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what are the "bases"?...you know like 1st 2nd 3rd 4th, what do they mean.Like when people say "I went to 3rd base with him" or sumthin like that.
I'm sure everyone has a different opinion on the base term. but here's mine
1st-makeing out
2nd-feeling up or touching in the southern area
3rd-oral sex
4th-sexual intercourse
what do you do when your best freind almost always has her bf over when you are around and yet wont do anythign with you and your man? and she almost always has him come over when you are over, knowing that you arent too fond of him, but you are giving him a chance for her sake. but everytime i mention hanging out the four of us, she says no, i gotta do this or that and she wont even hang out, but she even brings him over to my house and thigns like that. what am i supposed to do?
just stop hanging out with her. she's being really dumb right now. i dont see why it's okay for her to have her guy over when you're there but she wont hang out with you and your guy?? if you're at her house n she invites her b/f over then go home. tell her you cant see why you can hang out with her and her b/f when she doesnt want to hang out with you and your b/f...
my boyfriend he doesn't like to do anything fun.. he's so boring!! and i went to this party n made out with his bestfriend, what should i do????
break up with your boyfriend if you think he's boring, and a/b his best friend, you're on your own for that one
okay so today i went to my bff's jackie (we'll call her) and we went to her nfs house jo (we'll call him) so jackie and i went to jos house and he had some friends over and the're all kinda into a bad crowd and i really don't fit in with them or do the stuff they do. well they had these bomb things they made and there all swearing and hidding and r all talkin that "omg the f-in cops r gonna come! lets go into the woods" and so then i was gettin all scared so i really wanted to leae but i didnt wanna go with out jackie so i was droping hints like crazy tell her that i wanted to go. but i knoe she wanted to stay with jo so i kinda held off for awhile.. but then when the threw the first explosive that was it i just left and so jackie came with me.. i really wanted to cry bcuz i knoe thats the kinda crowd i knoe im not supposed to b in and i don't knoe y i ever hung out with them in the first place. did i do the right thing? even though all of jos friends and prolly jackie think im a goodie goodie or a wimp! how to i ever talk to them again with out them making fun of me??
aww sweety yes you did do the right thing!!! if Jos friends and jackie think you're a goodie goodie or a wimp then who cares? at least your not the one who is most likely going to end up in jail or DH. if you talk to them again n they start making fun of you then i'd just say screw them. why would you want to hang out with people who don't respect what you wanna do anyways??
When you are looking for a boyfriend..what are good trates to look for?
trates that *YOU* want in a guy.
they could be:
*Good personality
*Good eyes
*Nice smile
*Good sense of humor
etc. you just gotta know what you're looking for in a guy
my mom's boyfriend slept over the other night and one morning i woke up early to my mom closing my door and then a few minutes later i heard her moaning continuesly. it was so nasty and i knew i couldnt move or else she would know that i heard everything, so i had to sit there and listen. it's so disgusting but i dont know if i should tell her what i heard or just keep it a secret? i have no idea what would be best and what would make me feel better. what should i do?
talk to her about it! if you dont, then you're just going to be having to hear those sounds some more and she's going to keep on embarrassing herself some more. tell her that you woke up to it one morning and it really grossed you out. then mabye she'll keep it more quiet when she's doing that again.
ok i have this sister who is always bisy...always at photo shoots and tours and stuff and i NEVER get to c her! i love her soo much but i see her more in magazines and oon tv then i do in real life...i know she has a carear but i miss her? how do i deal, and what do i do?
if she has a celly then give her a call sumtime just to talk. or write her a letter or sumthing. there's not much you can really do if she's moving around all the time in her career.
i have a friend from school who is petite and very underweight (by society's standards) but she sees herself as "fat" & no matter what anyone tells her she still tries to loose weight. shes only 80 something pounds! shes one of the skinniest people in school, and we're 15... and im scared it might become into an eating disorder. her parents want her to GAIN weight because she's so tiny for her size and can get hurt in sports. what can i possibly do or say to her because i've tried so many times...? (ps her parents are concerned and know about this, and they told ME to talk to her about it because she wont listen to them!)
sit her down one on one, just you and her, and tell her that what she is doing to her body is so unhealthy! you should get some pictures of anorexic ppl *you know the really sick skinny ones* print them out and show them to her. tell her that she's starting to look like that, and if she doesnt start gaining any weight that's what she's going to look like! and tell her that you're getting hurt from her trying to loose weight because you care about her a lot and you want her to live a long healthy life. because all she's doing to herself is killing herself. good luck with everying!
hi ! i didnt kno the proper category but i had gotten my belly button peirced . i love it!! and my healing time is up and i wana take out my original ring and put in a new one i bought . this may sound dumb but i dono how to get then ring out . its a circle/hoop ring and the bead is over it and i dono how to remove it . can neone please help me ! :\ ??i rate high!
awwww yay you get to change it!:-D since you have a hoop, the only way you can remove it is to get sum plyers *yes plyers* and put them in the middle of your circle. Once you start to open them up a little bit, the ball in the middle of your hoop should drop down. Then you just circle it's way on out of your bellybutton and then replace it with a new one:-D good luck with everthing!
ok, i like this guy. and he knows i like him too. but he wont go for it! is there something i should do to like...give him a push to asking me out or something? please help!!!
well if he's ready for a relationship and you know that for sure, then why don't you ask him out? who ever said the girl couldnt ask the guy out?
ok, so u hear about these girls who have guys as best friends..well im one of those girls. any ways, brandon os my best guy friend, and i love him..but not like that. well, it turns out he has the biggist crush on me...and he told me he loves me more than anyone else. but the prob. is..is that i just like him as a friend. Hes the sweetest guy a girl culd have..but im just not really ready for a relationship. and hes really hard on himself, and i would do anything to keep from breaking his heart. But if i do end up having feelings for him...i would definatly go out with him. but hes kinda dorky...and i kno i kno it shouldnt matter, but wut if people tried to make fun of us as a couple...so what should i do??
The only thing you can do to not break his heart is to just act like normal friends like you always do. and hay you may actually get feelings for him:-) don't you dare even worry about people making fun of you as a couple!! you know what? if people were to make fun of you as a couple then screw them! what should it matter to you anyways? as long as you would be with someone who really cared about you and you really cared about him then hay you're all set...
well theres this boy nd lets call him "carl" so i started likin this guy nd i told him nd i found out he felt the same way but longer for him so we talked nd he was so great so we finaly wen out nd omg he was so great nd i realized i was fallin for him nd then a rmor went around that he had cheated nd he said it wasnt tru but all the signs are right there nd im pretty sure he did it but i think he relaized it was worng nd didnt want to hurt me nd then the day i found out i was cryin in skool for the rest of the day .. so i call ready to break up nd he gave me this crap bout bout he didnt do it nd i sorta beleived him nd it took a while to put it together but that same day i found out .. this girl had been tellin him i had been flirtin wit other guys .. but i didnt .. i got him to beleive me then his firned told him i broke up wit ihm nd he beleived it .. we atill talk nd he tells me how much he loves me nd he wants me bac nd then one of my friend kary was akin if he was goin to ask me out nd if he did i dont kno wat to say .. i really love him but theres one problem .. i moved nd he lives 15 minutes away which isnt that long away but we go to different skool nd i dont kno wat to do if he does cuase i really love him wit all my heart .. please help me ..
* Helplesss
well if you really loved him with all of your heart then you'd get back with him the moment he asked you out. if i were you though, i don't think i would. for one thing, that whole rumor about him cheating on you went around and you said that all of the signs pointed to him actually cheating on you. just because he told you that he didnt doesnt mean he wasn't lieing. plus if he got all worked up a/b you flirting with other guys *which if you did, it's just flirting and if it was harmless stuff then i don't see why he couldnt talk to you a/b it* then that's pretty stupid too. i think you should just take a break from him and find sumone else at your new skool. and hay who knows, you 2 may actually end up back together if you wanted to give him another chance, or you could be with someone who'll treat you a lot better:)
hey im 16 my bf and i have a long distance relationship he broke up with me and my feelings for him r still really strong. when he broke up with me he said that there could be a "us" again and i was all like ok whatever. but i was thinkin bout it do u think he is just using me?? also i kinda wanna get over him so how do i do that?? please help thanks
how could he just be using you if you had a long distance relationship? you woulda never been able to see him really. The reason he broke up with you was prolly because you 2 didnt get to see each other often. if he said there could be a chance of you 2 dating again then that obviously means he still cares about you a lot too. if you want to get over him then try going out with your friends and meeting new guys. ones that you will be able to hang out with preferably. it may take a while to get over your ex, but sooner or later you'll be over him and happily in a new relationship with another guy.
is it realli wrong to date your best friends ex boyfriend? cause this kid likes me..and i realli like him..but i have a feeling my best friend will get mad if i go out with him. cause she gets jealous even if i chill with him! please help soon cause i'm gonna chill with him tonite! i rate high!
If you want to keep your friendship with your best friend then i highly recomend that you DON'T date him! If she gets jealous when you just hang out with him then she obviously still likes him! and if you date him then that would seriously hurt her!! I know it would be hard to turn him down since you really like him too, but a friendship is most likely to last longer than a relationship with a guy. Go find someone new, i'm sure there are a lot better guys out there for you then him...
Ok well I have this boyfriend and he doesnt go to my school or anything. I meet him through my friend from soccer camp. We started talking online and then a while later we started going out. Later he broke up with me saying that he disn't think things were going to work out because we still hadn't seen each other. Now a year later, we still haven't seen each other but we are going out again. I am thinking that now I don't want to go out with him until I see him and stuff. How should I tell him this without hurting him too much? (I have never broken up with anybody before) please help soon!!! Thanx and I'll rate you!
Just let him know that you don't want to be in a relationship where you can barely see the person (who would want to be in that kind of relationship anyways?) I mean he broke up with you before for that same exact reason! Then tell him that maybe if you two ever do get to see each other a lot more, then maybe you could give your relationship another chance. That way he'll understand that you didn't break up with him because you didn't like him, it was just that you barely saw each other. Good luck with everything! Breaking up with someone is really hard to do....
My so called friend i think is only my friend cuz he likes my girlfriend and he even said so, i think there is a chance that she likes him, should i see if she really wants to go with him, or let her know that he really is a jerk or what...?? help please!!
If he really is a jerk then let her know. You don't want to hook your friend up with someone who will be mean to her do you??
my b/f goes to NH every weekend and has a lot of friends up there .. a lot of them are girls .. i am obviously wicked jealous because he is seriouisly very cute/hott.. so girls would like him.. anyways, some girl keeps callin me from his phone and asking for me then hanging up.. she did it yesterday and at 9 in the morning today .. its really pissing me off - what should i say to him when he gets back!? HELP! i dont wanna come off like a bitch but i want him to know that im not takin his shit anymore and he cant just walk all over me like that ..sry its long
Tell him that what he was letting his lady friends do to you was very stupid and immature. If he really liked you the way you think he does, he would've never let them do that. N also tell him that when they were calling you and hanging up on you, it really pissed you off. If he respects what you're saying to him and understands you, then he's a keeper. If he doesnt then drop him...
My parents payed for me and my brother to go to a private school. It was really expensive but thank god we got insurance so some of the money will come back to us if we deside not to go. Well my brother and i ended up going to public school where it's free, the thing is that the private school won't let us get the money back unless we go there for 15 school days. I have been arguing with my parents saying that i just started to make friends at the public school, and things are really going my way. Going to the private school for 15 days will make it really hard to go back to the public school. I really dont know what to do cause it's a lot of money we will get back, yet i am really startin to fit in at the public school.
since this is long I will rate high!!!!!!!!!!
just go to the private skool for the 15 days that you are suppose to. that way your parents can get there money back and everything will be peachy keen. yea it prolly will be a little bit harder to go back to the public skool, but if you said that you were making new friends then i don't see what the big deal is? i mean it's just like going on vacation and then seeing your friends again. so don't worry, just go to the private skool for the 15 days that you are suppose to and then everything will work out just fine:)
ok so i went out with this kid Sean, and things started to get weird so i broke up with him, then i was starting to think of asking him back out but i thought he liked this girl Sarah, who i happen to hate, and he said he didnt but the next day when i was going to ask him out he was going out with her .. what should i do?
move on and find a better guy
Thanks Amber i love how you put your words and thinking about what you said does sound just about right lol, so thanks and im sure ill need more advice soon alot is happening so hopefully you can keep helping me thanks again hun
mandy
hay no problem hun! that's what I'm here for:-D