When it comes to relationships I've been through a lot. I used to be so desperate to be in one I'd get myself in the worst situations, but no matter how bad things were I got through them and now I'm in a loving, caring relationship and have been for almost two years.
I like to give honest, blunt advice and I won't write a book for an answer that can be summed up in two lines! I don't care about my rating, so I'll tell you the truth rather than what you want to hear. So if you don't like the harsh reality of what I'm going to tell you don't ask me private questions.
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Okay i have been with the same guy for the past 4 years all high school you could pretty much say, but anyway...All this time i have been a virgin yeah we do everything else and yatta yatta but i dont know i think that i want to have sex with him, i know that im ready but idk I love him with all my heart but what if i could get better or something? i mean i know hes awesome at everything else but what if hes not good at sex? then what do i do just resort to everything else that has kepted me happy all this time? please give me some advice
-Cass- (link)
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If he's so bad in bed you two can always practice to make it better. No one starts off pro, everyone starts off clueless and learns, or with some people they just stay clueless. If he's doing something wrong tell him, if there's something you're enjoying let him know. If you think that you could do better then go for better. If you have sex with your boyfriend and then decide to go for better, that's ok. There's nothing wrong with having sex with more than one person in your lifetime.
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xangsta?? is that it?? or iz it sumthing else?? i keep goin to www.xangsta.com... n sumthing else cumz ^ wutz going on?? (link)
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What the others have seid. If you're looking for a journalling website though greatestjournal.com is the best.
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hey tomorrow nite im goin to the movies wit my bf what should i c???any suggetions??? (link)
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The village, I haven't seen it, bit I hear it's realy good.
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I am inbetween of thickness and thingess of my hair and does anyone know how to(w/o a perm) how to get it like those wavy things like marykate and ashley type things and how do i get my hair straight like a avrial lavigne type w/o having to use a straightner everyday?
*i rate * -HaIr (link)
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To get it straight like Avril's try blowdrying it when it's totally wet, and brushing it straight while doing so. That's what I do and it looks just like Avril's.
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I went to the website for Planned Parenthood (Thanks to Druidx) and found one very close by. The only reason I wanted to go was to get birth control and tested for STD's without my parents knowing, but you still have to get a parent consent form filled out unless you live by yourself or dont have parents. Is there anyway to swindle out of it? I cant tell my parents, the whole idea of me going was to not let them know.. (link)
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If there's really no way to get around that, and you're really not willing to tel your parents then forge the consent form. Fill it out yourself and put a fake signature, or get a friend to do it. PP will never know the difference.
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i have really thick hair its about 4 inches below my shoulders...does anyone have any ideas about how to get it either curly or wavy? (link)
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When it's wet twist it into a bun. When you take it out it'll be wavy.
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i need help, i feel like i am fat.. i am 13 years old and weigh about 140lbs.. all of my friends are skinny and i`m not satisfied with my weight and my appearance.. does anyone have any ways i can loose weight and ways i can loose 10-15 pounds within a month or so? (link)
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1. Eat breakfast. If you don't, you'll want to snack later. Eating breakfast gives you energy and speeds up your matabolism. You need to spread your calories out throughout the day.
2. Drink 32 ounces of water in the morning before eating anything. Don't eat anything for half an hour. This will get your metabolism going.
3. When you are about to eat a snack, drink two glasses of water first and wait ten minutes. If you are still hungry, by all means have a snack. Sometimes dehydration is mistaken as hunger when a little water is all you need.
4. Don’t eat sweets such as soda, pastries, pies, cakes, doughnuts, or candy. Also, don’t eat refined sugars, which trigger the release of insulin, which then activates enzymes to promote the passage of fat from the bloodstream into the fat cells.
5.Drink green tea: Green tea is a popular tea from Japan that has numerous health benefits, including weight loss. It’s not 100 percent certain how green tea helps one to lose fat, but it appears to increase the amount of calories the body burns -- not necessarily because of the small amounts of caffeine it contains, but due to a compound abbreviated as EGCG. When purchasing green tea make sure the label states that the green tea used is standardized for caffeine and EGCG.
I weigh about that, and I'm trying to lose weight too. If you want we could do this together, like weight loss buddies. I find it helps. E-mail me if you're interested.
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what does pop your cherry mean i rate lol (link)
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There's a thin piece of skin that stretches across the inside of your vagina called the hymen. This usually tears or breaks when you have sex and bleeds, so people call losing your virginity popping your cherry. If you don't bleed or it doesn't tear when you have sex for the first time you are still not a virgin. Some people are born without a hymen or it can be broken when doing activities like horse riding or gymnastics. Just because it breaks doesn't mean you're not a virgin either.
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what whole does the tampon go in?? is it better to sleep with a pad than a tampon and how do you not stain the bed? (link)
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There should be a leaflet in every box of tampons you buy. Read it... all the way through. It gives you diagrams and instructions on how to use a tampon. The hole is at the very back of your vagina, not far in front of your anus. If you're not sure get a mirror and check out your vagina and where it is.
It's best to wear a pad for bed. During your cycle you should wear pads sometimes, and you're not supposed to wear a tampon for more than 8 hours. To stop staining the bed try using night time pads, or if your mom or whoever buys your pads won't buy you them wear super tight panties. What I do is wear a tampon and pad and set my alarm clock so I get up totake the tampon out during the night.
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OK. I've never, ever told anybody this. Ever since fourth grade, (I'm in High School) I've sorta tucked the crotch part of my underwear into the hole where tampons go, I forgot the real name, lol. If I don't, I get really uncomfortable and fidget and stuff. I think that maybe when I tuck it, the underwear touches my clit and makes me eject the white stuff that happens when you have sex. Maybe I have a yeast infection? I'm too embarressed to ask a doctor. I live in a small town and the doctor is a family friend, it's be too embarressing. When I was really little, like in 2nd and 3rd grade, I'd tuck toilet paper down there to make it comfortable but my mom found out what i was doing and told me to stop because it could damage it. Thank you very much for your advice and I'm sure it'll clear things up for me. (link)
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If you're too embarrassed to go to the doctor then go to your local pharmacy and buy some over-the-counter mediction for the yeast infection. It might not be a yeast infection, but it won't hurt to take the treatment anyway.
You need to stop sticking your panties up there. It's probably that that's given you a yeast infection. The white stuff that you find in your underwear is discharge. It's the bodies natural way of cleaning itself. You'll probably get more when you stick your underwear up there because you body knows there's something in their that shouldn't be and is trying to get it out.
Do you douche, or wash with soap with a lot of scent in it? If so that'll be why you're getting uncomfortable. When you douche you wash away the bodies natural cleansers and mess with your bodies chemical balance.
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how far would you go with a guy, and could you seriously answer the question? cause if you dont that doesnt seem to answer my question, dont be shy! (link)
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It really depends on lots of things, for example who they are, how long i've known them, the situation. With my ex boyfriend, who I'm still kind of seeing, I'd go all the way, I'd do anything with him. With some random I met in a bar probably just make out. On a first date, just a kiss. I always wait at least a month before I go all the way with my boyfriends, to let them know I'm not easy and so I get respect from them.
You haven't really given any information, so I'm not sure of your situation, but my advice to you is to go as far as you're comfortable going and as far as you want to. If that's all the way, then do it, if that means doing nothing then thet's totally up to you. If other people disagree with how far you go then let them, it's your life and your decisions, not theirs.
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How do you nicely turn down a friend when he asks you to go to prom with him?
Our prom is in May and I think it's a little early to worry about it yet, but he decided to ask me now. To make matters even more fun he's my ex-boyfriend.
Help? (link)
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Do it when you two are alone and to his face. That might be the hardest way for you to do it, but it's easiest on him. Don't lie to him, tell him the truth. Just say that you're flattered he offered you, but...
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Okay, well...there is this teacher, let's call him Mr. Somebody. Mr. Somebody...well, he isn't really a teacher, but he just works with the guidance counsler in my school. Mr. Somebody is a very freaky guy. It doesn't show to many people...but he just seems like he would be one of those molesters to the younger girls. He looks at me weird and it always seems like he is staring at me and it makes me very uncomfortable...the guidance counslers office used to make me very comfortable but now my stomach churns whenever I think about it. It's not like he's done anything, but its just the way he is and I dont know where to turn. I don't want to talk about it to anybody because I don't want to blow this out of proportion because sometimes that's what i do and I don't know if I'm just judging incorrectly. But one day I was in the guidance counslers office and he came in and my stomach churned and we shook hands when we were introduced to each other and it was just so uncomfortable becasue he gripped so tight and it felt like the handshake lasted for minutes.He just made me feel so uncomfortable and when my guidance counsler talked to me i felt his eyes on my back and it made me nervous. And then that day in gym class and he came up to me when i was sitting down on the floor and kneeled and out is hand on my shoulder and was like "Blah blahs gonna pick you up today ok?" and he smiled and I backed away and nodded. And then later my guidance counsler came up to me and was like blah blahs gonna pick you up today okay? And I told her I already heard and she was like "Oh you did?" and i think that Mr. Somebody just overheard the phone conversation between my dad and my guidance counsler and decided to use it as an excuse to see me or something. I know that sounds crazy, strange and unlikey but you dont see how this guy is...what should I do because I dont think this guy is your average clean cut guy...he just seems so weird and I dotn wanna see him...I give him dirty looks, not meaning to but whatever...and there was also another incident that occured but I'll tell you about that in another letter it will be entitled "About Mr. Somebody continued"
Please help me...what should I do? (link)
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Talk to your guidance councellor and tell her how you feel about this. This is what she's there for. Tell her that he makes you feel uncomfortable and that your stomach churns at the thought of going to see her because of him. That way she'll probably see to it that he's not there when you go to see her. Ask your friends and other people what they think of him. You may just be paranoid, or others may feel that way too. If they do feel that way get them to go and talk to the councellor too. If you don't talk about it nothing can be done about it.
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Alright, i just got back from hanging out with this guy (sry another guy prob hehe). well he and i like eachother and he kept talking about how he wanted to kiss me. However he never did. I know he isnt shy, because he definetly isnt if you knew him. So what's holding him back? He almost kissed me today, but then sorta changed his mind i guess...what could the problem be? I think he isn't sure if i want him to or not> How can I tell him that yes, I want him to kiss me, without freaking him out?
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Why do you need to tell him that you want him to kiss you? Just lean in and kiss him yourself. Obviously he wants to if he's telling you that he does. When it comes to these things guys can be just as shy as girls. He's probably scared of you rejecting him, and by not kissing him when he tells you he wants to kiss him you're only making it worse. when he says that he's totally hinting for you to do it.
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