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I'm 12 and i like to watch soap operas... am i weird??
No! You just like different things! I watch Soap Operas....I LOVE them!! Sometimes I watch the Spanish ones.....I will soon know what they are saying!
what does 69 mean cuz all my friends say it and im too embarassed to say anything
Its when you give your partner oral sex and he gives you oral sex........after I found that out I never think of it the same.........
What does idk stand for?
I don't know
My mother treats me like I'm 5. I can't shop wherever i want to. She tries to hold my hand while crossing the street and at the mall. I needed new underwear and there were thongs and then granny underwear. She handed me the granny underwear!!! I told her I wasn't wearing them and then she was like, "Ok we're leaving here then." How can I tell her to back off a little bit??
Sounds like mine, LOL! Just try to tell her, hey I'm 13, not 5! Try to compromise.....somehow. Tell her how you feel. I really don't recommened telling her about your friends, then she could say well so and so's mom doesn't really care or something like that! Trust me, I went through the same thing!!! Hope I could help! :)
Well i puke whenever i eat sumthin or drink something..Sometimes i totally just do it on purpose..My mom thinks im bulimic..I think im fat and i want to become anerix or belimic or both..What should i do to loose weight and if i should do that..?
You want to have an eating disorder?!?!?!?! Whoa-Slow down!! Eat healthier and excersise!! If you have a eating disorder it coul RUIN your life!! If you ae anerexic you could not eat at all and KILL yourself!! If you are belimic you have tooth decay and other problems!
hello. all my life i have been made fun of because of my muslim faith. people always say, there is bin laden, get him.they think i support the 9/11 attacks. my parents support them but i don't. please help me get through this before i go crazy.
Don't be ashamed of being muslim! Just ignore them, who cares what they say! Just grab a piece of paper and write....it will come to you. Trust me, it will make you feel better! Hope I could help and Good Luck!! :)
I just turned 14. I'm about 5'5 and weigh about 105 lbs. I feel I am fat for some reason even though I wear extra smalls and zero's in clothing and everything. Everyone thinks I am very tiny but I don't see myself that way. Because I feel I am fat I try to do 200 crunches a day along with running for about a half hour. Is there anything else I can do to loose weight and just tone up more? I also don't eat much. Like for maybe a couple days a month I'll eat like breakfast, lunch, and dinner. But all the rest of the time I usually only eat a small breakfast and that's it. Am I over doing the whole weight loss thing? Everyone has been yelling at me and saying I am overdoing it and I really want to know if I am. Please help and answer. Is my weight ok for my height and age? I both cheerlead and run track and want to make sure I am skinny cause for some reason I feel people won't like me otherwise. Can someone please give me some advise and help on the situation? Thanks. *Love Always Annonomous*
Your not fat or overweight and you are overdoing it! Sorry, but sometimes the truth hurts! Just eat healthy and stop excersising that much! Excersising is good, but you need enegry! Energy comes from food.
My boyfriend and i have been having sex for a while and i got drunk and gave him a blow job, now my face is red and itchy. what should i do?
Go see a doctor about it!
shuld i shave my arms
Underarms-yes! Arms-NO!!!!!! Some people might make fun of you for doing that! Also, theres a good chance that it will grow back darker and thicker!
ok well .. i'm very critical on myself .. i think im soo ugly my friends say im not but i mean what r they gonna say ya i kno u r .. so they could b liein i mean ive had bfs nd stuff but i dnt kno how to make myself less critical of myself cause i got so mad at myself sometimes cause i think im so ugly .. x|0
Don't worry at all time we think we are this or that! Don't look at models and celebs and compare yourself with them, thats a tip! Also, just look at yourself in the mirror and think about things you like about yourself! Also, beauty also lies within you! Hope I could help! :)
well my BEST friends parents are soo like protective and we cant do ne thing ts soo annoying how can we get them to loosen up?
Hmmm.....sounds like mine were!!!! You can't, they're not your parents! They won't loosen up, trust me. You have to show them that they can trust you and you won't do anything stupid!
i am a 13 year old female with a 34-36B bra size. i have stretch marks and everything. they seem to keep continuously growing and i dont know what to do about them. do you think that is too big of a size for a girl my age, and what can i do to keep them from growing?
Sometimes its normal sometimes it isn't! Does anyone else (female) in your family went through the same thing? It could be genetics! Talk to your mom about it, she might help you. You really can't stop them from growing! (Unless you can, but I really don't think so!) If your really worried maybe you should talk to your doctor! Hope I could help! Good Luck! :)
i've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now, in 18 and hes 19, we have sex often. im a 34b adn he thinks that i should get implants. should i do it just to please him?!?! i really think that he might be the one, adn we've talked about our future.
help
You should only do it if YOU want to! Its YOUR body! You should have the choice whether or not you want! Remember if you DO get them, you have to replace them every 10 years or so! Hope I COULD HELP! :)
last year in school, i got good grades but i always felt like i was scraping by. How do i stay organized and calm and still have time for other things in my life?
Well, if fyou have a project don't work on it at the last mintue! Do a little every night. Same with studying!! Hope I could help! :)
i only have a few real friends that i like to spend time with and 2 of them are going away for the rest of the summer...how do i meet new people so that i won't be bored to death?? i was thinking about getting a job to keep me busy - would that help me meet people?
If you get a job you could be busy with work. You could meet people through a job! Or you can work on little project, too! Hope I could help! :)
Ok I like this guy who is two years younger than me. Is there something wrong with that :(
No! So you like younger guys? Big deal! Some people just like younger people. Hope I could help! :)
Hey,
I was wondering if anyone could help me out here obviously lol. Well anyway, im 13 and ive been with my boy friend for almost 2 years(( yeah i know i know a long time to be tied down for my age)). We have done everything but have sex. Ive been thinking about having sex but i know that im not physically and mentally ready, and im for sure not old enough to have sex or even do what im doing. I was just wondeirng if its normal to think what im thinking, what it would be like to have sex and all. Thanks!:)
Its normal to wonder/think about stuff like that. You should stop before its too late! Your only 13 and if you do, do it, it might ruin your life!! Hope I could help! :)
im 11 and i way 110 puonds. its really hard for me to keep up a normal body wait especially in the summer. all my friends are skinny and ive been really self concious lately. is there any way that i can loose10 or 15 pounds by september??
thanx
Hmm....eat heathly! Cut down on junk food and most of all excerise! Hope I could help! :)
I have like a lot of friends but the only time i see them is at school or at a party i throw and none of them ever call me except for my bestfriend and maybe one other person once a month, and i just want to have people call me to see what im doing or to hang out, what should i do?
Maybe you should make the first move! If theres a movie you want to see or you just want to hang out, just call them! Sometimes you just have to make the first move! Hope I could help! :)
How do I get more friends?? I have two best friend but it feels like no one else is really my friend.... like I only have 2 friends!! I think I'm pretty... I mean people tell me I'm pretty and modeling agents come up to me (not to sound cocky but I'm just trying to tell ya the whole story) I used to be popular back in 8th grade but now I dont know what happend.... I mean I have A LOT of "not really/kinda sorta" friends. I know i need to "be myself" but I dont know how to... HELPZ
Just be nice to everyone! Say hi to people that are in your classes. Help them out in class. Always be yourself, not anyone else!