt the same way but longer for him so we talked nd he was so great so we finaly wen out nd omg he was so great nd i realized i was fallin for him nd then a rmor went around that he had cheated nd he said it wasnt tru but all the signs are right there nd im pretty sure he did it but i think he relaized it was worng nd didnt want to hurt me nd then the day i found out i was cryin in skool for the rest of the day .. so i call ready to break up nd he gave me this crap bout bout he didnt do it nd i sorta beleived him nd it took a while to put it together but that same day i found out .. this girl had been tellin him i had been flirtin wit other guys .. but i didnt .. i got him to beleive me then his firned told him i broke up wit ihm nd he beleived it .. we atill talk nd he tells me how much he loves me nd he wants me bac nd then one of my friend kary was akin if he was goin to ask me out nd if he did i dont kno wat to say .. i really love him but theres one problem .. i moved nd he lives 15 minutes away which isnt that long away but we go to different skool nd i dont kno wat to do if he does cuase i really love him wit all my heart .. please help me ..


* Helplesss (link)
just talk to him and tell him that your friends and his friends are somewhat ruining the relationship with all these rumors ....tell him you luv him and that you would luv 2 start ova again and this time oyu would like to have trust between you 2 and don't the relationship involve with what your friends say!!



i no this may sound really stupid but my 2 nans are really arguing and they are soon gonna kill each other.i love both nans and my mum is in the middle of it all.she loves both of them and she starts to cry which i hate coz i hate my mum crying.my nan is 92 and she keep threatening to kill her self and im so scared plz help i rate every reply thanxs alot (link)
You should call an information center or something or have your mom call a rehab place so you can some help for her!!



what does (link)
it's symbols a heart and i mean i love u and like if u say " i


okay i love my boyfriend like sooo much and i know he loves me too...but he gets these mood swings where one day he acts like he cant live without me and the next day he acts like im just another bump in the road...what should i do? thanx so much~!
>*BaiLeY*> (link)
let him him kno how ur feelin and tell him!! :)



What can i do to be more popular in school...i have soo many friends but i just wanna b a lil more poplular....and guys give ur true and honest answer dont give me a "full house" answer please.....help me out! (link)
just try to get to know everyone and to tell you the truth popularity isn't everything!! :)



I have this friend and i love her sooo much but shes really attached 2 me...i dont wait to go up to her and tell her but i still wanan b r friend but i just dont want her everywhere i go...what should i do? (link)
tell ur friend u need some bubble space ...tell her that she needs to go out and meet other friends!! tell her you r still good friends and will continue 2 b ..but it's just that u need space!!



Theres this guy ive been talking to he used to date my friend, i really like him alot but thing is he is sorta with his baby's mother only because of the child i dont know if i should be with him or not i love him to death and i know he feels the same about me what should i do? (link)
tell him how u feel!! that's all you can do!!



Im havin diffcult evr since my 23 year old cuzin died what shuld i do? i rele miss her! help me asap (link)
it's tough when u lose someone, i kno becuz i lost my grandpa 2 cancer!! it takes time so you need to be easy on yourself and in time it will change!!



hey guysz ive been single for a really long time and i realy want a boyfriend .. i hate bein single .. does any one have any advice how i can get a boyfriend ? (link)
u need 2 look around ..who knows mr.right could be right infront of you nose and you don't even know it!! :) good luck!!



How do you make a link of your advice column and put it on an instant message to a friend? (link)
just copy the url and then put it on ur aim ur sending 2 ur friend!!



my friend is cuttin her wrist and stuff wat should i do to help her? (link)
tell someone ...let your parents and her parents kno what she is doing!! that's all you really can do!! jus tell someone becuz she needs help quick!! hope all goes well!!



im 13 next week, and i thought that to be a great musician and get a contract you had to be at least like 16; but then i saw this thing about how JoJo and britney spears (JoJo now, britney spears like 6 years ago) both were 13 when they made their first music video...
i'm really into rock, and i'm trying (link)
what u need 2 do is go and audition for maybe local talent shows and things that u can participate in your local community!! u can send video or audio tapes to major record labels!! or even send a tape 2 "star search"!! but the most important thing u need to do is to practice and practice and perform to the best of your ability!! :)



I have been reall in love with this guy...it wasnt a crush it was really love...what should i do? (link)
tell him!! u go girl!! :)



This question is more for the older ppl here, but if u know the answer, let me know whether u are older or not!

When I get older I'm looking in2 becoming like a news anchor person, or something along that lines. When I go 2 college, wut kinda degree would I need 2 get? I assume a certain degree in communications, but does any1 know if there is a certain degree in particular? Plz let me know! (link)
i went on google to look it up and it didn't say anything specific ...i too am lookin into being an news achor ...lol..sounds like fun ...i was actually inspired by the "anchorman" movie lol as fun as it is!! :)



what type of questions i should ask my mum and dad about my family history? (link)
where did we originate from??




I have this friend who i have known for whole life..... we r the same age but i am in a higher grade(long story) also i moved away from the town we lived in together and i hang out with people that are older and she is jealous of my best friend but shes sooo immature to me and i try to act myself but i she isnt into it and she is weird to me.....i love her sooo much she is on of my best friends what do i do?
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"except the things i cannot change, courage to change the things i can in wisdom to kno the difference"

Honestly you can't make your friend change but what you can do is suggestion a change in her attittude towards your other friends!! respect her as a person but don't think u can change her...cause u can't!! :)



Im 16 and hAve never had a b/f before i think it cause im afraid like ill get asked out and ill sey yes but then a dya or two later ill get scared and break up ive even tried becoming really good friends with them first so i get to know them better but i still break up what should i do (link)
give the relationship a chance!! trust ur heart and if that person u feel is a good trusting bf then just stick 2 him!! no regrets!! :)



hey! i was just wondering if anyone who's willing would give me ONE sentence on what the best part of being a teenager is for them cuz i want to make a list and i think it would be really cute!! thanks
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i think the best part of being a teenager is getting more responsibilities!! :)



i cant afford a trainer...umm what can i eat or drink to make me sing better lol i really want to be able to...and how do u sing from ur stomach? ive heard that u like use ur stomach (link)
okay i major in singin at my high school ...what u need to do is to drink A LOT of WATER!!! i mean a lot!! every single day!! :) um and do some excercies and breathe through the stomach and breathe like a baby because babies breathe through the stomach but adults and teens and kidds breathe through the chest!! work on it and you will be a singer!! Ask me anything anytime!!



i love all my friends dont get me wrong but i really like one of my friends and he knows i like him but he has a girl freind and i think he likes me but i really dont know what to do?? (link)
go and ask him!! :)






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