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13/f I've been playing th epiano for 4 years, i have to admit, I'm gettin pretty good at it, but I HATE IT!!!!!!! I've hated it since maybe 2 years ago, but my parents always say: "oh, your getting better" or "the piano teacher will be so upset if you quit". But now, I've just about had it, and my parents are like; give it a chance, one more lesson, but when they do that they'll tell the teacher i wanna quit, and he gets all nice and easy....ugh I HATE IT.

I've always been interested in the drums or guitar....something not very easy, but new to learn. If I do quit though, this'll be a load to drop on my parents [they're the sort of classical, act professional, ivy-league-for-you parents, plus I'd have to get the instruments somewhere!!!!

I just asked my parents a minute ago to quit, and they got all "stop being a teenager....ugh" and "one more lesson" how can I FIRMLY tell them I want to quit, without all this other crap coming up? And how hard is it to play the drums? either question, I'LL LOVE YOU IF YOU ANSWER IT!!

just tell your parents the truth about the piano im sure they'll understand...if they say something sit them down and honestly talk it over with them. I play the guitar and drums...drums arent hard to play at all but i learned along time ago and if you want to play the guitar if you have comcast digital cable on demand they have a "learn to play guitar" under music for free... but i also know how to play because ive been in bands with my friends and sing to

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lately I have been having dreams and then the next day what happened in my dream happens. Can anyone help me?

lol that happens to me a lot maybe it might have to do with what your thinking about before you go to bed. But its totally normal

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is it ok for me to miss my mom when I'm 13?

yes it is ok to miss her when your 13 because when your young you need some1 there to teach you right and wrong and to love you but because your shes not there your not getting that...its like your mom has a special place in your heart but its only there when you do see her but u wish you could have it there always

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I hardly see my mom and she goes to work at 5:30 in th morning and if I don't say goodbye to her befor she leaves I cry for an hour! I don't usally cry but I have been lately but only if I don't say goodbye to her. What is wrong with me?! Am I a baby or is something else going on with me?Please help me!

you just arent getting the attention and care from your mom you need. I should no my mom goes to work at night at 10:00 and isnt home the whole nite and i only feel safe when shes home. Nothing is wrong with you its just miss her and need her

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There is this guy at my school that I really really like. and he likes me to. But he does pot and I am totally against drugs. what should I do?

well if it bothers you that much maybe you shouldnt because it could affect you 2. Also you might get into a bad situation because he could force you 2 do pot.

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Ok, I have a friend, let's call him Nick. I went out with Nick August through September. Well, he broke up with me because he got into smoking, drinking, dipping, and stealing again and he didn't want me to get started and make me all freaked and stressed. Me and him always talk, well used to at least. Now the only time we talk basically is in the mornings at school for breakfast. Now he has this girlfriend, let's call her Samantha. She's a total whore and they've had sex 3 times that I know of and they've done some sexual things with eachother. When I was going out with Nick he was still a virgin, and now all the sudden hes doing all this stuff every day. He's obviously gotten well over me but I still like him a lot and no-one knows that I do. The very few times that we talk it's always Samantha this Samantha that. And everytime he says anything about her it breaks my heart but he has no idea. I just don't know what to do to get over him, I'm so confused and lost. Please give me some sort of an idea. Sorry that it's so long..

maybe he had a really hard time when you guyz broke up so he is trying to influense you into thinking hes moved on who knows maybe you both have the same feelings for eachother. Try talking to him and maybe youll get the answer your looking for

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So, I like using fresh oranges on my face. They keep it really clear and feeling fresh and new. But, I can't just go and pick an orange everyday to use on my face. So, I was wondering if anyone knows of any orange based face products hat I could use, and where I could get them? Thank you.

im not sure what it is called but i think its from clearisil like orange morning outburst i tried a sample before and it works great and i loved the smell... have you ever seen the commercial when the 2 girls are getting up and one with curly hair uses it to like literally refresh and wake her up i guess lol

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Hi.
If I don't wash my hair every night then my hair gets and looks so oily.I usually do wash my hair everynight but every once in a while i don't have time. Does anyone know any products that i could use to make my hair less oily or anything i can use so it doesnt look oily....please.

Thanks!

well i have that problem to but i got pert plus with a 2 in 1 shampoo but light comditioner it really works

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ok i go to carroll middle school and i am 13 well anywas during the christmas break i forgot what the guy that i like looked like but wen i got back i notest that he got even hotter than he was before. if i forgot what he looks like during the christmas break but i think he is still hott and as cute as a baby do i really like him please help i am so comfused.

XxfluffyxX

Lol that happens to me....I think its because your so used to seeing his face everyday when your away for a long time you forget and when you try to remember in your head you can picture him but not clearly but yes you do really like him

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ok so i want to help small animals like help them go to good homes and everthing.....but i don't no how i can get money from supporters to BUY the animals first?should i get a sponser?
ps:it isn't trying to be all over the worl thing just like helping!!

Well i know me and my school started a fundraiser and we just raised the animals needs like food,beds,blah blah... Each summer i go and work at the pound near my house and i take pictures of the animals and write a little something about the pet and have my bff help me post them in like the supermarket or the library just make sure its in bright colors or will catch attention like a title "Pet looking for love" or whatever

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please help!!! fast!!! i am a 14 year old black girl and i am losing my hair. i don't think it's because of my health, but you i had permed my hair for a long time now. my hair has been growing ever since, but now it is all falling out.
i need help fast!!! does any one have any suggestions or what kind of a product to use to help. i am freaking out!!!!!!!!!

I think you need to talk to someone about that because its not normal...Are you possibly stressed because maybe that could be the factor

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Do you neciserrily have to think a guy is cute to like them? Like can you be attracted to just there personality and still have a crush on them?

OF COURSE!!! looks arent everything babe it matters more on personality yup

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I'm getting a haircut and I'm not sure what kind to get. I have dirty blonde hair to my shoulders. Its straight and really plain. No bangs. Any ideas?!?!?! I rate good if u give me a real answer!!! thanks a bunch!!

Maybe you should get it layered because thats soooooo cute

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i put this under Random Weirdos cause it doesnt really fit anywhere else. every winter i get painful dry skin on my hands. the skin cracks, splits then bleeds. it is only my hands and only in the winter! lotion helps a little, for about 10 min, but then my hands hurt again! what can i do/put on my hands?!

my friend has that issue to ;) idk wear gloves

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Okay, there was no real category available for this but i'll ask away anyhow:

I am very into drawing, and recently the pen i was using for inking ran out.

Does anyone know of a good pen brand for inking?

prefferably no more than $3 per pen. I'm on a rather strict budget right now ^^;

Any ideas?
Panda

drawing=pencils (you dont want to make so many mistakes unless you are super good at it which that is like my least subject in school art) but if you are good at it then maybe you could buy an artist pencil because my friend has them things

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i've been kinda cutting myself...it was kinda stupid at first but now it's serious. my life is kinda like crap rite now. grades, family, friends, and love...all that jazz. sometimes i feel like i just randomly wann cutt myself. i hate it. i know there is other ways to work it put but i don't wanna talk to my family and i've already talked to my friends. please help me and don't just pick on or make fun of me...really answer this question.

signed,
confused and lost

Dont cut!!! get help your confused,scared,and it doesnt ease the pain really it doesnt it just keeps your mind off the drama for a while

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Why is it that all teenage boys only want sex, sex and sex? Are there any teenage boys, anywhere, that want a serious relationship? It's so hard to even find a half decent guy anymore. Don't guys just ever want to take things slow and want a girl for more than just sex?

they reached that age when they think about sex every 16 seconds

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Ok I know this may sound wierd and all but the other day I was searching around in my parents room and i found strange things like handcuffs, whips, and wierd looking masks. I remember watching something on television about this sort of thing but im not sure if its really happening with my parents. Can somebody tell me what i should look out for.

Well personally they LIKE TO GET THEIR GROOVE ON

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can a 18 year old get in trouble for dating a 13 year old?

yes once you reached 18 anyone under 18 you cant date sry

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hey gurlz,
how can i make time to change my tampon at school? i never have time in between classes, and i dont like to leave the class w/ my purse b/c everbody would know. i usually don't put stuff in mypurse b/c all my friends go through it. i usually ut stuff in my lunch box, and change during lunch. can any of u give me advice on how to manage it?
i will rate high

keep it in your pocket or wear long sweatshirts

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