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I really really like this guy I'll call Mark, but he's going out with a different girl who I'll call Ruth. Ruth was at her cottage, and she called her best friend, and Mark was at her best friend's house! This is not the first time Mark did this, he cheated on a previous girlfriend with Ruth. The only problem is, how do I tell Ruth? She doesn't know, because her best friend lied and said it was her little brother. (link)
There's no easy way to tell someone something like that. Nobody really wants to hear that and she might not believe you, but you just have to tell her straight up. If she knows that "Mark" has a history of cheating, that might make it easier for her to believe.. but just tell her and then she can confront him and then they can work it out themselves.


Okay. I am really shy. I am going to 9th grade next year & I want to make new friends. And when it comes to guys, Im super shy. I need advice on how too go up and talk to someone. And what too say. Thanksssss (link)
Just be bold and go up and introduce to yourself to everyone. I know that's hard if you're shy, but try it.. most of em will be pretty friendly, and you might end up being really close with them. If you introduce yourself to everybody, that means you won't have the same little "group" and you'll know tons of of other people. When you're in your classes just talk to the people sitting around you, because chances are, they're just as nervous as you.


I really wanna have a girlfriend but I seem really unable to find someone who isn't married, taken, uninterested, or lives 1000 miles away. I don't have any problem introducing myself to women...it's just that I have a problem keeping a conversation after "hello" I keep looking for love in all the wrong places it seems, I don't really know what to do. I'm just so bad at the whole conversation aspect of things. I'm a writer so that's usually the only way I really know to express myself. Help me!!! (link)
You know, one topic that could keep a conversation going for hours is music. There's so many different views and opinions that you could seriously talk about it all day. So if all else fails, talk about that. Also, it's usually harder to meet people during the summer. When you're in school you just can't help but meet new people. And if you're actually looking for love.. you probably won't find it. Just stop looking and just go out and have a good time and if you meet someone you like, hey there you go, but if you don't.. that's okay too. If you're actually looking.. you're most likely to see all the flaws about someone, and reasons why things couldn't work, and that's probably why you haven't found someone yet. Your girl could be right in front of your eyes and you haven't even noticed. I hope this all made sense..=oP


I have a problem...I got an adivce column like this one and I really wanna help people with their problems but nobody asks me any questions. I've post the link on both my livejournal and my website and still nobody asks me anything. I feel like such a failure because of it. (link)
Well you need to have answered 10 questions before you can be found in the "Browse Columnist" sections and stuff. And.. Where it says "Give Advice", go there and answer people's questions that they ask to everybody. If you give good advice they may go back to your column to ask you something else. A lot of people have these things now so there's way more columnists to choose from.. just hold your horses. =oP


I've developed a problem and I don't really know how to deal with it. I've met a girl that I really like on the internet...but I'm just not really sure if it is love or lust. She just manages to turn me on, she makes me feel like she wants me and that makes me want her. I just can't seem to get her out of my head and it's driving me crazy now when I don't get to talk to her...I just don't know what to do...got any advice? (link)
It's possible that an Internet relationship could work.. so, find out if she feels the same way. You could try talking on the phone or something, and see if you still feel the way you do.


I'm addicted to masturbation...what can I do to eh...stop doing that? (link)
Apparently it's very healthy..


* I really wana have a bf.. and i just dont kno where to go and meet guys that'll like me.. my friends say im pretty but a guy has never came up to me and asked for my # or something... i dont kno what i should do to get a kute guys attention.. help?! (link)
Why does the guy have to make the first move? It's perfectly okay for you to go up to a guy you like and introduce yourself and try to get his number. =oP


Hi hey how do I get over a xbf, when I still am in love with him and he sorta likes me??? Thanks PLZ help , My life will be ruined if I dont get It. PLZ HELP THANKS
Signed
NEed help gurl (link)
If you want to get over him you need to take your mind off of him to start.. Just go out on casual dates with other guys, or just hang out with your friends and have a good time. It might take a while but if all you do is sit around thinking about him, you'll never get over him.


hey where do you get all of your flip-flops? u have like 50 pairs! i've never seen u wear the same ones twice! i wanna pair but cant find ne like yours (link)
I just get them cheap at Payless so i can get them in like, every colour. =o)


ok. i have blonde, sort of curly/wavy hair and its a little below my shoulders and im starting to change my style a little bit into EMO, i have glasses and i wanted to get like wispy bangs like hilary duff. would i look completely stupid with bangs or would it look good?? PLEASE help me!! (link)
It would look good only if you straightened your hair.


i think is is totally gross and disgusting to be a gay guy or a lesbian is it wrong to think that i dont think it is (link)
Everybody is entitled to their opinion..


hey! does anyone know what:
a) idk
b) imao
means???
(link)
a) idk- i don't know
b) lmao- laughing my ass off


okay. well i just moved out into my own apartment and i'd like to get a pet. the problem is i don't know what kind. i'd like something that doesn't require a TON of care, but something that i can also play with..can you help? (link)
Get something like a hamster, rat, mouse, rabbit, guinea pig.. They're all small and aren't that much work.


Hey..
me and my friend are together in a babysitting job and we love children so much and we just already let out flyers one,last year and once just recently the next year..on the 1st year flyer given out..no1 responded..the 2nd year one responded..liked our job..gave us $20 each for 1 1/2 hours...i know.. alot..o well..lol..back to the subject..ever since that day..no1 has responded..what should we do? send out more flyers or keep waiting or quit caring..what should we do??

thanks if u help.. (link)
Hand out more.. try handing them out in different places. And maybe you aren't getting any jobs because you guys are a team. If you babysat separately, people might be more willing to hire you.


is rub on tan bad for u? (link)
It's not bad. Most of the stuff you get turns you orange, though. But my friend told me this.."If it's in an orange bottle, THAT'S the colour it'll end up!" Just don't put a lot on when you first do it. Start with just a little bit, don't load it on.

And if you're not into looking orange.. get something like Hawaiian Tropic tanning oil and go outside and tan. Looks more natural.


I'm having trouble falling asleep. Does anyone now anything that could help me fall asleep easier and faster? (link)
Listen to music, that always helps.


I NEED Help i love my ex but she dont like me what should i do im a 13 m (link)
Are you sure it's love? If you're only 13.. it's probably only lust..


Okay. Get this. There's this one girl who I know, who've I've had something for for awhile now. She's a great chick and all, and we've been pretty close friends for awhile. I've gone out with her a couple of times, and one of the problems is that it's a long-distance sort of relationship, which makes things a bit rocky.

Keeping up so far? Okay. I still have the hots for this chick, what do you think I should do in an attempt to try to win her back and/or do you just think the whole long distance part tends to make things too rocky, and just keep our freindship going, since it's been doing alright since lately, and I don't want to ruin it?

Keep in mind I got a lot of feelings for the chick, and she has a little for me. But it went sour twice, and I dunno about ruining it a third time. Thanks aplenty for all the help ya could offer. (link)
Oh. geeeeeeeeeeeeeee..

Show your feelings more. Make sure.. you guys.. know exactly how the other feels.. Stay on the same page, ya know..

What did you used to do to "win"..this girl.. Obviously some pretty awesome things if she's stuck by ya for so long..So she must definitely feel the same way..

And you should keep in mind that it's summer.. which means there's millions of things going on, which makes this sort of thing hard..

If you want to win her back.. Go for it. 10 bucks says it'll happen.. Just try to avoid things that could result in little tiffs..

But with whatever happens, don't let the friendship die..


Im sorry this is gross but I really dont get how to put a tampon in...i keep trying but i cant do it....what is wrong with me?
*pulls paper bag over head* (link)
Practice makes perfect.

Go at your own pace..=oP


when someone says go streakin what do they mean? (link)
Run around nakie.




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