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E-mail: poohluvr904@aol.com
Gender: Female
Location: Glen Cove, New York
Occupation: Student
Age: 14
AIM: ButterflyKizzxx3
Member Since: July 26, 2004
Answers: 164
Last Update: August 10, 2004
Visitors: 7840


im in a dilimma right now! ive liked this boy for a long time now, and i was sure we were becoming closer. one day my friend mal was IMing me and said she knew who i liked (even though i never told her)... she was right with her guess. then she said i have some bad news, she liked him too. but she was sure he liked her as more than a friend. it caused a great gap in our friendship and it was a hard time for me. a little while later, mal said she didnt like him anymore and that she liked her old crush again. this made me feel soooo much better! but today, she had told me the boy i had liked was online and asked me if i still liked him... this made me wonder if he had asked her to ask me (if you know what i mean)... well, i guess not because she came out and said that she likes him again. and was being really suspicious by sending me the beginning of their AIM conversation and the end which confused me. it began as just "hey" and "hey" but ended up as .. "best friends forever!" and him saying "you know it". now she's mad at me because she thinks i overreacted for asking her what happened in the conversation. im not sure who is fighting who here, me and mal, or me and my love life. any advice at all would be helpful! (link)
That's confusing, I don't really understand it, but try and talk to Mal and ask her what's up? Maybe she'll talk to you, or as your crush what's going on. You'll figure it out. Good Luck!


Hey im going to a brand new highschool this year and i am really nervous becuase what if i don't mkae any friends who am i going to six with at lunch?????i need help plz i rate!!! (link)
Just be yourself, there are going to be a lot of new people that are going there too, be yourself and get to know people. You'll make friends in no time!


Hey..
Everyone says I would make a great model and they say I have all of the perfect features for it..where can I get some info. on this? Thanks! Oh, and by the way..I am a 14 year-old gurl..if this helps at all=) (link)
For modeling info you can find a modeling agency close to you, go online and search on www.google.com Good Luck!


on of my turtles has a lil sratch on his shell...its not very big and hes not acting weird or anything...but i was just wondering if he can feel the sratch or if it hurts him...
thnxxxx!! (link)
Your turtle can't feel a thing! The shell protects him that's the reason he has it. It doesn't hurt him, he probably can't even feel it! Hope I helped!


im only 13 and i really like this kid but he lives too far away. i met him at summer camp. he's really cool and fun to hang out with. but im not sure if he likes me. I want to go out with him (if he likes me) but i dont know if it would work because its really long drive. im going back to camp in a few weeks and i dont know what will happen...HELP PLEASE !!!!!
tysM!
PS. I RATE IF ITS GOOD ADVICE!! (link)
Well your gonna see him soon thats good! You should drop hints or just tell him you like him, maybe something will work out during camp and if you like each other a lot when your not at camp it will work out too. Hope I helped!


What is worse for you; throwing up or taking laxactives? I was just wondering which form of bulimia is worse on your body.

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BOTH! Do not even think about bulimia! If your thinking about loosing weight exercise! Do not even think about bulimia or even anarexia. Both are very bad for your body!


I am 15/f and I always end up liking younger guys. Usually guys that are 14. Is there anything wrong with that.. cause some of my friends think it's a lil weird. (link)
No! Nothing is wrong with that. Guys are the same no matter what age, but if he's like 50 years older than you, then you might have a problem lol. Hope I helped!


Hey, (14/f) I am friends with my exboyfriend. We talk a lot, and are pretty close. I am going to a different school this year so it's going to be really hard to see him and talk to him, but i really value our friendship. Whenever we talk though he alwayse brings up other girls, and how hott they all are. I know that I shouldn't get jelous since we are just friends now, but i do. So I can't deside weather he is making me feel jelous so i dont forget him, or if he is just talkin to me like a close friend.

-Really confused (link)
He could be doing either. If he's your close friend then he might just be saying how hot they are, or he just might be trying to make you jealous if he still has feelings for you. Try talking to him about how you think other guys are hot and see how he reacts to it. Hope I helped!


is it possible to have a six pack at 13? i'm 4'11 and 85 pounds so i don't have too much fat to lose i dont think because im pretty skinny im not a bag of bones though. (link)
Yes it is possible to have a six pack at 13, but I wouldn't recommend it because your a little skinny lol. Good Luck!


i need a screen name! im 14 ndm y name is katie nd im a prep (link)
ok here are some screen names

oMg iTs KaTiE x3
HuGs n KiSsEz x3
bUtTeRfLyKiSsEsx3
K to the AITE
KaItEs In ThE hOuSe

if you need anymore ask!


Does anyone have any tips on how to really project through an entire auditorium while you're singing? (link)
Do not go closer to he microphone because it will sound all fuzzy. To project your voice you make your voice a little louder and then sing. Breathe deeper when you need to project louder. Hope I helped!


Hey, I'm trying 2 figure out how 2 link my advice column to my profile. every time i paste it, nothing shows up. and ive tried it a million times! HELP PLZ!!! (link)
First you take the link and copy it. Then on your profile there it says link in blue. Click that..and in the first bar paste the link and then the second bar you type what you want the link to say. Hope I helped!


I've been really depressed since i graduated middle school back in june, but its not really obvious to my friends and family. Well, maybe it is, but they don't really ask me about stuff, and let me know that they can tell i'm depressed. I dunno if i'm ever going to feel better, and I just wanted to know if anyone had tips of moving on from a broken heart.
Thank you. (link)
Well you shouldn't be depressed! Your gonna see most of your friends in high school. Your probably just worried about growing up because in high school that's when you actually have to be mature. Don't worry you'll be fine, just try and think about all the good memories your going to have in high school. Feel better!


okay so there is this boy that i went out with b4 as friend he was really rough like we always wrestled and stuff and i just thought it was his way of flirting so i let it go when he asked me out i said yes cuz i thought the rought stuff would cool down but it didnt and that lead to a break-up. but now i really miss him. and i found out he likes me back and so i really wanna go out wit him again but im scared that hes still just as rough with me! how can i get him to treat me more gentle and not like"one of the boiz"?
please help me asap!
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Well first off you should tell him you like him. Probably being ruff is his way of flirting just tell him you don't like it when he hits you, that you want him to be more affectionate. That will probably give him the hint to stop. Good Luck!


Im having this party for my birthday but im not sure if i should invite one of my friends because im kinda worried that she might end up trying to hook up with my bf. Shes had a crush on him before i went out with and it seems like she still does. Ive talked to my bf about it and i know that he wont try anything with her but like i said... its her hooking up with him that im worried about. She knows that i MIGHT be having a party but that im not sure. We are friends but i barely talk to her since she goes to another school. Should i invite her?
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Well if your there she won't try and pull anything. I think you should invite her so you can show her how much your boyfriend means to you, and if she's your friend she wouldn't wanna hurt you or jeopordize your and your bopyfriends relationship. Good Luck!


ok i have a serious problem.I think im starting to like mah best guy friend like as more than a friend!I just dunno what to do cuz i dont wanna get hurt for the second time but then i'll prolly just get hurt by keeping it inside.So i dunno wat to do, plz help! *I RATE GOOD*
*Nani* (link)
OMG! The exact same thing happened to me! It's actually still happeneing. I told the guy that I liked him and we're still friends. ANd he's actually starting to like me a little bit. I would love to talk to you about this!! IM me at Butterflykizzxx3 !! Good Luck


For homecomming I want to be able to actually dance fast. I dance in my room all the time by myself and I think I'm fine...but then I look at other people dancing and I feel dumb! None of my friends can dance either, so do you have any tips or anything??

-Zero
-Thanks! (link)
If you think you look fine go with it! Or just observe other people and try to imitate what they do. If you still don't want to do that then you can rent like dancing videos. Like Carmen Electra's new dance video and practice. You'll be fine! Good Luck!


where could i put my hands when im makeingout?
i really want 2 know please help? (link)
When you make out you can put your hands on the side of his face or on his back or on his sides. Those are the usual places. Good Luck!


i like this guy and he only likes me as a friend so what should i do?? i will rate u!!! plzz help!!

confused- gurl :( (link)
Well does the guy know you like him? If he does then you try flirting with him a lot, send signals to him. Become really good friends with him. Then he'll see what a great person you are and feelings will probably erupt. Good Luck!


ok well here it goes: i got dis cuzin hes like a second cuzin i think nd in my opionin hes cute..but is it wrong to think that hes cute jus bcuz his ma family member? some1 helpppp (link)
No thats perfectly fine. It's not like you have sexual feelings toward him. Hope I helped




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