I'm a fourteen year old girl from California. I'm a rabid liberal/feminist an a writer. I've been through cutting, and I'll try not to give bad advice. Ask me whatever you like . . . I'm not so good on romance questions, with a lack of any significant experience, but I'm good on everything else.
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my mom is SO super duper gay.she wont let me stay up late.she says every night i have to be in bed at 10.but i sneak on the internet to chat with boys.she doenst know of course.if i get caugh tho im in trobule.what do i say to let her let me stay up later. (link)
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10 is waaaaaaaaaaay too early for summer.
Ask her why she wants you in bed by 10.
If she says that she doesn't want you crabby in the morning, tell her that it's summer and you can sleep in. Or, if you CAN'T sleep in for some reason (summer school, job, etc.) tell her that it is your fault and you'll take responsibility, and if you don't TRY it, how do you know how you'll act.
If she doesn't want you to "disturb your sleeping patterns for when school starts" (my mum's idiotic reason) then tell her that it's the beginning of summer and you can always slowly re-adjust yourself.
If she pulls "because I say so," tell her that you have right to know why you have to go to sleep so early.
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U NEED TO DELETE THIS LIKE NOW, WHY DONT YOU MAKE YOUR OWN?!?! (link)
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ok i am a little differnt in school. i like it and all. But last year people got the impresioni was gothic, but really i just like to be wearing somthing differnt than all the others. I am so confused. also i just wanto to breack down and cry but i know no 1 will understand!!!
signed, GRL who isnt gothic! (link)
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I've had people think I was Gothic before, and it never bothered me. When people ask you if you're a goth, just shrug and tell them that you just like to wear black.
If they persist in bugging you about being goth, it's best not to get too angry at them. If you make them feel a little stupid, though, they deserve it.
If it REALLY bothers you, dress differently for a short time, or do an every-other-day program where you dress how you want to dress one day, then just wear jeans and a tee shirt the next day. Do this for a while, until people get the message, at which point you can go back to your normal clothing preferences.
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hi
im a 14 yr old female. ive got a boyfriend and hes recently aske me 2 give him a blowjob. im scared my parents will find out
wat shud i do???
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Think about your relationship with the guy first, whether you really love him, and whether you think you know him well enough to go farther with him.
Then think about yourself and how you'd feel if you gave him the blow job. Decide if you're ready.
If you WANT to give him the blow job, go ahead. I doubt your parents will find out.
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I wrote the poem which is in one of the previous posts entitled "Everytime" . I was feeling rather depressed today , and so i wrote another poem . Tell me what you think about it ....
Bt\ , to all those who asked ,
i'm 13 going on 14 .
You
I thought that I was contented
I thought I knew you
But that was just an illusion
You took me for a fool
All this pain that I went through
Did I ever mean anything to you ?
All those times I cried
Why weren’t you by my side?
So many nights I spent ,
Sitting by the phone
Just hoping you would call
I was so alone
You told me that you loved me
But why couldn't you look me in the eye ?
I guess this was what made me see
That i was living a lie ..
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Quite nice. It would make a really good song, I think. I love the "living a lie" line, particularly.
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I want to earn money and I'm really smart so I figured I would tutor people since my mom wouldnt let me babysit. Can anyone help me with tips on what I need to get started? (link)
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Go to your nearest public school. Many of them have programs where you can tutor other students. If you're in highschool, you might have better luck at elementary or middle school.
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im thinkin of gettin a pet but i dont no wot to get. i have 2 cats and 1 fish. has ne 1 got ne ideas they will really help thanx love tammy gal (link)
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You've already got a cat, so I wouldn't get a dog or a bunny or some such.
Maybe get hermit crabs . . . or an iguana!
I had an iguana for a few years when I was younger, and he was absolutely adorable. I had to give him away when we moved, but iguanas make great pets, if you live in a warm environment.
You could also get a bird. I've had personal experience with parakeets, and I think they're great, lovely pets.
Or, you could just get another cat. Cats are great!
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Do you guys notice that ppl are writting poems?? What's up with that? It's not like the poems are bad or anything, but THIS IS AN ADVICE PAGE!!!! NOT A POEM PAGE!!! Besides, not many ppl needs advice anymore.... (link)
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It's a page for advice on writing. And that often means READING a piece and giving ADVICE on how to make it better. Let the poem writers do their thing. :)
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How come I dont have anything in my INBOX????
I give really good advice but i dont get any mail!!
thanx,
*~bre_babbles~* (link)
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I don't get much mail either. I think the solution is to just keep on answering questions. Eventually, somebody might ask you something.
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well me and my friends want to earn money but nothing seems to work that great (and our moms wont let us baby sit)!!!!!!
we have tried:
-car wash
-doing work around the house
thanx bunches,
need money
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First, THIS ISN'T A WRITING QUESTION!
'kay . . .
Try organizing a group garage sale where you all sell your old stuff. Put big, colorful flyers around your neighborhood and maybe take out an ad in the paper. You can also sell food (cookies, lemonade, etc) at the garage sale.
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i just got a pet..its a goldfish..what should i name him? (link)
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Give him names from history. It's always cute to be able to say, "hey, this is my goldfish Marie Antoinette/Napolean Bonepart/Sacagewea"
Book characters are good too. D'artagnan (Three Musketeers) is cute.
Also try friends, celebrities, and brand names. "Meet Crisco the goldfish!"
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okay im 16/f n im a virigin
ive have known ma man for 3 1/2 years and he really wants to do it and so do i.but im so scared b/c its my 1st time and im so scared of gettin pregnant. he told me that we will use a condom and everything but still im not 100% sure.can anyone tell me how can i be 100% sure that i will not get pregnant. (link)
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Like everyone else said, the only REAL way to be 100% sure is to just not have sex.
But if you DO want to have sex, you can still be pretty certain. You could try to get on birth control. Call you local Planned Parenthood. They might be able to give you information or places where you can get information.
If you can't go on the pill, condoms are pretty certain. I've heard success rates as high as 97%.
To learn more, try this site:
http://www.orthowomenshealth.com/birthcontrol/options/condoms.html
You can also google "condom success rate" for more info.
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female,20 2 children eldest 2 youngest 7 weeks,differant dads when i drink alchol i get violent not al the time just when im stressed my partner over the past 4 weeks my partener has broken my finger n given me a black eye on both occasions he has said sorry and it will never happen again. he has taken my eldest son on as his own. i dont want to be a single mum with 2 children by differant fathers but i dont want to be a nervous wreck either i feel low in myself he alwys puts me down telling me im ugly and fat i just dont know which way to turn the violence only happens when we are both drunk please give me advice (link)
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Get away from him. Just stop seeing him. It has happened twice and it will happen again. You're not doing you or your children any favors by staying with him, because he will probably abuse them too, if not now, eventually.
You may also have a legal right to report him to the police for domestic violence. Go to the police station or ask your friends to find out more.
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hello my freind had sex and well just call him Bob and bob has pressured all his g/f into sex ! and my best friend well call her Jackie has just started dateing him and i dont want her to do the dirty deed yet cuz shes soo sweet and shes kinda gullable so shell prolly go and do it like dont get me wrong i love both of them soo much as friends but i dont want Jakie to have sex with bob but jakie knoes about bobs pressuring his other gfs into sex but she wont dump him wut shud i do i dont want her to get taken advantag of so shud i talk to her ? i need help cuz im soo stuck on wut to do ( ps were only 15 i dont want her to have it this early except bob is like 16) (link)
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Talk to her about it. I wouldn't talk to Bob.
Losing her virginity is HER decision, and you can't take that away from her. Just tell her that if Bob starts pressuring her to talk to you about it because you'll be there for her.
Don't get preachy on her or tell her that she's "too young" or "to sweet" to have sex. It will make her less likely to come to you if Bob starts bugging her to lose her virginity to him.
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does anyone know any really cute things they did with their room or ideas they have.. like with picture frames, furnature, poseters, umm and just plain wall decorations!
please helP! (link)
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It's fun to stick things on your wall. Movie posters are always good, by I also have a star chart and some images I found on calendars.
Bullitin (sp?) boards are great because you can stick anything you want on them.
If you have any artwork lying around, even from when you were very young, stick that on the wall.
If you subscribe or used to subscribe to any magazines that have interesting covers, stick those on the wall. The New Yorker and Cricket Magazine are both great, and I have covers from both on my wall.
Get an interesting bed spread. In a lot of rooms, the bed is somewhere in the middle, and it's usually the biggest thing in a bedroom, so it's good to make it look nice.
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I'm 15 and I'm 5 ft. How much is the average weight? (link)
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depends on how muscly you are, but no less that 95 and no more than around 125
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What do you all think about people posting up a "question" for people to check out their column and ask them questions? I don't really like it, but it's not like there's a rule against it or anything that I remember. Just askn for your opinions... (link)
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It annoys me horribly, but I suppose all you can do is ignore it. If you're a level 1 moderater and can rate the questions, give them bad ratings.
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my best friend and i were spray painting our bikes. Her father comes out in a rage. He starts hitting her and she was screaming for him to stop. She used a bit of foul language towards him, but he was really hitting her. the mom had to try and calm him down.SHould I get help, tell someone or just leave it alone? I don't want it to seem like i'm in their family's business, then again that is my best friend she was crying histerically but i couldn't see her because he told me to leave. (link)
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You need to tell someone. First, try to talk to your friend about it and find out how often it happens. Then talk to a family member about what to do next.
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me n my friend here are looking for something to do.. we can't go anywhere cuz we can't drive, do any of you know something that we could do.
please respond IMMEDIATLY
signed --- bored (link)
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-cook
-watch a movie
-walk somewhere, if you can.
-prank call people
-find old clothes and chop them up. then try them on.
-google yourselves online.
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I don't have alot of friends because everyone thinks that I'm gay. Please help me out (link)
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hang out with the friends you already have and make them your really close friends.
if the idiots think that you're gay, they're prolly pretty stupid, so you may not want them for your friends.
It's good to go a little spazzy or sarcastic on people sometimes. If you're a girl, you can ask people if you have to wear a shirt that says, "I love cock" on it for people to believe that you're straight. That sort of thing can make people feel a bit stupid about believing a very stupid rumor.
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