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I'm BLAiR, Im a SENi0R this year, Finally! I have waited 4 years for this! I would like to say I'm enjoying it, but I think its one of my most challenging years yet. Im so excited to go off to college and meet new people. I hope to go to aTm! I love polkadots and duckies too. I have been through a lot with guys and relationships so shoot!
NO QUESTION IS STUPID!
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I have a best friend... he is so close to me. I go to his house A LOT and juss hang out. we joke around a lot. but im startin to get feelings for him. he is so hularous and very cute. i dont know what to do. i DONT want to like him but i do. and im afraid to tell him. if you could help me that would be great. im really confused. but i think i love him.???its crazy! hELLPPPPP!! thanks ♥

if you loved him you wouldnt question it first thing. but i mean i dont think theres much you can do...heh i know how you feel...right now im going out with my bestfriend and its just amazing...but just tell him how you feel! the worst that can happen is him say no right? or just say..."do you ever see us going out in the future?" or something along those lines! or maybe just flirt with him alot like touch him when you talk to him and maybe he'll get the hint and just see what he does back!
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I hate it when I lose teeth, and then it just feels so empty, my tongue is touching a hole in my mouth that's never been there, and it just feels so weird! I'm asking this because i just lost another tooth and it's pissin me off so much: what can I do about this?

well theres nothing that you can do...unless they are your adult teeth and they are fallin out, then somethin is wrong...but if they are just your baby teeth there isnt much you can do...because they are supposed to come out:)
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What are different ways to style sidesweeping bangs? Im getting them tomorrow - should I cut them to the bottom of my ear? Cheekbone? Longer?

i think your cheekbone would look best, and i wear mine with a side zig-zag part, all u do is brush your hair back then take a pencil or something and do a cute zig-zag, or maybe not even a side part just a little off center.
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I am in a wedding August 27, I am 5'3 and 120 pounds. My stomach isn't big but a little chubby. Does anyone know how I can tone it up in 5 weeks. Please Help, what can I do????

run around your block a few times, get to a gym to get to a treadmill, do crunches, in order to tone it you need to do cardio. also give up soda and drink lots of water. you can do it! good luck with it!
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I'm 14 and I'm one of 3 people in my grade that doesn't have a cell phone. I'm constantly out with my friends and they don't like me to call home on their phones cus it uses there minutes. *They didn't mind at first but when I have to constantly call home they got frusterated* My parents want me to call all the time when I'm out. I've tried explaining to them all the reasons why I need one, Like how they want me to call home and all that but they still say you dont get one till your 16 like your brothers. Well, im not my brothers, im more responsible, but i tried to tell my parents that and they wont believe me!
What should I do?

say well my friends are getting tired of me having to call home all the time because it wastes THEIR minutes. so i guess next time im out i cant call home. i hope they let you get one soon!
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i want to dye some of my hair with this "Loreal Color Pulse", I need to know the price. has anyone ever used it? and does it work good? and i need the price of it at a local Walgreens Or CVS cuz i want to buy it but im not sure how much it is.thanks!!!!!!!!!!!

its like around 5 bucks...and yes i got it when it first came out and i have a pretty dark colored brown hair and i did a red color and i really liked it.


oh yeah and it doesnt damage your hair like other non permanant ones

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i always hear the term "pop your cherry"! Whats the cherry - i know it has somethign to do with a vagina-, and how do u 'pop' it. it kinda scares me and grosses me out if i think about something on your vagina popping and blood coming out. okay well i use tampons so how do i know if my cherry is popped and whatnot. thanks.

it can be popped in a lot of different ways...riding a bike, riding a horse...its nothing that you should be scared about because its normal. and your cherry is your hymen.
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Hey there ♥ well im not really into stereotypes but basically, my boyfriend is punk, along with his friends. and i am not really preppy or punk or anything, i am just me. but i am friends with his friends and his friends are in a punk band and my boyfriend said he really wants me to go, and so do his friends. the problem is i dont want to wear something stupid, or "slutty" looking and i dont want people to think " why is she here?" so what could i wear.. i have long platinum blonde hair with lots of pink and auburn in it. and i am 5'4 and average with slightly curvey body but the problem is i cant hide my boobs and i dont want people to automatically think im slutty=/... what could i wear or put on for makeup and how should i do the hair? thanksss

just wear a t-shirt and some heans! i dont think you could go wrong with that. put your hair in a pony tail or leave it down, haha it sounds pretty though!
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I have an OBGYN appointment next Monday @ 3 o' clock and I was just wondering what all they do because my mom told me that at first they were just going to talk to me and I wouldn't have to have a pap smear but now that she knows about me losing my virginity to my boyfriend *that I am still with* she told me that now I would have to have a pap smear...is this true? Does it hurt? I just want to know everything about it before I go. I rate HIGH for good answers, please no foolish things like look it up unless you have a really good website. Thanks in advance!

my stepmom tells me that its just uncomfortable...lol sorry i have never had one. i get mine when i turn 18! all i know is they stick something metal and its cold and uncomfortable! lol sorry
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Heyy. On my page, my profile doesn't show up! If anyone could help, I realy appericate it! I'll rate high to any advice! Thanks!!

its ok dont freak out. i did the same thing. its just something wrong with the site it should be fixed sooner or later
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do you know any solutions for streach marks?

well i googled this and it says that they will diminish over time and there is nothing that will get rid of them completely and its perfectly normal for girls to get them because of going through puberty. sorry, but it does say you can cover them with water proof make up. oh wait also it says there is this natural stuff that you can but but its $33.95, and another site i read on said that the creams and stuff are often pricey and dont work. sooo i hope i helped a little?
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ok i got a boyfriend that i love with all my heart. we talk on the phone everynight.. we talk from 10:30 until 1 sometimes 3 in the mornin and when we talk we basically talk about nothin but i love doing it except my mom doesnt like. last night she took the phone away from me and wouldnt even let me say bye. and i need to figure out how i can still talk to him at that time of night without gettin in trouble?? it isnt because i dont i call waiting on my phone and i dont know why she complains.. it shouldnt bother her she is usually sleepin during that time.. and plus it is summer and i dont have school the next day.. i would like to know some way so that i can get the phone and talk to my boyfriend without gettin in trouble?? thanks.

hide the phone under the covers when she comes in...or simply talk to her and tell her i dont know why you get upset with me talking on the phone that late, its summer and i dont have school, so maybe you can set a reasonable time i know mine last summer was 2,because i had the same problem with MY parents.
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what are some cute, but somewhat original boy/girl names? thanks in advance for your help!

boys: Brent, Elijah, Landon, Ryan

girls: Briahnna, Brittany, Stacey, constance! (my bestfriends name!):)
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How is it that somedays I think I'm fat and then other days I look skinny?

I rate HIGH!

same thing happens to me but i just think i've gained weight..maybe the days that you look at yourself and think you are skinny is in the morning when you wake up? and the days that you think you are "fat" are at night...because you have just eatten so look a little bloated. :)
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Okay I’m 15 and I weigh 110 and I’m 5’6 is that to skinny? I don’t think it is but some people say that is and I wanna gain some pounds. And I want it to show I just maybe wanna get to like 120 at least. If anyone knows any good ways of gaining some pounds please let me know what they are. Also will you tell me from the information I gave you up top does that sound like I’m skinny or is it fine? Thank you so much!!

*K

yes i think that is skinny because im about 5'3'' and i weigh 110 and even IM skinny, and i think thats a perfect weight for your height...but as far as gaining weight uhmmm make sure you do it a healthy way...maybe if you start working out or something...because muscle weighs more then fat and it sure does look better! lol hope i helped
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where do yuu get your icons for your xanga and your myspace?

xanga. but make sure you do NOT direct link...that is the most annoying thing ever. so right click the icon and save to computer then upload to like photobucket. hope i helped... one sec and ill gather a few sites up for you

- http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=oXiCoNs4YoUxO
- http://lascivious.vzz.net/Eight8N.html
go down to where it says LJ icons in the left bar and start clickin!
-http://www.xanga.com/groups/group.aspx?id=1324775
i think you have to be a member for that to work it lists a BUNCH of people in an icon blogring!

if any of these dont help just come back!

also if you are an xanga member go to the search bar on top click blogrings then type icons! hope i helped!
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okayy well this kid i like nick has asked me out 2 now.. but i kinda keep saying maybe. i say maybe because i wanna get to know him more. we met about 4 months ago.. and we connected on a boy friend girl friend relationship right away. sometimes i wish we were just friends for a while.. and THEN we started liking eachother.. but anyway. ive gotton to know him more.. and i like him so much.. i dunno how to let him know.. do i just come out and say " nick im ready to go out with you! " or just wait around n see if he asks me again? ahh id feel stupid if i just came out n said it.. i know he still likes me.. but i dunno how to get him to ask me again because i think hes afraid im gunna regect him..any ideas or suggestions?? =(

either that or YOU ask him out, im sure he wont mind.
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!!well i met this kid and he seems really cool and he likes me and everything and i think if we get to taling tat he will be a good boyfriend.. but the thing is i still ahve feelings for another guy that i have been talking to since school was still in and i dont know if i should just tell the other one i have been talking to that there is someone else..i dont know how he would take and i dont want him to get mad and not want to be freidns cause he still does mean the world to mean cause we have been friends forever.. should i take into condiseration the feelings of him or just talk to the other guy. i really dont know what to do. i dont want to lose eaither of them. there both very imporntant to me. help meeee!!

well hmm i would say just tell him that you are starting to like him but there is another guy that you are trying to get over(if you really are) and that you want to get to know him more and maybe take your relationship to the next level in the future. just be straight forward with him :)
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dose anyone know any cool html code websites?

thats where your good ole' friend Google comes in! lol.
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how do u make those hearts on myspace and stuff..??

&hearts ; without the space.
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