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well im in basketball...And im like not too good whats a way to help me not think about bein nervous...or somethin...plz help me out !! (link)
practice foul shots and lay-ups on your court or a friend's bball court!!

*BeSs*


ok, here's the scoop, i asked one of my friends to talk to the guy that i like....she said that he hates me and thinx i'm ugly and stuff. i don't know whether or not to believe her and i don't know what to do. i don't really think he'd say that, but should i ask him or what? please help if you can. thanx
~ArL0* (link)
well if it's your friend, i think you should believe her on this one .... but if your that curious then go and ask the guy urself but your probably gonna get oyur feelings hurt if you do!!

*BeSs*


i need help i rly rly love my girlfriend she means everything to me but sometimes she plays around to much we have been goin out 9 months wut should i do (link)
figure y she isn't satisfied! maybe she is bored and if u want to keep this relationship u need to figure out y she is doing this!

*BeSs*


I am in love with this guy.He makes me laugh and when ever he looks at me he makes me smile.He is the only one that i let make fun of me.The problem is that he belongs to another girl. what am i suppose to do . Everyday i wake up to see him. HELLPP

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keep him in mind and keep flirtin' him! i don't know how serious this guy is with his gf right now but there maybe chance for some romance if they break up!! don't give up hope yet!

*BeSs*


my friend lorrin just moved to another state. I miss her so much. What should i do? (link)
write 2 each other! say in touch! hey u could even make a video tape of yourself and tell her how u are doing! and then send it to her so she can see u!!

*BeSs*


how do you get over a guy you really like and think that you love? (link)
well i suggest of thinking or setting your eyes on another guy that better fits you that you trust and that you like! "there are other fish in the sea"

*BeSs*


I just moved to a new state and i do not know a lot of people and i want to babysit in my spare time. but i do not know how to get the word out that i will be able to babysit?help me please! (link)
post signs near public places just advertise!

*BeSs*


Hi, I have a few dark freckles on my face that I would like to hide. Do you know of anything that would cover them up well? Thank you in advance. (link)
try some make-up 2 cover it up!

*BeSs*


hey uhh we have these monologue things we have to do in my drama class and the one i chose i am really good at and i love it nad everyone says i am a good actor but uhh i am scared to perfrom in front of my drama class cuz there are guys in it that r real jerks and i want to perform really well but i don't think i can cuz i don't want to be made fun of what should i do

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p.s. I uhh kinda cut myself and if they make fun of me again i am gonna do it again and my friend gaev me this website so i wouldn't have to talk to an adult and like pleeze help me i am always depressed becasue i am always picked on i don't want to take pills or tkae counseling i can't stand talkin to adults. That was a long p.s. but yea (link)
don't listen to them don't let them get you down! do what you llove to do and don't let them stop you! i think you should tell your parents that you cut yourself! thanks for asking a question please write to me if you need more questions answered!

*BeSs*


Hey every1,
This is miSSc and I need some advice about my singing...I can sing, but my vocal range (singing range) is kinda limited and my voice cracks sometimes when I go high. I know most of you will say that I should get voice lessons but...I don't have time for one. I use to take lessons but I had to give up because I started not having time for one. So...got any tips? I want to improve my "chest" voice. The highest note I can hit is a high "C" but I want to go higher with out straining my voice and not cracking either. Please help me!!!!
Sincerely,
MiSSc (link)
if u don't mind me asking why do u wanna work on ur chest voice? as a vocal major at my high school, they teach us 2 work on the head voice! chest voice isn't good and in order to go 2 higher notes u must use the head voice or else u r gonna crack! drink lots and lots of water everyday. don't eat greasy foods or dairy products. Also do your excercies before singingso u can warm up ur voice! If u need anymore help about singing or anyhitng else let me know, cuz like i said i am a vocal major at my high school. I am at the top of my class and i'm an alto part starting to sing in soprano.

*BeSs*

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ok im a 15 year old dude and my gf goes to a dif skool and it really sux i know most of u think thats gay but itz all good.. but i don't get to see her a whole lot i don't get my car for three months. do u know how i can strengthen my relationship for these next three months b4 i can see her a whole lot more? (link)
just keep in contact eith her talk 2 her whenever u have free time! let's hope u have her phone number, her email, and her cell ((if she has one)) maybe u can plan every friday that u two get together and hang out at the mall or go 2 the movies!!

*BeSs*

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ok i really like this guy his a year older then me and i think he's really hot, i don't really know him that much and im to shy to go up to him and start a convo. What should i do write a note, what???

confused (link)
show ur interest, find out if he is single, and flirt! :)

*BeSs*


How do I delete my xanga?? I'll rate 5.. it's an emergancy! (link)
http://help.xanga.com/shutdownsite.htm

*BeSs*

*Happy Thanksgiving*


im going out with this guy that goes to a different school. i see him only about twice a month and i dont think our relationship will last. is there anything i can do to see him more often because i really really like him.

thanx. (link)
make a lot of plans ... see if u 2 can hang every friday at the movies or maybe even the mall!!

*BeSs*

*Happy Thanksgiving*


Ok well I know this question is really stupid but i don't know what to get my dad or brother for x-mas. My brother is 16 and plays guitar and stuff and i don't know what to get him. Any ideas for either of them? thanx!
~I rate!~ (link)
u could get ur dad something 2 do with sportz cuz i think all dads like sportz stuff! and ur brother if he really likes playin' guitar then go 2 a local music store and c if they have sheet music 2 one of his fave songs!!

*BeSs*

*Happy Thanksgiving*


Does anyone know where I can find a good site that tells me everything about early settler origins of the 13 colonies..???

I need.. New York-Duke Of York, Pennsylvania-William Penn, Delaware- Peter Minuit, Maryland-Lord Baltimore, Connecticut-Thomas Hooker, New Hampshire-John Wheelwright.. (Like where they came from) I tried searching google & yahoo n stuff but nothing came up that I needed.. PLEASE HELP :( (link)
Try these:

http://www.timepage.org/spl/13colony.html
http://www.7cs.com/collectibles.colonial.html


Hope all goes well! :)


*BeSs*

*Happy Thanksgiving*


OK well I have AOL 9.0 And Its only suppose to be like 24 dollars a month or something. But we get billed like 2 times in a month. Anyways, What is a good internet thats cheap and good? Like 10 dollars a month. I know like peoplepc.com but I dont know If thats good. Thanks. (link)
Try these:

1.) NetZero
2.) Juno

I think both are like $9.95 a month!


*BeSs*

*Happy Thanksgiving*


there is this girl that almost everyday wears the same thing I do(this girl is my x-best friend)how do you think she finds out what i am going to wear Do you think that she has a camera in my room or something
java 22 (link)
i doubt she has a camera in ur room, and if she does then i think that u could sue her for spying! Maybe u have similar taste in clothes and maybe u should complement her on her clothes and maybe become friends again! Hey u never know!

*BeSs*

*Happy Thanksgiving*


Hey yall I'm going to a school dance soon and I was wondering what to wear. My friend and I need some help so I'll describe us to you. I am a blonde with blue eyes shoulder lenth hair and pale skin. My friend has pale skin brown hair down to her back and green eyes. Please tell us what to wear. I'll rate high. Thanks. (link)
um ... sum denim jeans or jeans ((in general)) and um ... a tank top because it can get really hot in those dances!! have fun!

*BeSs*

*Happy Thanksgiving*


do guys like it if girls ask them to dance or go out w/ them...ive always wondered. or does the guy have to do it all? (link)
normally it's the guy who does it all!!

*BeSs*




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