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I'm 16 years old, and I'm a female.
Just recently I lost my virginity to my boyfriend, of whom I've been dating for close to a year. I don't regret it, but I know I need to go on the pill because we're going to have sex often. My mother and eldest sister always reassure me that I need to tell them when I start having sex so we can go to the doctors to put me on the pill.
Problem? He's 24 years old. My parents are completely fine with me dating him, he's a close family friend, and I've known him since I was very very young. He means more then anything to me, and y'all are probably sitting there, like, "eww" but it's the truth.
My sister just told me the other day, "You know I'll take you to the doctors when you're ready, to.. you know, but you're ONLY twelve." It's because I'm the baby of the family, and to them I seem still very young.
I don't know how to ask, I'm so confused.
We've already decided not to have sex again until I actually go on the pill, just because of everything bad that could potentially happen if I were to get pregnant.
Thanks tons. [:
For even reading this!! (link)
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i hate to say it...but its rape...even if its concentual.
Good luck with everything though.
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So for Halloween, does anyone have any good ideas for a girl who is like, preppy? I dont want to wear like an actual costume. I was thinking of just wearing a crown with my normal clothes, or I was going to wear this hot pink boa. Any other ideas? THANKS SO MUCH! (link)
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You could wear a tiara and angel wings, and then maybe a boa and above the elbow white gloves. And then you could just wear like a denim mini skirt with a cute polo or something like that...idk how old you are so this may or may not be "too old" for you.
HOPE I HELPED!
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Ok, this is not at all saying that i'm fat or that i think i'm ugly or anything so please don't respond with, "You should be comfortable with yourself, just the way you are." I'm healthy and physically fit, but i want to tone up my thighs and my butt...no clue how to go about doing that. Help please? (link)
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You should get a thigh toner...they are amazzzzzzing!!!
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I have a 5 month year old son with my boyfriend. I considered adoption from the start, but it was too hard to say goodbye so I pulled out at the last minute. (Which made my boyfriend happy, surprisingly.) My mom (my dad isn't a part of my life) gave in and said she'd raise him for me if I helped. Now that school's in, it's becoming harder. We have to pay the babysitter, pick him up, etc. Plus, I made the cheerleading squad. Neither of us have time for him and my boyfriend's family can't take him. Mom wants me to reconsider adoption, but I can't give up my baby now! But I also don't want to give up being a cheerleading and all the other fun stuff in high school. Mom's afraid my grades will slip. So am I. But my bf and I have grown so attached to ourson. We plan on getting married and raising him together once we're out of high school. But what can I do until then? It's too stessful! HELP!!! Please! (link)
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If your having trouble choosing between cheerleading and your son...it sounds like you should give your son up for adoption..i'm not saying that you dont love him...b/c i'm sure you do. but you should also consider your son...dont you think that maybe he will be better off with parents who can devote more time to him.
if you reaally love him, then you should do whats best for him...not whats best for you.
hope i help, and good luck!! let me know how everything turns out.
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Is there anybody on this site who can tell me their story about losing their virginity when they were young(12-15)and not regreting it? It doesn't have to be first hand accounts either, it may be stories you heard from other people too. (link)
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having sex that young is skanky and slutty...your barely a teenaage...if you dont regret it now...you will later.
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I was just wondering what do you think would be an appropriate age to start dating? (link)
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personally i would say like 16...because then you can drive and you dont have to have your parents drive you on your date.
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ok so i was hanging out with some friends (girls).. and some of our guy friends were outside, so we went out there to meet them. we had just come in from the pool and we had our bathing suits on, with like towels around our bottoms. and this one guy said to me "is that a new bra- i mean bikini?"
is that an insult? or like what was he trying to say?.. (link)
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he was probably just trying to be funny..even though it wasnt :)
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Hi I live in a town where there are lots of jewish people and there are sooo many bat/bar mitzvahs! I got invited to my first two (no not one, i got two invitations at the same time, but the bat mitzvahs are on diff days thankfully!!!) My family isnt rich where I can get a new dress everytime i get invited to one. Heres what I need to know:
1. What kind of dress are you supposed to wear? Formal, casual, kind of casual???
2. DO people usually buy a different dress for each bat mitvah cause i think it is kind of odd to wear the same dress to (not literally) 20 bat mitzvahs!
3. How should you do you hair? Like should I get it done at a hair place???
4. WHere can I get reasonable priced dresses that are appropriate for a girl who JUSST turned 13? I don't think my parents are going to let me wear strapless!!!
5. HOW MUCH MONEY SHOULD I GIVE?? (link)
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the dresses you should wear is USUALLY semi formal...just a nice dress...nothing tooo fancy...but not too casual eaither (lol i know thats kind of confusing.)
I personally bought a new dress for each one...but that doesnt mean you have to too...you could buy a bunch and then alternate them and take into account who is there (you could wear one dress with a certain group of friends and then if you go to another that will have different people you could wear the same dress...and no one will know!)
As for your hair...i usually just straightened it...i wouldnt bother getting it done each time...you usually end up putting it in a ponytail b/c of the dancing. :)
I gave 54 or 36 (depending on how close i was with that person)..it is supposed to be in incriments of 18 (i believe thats the right number)
I'm not sure where you could get a dress...you could try bloomingdales, or macys, or a store like that...try googling "teen dresses" or something like that.
GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!
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Does anyone know the name of that old show, i think it was on abc family or something..
it had these 2 friends, that were girls and one of them was blonde named grace i think and the other was a brunette and had very curly hair...
its driving me crazy, i cant figure it out. thanks.
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omg that was the cutest show ever!!! and i realize that you have already figured this out from all of the other responses...but its ccalled state of grace!!!!!
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How can a relationship last if your with a guy that is all about being with his friends and wont give them up for his g/f who he loves even though he has to keep those worlds seperate because his g/f and his friends don't get along? (link)
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its not fair to make him give up his friends...he should be able to hang out with both of you. maybe you can trya dn get along with his friends.
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Okk so my dad booked a european cruise for us and i'm really nervous because of what recently amost happened in london. Now i'm even more nervous because we're flying to London as one of our first flights. I'm so nervous! I'm always nervous of plains even though I fly to australia every summer! Is there any way to make me less nervous?
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consider this...because of that situation security is much tighter making everything safer!!! and just try not to think of it too much. good luck
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Im going to CAtholic High school, how is it...are the girls slutty like rumors say, I need to know school starts in a few weeks, and none of my friends arent going...they are going to another high school, besides im not catholic..will I have to attend mass..what do they do there by the way (link)
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i go to a catholic school and i was really scared about it also (i came from a public school) but the girls arent slutty...at least not at my school...they are really nice and therre is a lot less pressure about how you look for school b/c there are no boys...you can save all of your cute outfits for the boys in the weekend lol. and in my school we only go to mass on holidays...and it only lasts like half hour to fourty minuts...its not that bad.
i'm sure you'll really like it.
good luck!
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hi, i weigh 101 and i'm 5'4 and im a 16 yr old girl. im a ice skater and my coaches think im fat. i am very insecure with my weight and afraid to gain. i have decided that i am going to hardxcore diet but not become anorexic, what would be too skinny for someone my height and age. (link)
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i realize that everyone is saying this...but that is deffinatly not fat...and you are really skinny!! if you wanted to be more toned (i dont know if that is your problem or not) you could just maybe do some crunches or something like that...but being an ice skater you probably dont need to--i just thought i'd suggest it.
i wouoldnt diet though.
hope i helped :)
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I just asked a question earlier today about my white & light brown chihuahua. Here are the two names I have chosen.
1. Princess
2. Isabella (Bella for short)
What do you guys think? 1 or 2? (link)
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deffinatly Isabella- that is adorable!!
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I (13) share a master bedroom with my sister(17). I want to decorate the room. It's diffcult for us to agree on ant thing since we're so diffrent. How should I decorate if she can't agree on any thing? (link)
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you could divide the room and each of you could decoratte your own half of the room. Or you could each pick like a color and make it more of a colored theme room (like pink and green)
Also, pottery barn teen has awsomeee stuff!!
hope i helped
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Where do they sell bras that just stick on and there's no strap or anything? NOT a straples bra but like stick on cups? (link)
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you can get them almost anywhere- at like a walmart or a target or something like that- i also have gotten them at Nordstrom.
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God, I have a real problem. When I first came to Jr. High last year I was myself 100%. I didn't give a care what people thought about me, or who my friends were. Then in the middle I started changing my looks and the way I talked, and I found myself ditching my old friends (who were kind of geeky) to be friends with newer and more popular ones. And it worked! Some of the popular people hang out with me now. But I feel really bad now. Now that im friends w/ the popular kids, I feel like I dont even need my old friends. I even LIKE my new friends more than my old ones. So tell me... am I a total selfesh jerk for ditching my friends? And am I weird for changing myself? (link)
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Although you probably shouldnt have ditched your friends...its not that bad, as long as you really like your new friends then its fine b/c there is nothing wrong with wanted some change in your life. And as long as you like the changes you made to yourself- then i think that you are just growing up and there is absolutly nothing wrong with that.
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i dont know what to think at the moment. he was my first boyfriend and we thought we were in love for a while. (btw im 14/f.) anyway then i realized that i liked him more as a friend, so we agreed to be just friends. we went out for half of april and early may. now its the 4th of july and im not all that greatful for my independence. how can i be sure i made the right decision, and what should i do if i didnt? (link)
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you have to just trust your instincts and go with your gut feeling and most importantly- trust yourself!
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its in the middle of summer and im starting to get lonely. like i want a boyfriend so bad! i want that special someone to talk to and i want to have just someone to hold on to. i really want one badly. all my friends have boyfriends and i dont! ive never had a boyfriend or a real close guy friend. idk what to do. i really want a boyfriend. i asked this kid out but he said "no"! now i feel rejected and stupid. (link)
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just because one guy said no- doesnt mean that all guys would say no. but you dont have to focus only on having a boyfriend. summer should be about having fun with your friends, and if your friends just happen to be only girls- then thats ok. also, you could ask a friend to set you up with someone.
hang in there and dont rush anything
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i think i may be bipolar or something like it how do i tell some1 i tried tellin my grandmother but yeah i dont think shes pickin up wut do i do ?
ps: i cant go to my mom or dad (link)
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Next time you go to your doctor for a physical, mention it to him, that way he can help you determine weather or not you are. Or you can try and make up an excuse to go to the doctor.
hope i helped!
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