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Hey my names ali i'm 17 from new jersey. i'm usually really fast with advice so ask whatever you want and i'll answer as soon as possible!!
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Where can I find lyrics to songs at. I tried www.dapslyrics.com but it wont let me in. Thanks.

www.lyricsrobot.com
the best lyrics site evaaa

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Ok, I have this guy-friend, Pat. We ALWAYS talk to each other. We have snack time, so everytime he brings a snack, he'll ask me if I would like some. We would ONLY give it to ME, not to ANYONE else. We sit with each other in class ALL the time. He makes me laugh in sooo many ways. Does he like me more than a friend???!!! I never does this stuff to any other girl. He tries to ignore them....

Um, It's hard to tell. Guys are tricky, he may just see you as a really good friend. But, from my point of view, he probably does have feelings for you.If you have feelings about him, you should tell him! I mean, it seems like you 2 have a good friendship, and it would evolve into a good relationship. Tell him, and i think he may feel the same way about you. Go for it!
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ali

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Im 15 and my penis is not real big im a bit worried about it does it matter to girls?

A guy's penis size matters to girls to some extent, and it really depends on the girl. It shouldnt matter, but some girls are shallow. I mean, you shouldnt worry about it! Your still growing and most boys are just hitting puberty at 15 and 16, so you'll keep growing. Also, a small penis makes it easier for girls to give head, and sometimes, even more pleasurable during sex. Big things come in small packages `=D
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ali

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ok well i recently broke up with my bf...and like he dumped me..but he was talking to me online...and now im totally confused about his feelings...plez help!

him: ..i screwd up
me: wht?
him:i think i screwed up
me: on wht?
me: like braking up
him: i screwed up....
me: will u just tell me wht u mean
him: dont u get it?
me: no..not really
me: is this boiut u and me
him:yea...
him:i just..
me: u jsut wht?
him:i just think i screwd up
me: im confused
him: if i didnt brake up with u would u have still gone out with me?
me: idk
me:maybe
him:crap i screwed up
him:i gotta talk to u tomarrow....
me:just tell me now!
him:i screwd up...
"signed off"

im soo cunfused! plez help!

I think he regrets breaking up with you. If he hasnt done anything wrong, i dont understand why you wouldnt give him another chance. Talk to him again, maybe in person, or on the phone. Or you can talk 2 him tomorrow like he said. He's probably having mixed feelings about your breakup. Talk to him, understand more of what he's feeling. If you truly care about each other, you should get back together
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ali

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that birth control makes you gain weight?

For most people, yes. When you are on birth control, it tricks you body into being pregnant. Sometimes people loose weight, but 9 times out of 10 people gain weight over loosing weight.
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ali

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Okay is it true that laxatives help/make you lose weight?? and also, if you take too much, is it dangerous?? thankx

Laxatives help you lose weight, but it isnt good for your body. If you get the cable channel 'noggin' there's a show on it called degrassi, its like a canadian show that deals with rape, cutting, teen pregancy, etc. Well,(i dont meant to compare you to the show but) on this show, a kid was taking laxatives, and he passed out from lack of nutrients to the body. Laxatives are not only dangerous, but a quick fix. you`ll probably gain the weight back after you are off of them. plus, you`ll have to go to the bathroom 24/7, which is not fun.
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ali

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my mom just recently said she thinks its time for me to see a gyno. so she made me an appointement. she tells me yesterday that she had a dream i was pregenant. do u think she is making me go to the gyno and had that dream b/c she thinks i have sex?

Yah, parents are always paranoid. Her dream probably freaked her out, so she wants to get you checked out to look for STD's or if your hymen is broken (a way to check if your a virgin, but not always true if its broken). Tell your mom the truth, that you are or are not having sex, but seeing a gyno even if you arent having sex, may be a good idea.
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ali

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OK. i just bought this really cute mid-thigh length white denim skirt and i have no idea wut to wear with it. i know this is probably the stupidest question on here, but if you could help me, that'd be great.

o yea and i rate.

Well, try something in the pink family. Light pink, fusia, dark pink etc. You can try something a lavender color also. Basically, you can pull off any color with white. You can even go for a busy shirt since your pants are plain. You could go for a simple black top and pair it with black heels or black flip flops. White matches anything, but do not steer towards the direction of vibrant orange, yellow, or green.
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ali

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hey i was just wondering cuz im from jeresey too and i was wondering if u have herd about pingry high school(privite school) i just wanted to know if u could answer some questions about it for me (im applying).. if u havent know big deal!
THX!

I don't know very much pingry high school! What part of jersey are you from? I live in central jersey, and the only private school that i am pretty familiar with is called Imaculata(sp?).
Here's basically what i know:
-Their high school is from 7 - 12 and its in Martinsville and it only has 1,000 students (i guess per campus b/c they have one for k-6 also)
-Acedemically, you must take math, history, and a language until 11th grade and english every single year) They also offer art and music classes too!
**for more info go to www.pingry.org
sorry i cant be more of a help!
xoxo
ali

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when is the best time to take a prenancey test? i heard 3-4 days after you were suppossed to have you period, 12 days after you have sex, right after, a couple of days before your period is suppossed to start ... i'm so confused!!!

A couple of days after your missed period should be when you take the pregnancy test. It is most accurate and if you take it anytime before then your reading could be wrong.
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ali

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Ok my boyfriend and I just recently started having sex a couple of weeks ago, and everything went fine. This may be an over share but we took every precaution, using spermicidal condoms and having him "pull out". So this is why i don't understand why my period is late. Not by too much but by a few days. Then yesterday he fingered me and there was signs of blood about a half hour later. (and he had already popped me before that so its not that)I'm freakin out... you don't think i could be pregnant do you? Help me and ill do anything you ask... PLEASE

If there's any sign of blood, you aren't pregnant. If you period still doesnt come, go see a doctor though.
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ali

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Okay I asked a question before about the pill and I was wondering something else....If I do decide to have sex w/out a condom, and get pregnant say five months later....if I keep taking the pill, will it kill the fetus before it gets into the really late stages of pregnancy? If anyone knows any websites with that information, i'd appreciate it a lot...i've searched and can't find anything....Thanks

Female, 16

If you have unprotected sex and are on the pill, you most likely will not get pregant. If you have unprotected sex while you arent on the pill and then go on the pill, it will NOT kill the fetus (if in fact you are pregnant). The only way to terminate a pregnancy 5 months after the fact, is illegally have an abortion (it becomes illegal after 3 months) if u can find someone who will do it. Basically, if you are in this situation, tell ur parents because ur probably going to have to keep the baby at this point. if you have any more questions, drop one in my inbox.
xoxo
ali

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How long does a girl have her period? like how many days?

5 - 7 days. Every girls body is different though. You might have yours for only 3 or even 8 days.
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ali

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I'm on the birth control shot and now my period is really screwed up..It will start and stop and start and stop and it's never regular..Is that a normal side effect?

That's totally normal. One of my very good friends was on the shot for about a year, and she got her period for 2 months straight! Even today, quite a few months later, her period is still messed up. That is one of the main side effects of the birth control shot. You have nothing to worry about, and hopefully, it will even out soon.
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ali

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Um, like my period started today and it usually lasts 5 days which means its last day wil be on Tuesday... the first day of school!... so like I was wondering if you all knew anything that could shorten it by like just a day... for example things I could do n such. Thanks

Nope! Sorry! I know you period stinks, but normally at the end of your period, you can get away with a small pantyliner or one of those weird 'thong pads' if u want to wear a thong.
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ali

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my hair is really frizzy does any1 have a good idea on how to make it less frizzy thanxs

Go to your drug store and get anti frizz. Some great ones are: john frieda, loreal,&garnier. If you want something thats stronger, try a salon or store like trade secret. Go for biosilk or bumble and bumble. Also, since it is summer time, the humidity makes hair more frizzy. Once fall comes,& the weather is cooler, yur hair will b easier to manage.
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ali

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if someone is wearing lime green tights, or pantyhoes or whatever, does that mean anything? like does that mean theyre lesbian or gay?

No! You cant decide if someones gay or striaght because of their choice of clothing. Just because someone is wearing something that is different does not make them gay.
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ali

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i was w0ndering if there is anyway i c0uld get a free ab0rti0n with0ut my parents kn0wing? =( ManDie x0o

I'm pretty sure you can. There are clinics in mostly every town. They are confidential and private. Go to the clinic! See what they say! It's worth a shot. Or, also, try to go to a Planned Parenthood place (if you have one) and they could probably help with it. Or they could help you with birthcontrol, so you wont get pregant again. if u have any more questions, drop one in my inbox.
xoxo
♥ali

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i had a surprise party for one of my friends matt, and this kid that we didnt invite said he was friends with matt so i invited him..i started talkin to him online and stuff and hes a really cool guy and i think i like him..and like he always says hi to me and stuff and he was like hangin out wit me like all the time at the party and i think he likes me..except idk wat to do becuz i just asked out his bff but he said no..so do u think i should just like wait a little while to ask this kid or just tell him??thanx

Well, his best friends loss, is his gain! I think that since his bff didnt have the romantic feelings about you as you wanted (and deserved!), it shouldnt be a problem if you tell him you like. Tell him !! Just don't make him feel like hes the 'runner up' because u asked his bff out first. Go for it! I mean, there's no point in waiting around!
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ali

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okay.. whats the difference in making out.. and french kissing and normal kissing? sorry... but i honestly dont know..

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When you french kiss (make out), you use tounge. When you just kiss, theres no tounge involved. If u have any more questions, leave me one in my inbox.
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ali

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