Anyone need advice or just to chat i am hoping to be able to help as many people as possibe. I am also on here to look for advice--hey we all need it! So if you need advice you can get to me as you prefer. Thank you and hope all is well
E-mail: Kam98@rcn.com
Gender: Female
Location: PA
Age: 27
AIM: sxeys4
Yahoo: sweeteyez4u2c@yahoo.com
Member Since: November 1, 2005
Answers: 157
Last Update: December 25, 2005
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How Do You Like Makeout With Some One I Never Have Before So I'm Like Scared I'll Do IT Wrong.... Ummm soo whoever knows give me some feedback please i rate high, and dont give me the b.s like oo practice on your hand lol ok thanks (link)
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To be honest there is no easy way to tell you how to do it. Just go with the flow..follow his lead and dont be too nervous. It will happen gradually. Hey you never know he may not be a good kisser either--but in time you will know what you have to do. Right now you have to go witht he flow...and depending on the person you may just say i never kissed anyone before and if he did maybe he will help you...my first kiss was kind of that way..its nothing to be embarassed of...hope it goes well for you
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Everyone in my school thinks im a slut. I have made bad decisions in the past, and now im a totally diffrent person. No one will give me the chance though to be my friend. EVERYONE HATES ME!!!! How can i loose this reputaion fast and gain friends back? (link)
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Everyone makes bad decisions in their life your true friends will stick by you..and new friends wont listen to "gossip". All that matters right now is you know you changed and if these "friends" dont see it then do you really think they are your friends. Hope i could help
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okay well theres this guy and i like him alot but he moved to alaska and i barley ever talk to him anymore and i just got threw talking to him and asked him if he still liked me and he does the thing is he was like my best guy friend be4 he left and now i have feelings 4 him and he told me that he might come back this summer. i realli hope he does but i have a boyfriend now and i dont no what to do. please help. (link)
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You never know what will happen by this summer. You are with someone now--make it work with him and be happy. if this other guy is your best friend do you want to take the chance of ruining it if things dont work out? then you dont have him as your best friend and you left someone you are with now..Its your call but think before you make any decisions
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Ok I need help. I have a boyfriend that i really like alot but my ex boyfriend that i loved like alot. and i got over that yet i still love him so i still think back sometimes. well he called me and it just brought back memories cuz i hadn't talked to him in a long time and i just need to know how to get over him bc im so happy..but i still get sad when i look at a picture of us or think about it..help..advice please (link)
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What you need to do is say to yourself--we broke up for a reason i moved on and i am happy-for whatever the reason you and your ex split your happy and its his loss-i would not ruin what you have now for someone you used to love(and may still love) but also you need to ask yourself if he loves you and if it is worth not beinghappy and breaking someone else's heart--hope i could help
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i was just wondering if this makes me fat.. because i think i am.. im 16 i weigh 107 and i wear size 5 pants.. just wondering what you think please be honest. (link)
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How tall are you? and fromt he sounds of it it dont sound like you are fat by any means tell me your height
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ok well i broke my wrist a coupple years ago like 2 or 3 and like the other day i was doing something and it started to hurt but now i have like a bump on my arm and i dont no what i did to make that happen but i think that i fractured my wrist but im not sure how can i tell...and i dont really feel pain in my arm when i break or hurt things.. example when i broke my wrist hella badly it didnt hurt at all and the doctors were freeking out and all tell me that it is odd that it didnt hurt at all..
how can u tell if you fracture you wrist without going to the doctor yet casuse i have to do a colorgaurd(twirling flags) thing tomorrow at 1/2 feild show for one of the biggest games that we have. and i cant go untill after that on friday.. so how can i tell? (link)
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I would not mess with your wrist you already broke it and there is no easy way to know if you fractured it...i would have a doctor look at it beings b/c you already had it damages. If you decide to go after your twirling be causious....
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I really need help. I don't know if the guy ment anything by this but it is really getting to me. Today I was on the phone with a good friend of mine,well then another friend got on. He knows I like his cousin. And I like his cousin a LOT! Well I talked to him for a lil' while and then I go okay let me talk to ________ and he was like 'fine just ditch me' and I was like 'I am sorry. But I still love you.' (they know I don't mean this) Then he goes' I love you to and if you didn't like my cousin I would so be hitting on you right now.' okay. IT GOT ME SOOOO confused. I don't know if he meant it or if he was just joking. And he is a Sr. while I am still a Fr. and well no guys really like me as a GIRLFRIEND but just as a FRIEND. And I doubt a SR. would even consider liking me because I am this short little girlish looking girl. So please HELP me. I don't know if this is really asking for advice or just to get people's opinions on what he ment.
I'll rate HIGH!
C*O*N*F*U*S*E*D (link)
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Honestly it shouldnt matter if he was kidding or not b/c you like the cousin-right dont let another person intere with that. And he should not even be saying something like that when he knows you like his cousin. If he meant it--yah he proboly did but you have to be careful that he doesnt try to ruin something for his cousin--hope i could help
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ok so heres the thing i just started dating this guy but he has done some bad things like he shopelifted once and he cheated on one of his old girl friends i really like him but i dont no y all my friends told me i shouldnt like him but my mom told me to do what i think is right but i really really like him and i dont think i should and it is just so confussing but he promised me he would never do that stuff agian i just dont no what i should do plz help
♥~*marykate*~♥ (link)
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Honestly it does not sound like he is a good person for you..on the other hand people change and if he has never done this stuff to you it would be your decision to give it a chance but the downfall would be if he unintentionally hurts you in some way. But as for the cheating--once a cheater always a cheater usually doesnt change unless the person grows up and realizes the hurt that has caused the other person. So i would not tell you yes or no but look at the overall picture and if you dont have good feelings about it then you probobly should not put yourself in that situation or set yourself up for trouble Hope i could help
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Well I am finally 19 (the legal age in Canada) and I am going to go clubbing for the first time because I've never wanted to risk using my fake at a club because apparently, they take them away.
So my friends were all talking about VIP lounges and how you pay for people's drinks and clubwear and bartenders and types of drinks.
This make me feel really oblivious.
Is there anything really important I need to know before I go in case I look really stupid? (link)
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Going to clubs are fun. There isnt anything you need to know except: take you I.D,take your money,and dance dance dance!!!! When you need a drink you go to the bar tell them what you want
they will get it and leave a tip and your off to the floor!!!!!!hope i could help
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To start off, im 13 female.
i really need your help..
i dont live with either of my parents,i live with my grandparents, because my mom was a addicted to drugs and my dad was addicted to sex ( with other people besides my mom ) well they never got married, it was like a 1 night stand thing. and of course i myself was a mistake. < im over that now... any ways the judge guy said that me and my sister ( who is almost 16 ) are not allowed to live with her or be alone with her ( one time when i was two, my grandmaw was in the back yard playing with me and my sister and i was in the grass a little farther from them and my mom came , she was high, and she came through the gate and took me and i was gone for 2 1/2 months and then my mom went to jail i dont know what for though but then this lady brought me back ). that was like when i was little. any ways i always hang out with my mom now, and she has her life mostly staightened out but she still has her liscense suspended and isnt allowed to drive ( sometimes she still does ) well i have been places with her alot and she was talking on the phone with this guy she lives with and she was like walking away from me when she was talking to him and she was like i need some and i heard him say need some what and she was like you know what i am talking about and then she didnt kno i heard her and so she was through talking to him and she hung up.. well today i spent the night at her house and we went to the gas station at like 8 in the morning, ( she was driving ) and then she called this guy on the phone and her exact words were " i need four" and he was like alright come over and get them and so we went to his house but she made me stay in the car and she went inside and was gone for like 10 minutes... well i think shes into drugs again and i think she is cheating on her boy friend with other guys because when she got back she said " i had to talk to my other boyfriend " and it juss hurt me so bad knowing that she is doing all this.. well do you guys think shes into drugs again? im really worried.. should i juss wait and see where this all takes me or should i confront her, or go to my grandparents.. but i think they might not let me see her again if i do.. im soo lost! please help me.. i rate 5's
signed
- confused (link)
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Hunny i am going to be straight forward with you and i know first hand b/c my mom left when i was 2yrs old. I am 27 now. She is on drugs. She is a drug addict and once you are classified as that it dont change. I am telling you this b/c my mom is one and so was my sons dad(i say was b/c he passed away 1 yr ago from drugs) They are harsh-and very addictive and i am going to telly ou this much..it may not be the drug of her choice but she will take wahtever she has to to keep her sane. The thing with drug addicts is say they are off drugs for ohhh 1yr,they are very weak and as soon as it apporaches they will do it;or even if something triggers them as little as stress they will find it and get it. Hunny uour mom needs help for herself and nomatter how much she wants to change its almost nearly next toimpossible if she dont do it for herself. I am sure she loves you but she is an addict. They know what iis best for them and they know they need to change but they dont know how to do it. I havent seen my mom for 10 yrs(actually i seen her about 2 yrs ago and i dont even think of her as my mom uust another person in and out of my life-and eventually i learned to deal witht he fact and i said she can have her drugs and i even tol dher that--and yah know what...she chose her drugs...) You should talk to your grandparents they love you and if they say you shouldnt see your mom you dont realize it now but it is for the better--your grandparents love you and want whats best for you..unfortunetly your mom is not good for you,and i knowit hurts i deal with it tothis day.) If you need anymore advice i am here for youjust hit me up. Hope i could help
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I like this guy but the thing is, he doesn't like me. and whenever he gets jealous he likes me. and when i dropped this guy that he was jeaslous of he didn't like me anymore. so...the same situation is with this guy that likes me. should i go out with the guy who likes me to get him jealous??
thanks in advance!!! (link)
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No do not go with the guy that likes you to make someone else jealous b/c not only is that wrong but you are going to hurt someone who does like you and the guy that just likes you when he gets jealous should grow up. You deserve better than that and this guy that does like you seems to know what he wants....you
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Hello. I was just at my friends yesterday and from about 6 to 10 she was on the computer talking to her "internet boy friend" so i hung out with her sister. Then this morning same thing over again. Her dad even told her that it was rude and she didnt care and she knew i was upset. Shes the one that invited me so it makes very little sense too me. Shes my best friend and i dont want to stop being her friend or going to her house but shes a little to attached to her computer. What should i do? (link)
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You should the next time she asks you to come over tell her your not b/c she is always on the computer,and see what she says. Let her know it bothers you and see if she can wait until you leave to go on.
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Some of my friends are smoking (cigarettes). I'm really worried but I don't think they'll listen to me if I ask them to stop. Should I stop hanging out with them or what? I'm afraid of being pressured by them. (link)
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You dont have to stop hanging out with them but if they were your friends they wont pressure you inot doing something you dont want to--you have your own mind and its your body you are taking better care of.
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ok my parents were not home so i took there car out to practice my driving.then i took the car to go out to the mall and go shopping.when i came back from shopping there was a huge scratch on the hood of it!please help!!! (link)
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There is no way around it--if you lie it will make it worse. You have to be honest with your parents-you may still be in trouble but to be honest you were grown up enough to take the car and unfortunetly something happened to it so now you have to be grown up and take the consequences-but lieing makes it worse so if you can go to your parents tell them what happened they will respect that you had enough to come to them before they found out themself---
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What if your preganent by another guy? A you told the one person you thoght you could trust. Then she went around the whole entire skool and told everybody. Then your boy friend found out, what do you do????????????/ (link)
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Well the best thing to do is be honest-you cant live a lie-not to yourself and definetly not to your boyfriend and not the guy you are pregnant by-everyone needs to know the truth. Not to sound harsh but you obviously cheated on your b/f you were mature enough to make that decision now you have to face what has happened. Its not about you anymore its about that baby. I am a single mom of 2 and once you have that responsibility its all about the baby from now on out, As for the person you told and trusted you now know you cant trust that person with nothing and either you will forgive that person or you will move on your way with them. You have a lot of bigger issiues to worry about and not the petty. Hope i could help and its not to be mean it reality.
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I`m moving in a few months, and I`m very scared. I've lived in the same house for all my life, gone to schools right next to each other ( the elm. && middle schools are right next to each other ) progressed through each grade with the same familiar faces all around, and hung out doing nothing with my same group of best friends every weekend. I usually hate change, and I do now too. I love my life exactly the way it is, I find myself crying everynight `cause I don't want to move. I am very fortunate though, I`m moving only about 15 minutes away, but I am going to be at a new school / school district. I have one person I know at this new school, However my current school is so full they are redistricting a few neighborhoods to my new school. So I will know some people. I know yall probably think I`m a greedy wimp for being so sad even when I`ll have some friends, but you don't understand. It's been the same way all my life and I love it, I`m afraid of change, afraid of this move, afraid to leave what I love.
- how do I get over this fear ? How can I make the best of my move? How can I be sure my "friends" now won't forget about me when I move ? (link)
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I understand why you are scard-and it is natural. What you have to do is go into this new school with your head up and be yourself. There will be many changes in your life-alot will be unexpected,and you will have to find a way to deal with them. Maybe you might want to take this time to deal with this and when you get through it you can say that was not so bad and when something else approaches that you have to deal with you can learn from this change. Just keep in mind everyone is their ownself no one however is better than you Hope i could help
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How do you know when the right time to make out with your boyfriend is?? How do you know if you're doing it right? (link)
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Only uou will know when the time is right. Ask yourself if your ready and if he is ready it will come natural. It is not something that is usually planned,good luck and hope i could help
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ok my bf just dumped me but he still flirts with me in class. he tells all his friends he likes me but he wont tell me that he likes me. today i even herd him talking to the other guys saying how i have a nice ass and every thing. do u think i should care about it. plz help.
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ok its kind of hard to understand why he dumped you? and is still flirting with you. Its up to you if you want to care about it or not but personally i would not take it any further than that-i mean obviously he does not want to be committed to you he wants his freedom and wants to still"have you" in some way. Depending on your situation its your call-but it dont seem like he is very mature at this point. I hope i could help
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The other day I was talking on AIM, and my friend said "This guy took horse viagra and got really bad e.r." What does e.r. stand for? (link)
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i am going to say erection. (e-rection)sorry never heard that before
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I cannot find a job anywhere. I'm 14 I live in Pittsburgh, and I can't find any jobs fit for my age in my area. I've searched on this site called teens4hire.com and there is no job for me in my area. If anyine has any information please help. I would really appreciate it.
Sincerly,
TweetyBird (link)
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At your age it is going to be very hard to find a job.Most places want you to be at least 16. You can try like a fast food place but honestly it is going to be hard. How about a paper route? or maybe a place where you hand out flyers--i know it sounds lame but again its your age that is going to matter and you need working papers also. I hope i could help
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