Well Lets see here.. Theres not much to me.. I'm 21 yrs old. I got married in march of 2008... My husband is in the army... He is currently serving his second tour in Iraq.. He's due home in a couple of weeks! I love to help people in anyway that I can.. I hope to go to nursing school here very soon... I guess thats all to me
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Just a few days ago my boyfriend bought me flowers just randomly. Well i got some pictures of us developed and had him pick out his fav. one. Today I'm going to get it inlarged and framed... and he guessed i was going to do that. Does anyone have any good ideas of little things i could get him including the picture. The flowers were sweet but I want to do something for him too besides a picture. Thanks and I will rate! (link)
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I'm not sure what else you could get him... Maybe you could get him a card saying how much you love him.. and write something in it saying how greatful you are to have him in your life.. and some cute stuff like like.. maybe even some of his favorite colonge or something. Hope this helped a little
~*Jackie~*
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I am 17/f. I had this childhood friend of like 8-9 years. We were best friends, but then we hit a ofrk in the orad and she turned to drugs about a year and a half ago. When I fisrt found out that she did it, I was pissed and told her that she was dumb and shouldnt do it again. She told me she wouldn't, that she was just tryingit so I gave her the benifit of the doubt. Her and I stopped being friends about 6 months ago. She started becoming really selfish,and just always pissing me off. She was telling me she was clean but I know her too well and could tell by how she wasacting that she was lying to me. Now she hangs around with my younger sister who is 16. I just found out the other day, that just as I thought, she is still using. My sister told me she snorts heroin in front of her all the time and that she is getting really bad. She also told me that she offered her soem to try but my she told her no. The fact that she had the nerve to offer my sister drugs really pisses me off. I feel like calling her up and telling her off. I have been debating on doing this for like the past 3 days. I cant seem to stop thinking about it. I understand that she is ruining her life but why would she encourage someone else to do the same? I wanna call her or so bad! I am so mad! I don't know what to do. (link)
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If I were you.. I would def call her and tell her how you feel.I dont have friends that are into drugs like yours is... Most of mine just do pot... and I know my sister has done that a couple times. But thats not as deadly as herion.. But... You def need to call her and tell her whats up.. and you need to keep your sister away from her.. Because one day your sister is gonna feel like she needs to do what shes doing to fit in.. and then thats not going to be good..
I hope this helped..
~*Jackie~*
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well i have some of my friends going to my advice column and asking questions, which is pretty cool, BUT.. some of the questions are involving me and idk how to answer them! help! idk what to do?! (link)
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I'm not sure what I would do in your situation. But.. What I can say is try to put yourself in the position of these people. and pretend that you arent you. Act like your name is someone elses name.. and Give them the advice youd give another person asking the same advice... Thats the only thing i can say.. I hope this helps..
~*Jackie~*
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the only way i can get a cell phone is if i pay for it, and i was just wondering how many ppl felt that it would be worth it? (link)
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The best cell phone to start out with is probably a trac phone.. Like a Nokia or maybe even a virgin Mobile.. Depending on what brand you get they are less then $100.. and you buy your phone cards... with the virgin mobile you get 20 dollars on your phone for 20 dollars.. 30 for 30 and so on.... Its very easy to use.. and this way.. you can pay for your own cell phone.. My sister has a virgin mobile phone... So this is the way you should go.. Hope I helped..
~*Jackie~*
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I have been with my current boyfriend for quite a while, and I love him greatly, but I have begun to realize that I still have feelings for an ex that I had a while back. He was probably the first person I truly cared about, but then he ended it. I don't understand why after all of this time I am realising that I'm not really over him, and I don't know what I'm supposed to do about it. I feel guilty having these feelings and at the same time they hurt. Anyone know what I can do? (link)
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I'm not sure what you can do... But I know the feeling... I've had a couple boyfriends since my ex... and I truely loved my ex.. and it had ended... and the guy i was just with made me the happiest girl alive.. but my point is that no matter how hard you try.. you can never fully get over an ex that you truely cared about. There always some of him that will stay with you forever. and that is ok... But.. if it starts interfering with your relationship that you have now.. Then you will need to decide what you want to do. Maybe you could sit down with your current boyfriend and let him no.. But make sure you let your boyfriend no you love him.. and only him.. I hope this helped
~*Jackie~*
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I'm looking for a guy that woud fit me well but each time i go out with the guys i fing something i hate about them right away...what should i do? (link)
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Sweetie.. I know how you feel.. I'm the same way... My problem is I try comparing these guys to my ex.. and if i cant find somethinng they have that my ex had I dont give them a chance.. But.. You really need to give people a chance.. Even if you dislike something about them.. Still try and give them a chance... Thats about the best advice I can give you... I hope I helped.
~*Jackie~*
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i used 2 live in north carolina nd i had a great boi friend. then i moved nd we broke up because he was cheating on me.. well now i'm moving bac nd i still love him nd he loves me nd he said he never cheated on me, but wen we 1st went out he was cheating on dis otha girl w/ me. sp should i go bac out w/ him or not? plz help me
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Sweetie.. I don't think that you should get back with this guy.. you may love him and all.. but no girl deserves to be cheated on. no matter what she may do to deserve it.. or what she doesnt do... They say.. Once a cheater.. always a cheater.. and I believe that...
I hope this helped
~*Jackie~*
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okay so there is this boy josh and we've liked eachother off and on for about 1 year...and well everytime i do sumthing with him or hook up with him he always plays me over again and again. i don't knoe wut to do cuz i really like him alot too and hes a good kisser and i have fun when im with him. but this last time he played me was bad and i promised to my self that i wouldn't EVER fall for him again but ..... he told my friend shaniqua that he felt really bad for wut he did and he never should have and that he really wants me back... and well i kinda want him back too but i don't wanna get hurt again. so wut do i do??
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Sweetie.. I don't think you should get back with with him.. I've been in the same situation before.. I know its hard to accept the fact.. but.. once a player... always a player... even if he says hes not.. Deep down he knows hes always going to be a player.. no girl needs to go through that pain... So if i were you.. I would move on.. and find a guy that will treat you right....
Hope I helped.. If ya need anything else.. drop one in my inbox!
~*Jackie~*
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hey my hair is a blondeish color now..got that way from the sun...i have nothing against blonde hair on other people, i just don't like the way it looks on me. i have kind of pale skin, and dark brown eyes. my hair is 2 inches longer than shoulder length and very layered and straight. does anyone have any good hair colors i could dye it while still looking natural? like i mean specific colors--not "brown" or "red"...like maybe a color on a dying kit and the number of it (link)
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I had blonde hair for a long time.. and Im pretty pale... But.. I got use to it.. but.. my hair is naturally a brownish color.. So I dyed my hair.. and I used Hydrience and the color is called Carribean Caramel.. Its an amazing color I love it... its like.. brown wiht some tints of red.. and it looks almost my natural color... But i love this color..and it would look good on anyone... Hope I helped :)
~*Jackie~*
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I'm not to sure what this falls under but I wanted peoples thoughts. I love kids, honest to God they are the best thing that has happened in my life (I don't have any). This lady at my church is having a baby in Oct. and has a 10 month old who is smaller for his size, anyways he will be staying with us more then likely. I have a two story house along with basement stairs and breakable stuff. Our house is not by any means baby-proof. Does anyone have any good ideas that don't cost a ton of money because this is probably only going to happen once and I don't expect on having children for another 15 years...LOL THANKS!
Megan (link)
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Well... I have a 14 month old.. and my house is pretty similar to yours... But what we did was we bought the baby gates and them up at the steps.. and a couple other places where there were chances of her getting her.. or a place where there is breakable stuff... my daughter doesnt play with the outlets or anything but they have the covers that go into the outlets that arent in use to keep the baby from putting stuff into them... I hope this helped..
~*Jackie~*
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i am 17 and i have been dating my bf for 11 months at 8 months he asked me to marry him i said yes..then we talked about moving in a place i was thrilled..1 week before our 11 months we broke up(not seen eachother in 3 weeks) . he said he wanted to be single.two days later we got back together and that same day talked about our place again? whats wrong with him???who does that! isnt that wierd??advice (link)
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That is kind of weird.. But you 2 have been together for awhile.. and if he isnt a player anymore.. maybe just needed some time to himself to see if this is what he wants.. and if its the right thing to do.. It's better that he did that now... that way when your about to get married he says I cant do this.. I'm not sure if this is what I want.. but.. if you feel like he's not honest about wanting the marriage and the place.. talk to him and see if its what he wants..Hope I helped
~*Jackie~*
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Ok, well my friend is having this party this coming saturday and shes inviting her cousin. i think he's really fun to be around and stuff but all he wants to do is makeout with girls at the party. i like him, but im not into like just meeting a guy and making out. and since ive never made out with anyone, im scared. i was thinking of just not going to the party so i wouldnt have to worry about him wanting to make out. wat should i do? im 13 and hes 15. (link)
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I think that you should still go to the party... from the sounds of it.. hes a little more expierenced them you are.. and that is perfectly normal.. your only 13... give your self some time.. but if worse comes to worse just tell him that you are not into just meeting someone and making out with them... and tell him that you like him so that he knows.. But make sure you tell him you would like to get to know him.. and after that.. maybe you can take things to the next level. Don't do something until you feel your comfortable doing it..
Hope I helped
~*Jackie~*
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This is 4 all the girls out there (but I guess guys could help too)! How do or did u get over ur boyfriend who just broke up w/ u? (Or if u are a boy, how do u get over ur girlfriend?) Well, it's totally draggin me down, but maybe sum ideas will help? (link)
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I've answered questions like this alot on here.. and I'm going to give you the same answer i gave the other people.. If you were in love with this guy.... You will probably never fully get over him. When you love someone and really care about them.. There is a part of them that remains with you forever... I was going through the same thing. But the best thing you can do.. is go out and try to meet new guys. Just dont try and compare them with your ex.. because you need to give other people chances. and if you just compare them with your ex then you will never like anyone... So give other people a chance.. and its ok if you are still in love with your ex.. everyone has an ex they are still in love with.. or have some feelings for...
Hope I helped..
~*Jackie~*
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ok well yeaterday at about like 2a.m. I went driving in town with my cuzine and her older bro (he's only 17) he drove us around and well he was smoking pot in the car so I got totally nervous and I didn't know what to do so I just staid in the car worring my butt off and when I got home at around 10 my dad smelt the pot and asked me if I smoked but I didn't pin it on my cuz did I do the right thing? I rate high:D (link)
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I'm not sure that you did the right thing.. If it was me.. I would of probably told.. Only because smoking pot in a car... and if you get pulled over... you will all get charged with possesion of weed... whether you didnt do it.. or you didnt have any.. you will all get charged (well thats how it is in NY anyway) and I would have rathered have my dad say something to my cousin to make him realize that.. or would you rather have him get pulled over by the cops.. and possible Jail time..
Hope I helped
~*Jackie~*
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I am a 14 year old guy and I like a 10 year old girl, is this ok?? (link)
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Sweetie.. I would honestly just let this one go... She's 10... you dont want to go there.. Her parents would most likely get the wrong idea.. your young.. try to go for people a little closer to your age.. This one just most likely wouldnt work.. She most likely hasnt hit puberty yet.. and is at the stage where she thinks boys are gross.... My sister is about 10 and shes like that.. Hope this helped
~*Jackie~*
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ok well my boyfriend wants to have like alot of sex you know and I'm not ready for that yet but once he pushed me when I said no and he yelled at me and just left I don't know why but I'm scared to say no to him and I'm doing sumthing with him tonight I need serious help (link)
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if your not ready to take your relationship to the level of having sex with him.. Then Dont... Dont push yourself to doing something your not ready to do.. and if your boyfriend cant accept the fact that your not ready for that step.. Then hes not someone you want to be with..I know you may love him. But you dont want to be with a guy that pressures you into doing something you dont want to do.. Because that will make him think that whatever he wants hes just gotta yell... throw a fit or whatever.. and youll give in.. and you dont want him to think that.. I hope I helped
~*Jackie~*
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all my life i've bin mostely put down about the way i look even if it wasent intentional...so now that i'm older (15) i am starting to get compliments from ppl(guys) but not many but even so i cant take them i always say something that disses myself and i'm staring to think maybe i do look good but when i look in the mirror i just see ugly and its bugs....i'm thinking maybe i just need a guys that will finaly treat me right so i might feel better but i'm not sure. maybe if that happens i will change cuz all the guys i've ever dated put me down in some way or another so that might have something to do with it but i dunno if you can help this problem i am saying THANK YOU! (link)
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You dont need a guy or a boyfriend in your life to tell you that you look good... I know it hurts when people say something about you that puts you down. But the best thing you can do... Is just keep your chin up.. and realize that you are a beautiful girl and that no matter what anybody says to you... you will always have your own confidence. If you think you are ugly... Try doing stuff with your hair.. or maybe even a little make-up and see if that makes you feel better about yourself. I know someone who usta hate seeing herself in pictures.... in the mirror because people always put her down.. But she started wearing make-up and having confidence in herself.. and now... She is always staring in the mirror.. and smiling.. and when she gets a very good compliment... Her ego gets pretty big.lol.. I hope this helped a little..
~*Jackie~*
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ok well when I get mad I tend to cut myself very badly my parents found out and sent me to the doctor but he didn't do anything to help me stop cutting he just asked me questions like did your parents abuse you and stuff like that and I still cut myself more and more I get mad I don't know why am I mental do I have an illness I need help plz I'm scared I might kill myself one day (link)
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I don't know how to make you stop cutting yourself because that is your choice. But. about a year ago. I walked in on my cousin cutting himself. and he didnt have a really bad life. If he would have cutten himself any deeper he would have died. but luckly he just severly hurt his hand. He can barely use that hand anymore and he had to go through a very painful surgery and a painful recovery. But Cutting yourself will never solve anything. Whether you are depressed..Mad.. or whatever you are... But... Maybe you need to be put on some medicine to try and control this habit that you have.. I dont know what else to say.. But. It wont solve any of your problems..
Hope I helped
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if you dye your hair, is there any way to get it out before it washes out? (link)
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The only way you can get hair dye out before it washes out is to get your hair stripped.. and that is very expensive...
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i feel like i'm going into depression! my life seems like its getting worse everydaY!! i will NEVER cut tho! just the thought makes me feel ick! but i dont no wut to do! i lost my b/f recently and i dont no.. i feel like nothing good is happening! what should i do? (link)
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Maybe you should go talk to someone.. its hard to talk to your parents about this kind of stuff.. They just say your young.. youll get over it... What I mean by going and talking to somoene I mean like a shrink.. or someone who knows what your going through... Maybe even a really close friend who you know wont mention what you say to anyone else.. I'm glad you would never cut yourself.. that never solves anything.. But I do no how you feel.. Ive been in that position before...
Hope this helped.
If you need anything. Just drop one in the inbox
~*Jackie~*
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