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Hello. I don't claim to be a specialist and I don't claim to know what I'm talking about--unless I do. I'm not going to fill your head with a bunch of bull just becuase I don't know what I'm talking about, I will refer you to someone else. Feel free to contact me by messenger, i'm usually logged onto them via cell phone but will hop on a computer if possible. Anything else, ask
E-mail: jeanine0408@yahoo.com
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Hey guys! It's summer for me right now and I've been going to the pool a lot lately. All the girls my age like run around and flirt with guys and stuff, and believe me, I'm all for that but I always feel so uncomfertable in a bathing suit. I mean, I don't think I'm fat or anything, but like my stomach is really hairy and I have to shave it (Is that normal?) and like the back of my neck is really harry, too. I can never run around in my bathing suit because it like rides up and then like half of my vagina is showing (I'm exaggerating a bit there.) But what should I do?! Please don't tell me to get a wax because i already wax my eyebrows and upper lip and i haatteee it! (link)
You could always get the regular swim suit but instead of just wearing the bottoms, get some swim trunks to go over them. I wear guys trunks with my top.
Or you could get the type of swim suit with the Girls shorts for bottoms. They work too.

as for the hair, its natural and all you can do is keep it shaved or use nair/veet to get rid of it


I have a really bad sunburn...what should I do?
I'm very fair complected. Alot of it is on my arms and face. I've tried the mustard, vinager, and other crap that people say will bring the heat out of it but it has done nothing but irritate it, and make it look even redder. Help!

~Sunburnt in Ohio~ (link)
Go to wal-mart and look for a blue aloe solution called Ocean Potion. Put it in the refrigerator until it gets cold, then put it on the sunburn. It's kind of a shock at first because it's so cold, but it works awesomely. It gets rid of some of the heat from the burn and doesn't irritate it.

Hope i helped!


whats the bikini line?.. im kind of confused about that.. i have an idea but im not sure. also the hair left with only shaving the bikini line.. do i keep it short or what? i know this is very personal and sorry about that.. but thanks for trying to help in the first place. (link)
Your bikini line is the area where the insides of your thighs meet your vaginal area. It's like the area where your legs meet your pelvic bone. You can either shave the bikini line and leave the rest natural or keep it short. It's completely personal preference. Some girls just shave it all off. Others leave just a small patch. It all depends on what you personally feel like taking care of.


what are stilettos are theyjust high heels? (link)
Stilettos are a thinner high heel. Instead of having the thick heal, they are thin and often are harder to walk in. (due to them being so thin and hard to balance on)


okay.. well i was just wondering.. its a wierd question accually but i was just wondering.. when a guy fingers you.. what will he be expecting? hair.. cut hair.. not a lot of hair.. none at all.. im very confused about this.. people tell me it differs.. i guess im just asking whats the norm? (link)
Honestly, guys shouldn't really expect anything. Every girl is different. Some shave "down there" completely and some shave part way. Others keep it natural and just shave the bikini line.


Theres this girl I like. I just simply want to ask her on a date, but I want to say things that would melt her heart like ice cream. What things could I say to her, and what body language should I use to let her know that Im really interested. Thanks. I rate 5's for fantastic answers. (link)
Honestly, I can't tell you what you need to say to her. Each girl is won over differently. You might try going with somethign simple and telling her that you think shes a great girl and you would like to take her out on a date. Or if you want to get a little more into depth, tell her the things you like about her. Like if your really into her personality, tell her that you think she's an awesome person you would like to spend more time with. Make sure you don't use words like "hot" and "sexy" too much. If your really trying to win her over for the right reasons, she should know you are serious if you call her beautiful or pretty. It's more appropriate (spelling?) when asking a girl out.

As for body language. Just make sure you make eye contact, it makes you come off as more confident. Don't let her know your nervous about asking her out. Girls love confidence, not cockiness. Keep eye contact with her, but don't make it seem like your staring either. It's kind of hard to explain, but I think you should be able to get the picture. As long as you come off as having confidence, I think you'll be just fine.

I wish you the best of luck!


Yeah, anyone have any tips to get rid of them faster?


oh and, didn't know where to place this Q under, I figured this category would be fine.


thanks tons xo (link)
Get some yellow colored concealer with a reddish coverup.(wal*mart has it for really cheap) Then just apply your regular liquid or powder foundation on top of that. It makes them almost completely invisible. At most they look like a shadow on your neck.

As for getting rid of them faster. They are kind of like a bruise, so i like to take a spoon and put it in the freezer then put it on the hickey. A spoon is just about the right size and fits onto the small area instead of freezing your whole neck.


okay well for about 3 or 4 months i have been having real bad problems with my knees. when i walk or stretch they sound and feel like my bones are just grinding together. i am always having really bad pains in both knees. i am a cheerleader so i am scared to go to the doctor and find out something is actually wrong with them and be out for the season. does anyone know what this could be and do u think it is neccessary for me to see a doctor? (link)
I'm no doctor for sure, but i have that problem too. It could be that your over working your knees. You might want to see a doctor about it before it does get too severe and you have to stop cheerleading permanantly due to something you let get out of hand. I would recommend going and getting it checked out as soon as you can so it doesn't amount to something serious.



whenever i go to play an "online game" on gamehouse, the game goes through the loading process but then once it's loaded there's just a blank box with a little red X in the corner. i know that means i don't have the right program to play the game but i can't find anywhere that tells me which program i need. help? (link)
You probably need to update your javascript. Using internet explorer it is really hard to tell what you need. You may upgrade your explorer to Mozilla Firefox. It's a lot faster and doesn't have as many problems. And when you need an update like that, it will tell you as soon as you find a site thats more advanced than your browser.

But in the mean time, try going to http://www.java.com/en/download/manual.jsp

If that doesn't work, i don't know what it could be.


Ok, this guy asked me to a school dance. But, he is fat, and he is a real nerd. He was the first to ask me. Im afraid that people will laugh at me for going with him. I really want to go because it will be fun and we get to go to six flags afterwards. What should I do? Go to the dance with the fat nerd... or stay home? (link)
I know exactly what it's like to be that shallow. I've turned down guys because they weren't up to my standards. But as you actually grow up, you learn that not all "fat nerds" are bad people. I'm not going to say go to the dance with him or don't take him. Think of it from his point of view though. If you think this way of him, just think of how he must feel about himself. It probably took a lot of courage to ask out someone like you. If your that confident, you've got to be a pretty girl. Just think about it though, if you were in his position and worked up the confidence to ask a hot guy to the dance, would you rather him go with you or be shallow and say, shes not good enough for me. Either way you are lying, but think of his feelings instead of your own. Yes, Nerds have feelings too. Everyone deserves a chance at some point or another, maybe you can be the one to give him his chance. Never know what could happen.


Does anyone know of any good break up songs? (link)
Unfaithful -- Rihanna (sp?)
Poison Girl -- H.I.M.
Single -- Natasha Bedingfield
Break-up Song -- American Hi-Fi
Someday --Nickelback
She Fuckin hates me -- Puddle of Mud
Wish you were here -- Incubus (more of an i wish i could have you back song)


Is there anything that i can eat every day to loose weight?
I tried the cereal thing, but it doesnt work at all!
Please help!

Hev (link)
Even though i absolutely hate it.. yogurt does wonders for your body. A lot of people do yogurt diets. Eat normal meals, but instead of snacking on junk food and eating fatty foods for desert, replace all that fat with a yogurt. It will make a HUGE difference over time.


I'm usually not self-consience about myself, but anyways...My penis is a little more than six inches (when hard), and I know that it is a little above average or close enough. But when I take a shower in the locker room, my penis is really soft and it's really embarrising. I can't get hard or make it longer because, well, sweaty guys don't exactly turn me on. What should I do? And I don't want to hear not to take a shower, because I do not really want to go the rest of the day sweaty and smelly. (link)
Okay.. Being hard in a locker room with a bunch of guys would cause more rumors than having a small dick. And the guys shouldn't be paying attention either. Follow the previous advice and if someone happens to comment on your size, ask them what business of theirs it is to be looking. Anyone with half a brain knows that dicks get bigger when you get hard, so you have NOTHING to worry about.


im going to the movies with my boyfriend next weekend.. and i want to make a good impression because we dont see eachother in person that much. i'm 13, 5`2 blue eyes and long light brown hair. i`m about 105 pounds. i need some REALLY cute outfits for the movies. i know you're just going to say that it's just the movies and it doesn't matter what i look like, but i really want to look nice cause thats just how i roll. i like hollister, a&f american eagle etc. i need full outfits with the colors that will look good on me. if you give me atleast 3 really good whole outfits, automatic 5. thanks. (link)
A pair of dark jeans with a light colored top. If its warm, maybe a Cami or a tank top is appropriate.
-- Or --

Light Jeans with a Dark colored shirt. I hate wearing light jeans with light shirts and dark jeans with dark shirts. Try maybe a dark blue or black.
But Light colored tops with Dark jeans are more flattering.
--or--

A short denim skirt. with an appropriate top. (See above for what i mean)


does anyone know,is there such thing as a pushup-padded bra? whats the smalled bra you could get thats like that?(or at least one of those..push-up or padded) and also,what it the smallest bra size(how much does your bust have to be to fit into the smallest size?) any other tips you reccomend? thankyou!! (link)
Smallest size: Playtex makes almost "a" so that would fit if your flat.. but they aren't padded or pushups.
Good Bra to get: A bra by the brand Loveable. It has a hook in the front, and its padded. It looks totally real, but gives you more cleavage. And the best thing about it, it has 3 different sizings, so you can have your breasts more spread out.. or have them brought in together for more cleavage. I LOVE these bras. They sell them at Wal*Mart for $9.99. Make sure you get the padded push up with the FRONT SNAP or its not the same.



okk so i've been going out with this kidd for only like..7 days. and he called me and im like can i call you back in a little bit. the only thing is i have NO clue what to talk about?!?! i mean we have nothing in common?!? what should i say?!? (link)
I think everyone goes through that. I'm not really sure how old you are, but by the question i guess a teen or preteen. So i'm going to advise through my own experience with this problem..

- Questions.. Be like.. OO lets play random questions. All you do is ask each other everything you can think of you want to know about one another. It sounds lame, but you really get to know a person like that.

- Whatever comes to mind. Just be like.. Whats up.. theyll most likely say nothing much then ask you the same.. its typical. Just ask like what they did today.. and go with that. In turn it usually leads to a good conversation and you don't even realize it.

- Be yourself. Bring up something that you've done. Just like tell them about something in your life.. family, friends, a problem you have. Thats also a good conversation starter. You start out talking about that, then you end up on a totally different subject and end up talking.

Good luck!


hi jeanpeen! lol i was wondering if you knew how many calories are in chicken noodle soup? : ) (link)
Let me go check the cabinet .. JeaninyPenny? Jeanpeen? WTF?
Chicken noodle soup has 60 calories and 15 calories from fat


what SPECIFIC major is for somebody who wants to become a newscaster? (like reading the news on tv, radio, etc.) thanks! (link)
You might go into Broadcast journalism or just communications. They both deal with that, but communications is a little more broad and deals with the writing aspect of it too.


is it bad to practice putting in tampons when you havent started your period? (link)
Probably.. It would be kinda like having sex.. And you really cant practice. You won't really know if youve got it in right since theres nothing there to show if its working.


Well, I know this may sound silly but I will rate 5's. I'm 16 and school, friends, drama, parties, etc. everything has kept me really busy lately. Time has been going by way too fast. Before I know it it's already April; the monthes go by like weeks && everything's just way too fast! Haha. So is there anything you can do to like .. slow time down? Haha. Idk. I'll rate 5's for anything. Thanks! (link)
As long as your having fun .. then it doesn't matter. Time seems to go slower when your bored. Make the best of it.. I'd rather it seem fast than slow!





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