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ARGH!!
ok well i broke p with my boyfriend 1 week ago and i realllllllllyyyy miss him, but hes really pissed off at me becuase he thinks im talking bad about him but i have no idea what hes talking about...i say i hate him but i sooo miss him and somtimes i remind myself of all the bad times which makes me hate him but they all go away and now i wish i never broke up with him...but i broke up with him for a reason and the day i broke up with him he said he was waiting for me to break up with me and so i got reallly mad and wrote him a mean note that basiclly said we were over.now he doesnt even wat to mention my name...and on top of that he tried to get his sister to beat me up but his sister and i are really close so she said she wasnt.i just wish he didnt have to be such an asshole...help! thnxs in ad.oh yeah and he didnt try to get someone to fight his last gf...why me?
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Simple. Because he did really like you and you hurt him. It sounds like he's a tough faced guy with a sensitive soul so he may not be terribly nice at face value but he can be easily hurt. When you broke up with him, the chances are he was very upset and said he was waiting to break up with you to 'save face' as it were.
The best thing you can do is stay well away (mostly because why on Earth would anyone want to be with a guy who tries to talk people into beating them up?!) and keep a low profile for a while. Keep reminding yourself that you broke up with him for a reason and don't let yourself go back to him. You can do a LOT better than a guy like that.
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he seriously tried to get someone to fight you?? what is that all about? as far as im concerned, no real man would do such a thing! but im glad nothing happened to you!
anyway, what you are feeling is completely normal. i don't know one person in the world (myself included) who did not regret breaking up with their bf/gf shortly after they did it. it is a completely normal thing to go through after a break up. it usually takes about 2 months of not talking AT ALL to an ex to get over him/her completely, so you have a while to go. Like you said, you broke up with him for a reason... second guessing your decision is only normal. Just stop talking to him and ignore your thoughts when you begin to miss him, and before you know it, you will not think about him anymore.
as far as why he would try and get someone to beat you up... i'm guessing that he is just mad because he got dumped! oh well, his loss go out there and find someone who will treat you better! :)
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