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heyy i`m lindsay -- fifteen -- and currently loving the life that i have =) ask me anything and i`ll help you as best as i can!!
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hey! i was just wondering if anyone who's willing would give me ONE sentence on what the best part of being a teenager is for them cuz i want to make a list and i think it would be really cute!! thanks

the BEST part of being a teenager is being able to drive!!!

lemme kno when yer done with the list!! do you need my screen name or whatever??

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hey i moved and b4 i moved me and this guy are talking and we kinda have a long distance relationsjip but it's nothing official. he's leaving for the airforce in 5 days and will be stationed 3 hours from me rather than the 14 it has been. should we go ahead and make it official or w/e or see other people. it tears me apart that i cant see him..cuz i like him SO much..lol im sucha dork

your not a doooork that would be really hard =/. I think you should just go ahead and give it a shot, because hey you never kno unless you try. And if it doesn't work out, well then at least you kno you gave it a shot and it wont be bugging you, and then you can go on to guys that are closer.

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i just found out that one of my best friends has been telling people that i was pregnant and had a miscarriage before, it really hurt when i found out, especially when i found out that this was why my boyfriend broke up with me, i want to tell her how i feel but i have no clue what to say, any ides on what i should do?

omg go yell at her SO bad and dont hold ANYTHING back. well actually no...find out for SURE that shes actually saying that, just ask her and if she denies it then say we how come so and so told me you were? and how come my boyfriend broke up with me becuz SOMEONE was saying that crap about me? what a great "best friend"

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I have an oppsetion i have to mow the lawn everyday my parents are really worryed about my problem what should i do?????

lol maybe you need to buy new jeans that arent old navy? haha jp

or you can always come and mow my lawn? haha jp again

If you REALLY like mowng the lawn that much..then go out and ask your neighbors if you can mow their lawn...and say that you'll doit for free..or maybe if you want money, then wow thats the perfect way to make money.

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theres this guy that has liked me for quite some time now, i even got in a fight with him b/c he liked me during the time he had a g/f and i told his girlfriend to ler her know and he denied it. Now theyve been broken up for quite a few months now and he lieks me, and im starting to liek him. him and i ahve said some hurtful things to eachother but now we're over it, we've matured and nwo we tslk to eachother again. my best friend still cant believe that i would even be friends with him after some thigns that he's said. she tells me that i shouldnt give him a chance. but i want to. what do i do? my best friend practically hates him. please help..i rate good!!!

wow okay, well dont be TOO sure because if he had a girlfriend before and yet he was telling you that he likes you, then i would be careful and make sure he's not doing any of that crap to anybody else. But if he really likes you that much, and you like him to then go for it. Your best friend will get over it...i mean everyone says bad things when they're in a fight. And she can't decide who you wanna go out with

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DUDE!!! What is a "Glitter Name"??? I see those questions all of the time, and I have NO damn clue as to what it is! Would someone be as kind as to enlighten me???

have you ever seen anyones buddy4u thats like all fancy and stuff?? cuz lots of people have them on there..its like just someones name or maybe itll say welcome or something thats like in bubbley letters and its sparkely. they`re pretty cool

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what sort of crunchies do you need to do to get abs? like how far off the ground? like little ones that ur shoulder barely gets off the ground or like.. all the way up? please answer: {1}- how far off the ground works best? {2}- if i run 3 times a week and do that everyday how long (approx) will it maybe take?

umm depends on how fast you want to get abs. If you want them really soon, then i`d try going pretty high up, or maybe even doing sit ups and doing like 100 or so a night maybe? But if you dont really care how long it takes you then you should do little ones with just shoulder blades off the ground. And it depends on how far you run...

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My birthday is coming up in november and i really want to have a party..does anyone have any ideas of what kinds of parties i could have? I would want a lot of my friends to be able to come!

how old are you?? if you want guys and girls at the party...then do something like rent out the YMCA for a few hours...and have people come and you can either do like a dance thing in the gym..or you can have people playing basketball or swimming or anything like that. Or skating is always fun. but if you have a big house then have a boy/girl party at your house with just music or movies or whatever.

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i love all my friends dont get me wrong but i really like one of my friends and he knows i like him but he has a girl freind and i think he likes me but i really dont know what to do??

how long has he been going out with this girl? because if it hasn't been for a very long time then he might like you? But if they`ve been going out for a while then i dont know...just ask him how his relationship is going with her and then take it from there

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Okay Herez My Deal:
My friend and I have gotten into lotz of fights before well one time she gave me this girls p/w so i went on her s/n real quick to get this boyz s/n and then i signed off and never went on it again well my "friend" told the girl and she called me a female dog in her profile and said never go on my s/n again and its mostly emmie! and then she got mad at them because they went up to her house carlee,gabby(the one's who p/w i had),and mallory and carlee said to emmie why r u leaving mallory out and emmie said cuz i don't like her! and then gabby said im on emmies side then carlee started saying funny stuff and gabby said im on carlee's side now and well emmie told me this on the phone and hung up! but i have had lotz of good times w/ emmie but shes really fat and no one likes her!what should i do? Please HELP!

wow..thats confusing...which one do you want to tell off?? id say just tell her how you feel, it mite cause a little fight but itll most likely clear up soon if you tell her. and if you dont tell her then stuff is probably just gonna keep happening like this.

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whats the biggest difference between high school and middle school?

high school is bigger...way more people..your more independent..and more challenging.

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ok well one of my really closest friends birthday is in couple of weeks and i dunno what to get her....she is girly and she loves pink! i dunt want to get her a giftcard or anything and i cant go to a salon and that stuff....but what do u think wuld make a really cute present? plz answer..and i will rate ya

make something!!! like a scrapbook..or whatever, just be creative! Or get her like a picture frame with a cute picture of you two, and hten get something that has to do with an inside joke between you guys.

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It seems like the only thing boys like me for is my looks. I mean there's this one really nice guy that likes me for my personality, but most guys don't even TRY to get to know me, they just like my looks. -.-; Anyone else have this problem? o.O;

I rate! ^_^

haha...cuz MOST guys are shallow retards. maybe your just lookin at the wrong type of guy...do you hang out with like mostly popular guys? cuz all they care about is their reputation and getting action. maybe try getting to kno a few of the not as popular guys....youd be surprised at how nice they are!

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ok i look at my advice page and half of it doesn't even come up it just has a little 1 on the bottom it won't show the rest of the page what do i do?

is it all the way loaded? maybe its just something wrong with your computer..whats your advice page ill see if it does the same for me

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I'm really into writing Dark Poems, REALLY dark poems. But the weird thing is, I'm a REALLY happy person who leads a good life with a loving family and lots of friends. o.o; I don't have any depression or anything and I'm not going through Teen Angst. Is something wrong with me? o___O;

nothings wrong with you!! Just be thankful you can write awesome poems like that. it just means your creative and talented.

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Ok...so i'm really popular and everyone thinks i'm hott and i really want a boyfriend...but none of the guys give me the time of day...WHAT AM I DOING WRONG! PLZ HELP!

you seem confident enough...but maybe your just acting too desperate, or maybe its your personality. just make sure your nice to everyone n dont be abitch or think your better than anybody else

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I just started giving advice TODAY. And already I've given like tons of advice! Am I addicted? Lol! xDD

haha.. when i first got it i sat there for like ever looking at questions and answering them..and i still do that!! haha who knos maybe we just like helping people out lots

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i know this is really long.. but i really need help.

okay.. me and my boyfriend of like 2 yrs just broke up about 3 weeks ago. we were always the couple that everyone said "are going to get married.. they belong together" and we were SO CLOSE! there was never a day that we didnt talk fool around or just love being with eachother. we broke up and things were a little weird for like a week.. but now its just like were best friends again. and its weird bc sometimes its even like were still a couple. we always talk and laugh and fool around.. and i miss it. sometimes i still want to be with him but other times i just love being single and i think maybe its the best for the both of us.. that maybe its just time to move on- and that doesnt scare me, bc in some cases i just want to move on.
okay- so a little while after we broke up he started fooling around w/ one of my "friends".. this got me really upset. not that it happened just the fact that my friend wud do that to me after that long of a relationship and she totally knew how much he still meant to me.
then i met this guy. hes like amazing. we became close and i got with him a couple times. its not like were BF/GF but.. i think we might be getting there. we both like e/o. my ex knows n all of our friends too. i like both my ex and this new guy.. do u think i should hang on to my ex bc things might go back to how they were before (like they have done before).. or should i just totally move on from my ex and be with my new guy. im so confused i just need help.. i like my new guy.. but i dont wanna leave my old love if there is still something between us.. what should i do?

why did you guys break up? and who broke up with who? becuz if he broke up with you then maybe he just felt like being single for a while or something...and if hes already fooling around with other people then who knos maybe its time to move on. And you probably will still like him for a while, wow 2 years thats along time...itll take a while to get over him. but try n get with that new guy and see how it goes, maybe you and your ex will realize after a while that you miss each other and its not the same being with different people.

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If you fell in love (like REALLY fell head over heals in love) and you know it will never ever EVER work out(like the man might as well be dead its so never ever going to happen), is it normal to feel like you'll never love anyone that way again? He didn't break up with me cuz we weren't ever really together, but my heart is broken. I'm not angry with him or anything either. Its just that I know in my heart that i will never feel this way about anyone ever again, just is it normal?

ugh ive felt like that...and yea its normal that you dont think youll ever feel that way about any one else again...but hey someone else came along n proved me totally wrong.

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Ok I dont know how to get my buddy profile with picuters on it...iv seen sum really cool ones but mine is plain. can sumone help me???

do you use buddyprofile.com?? cuz i duno if that one will work with it...i use www.buddy4u.com

and what i do is take a picture n scan it or w/e, then go to photobucket.com & upload it, and then copy and paste the line that says tag into wherever you want it on your profile.

hopefully that wasnt too confusing..if you need help then inbox me

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