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Cousins
I really need help. I don't know if the guy ment anything by this but it is really getting to me. Today I was on the phone with a good friend of mine,well then another friend got on. He knows I like his cousin. And I like his cousin a LOT! Well I talked to him for a lil' while and then I go okay let me talk to ________ and he was like 'fine just ditch me' and I was like 'I am sorry. But I still love you.' (they know I don't mean this) Then he goes' I love you to and if you didn't like my cousin I would so be hitting on you right now.' okay. IT GOT ME SOOOO confused. I don't know if he meant it or if he was just joking. And he is a Sr. while I am still a Fr. and well no guys really like me as a GIRLFRIEND but just as a FRIEND. And I doubt a SR. would even consider liking me because I am this short little girlish looking girl. So please HELP me. I don't know if this is really asking for advice or just to get people's opinions on what he ment.
I'll rate HIGH!
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I think that he likes you. And i think that he knew that if he told you, you would tell him that he you like his cousin. Well he didnt see the point in telling you b/c you like his cousin so he hept it a secret util that day. I think that if you might like this guy you should get him before he gets away. You may never have another chance to date a senior. But to find out for sure you should ask him. You guys are good friends so you can talk to hm about anything. If you dont like face to face tal then write him a note or even call him.
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A SR. WOULD DEFINITELY LIKE YOU!!!! Its not that big of an age difference anymore (not like in middle school) Trust me. A lot of guys in my school (I'ma sophmore) go for the younger girls. Also, don't let flattery get in the way of you liking his cousin. Since you didnt like him before, then it should mean nothing to you. Just keep being friends with him before. Maybe he will eventually bring it up and explain what you meant. But even if he does like you, dont ever go for him unless you are over his cousin and are sure that you like him and its not just flattery. (I know that you didnt ask anything about that, but if it comes up in the future, I hope that helps you)
Well good luck with the cousin..Keep me posted with what happens!
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Honestly it shouldnt matter if he was kidding or not b/c you like the cousin-right dont let another person intere with that. And he should not even be saying something like that when he knows you like his cousin. If he meant it--yah he proboly did but you have to be careful that he doesnt try to ruin something for his cousin--hope i could help
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Well that is sure an age difference,
but age is just a number right?
Well it depends on how he said that..
did he say it sarcasticly or nervously..
because if it was nervously then I think thats his way of saying he likes you.
And the fact that he brings up you liking his cousin, and that if you didnt like him he'd be all overyou..
thats another way hes trying to tell you he likes you.
so .. Maybe set him clear on how you feel?
I hope i helped.
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