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okk so i've been going out with this kidd for only like..7 days. and he called me and im like can i call you back in a little bit. the only thing is i have NO clue what to talk about?!?! i mean we have nothing in common?!? what should i say?!?
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My answer is mostly like what everyone else said. Get to know him better, thats one of the ways that you can find out things about him and actually talk about it. If you guys like the same band, talk about their next tour or a new cd or some of your favorite songs. Just be active, and don't be shy around him. After all, he is your boyfriend.
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I've had this problem before. I'm almost positive you guys have at least some things in common. I mean, you are going out, right? here's some things you can talk about:
-School. What happened in school today? Are you guys in the same classes? Ask him what his favorite class is, or which class he thinks is really stupid. is there a teacher that you both like or hate? Talk about that.
-Gossip. Has someone done something hilarious today? Is there someone who makes you really mad? Also have you seen some of his friends? Ask him what their names are.
-Basics.What does he do after school? Where does he live? When's his birthday? Does he have any siblings? How about pets? Where do his parents work? What is he planning on having for a job when he's older?
-Plans. What's he planning to do this summer? Ask him about what he does on the weekends. How about if he plays any sports?
-Ask Him to Hang Out. Sugguest going on a date somewhere. Ask him where he likes to go, and see if you like to go to any of the same places, and maybe you could see if you can go there together.
-Tell him How You feel. Are you glad you're going out with him? Tell him! You could tell him that you're really glad that you're going out and that you like him alot.
-Ask Him. If you're compeltely out of ideas, just say, "So, what do you want to talk about?" It gives him a chance to say what's on his mind.
Don't worry, this is usual at the beginning of the relationship. He might be just as nervous as you. As you get to know each other better, and spend more time together, you'll be more comfotable around each other.
-Johanna
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since you guyz have been going out for a week you could be like..."you wanna go to the movies on friday?" or " invite him over to your house and watch a funny-romantic movie and laugh over things. talk about the funniest thing that happened to someone or you at school today. or say you need help on your hw or something.
*not the best at these things sorry*
HERSHI WISHES HUGS AND KISSES
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I think everyone goes through that. I'm not really sure how old you are, but by the question i guess a teen or preteen. So i'm going to advise through my own experience with this problem..
- Questions.. Be like.. OO lets play random questions. All you do is ask each other everything you can think of you want to know about one another. It sounds lame, but you really get to know a person like that.
- Whatever comes to mind. Just be like.. Whats up.. theyll most likely say nothing much then ask you the same.. its typical. Just ask like what they did today.. and go with that. In turn it usually leads to a good conversation and you don't even realize it.
- Be yourself. Bring up something that you've done. Just like tell them about something in your life.. family, friends, a problem you have. Thats also a good conversation starter. You start out talking about that, then you end up on a totally different subject and end up talking.
Good luck!
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