I'm a cool chico, and I try to help others to love themselves. It's a rough world out there, but grawr, I can handle it.
Since this comes up so often, let's make this very clear: You can not pick and choose where you want to lose fat. Exercising your abs will make your abs strong - but losing tummy fat is dependent on your body fat percentage and genetics.
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14 year old male
There are a lot of "How do I get this guy/girl to like me" questions on this site, and mine is the exact opposite.
I'm pretty positive that a girl that I have PE with has a crush on me, and my friend agrees with me. The thing is, I'm not attracted to her in any way what-so-ever, not even as a friend. I don't like her because she over analyzes things and is an immature person that thinks she is mature.
Is there some sort of way I can make her not have a crush on me? I don't want to make a total jerk out of myself, because that's not that type of person that I am, and I also deffinetly do not want to hurt her. Any thoughts? (link)
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You can either play off that you're gay, or casually talk about other girls as if you weren't aware she wanted you. Any further than that and you do indeed risk jerkness.
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I have been with my boyfriend for 1 1/2 yrs. We moved in together about 4 months ago. And I asked him before I agreed to move in with him if he thought he loved me enough to ever marry. He said yes. But since we have moved in together I am scared he will never ask me. How do I know if he ever will or not? (link)
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Why don't you ask him?
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i'm 13yrs.old and a girl. is it bad to feel.... well happy if a guy makes comments about your boobs and butt or touches it? (link)
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Absolutely nothing wrong with feeling good about physical affection or physical attention. Just be aware that your body is your own and you should be careful of who you let in your personal space, that's all.
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I might make out for the first time tommorrow, and I'm really nervous. I need help. Any tip would help.
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Don't focus on what's not happening. Don't think about what you "should" or "should not" do next. Unless you randomly slide a gerbil up her ass, you can't do anything wrong.
Just savor it and let it happen. Think of it as non-verbal communication, which is what it is. Enjoy.
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okay i know this might sound like a stupid question, but im not quite sure what it means what does it mean when a guy says he wants to fuck you really badly? is it fingering you or to have sex?
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He is indicating a high amount of sexual desire, up to and including sexual intercourse.
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How can i have 8 glasses of water I cant drink it during the morning Or else i will need the bathroom all day. Cant during shcool no water allowed. And 8 glasses of water in the after noon i get off from school at 3:00PM and i go to sleep at 8/9:00PM. is it healthy to have it all in the afternoon.
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Nobody really needs eight glasses of water. There's no scientific proof that "eight" is the magical number of glasses of water that we need per day.
Just drink with meals and when you're thirsty.
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Do guys like girls who are like really muscular in the legs to wear skirts? (i play on a school soccer team so my legs are pretty buff) like is that hot or not? (link)
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Sure. I like a little meat on a girls.
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couple questions..
GUYS! what do you prefer blondes or brunettes, or do you like brunettes with blonde highlights?
and also what's the sexiest color on a girl? im going out and just want to know what you like. (link)
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Sexiest color on a girl? That's easy. Red. And I don't mean auburn. I mean blood red, oozing red.
Best hair I ever saw was a girl with long hair. It was black fading to this awesome shade of red. She used to iron it so it was flat. *nods*
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This is also like the hair color quetion. Y do guys like blondes so much?By the way this question is for guys only. (link)
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We like blondes? I wasn't aware of this. It's only a color, if a girl's cute, she'll be cute no matter what color her hair is.
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lately my gf has been having stomach aches that she has never had b4. we had safe sex and i rarely bust while im in her. i think she might have a strain..wat else could it b? (link)
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I used to get ab cramps during sex.
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should girls shave thier pubes? and if so how much? and how are you saposed to get the hair wwaayy down there.. since its pretty much.. surrounded..?
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There is no should. It's only body hair. Everybody grows it. Girls can shave whatever they want. Girls can also not shave whatever they want. Your body, your choice.
You could ask the same question about boys.
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I am 13 and in 8th grade and have never had a boyfriend. I think I'll be able to manage one better when I get to high school. Is it a turn-off to guys if you've never had a boyfriend before? I need to know, thanks.
I give fives. (link)
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Having a boyfriend doesn't mean you'll be taken to a service center to make sure you're up to specs.
It's not something that has a positive or negative effect. It's just a fact.
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hi. umm i am 13f and i havent started my period yet.. which is fine. but umm i am completely am totally flat. im not one of those girls with small boobs who just says shes flat. i really am quite literally FLAT. and i hate it. all of my friends (again, not exagerating) have boobs. how come i dont? will they ever come? because i do see adults sometimes that are flat. i really dont want to be like that. i have never had a boyfriend. my friends have. guys like girls with boobs. and dont say its not true. sorry huns, but uuh it is. guys used to like me in 5th grade and below because i am pretty, and then, nobody had boobs. but now that they do, im just a "little girl" compared to all of my friends. i really hate being flat. i dont know what i can do. obviously i cant magically make them appear.. but aah i hate it. i dont want to wear a padded bra because if someone bumps into me it will be obvious. what is a water bra? and wtf do i do????????
i rate 5. just pleease give me some good advice. (link)
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Everybody grows at different rates. Most girls don't start growing breasts until they get their period. Be patient and enjoy the fact that you don't have to deal with things yet except for the voices in your mind.
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How do I turn off background tasks on my computer? I'm using XP
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administrative tools - > services
Before you disable something, check dependencies. If you're okay with some things not working, go right ahead.
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Is it bad that im 16 and I am having protected sex with my boyfriend of five months like once every other week? (link)
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Not a problem at all. Protect sex, in a relationship, and not frequently. Sounds fine to me.
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does it hurt to have sex the 1st time for girls?
will the guy leave you?
and im to scared to wear tampons so do you think it will hurt?
dont be a bitch.
i rate high (link)
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Sometimes it hurts. I've met girls who claimed their first time didn't hurt at all.
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Okay, im only 14 and i wanna have a baby SO bad. My parents dont really love me((ive been told)) so i think this would help me alot. i've babysat for YEARS and LOVE children. I wanna feel loved when i come home and a baby would do that, and i think teen moms are closer to their kids. I plan on gettin pregnant in 10th or 11th grade.Am i making a mistake by wanting to do this. (link)
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There's a lot of factors here.
One is money. Have a job? Have a nestegg? Ready to start paying for a college education when you haven't even gone through college yourself?
There's YOUR education. It may not seem like it now, but you need a High School Diploma. And most decent jobs, you can't get without some form of college education.
There's time. You want a baby to come home to. Who's going to take care of the baby while you're not there? You can't just put a baby on hold.
There's the male involved. No person has a child all by themselves.
There's the fact that you think having a baby will "solve" your problems. How would you feel if your parents had said to themselves, "Well, we want a child so she'll love us."
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How do I turn an absolute value function (like |-2x - 8|) into a compound function? (link)
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The result is going to be a positive number. Therefore, you simply take the positive and the negative of the function, and there's two way to arrive at the same function.
(-2x -8) and
-(2x -8)
Reduce if warrented.
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i know that there's a way to make something only visible when someone clicks F2 on your pf. its like (something here) (w.e u want here) (that something here again) whats the formula?
first 3=all fives (link)
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This is simple. You have to know how AIM comments it out in the first place. Because the times are always there. It's simple html
How?
Save any AIM conversation where the time is hidden. Then open it in notepad. You'll what I'm talking about.
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My hair is such a hassle. It's naturally wavy and frizzy. I try blow-drying it straight, but it just makes it more frizzy and ends up being wavy again by the end of the day. I like it best when I let it air dry because it gets some curl, but it is still is sort of frizzy. I've tried some different products, but they make my hair look greasy and weigh it down. So I was wanting any tips on how to keep the frizziness down without smoothing out my curls. Thanks! (link)
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I have curly hair, and for years I tried taming it or straightening it. I used to have LONG hair.
I can tell you this: Leave it alone.
When I had long hair, the only time I combed was before I showered, to get the knots out. Afterwards? I either didn't touch it at all, or put a wee bit of gel in. Depended on my mood.
Less is more!
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