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are braces a BIG turn off?¿ I cant wait til i get them off in January! I feel like a freak with metal on my teeth!
luv,
Metal Mouth

well im a girl..sry..but i think guys with braces are hot..lol..but thats just me i dont know what guys think but most guys i think dont care!

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ok well i play vball n im realli good at it im one of tha top members on my team...well my coach recommended for me to switch skools so i can start playin jv..only thing is im in 7th grade so id bein goin to a secondary skool n being wit 9th graders n stuff...well all my friends r like i hate you if u move im never gonna talk to you again..so im confused should i go or not?? bcuz if i go to tha skool im gonna b playin vball in a more advanced team but ima b leavin all my friends..but if i stay then ima stay on tha same vball team n b ahead of every1 on my team and i cant do nething i kno bcuz they dont kno it yet..sry its long ill ratE! wuts ur opinion on this?

personally i would go ...who knows you could become rly close with some 9th graders...and if your better then some of you friends may get jealous cz your better then them!

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Theres this girl. We were dating for a year( i know thats preety sad) Now i want to break up with her. How do i brake up with someone without hurting their feelings?

you cant if you both rly liked eachtother enough to stay with them for a yr!

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ok i no alot of people want to be in good shape but i really want to be thin liek a model do i need to be anerexic or elemic..shuld i? or does anyone no a way to get skinny liek i want to be please help thnx!!..x00x

noo dont throw up cz then the acid can make you hav to get ur teeth pulled...and then you wouldnt be a model anyways!

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Hey everyone,

Well I have a football game Tomorrow evening and I am in the band and our uniforms are light blue, white, and dark blue. I have medium length blonde kinda curly hair. How should I do my hair for the football game? I was thinking of wearing it up like I usually do with a blue hair tie that has like little ribbons on it ((its hard to describe)) or pigtail braids with a blue one and another lighter blue one but, I don't know. Do you have any other ideas or anything.

XOXO
Charmed-Cherry21

IDK if this helps but I play the piccolo and I am 13/f

pony tail!

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i dunno wat to do i liked this guy alot and he did for a while and i feel like he lead me on and today he asked out this other girl im sooo hurt wat should i do??

get over him..hes not worth it

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i have this gurl that is in love with me n we broke up a year ago n she is moving back n really loves me but i love some1 else wut shold i do

tell her maybe another time..and your sorry Dont tell her about the other girl tho...big no no!

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Okay so I met this guy online like a couple weeks ago or so. And I really feel like I'm falling for him, I love him so much. Do you think this is crazy or actually possible that I can be in love with him?

umm no i think you cant do that ... you dont even kno if hes tellin you the truth.. how can yuo trust him much less love him?!

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Some of my friends are really scared to kiss a guy! They don't know "how." What should I tell them??

just go with the flo and follow the guys lead..!!

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what do you do when you love two people and you cant pick between them

i dont think you can love 2 people..with the same amount of love and in the same way..sorry

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What should I do? Me and my best friend let's call him Harry, are no longer friends, because I have a big jealousy issue, I hooked him up with my friend, while liking him. So it bothers me when they are together and I can't stand being around him knowing he's not mine. So I have been mean to him alot, and as a result of that, we no longer friends cause I kinda blew up at him with all my fustration and stuff, cause it was all built up inside... but now I feel bad know that our friendship ended up on bad note, and now I feel like we'll never be friends again. What should I do?

tell him you liked him and couldnt stand seeing him with another girl and it wasent you..but you bein mean kinda ruined it ..i had that problem but you have to keep your anger and jealousy in until your alone!!..or else thats what happend

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May 17, 2004, ((st. patricks day)) one of my best friends committed suicide. She was 13 years old. She was born on September 11, 1990. Her name was Alyssa, and she was walking to school late and she was walking on the tracks. She heard the train coming and she turned around, put her hood up, and gave the thumbs up sign to the conductor. He couldn't stop the train. Alyssa got hit and died. A month later the investigators claimed it to be suicide, which everyone already knew. She had tried committing suicide a couple weeks before that, but I had to drag her off the tracks by her hair. I had made her go see the school counselor before that and I guess she still wanted to committ suicide. The night before she was hit, she wrote R.I.P Alyssa on her and her boyfriend's bedroom wall. She killed herself for many reasons, but I only know of how her boyfriend was cheating on her and she was in a gang and family problems. She told me there was more though. I tried so hard to convince her that death wasn't the soulution, but she didn't listen. I did everything I could to help her. Anyway, I know it's long but I thought you needed to know the whole story.
So my problem is, I still haven't been able to cope with it. I cry all the time and nobody seems to understand me. I miss her so much. I've already seen numerous counselors but they haven't helped me much. I just want to know if there's any way that I could start the "healing process" or if it'll just take time. I would appreciate all the help. Thank you so much!

Love, RacheL
((xoRachel))


R.I.P Alyssa Gonzalez.. I miss you so much.
9/11/90 - 3/17/04

im sooo sorry!!..ok wait did it happen in may or march cz on the bottom you said "3/17/04" anyways.. it just happend this year so you should expect it to take a little while to heal if my bestfriend did that i dont know what i would do! and if it just happend in may that i think is way to early to be thinking about the "healing process" and so i guess if you really wanna try and get over her just think of all the good times yall had and try to remind yourself it was in the past its time to move on dont let it get you down (i know thats almost impossible tho)

im sorry!

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I know this isn't really a question.. but I have a lot of spare time on my hands and I was wondering if anybody wanted me to make them glitter name's or glitter sigi's. Just respond to this with your screen name, what you want me to make (like a name or something) and what color you want it to be.
Here's a question though..
Does anybody know any good places where you can get glitter sigi's like just the glitter part not the name? I'd appreciate it if you could help! Thanks!

Love, RacheL
((xoRachel))

aw! i do.. sMiLiNALl4U ...my name is Hannah could you do it in blue.. umm maybe a craft store if thats what your talking about!?..sorry

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Ok, technically, this SHOULD be under some sort of Technology thing, but they didnt have a sub-category for it.

Ok, the last couple days, someone will leave me a voice mail, but I can't access it, because when I dial my voice mail I get a busy signal and the screen says "Call Failed: Network Busy"

Last night at almost midnight I was able to finally get through after shutting my phone off then on again. Today, however I have no such luck.

Any suggestions?

go to the companys store and ask the people who work there you may have a defected phone..i had one and got my replaced for free!

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Well, I've hardly been eating ANYTHING lately. And when I do, it's small doses of like...carrot sticks or something. I've been loosing weight and everything. I don't think I'm fat and all that, I don't even want to be on some stupid diet. I want to eat, but everytime I try, I get sick if I eat too much. Should I see a doctor? Or is this normal for a girl my age?

13.f.

no i dont think its normal but you need to eat more..maybe if you eat junk food it makes you sick ..happens to me! but try eating more doses of what your eating now..carrots sticks...then if that still dont help go to the doc!

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ok has anyone tried the south beach diet? if so..did it really work, was it hard..how much did you lose and how long did it take you. i really wanna try it but if it dont work i dont want to waste my time on it! thanks.

im still on it..i lost 12 pounds the 1st 2 weeks..and since then ive lost 25 pounds it rly a good diet!

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okay theres this boy i like and i asked him out and its been like a week and he hasnt answered wat should i do ?!?

it means no..

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how come people say it is bad for a 13 year old to be friends or have a realationship wit a 16 year old?

because high school guys dont take mercy..lol..sounds weird but true ! when they want sex they'll get it their bigger an more powerful...as everyone says but i think that if yall trust eachother and are good friends then theres nothing wrong..

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Hey, i am 15 and weigh 150 lbs. I'm not "fat" but i feel that way. I dont look it or anything, but i have no idea where the weight is going. I have been taking birth control for like 4 months, and that might be the reason for gaining all this weight, but i dont know how to get rid of some weight. I have tried the south beach diet, i dont eat that much.... never really have, i drink only diet drinks since forever, but i still dont know why i am gaining all this weight. It worries me a lot... Hopefully you can help.. thanks

hey not to be mean but im sorry but your gunna look it if you weigh 150..no doubt about it

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i went out wit this kid for 5 months nd i was like totally in love wit him but his best friend who im pretty tight wit that hes feelin this otha chick so i dumped that bitch on the curve! i was really pissed.. but that was in june nd' ive gone out wit like two otha ppl since (nutin serious) but im still madly in love wit him.. when eva i see him in school we dont even talk no more like at all.. we jus walk right passed each otha. but he says that hes still feelin me when i talked to him once the whole time since the beginning of september. some people jus tell me to talk bout otha guys when im near him to like one of mah friends to get him pissed but i dont htink that'll work.. wat do you think i should do??? o ya im 15!!!!!

i think you should talk to him and tell him that you still feel for him cz if he said he did then yall can hook back up once yall talk more...dont try and get him pissed cz that will just start somethin else and you shouldnt want that!!...just when you see him in the hall be like "hey can i talk to you..." and tell him!!

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