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touchy feely one-
sry i made you think that i was ur friend....lol...umm yea she like touches me on the face and tells me im pretty and gorgeus...its weird though and i dont know wut to do i dont want to talk to her aobut this.. how could i drop her as a freind wit out her knowing that it was personal....

oh well i knwo this isnt my friend now. i definitly dont touch her on the face. Lol. Well ummm just do exactly what i told you the lst 2 times

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okay....i kno this isnt really a big thing but on saturday i am going to be playing a really good friend in basketball for CYO. i dunno if i should play serious or just laugh and have fun.If i laugh and have fun my coach will scream at me. What should i do?

Well i woudl talk to your friend abou t it frist. tell her exaclty what you told us. Then i would advise telling her that if you dont play comeptive then the coach will get on my case... so do you mind if we just play competitive... and supoort w/e happeneds when it happenes

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im the one with the touchy feely freind...again she wont leave me alone...today on aim i told her that i didnt want to talk to her she kept asking wut was wrong and i dont know how to tell her that she is really anoying and that she talks to me to much...and you know touches me i really think that she is a lesbian or she is bi every1 thinks so...she is still hugging me and putting her arm around me and stuff and i really dont like it at all.

sry bout yur friend. I thought this was my friend for a moment! becuase i talked to her earlier and she was upset. so i was freaked for a minute... but i should trust her so heres what i would do. Like i said before just tell her that you dont apreciate being touched and maybe one you et passed that part about her you will like her more. if not then after that tell her that you just dotn feel comfortable ar ound her ofr something.

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ok well Im going out with this guy named Shane and he's sweet and eerything , but he gets jealous very easy, like when a guy well lets just call him Chris, talked to me he got all up in his face!!, I truely love him but he can get jealous really easy and now I told him that I can talk to guys and he dosent understand!! he's 15 and so am I but what do I do ??

i had this same problem. amy ex was VERY protective. one of his hot friends was talkign to me at our youth group... and he got all upset that night becuase he thought his friend was looking at me weird or something... like he liked me. Well i would jsut say tell him that even if other guys like yo uthat desnt mean that you like anyone but him. cheesy but it works

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Ok well I know this question is really stupid but i don't know what to get my dad or brother for x-mas. My brother is 16 and plays guitar and stuff and i don't know what to get him. Any ideas for either of them? thanx!
~I rate!~

for your brother... i would get him some ncie new guitar picks... mabe abotu seven. I play guitar and i aprreciate guitar picks all the time.. becuase they can become warn out and choppy. Also there are rags that are really soft they ar esmall squares that syou sqipe over your guitar and it takes offal the dust and cleans it all up. You can get these things at your local guitar store most likeley. hope i helped

oh yea nd that wasnt a stupid question

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15/f... ive had my hair cut short for two years now! im talking no longer than three inches long all around. Well now I want to grow it out! any suggestions on how to do this QUICK or what to do with it while it's growing out? thanks!

i did this my self a few years ago. las tyear i vcut it short as well. not 2 short tho. luckily when it grows back it will groa back healthier then before. what i would do is go to a trusted hair stylist and ocne a month get the dead ends trimmed. really helps it grow faster. While your hair is groing you can discover new things to do with it. aks your hair stylst for suggestions too.

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im the one who asked the whole touchy feely thingy with my freind but im sry i dont know you but my name is Gretchen.

okay good... i was just wondering. i am glad it wasnt any of my friends... thanks for telling me :). hpe thing s wrok keep me posted k?

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Ok this is really weird. I had a dream about almost doing it w/ a guy I liked and so I told my friend about it... and I've never had one of those dreams before and so she told me that in her dream she actually did it w/ some movie star guy and so then later we were talking and I was talking about the movie Alexander and how thered be eye candy for all the girls and she's like what is the matter with you? Your obsessed w/ cussing and sex!! And Im not!! Just because I had one dream about that... does that mean I am? Im really confused!

okay that must stink... just tell her your dreams ar something you cant control... it isnt your fault but the sand mans for putting bad dreams in your eyes.

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When ever i babysit for this one family, they never pay me until weeks later. Im kinda shy to ask for it..but what should i do?

You need to be asertive. When you get there... double check on how muc htthey are paying you per hour... etc. Then ask them if it is possible for you to start getting thie money the night you babystit or the next night. just be polite.

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I got my lip periced last year and that hurt like woah. Does getting your tounge peirced hurt worse

i dont think so.. from what i heard no.

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how do u know if u have athsma. i think i do b/c i play sports & when we do conditioning after like 3 sprints i like cant breath i think its b/c my parents smoke alot & i have to be around it :-( can sum1 tell me how u know if u have it

My sister has the smallest bit of ashma... biut her symptoms weren't that strong. I think it is a definite cause of your parents smoking. I would say go to a doctor and ask for a perscription inhaler. also whne your parents smoke... try not to be around it.

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Hey um im having some super makeup problems .. ive got wicked long eye lashes .. super green eyes .. and kinda small eye brows .. theyre skinny hah .. but yeah anyway .. i need some ideas for new eye makeup .. im so getting bored with the black eyeliner in the top of my eyelid and the bottom .. gets boring .. i wanna go to school and wow people .. i rate high!! thanks

i hope i can help. If you have green eyes and you want to wow people... try a pink eye shadow or a bright green one... or if you want a more subtle look go for the brown... mor enatural. Also i advice bright blue... one of the bests. YOu dont HAVE to to wear black eye shwadow... try some dark blue wit hthe pink shadow or the bright blue. Or i advise dark green shadow with the bright blue or natural, also the bright green. Just try new things with it every day. your eye brows... no idea what to do there. Well good luck
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i have this friend that is really touchy feely..shes always hugging me and putting her arm around me.It makes me really uncomfortable. And non of my friends like her and shes always around us and never leaves us alone. I dont even really like her but i dont no how to tell her to stop hanging around us without being rude.

wow that sound like exactly how my friends felt about me. For a second i thought it was oen of them... and who knows it could be. But just incase would it be alirght if i asked you your name. Just checking. Okay from great experience on this subject i think i can give you some useful advice. Diontjust STOP being her friend. Who know maybe afetr you get passed the touchy feely part of her youll relize you really do like her. I would plan on just telling her that you dont liked being touched. I am starting to think maybe this is one of my friends... becusa this is in my profile... wait wait wait i should trust people... okay well dont just stop being her friend right away tell her how you feel and if it doesnt stop or you dont like her AFTER you do that... then i would tell her you dont want to be her friend. in the nicest wa possible. This is sooo weird tho. i was JUST in your friends eact position. Some people let me down so easily and they were so nice abotu it but others just dropped me. Well good luck keep me updated.

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My boyfriend is always putting his arm round my waist and touching me but I never know where to touch him. I don't want to be really outragous or anything, I just want to know how I should touch him.

Is he touching you in inapropriate places? If not then i can give you advice. If you puts his arm around your waist you cna plac e your head lightly on his shoulder. if he puts his arm around your shoulder you can play footie. if he touches your face you can out YOUR arm around him.... many options. If your dancing thats obvious.. if your jkissing you can wrap them aroudn him etc.

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Hello ... where can I get the breast cancer bracelet from? Thanks

go to the berast cancer site. search on google supoort breast concer or something

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Well, I've always been shopping at American Eagle and Abercrombie and those kind of places, and I HATE IT!!! I hate them all. I don't want to be a prep. I want to shop at Hot Topic, I am so anti-prep it's not even funny. And all these years my parents have made me shop there. Seriously, they will not let me shop at Hot Topic or anything place they consider "goth". I guess you could call us rich, and so I totally hate it. I just want to be what I want to be, which is pretty much "punk" since I'm really into that kind of music and I love black. I've been so pissed about it, but, if I do convince my parents to let me start wearing stuff from Hot Topic, will people call me a Poser because all the sudden I go from Preppy Clothes to Punk?

Please help!

Just so you all know: I HATE preppy clothes. They suck. I think about being home schooled and running away and buying Hot Topic stuff and just sneaking it to school because I hate my clothes so much. So don't think this is just a stupid joke. Thanks.

pkoay this is weird.. iam likw the opposite of you. I used to shop at hot topic and now i shop at american eagel and stuff... if you cahnge no one will bugyou about it. no own bigged me.

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I like this site and I goto to this site to try and give helpful advice or even to receive some, why is that people are such jerks on here? They give bad advice or stupid comments to someones advice!! And there will probably be a whole bunch of people who will give a dumb remark to this question! Why do people come an give stupid advice like "go kill yourself" or "your a loser" or some stupid comment! Honestly do these people get a thrill out of making fun of someone ? Why do these people sign up for this website if they are just going to give horrible advice? Does anyone agree? Doesn't it seem stupid and pointless?

i totaly agree!!

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does anyone know any good poem sites? because i wanted to add some to mybuddy4u.....thanx in advanced...

www.poetrypoem.com

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What do dreams mean? What about those that keep repeating themselves? Is there some kind of connection between dreams and real life?

I would advise goign to this site.. iuse ti all the time : http://groups.yahoo.com/group/dream-flow/ trust me it really works.

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