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hey everyone, Carrie here & - i`m back! sorry i was gone for so long, dealing with buisness and whatnot but i`m back soo anything you need or want to know i`m here to answer! if you wish to keep it private let me know in an email with your AIM sn (if you have one) and i will be IM`ing you shortly

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when you or a guy plays around w/your clit your cherry wont pop...right?

Haha, sorry just a funny question. But right, it don`t. The only way your "cherry" can pop is by, having sexual intercourse where the male penis inserts the womans vagina, or some kind of sport.

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This Subject probably doesn't match but any wayz, I've heard that eating a lot of carrots makes your boobs grow bigger and my friend had like none and then like a few months later like 6 months or something maybe a little less, she has huge! Is it true? She said carrots helped since she ate some like every day! Thx I'll rate yall 5!

No hun, I think Carrot`s just help inprove the eye sight. She probablly hit puberty or a "groth spert" or maybe she`s just stuffing. You never know. Just love yourself for who you are and don`t envy other people, because in the end it just makes you feel miserable. And trust me, you don`t want big boobs. There not everything.

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ok im like really addicted to smoking adn im only 13! and i need to quit cuz i play sports and i dont need to be all huffy puffy on the court please help me

Wow you really need to quit. Realize the facts. Smoking makes you wrinkly, smelly, turns your teeth yellow, eventually gives you hary toungue, you can get lung cancer. all kinds of nasty things like that. Try doing something else instead of smoking like .. writing or something. Good luck. Have a friend help you!

xO.Carrie

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I have dark arm hair and I want to get rid of it b4 school starts(August 16)So plz does anyone know any ways to make my arm hair lighter like blonde? And do you know any ways to do it without going out and buying kits? Like is there anything at home I can use that you know will work? Plz help, my whole life ppl make fun of me and a couple other dark haired girls I know And I am Not just doing it for them its for myself b/c I am so embarrassed that I never wear short sleeve shirts which makes me hot... HELP ASAP!!! If possible answer b4 tomorrow plz and Thx!

Shave it off. I don`t think theres a problem with that. Or if your not up to that put lemon oil on them and lay out in the sun. But i`m not positive if it works. Good Luck! Don`t care about what other people think your beautiful no matter what.

xO.Carrie

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okay last week i posted a question about this guy "Brad"!! I went to his house and my friend and i slept over and so we talked a lot i made him laugh an awful lot!! i even brought up the "prom" next year, he said he might not go, i was about 2 say 2 him that i love 2 go with him ...but i was to afraid 2!1 Is flirtin with me?? And should i ask him 2 the prom??


Wow you sound extremly smart. When you find something you want to take charge. I think you should definatly go for it. Ask him to the Prom. And honeslty, you can never tell if a guy likes you because they are so damn confusing, but i can tell your diggin him so go for it. You can`t loose.

xO.Carrie

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hey .. i have a makeup question. i have red hair and really light eyebrows an eyelashes (pretty much blonde) but i wanna wear mascara this year. im afraid that if i wear dark mascara - it would look bad against my eyebrows since they are so light and then my red hair. so have any suggestions about what I can do so it doesnt look too drastic?

Perfect suggestion.
Die your eyebrows!
Goodluck.

xO.Carrie

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im 13 and i really like this kid and he is 15 i told him how i feel and he said he likes me to but we live a hour away we could neva go out [ so he said ], but sometimes he seems like he really likes me then other times it seems like he is to busy that he has no time for me but then i know he has alot of girls as friends and i don't know if he likes them and i know is jealously but it tru and i don't know wat to do u think i should just try to get him off my mined[ it would be so hard if i did but i could try ].. or wat ? .. PLEASE HELP !

Personally I think long distance relationships are hard, especially for people who are young. You have to be devoted, ready, and seriosuly commited. I think you should forget about him, he`s just another *crush*. To get over him, hmm go to the mall with a couple of your girlfriend`s and pick out hot guys and giggle about it. Thats always fun. (but dont talk to strangers, its almost always highly dangerouse.) You could definatly find someone near where you live from the sound of your beautiful personality. Good luck!

xO.Carrie

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okay... i've been pondering this for a very long time now... say that you've been going out with a guy for a while and he's a year older than you... say when you met you were 16 and he was 17... when he turns 18 and you're 17 and you have sex... why would it be illegal? i mean it's not like he's 32 and you're 17... i really don't see anything wrong with that... also if you've had sex with the guy before like while you were 16 and he was 17 it would seem really stupid to not have sex for a year until the other person becomes legal... i'm sorry if this is confusing but i've always wondered

Wow I completly know exactly where your comming from. The rule about 18 is really dumb. But the reason why they have it is because once your 18 your no longer a minor your an adult. But soon there going to be changing the law to where if someone finds out your having sex with an 18 year old, they cant get in trouble unless the girl/guy claims rape. I honeslty dont think you need to worry. Just be careful and remember safe sex. Use condom`s =)

xO.Carrie

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hey.im going to florida for a whole month without my boyfriend.im gonna miss him sooo much..but i really wanna bring him back something good and special..its so hard to shop for guys what should i get him..anything please i need some suggetions..thanx soo much..

Haha, yeah going away from you`re boyfriend is always hard. I went 6 days without mine because i was grounded and went cRaZy!! haha but, you should definatly call him everynight if you can. And I think you should bring him back something that lie`s in your memories. Something special. Maybe a Picture of you down there in a neat picture frame or something. And your right guys ARE hard to shop for. Hope I helped!

xO.Carrie

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does anyone know any ways to get over someones death that you were close to? weird ? i know

Personally I don`t think it`s possible to get over someone`s death, and especailly not quickly. I know you`re probablly really upset and i`m sorry. Just give it a good cry and a few months and you will recover shortly. You`re most likley depressed about this death and just need time. The best of luck. Please don`t do something stupid. Hope I helped.

xO.Carrie

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Okay..I just broke up w/ my ex like 2 days ago and we were together for about 4 months.I went to a party last night and i met this guy and hes a 16 (im 13) and we like kidna hooked up and now i feel really bad since i just broke up w/ my ex..But I like the guy i met and me and him like eachother and everything but like my ex still likes me a lot and I dono if i should just worry about my feelings or be nice and worry about me ex's!Cuz i like this new guy a lot and he wants to go out and stuff.i dono..PLEASE HELP!

Well, honestly I think if your hooking up with other guy`s just days after you broke up with your boyfriend, you might have not really cared about him at all. And in the nicest way possible your a little young to be hooking up with guys and going to party`s. It could really destroy your future. Take it from someone with experiance. I think if you really did care about your ex boyfriend you should give it time. Tell him your sorry about hooking up with the other guy. And if everything`s healed near the end, go for exactly what makes you happy. I hope I helped.

xO.Carrie

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Whats Emo music? What does the e.m.o stand for?

Wow, I like you. My favorite question yet! Emo stands for emotional. Emo music is mostly boy bands that sometimes scream but mostly sing about there ex girlfriends or some sad shit like that. i love emo i find it "appealing" :) Hope I helped!

xO.Carrie

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well ok ive never had sex before....and every guy i have ever dated always wants to have sex...ive gottin fingered before 3 times but like im scared to have sex...does it hurt really bad yer first time? like i dont know im kinda scared and i want to do it i just dont know what should i do?

Hun, if your worried about it, your not ready. Every guy is always going to want to have sex because it`s just in they`re blood. Dont let them get to you. Wait until your physically and mentally ready. But on the other side, no it doesn`t hurt as bad as you think. Before you have sex talk to your partner about safe sex and std`s. Good luck and WEAR A CONDOM!!

xO.Carrie

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I've been playing the drums for about 4 months, and I want to learn a song. Does anyone know a good/easy rock song I can learn? Thanks

Go to www.google.com and think of a rock song you like and type in the song + drum tabs. Good luck, intrusments can be realllllly fun!!

xO.Carrie

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I'm 13 and I weigh 126 pounds. I would like to weigh 110, and I really need a way to know how I could lose just a few pounds. My friends know me as the big eater. I'm not fat, actually I look very thin, but my stomach is a little bigger than I'd like for it to be. Some1 please help!

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If you dont think you`re fat but you have a little bit of a belly, Go for run`s and do about 100 sit-up`s a night. Start eating healthier, cut back junk foods and soda pop. I know its hard but it`s totally worth it trust me. Good luck.

xO.Carrie

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This question may sound dumb but what does it mean when a guy "pops your cherry" when you first have sex? I just want to know.

Please answer my answer and I will rate ya :)!

(14/f?

Haha, don`t worry thats not a dumb question. Popping your cherry mean`s you`ve had sex and are no longer a virgin. If your thinking about sex, please please please use a condom. Good luck.

xO.Carrie

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hey i didnt no wat to put this under. but i need help. is it wrong to wish that u wouldnt wake up in the morning. or widh that u were dead. and if so then how do i stop thinking like that. i feel like everybody hates me and that if i was gone would ne body care! i no i shouldnt but i do and rite now i just want to leave. plzzz help me how can i stop thinking like this?

This is perfectly normal. It`s called depresson. Everyone goes through it at a poin(s) in there life. Depression isn`t exactly the best thing but the good thing about it is that it doesn`t last forever. Just keep thinking about some positives in your life. Try not thinking so empty and start having more positive conversations with your friends. Good luck.

xO.Carrie

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I'm a virgin, 15 yrs old & totally in love with my boyfriend. We're both ready to have sex & the only issue I have on it is do you guys like hair 'down there'? I know some guys dont mind or & some guys really do. What do guys my age like? I dont want him to be disgusted when were about to have sex cause of my hair! He's not a virgin.

Well all guys opinon`s are diffrent. Some like it, some dont, and some really dont care. But it i were you i`d moe the whole lawn. Good luck. Use a condom.

xO.Carrie

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I know that guys prefer girls to shave it all off most of the time. But girls,what do you think? Should your man go bald,trim,or natural?

Trim. Fer sher.

xO.Carrie

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I think my boyfriend is cheating on me. He hung up with me on the phone a couple of times and he didn't tell me where he was going when I could've gone with him. I love him too much to break up with him. Plus when my sister took a picture of him, he flicked off the camera not knowing it was my sister but knew it was my mom.
~>Sara

Hm, i say try talking to him. Ask him to ease up a bit and stop being so rude. I could understand if you love him but if you find out he`s cheating, hes not worth your time or your heart. Good luck.

xO.Carrie

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