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is it ok to have sex with more then 3 poeole at the same time?

There can be as many of people if you want, ever heard of a thing called an 'orgy'? Mostly known to having a group of people having sex all together. If your fine with it, it shouldn't be a problem. Perhaps if its one girl and a group of guys.. then perhaps some may put labels there. If your okay with it and what your doing. It shouldn't matter its your life you only live once. ;)

Hope I helped.

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My boyfriend thinks I'm dirty and weird, cos I like porn films and magazines. He thinks it's just for men. Am I dirty and weird, or is he being a prude?

You aren't weird or dirty. There are a lot of woman out there who do those kinda things. Perhaps he just thinks it's more common for men, and don't think woman do it. Being that men get more aroused than woman most of the time. He's being prude you'd be surprised at the amount of woman who do things like that. Perhaps if you try to tell him things like it sometimes gives you new ideas of things to do with him, maybe that could change his mind up a little. ;)
Hoped I helped.

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can someone help explain to me what 2nd cousins mean and being twice removed, etc? i dont really understand. if theres an example of a family tree or more that would be awesome.

Second cousins means your parent's cousin.
Being twice removed means married and divorced and re-married.
And
Great aunt/uncle/grandparents means your parent's aunt/uncle/grantparents.

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Me & my boyfriend had sex.
I've been on my Birth Control for about 2 years now. I put a spermicide in me, the contraceptive films, and he got off in me.

I'm having to take antibiotics because I have a really bad infection, and antibiotics, suposidly kills birth control.

I just started taking it, a day after the sex though.

I took my pill to start my period sunday night.


So basically what my questions are...


Where the antibiotics kills birth control, will it also stop me from starting my period?

When your pregnant, will you ALWAYS miss your first period.


Thanks.


By the way..
I'm feeling menstrual symptoms, such as bloating, cramping, and im very emotional.
I just need a straight out answer.
I know this was completely stupid.
& I'm NEVER doing it again..




Okay, so this was my question.
Here's the add on's.
I took the green pill sunday night, to start my period.
I missed my period monday..but this is normal for me, and when i woke up tuesday morning, this morning, i still hadnt started.
Later on in the day today I changed tampons, to find, a FEW droplets of blood.
Whats this mean?
And if your going to suggest to get a pregnancy test, I don't know who would get it, besides me and I really don't want to have to go get one.

I'm unsure about the first question. I'm tad confused.

But for the second question, you don't get your period when your pregnant at all.

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I have light brown hair and I would like to go blonde for a couple days. Is there a non-damaging temporary method available that would wash out in a couple days/ washes? Thanks.

Try Colorpulse. It's a wash out moose, you can find it anywhere really. It washes out in 6-8 washes.

Hoped I helped.

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Okay, so two of my friends, lets call them Maddy and Jenny, have been getting into a lot of fights lately about the dumbest things you can imagine (once they got into a fight because Jenny wouldn't share her chips). Everytime they fight, they drage my other friends, lets call them Tya and Linda, and me into their fights. Then, when we refuse to take a side, they somehow manage to twist our words for them. This fighting is really getting in between our group, what should we do?
By the way, I'm 13, a girl, and going into the 8th grade.

Tell them how you feel.
Communication is the key to everything.
If you lose them, then oh well.
Then they weren't great friends to being with.
After highschool your gonna realize who your true friends are.
I graduated 3 weeks ago..and I already found who my true friends were.

Hoped I helped. =]

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Hey,

I just wanted to know, some people have gold stars,
I wanted to know what they mean , and how you can get them!

Thanks! :)

It's users who pay for their accounts

http://www.advicenators.com/paidaccounts.php

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Okay I visited my Dermatologist, I got a cream and a body wash. I got the most strongest cream they could give me, its named Salitop Cream with 6% Salicylic Acid. For the body wash, I use a sponge [the pretty soft kind] and I wash it throughly before using it, and after using it. My back isn't healing. Its just getting worse. Is there anything else I can do? I have been using this cream for about 4 months, and I haven't seen anything change but my back keep getting these obnoxious pimples! It's summer, and I really want to get rid of these because it is embarrassing to swim ! HELP!

Try the brand AcneFree. I use it, I have the same problem with my back.. I started using AcneFree and it started clearing up. Especially using Terminator 10, It has 10% Benzoyl Peroxide. It's available without prescription. =]

Hoped I helped.

--I got mine in Walmart. It isn't that expensive everything is under 10 dollars or so I remember it as. I just only recently started using it about a mnonth and half ago I wish I found it faster. =]

Need anymore help feel free to drop one in. =]

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Hi there! Ok, so a few months ago, when I was still in school, I got a brand new black 8g 3rd generation ipod for my birthday. My parents wouldn't buy it for me for my birthday unless I saved up half the money for it. So I payed for only half of it. Well, stupid me decided to take it to school on a field trip day, and stupid me left it in my backpack, in the locker room. Of course, it got stolen. I was, and still am upset because I had only saved up 100 dollars exactly, so I didn't have any money left. Obviously, my parents weren't so hapy about me getting it stolen and taking it to school in the first place. They still say "I told you so". Plus it wasn't my birthday anymore, so they wouldn't pay for half of the cost again. Basically, I need to make the money REALLY quick. I only have 52 dollars now, and I'm getting payed on saturday for babysitting my sisters. I'm going on a 20 hour road trip to florida in august sometime and I NEED my music O.o I will die without it. So yeah, the basics;

-I'm 14
-I HATE to baby sit ok? I really hate it so PLEASE don't suggest it.
-I can do yard work, but i'm not very good at it he he...Im not very "thorough" I guess?

and that's pretty much it. Also,I have volleyball camp coming up soon and I don't know about a job. I am really stuck, PLEASE help!

If you really want this ipod back.. you should do anything for it.. it shows how much you want it.. If you aren't willing to baby sit even if you hate it..just to get money for the ipod.. it shows that you really don't want it as bad as you think you do.

That's just me.
I've done things I hated just for the reward..because I knew it's something that I really wanted.
If this isn't the answer your looking for I'm unsure what to say. It's just my honest opinion. I say babysit to matter how much you hate it..if you really want the ipod that is.

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i need aim profile qoutes for aim 6.1 !
any websites or anything that have some good qoutes ?? or any qoutes that you have seen that you would like to show me ? id apreciate it greatly

Try http://www.qm.your-memory.net/
I always use it!

Hoped I helped.

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i don't really know what to say for my candles. and who to dedicate them too... its a really hard decision and i dont want anyone to get upset! what should i do?

most of my friends when they did sweet 16 candles.. made sure everyone got a candle. =]

do them in groups to everyone at your party,
that way no one gets hurt. =]

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this is only for people who use the palace.
it's a chat software.


does anyone know any really good palace's to get good avs?

i used to know.. :-X
if i can think of it again..i will get back to u..
funny thing is i was just thinking about the palace the other week..i havent been on there in so long. OMG.. i know i am so not helping right now haha. :-X

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I get 28 at my ribcage and 30 at my bust. However there are no bra sizes that are 28. The lowest they go is 30 and that's already hard to find! I wear a 34A but I think it's too small.

If you go to the bra department or victora secrets, they will tell you what size you need.

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I have not cut my hair in 9 years. It is down to my behind. and yes, it is a bit unhealthy and has split ends, but it is really pretty (strawberry blond, fine) and I feel it is my best asset. Lately i have had the temptation to cut it because then I could just get out of the shower and not have to brush it or anything. that and my boyfriend of 3 years really wants to see it short. I do not want a trim and I hate shoulder-length hair, so it would have to be all or nothing. If I did I think I would choose the haircut that is chin length in front and shorter in back. I really just don't know?! Keep my long hair and with it the hassle...or chop it and forget the hassle, but possibly regret it and be depressed?!

Cut a few inches at a time. If you chop it off all at once you will surely regret it. Just do 2-3 inches a time. =]

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Well, i have this best friend who is a guy. we met a couple years ago and get along great. he recently asked if it was okay with me if we could be friends with benefits. i like him a lot and so i agreed. neither one of us really wants to date, and we want to see how this goes and maybe we'll hook up later. =]

well, the thing is, i've never really done this before. my question is...are there any kind of "rules" or "establishments" that follows being friends with benefits? i don't understand really how it goes. (and yes i've had bf's before so i'm not completely clueless). the idea is new to me, so i just need some info.

16/f
thanks. :)

You do everything a couple would do, but don't make yourself offical. Most times, it ends up with someone having feelings for someone and the other doesn't. Then the friendship ends completely, and the one who has feelings gets hurt. I've seen it happen plenty of times.

Hope I helped.

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14/f
ive never been fingered before, but i was just wondering if most guys are expecting your vagina to be completely shaved or what..? thanks for youre help!

Most guys perfer completely shaved. But it's your body, you can do what you want with it. You don't have to shave it if you don't want to.

Hope I helped.

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So my hair is super frizzy and like poofy so my mom bought this chemical straightening stuff at the store and it talks about relaxing curls... but does chemical straightening your hair do anything for frizz? like bad frizz?

im 16/f by the way

It should get rid of the frizz, since chemical straightening means completely straight. But the roots when they grow out, will be a bit frizz/poofy till you touch up.

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I need pet insurance that would cover pre-existing health problems for my dog. She's had hip dysplasia since she was a puppy and she has a lot of other health problems that started a few years ago. I can't find any that cover pre-existing health problems. Does anyone know some that do?

As your vet, they should be able to help you out with that.

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15/f. I want to get my hair dyed red...It hasnt been approved by my dad yet, but i need knowledge to present to him. I know that red fades really fast...Okay, since I have darker hair, would it be ideal for me to bleach it first and then go red? How long should i wait after bleaching it to go red? If you have any other tips on dying hair, please tell me :) Thankss..
Gina

I have brown hair..and I bleached underneath, so underneath was a brighter red. Then I dyed it red, but it still came out fast. I had to wait a month to dye it red. Also, I didn't do it myself, I went to the salon to get it done.

Hope I helped.

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i got that red blackberry curve by at&t. how do i text message and set up a personal ring tone?

It should all be in the manual? If not contact your carrier for help.

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