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i'm running for class of '07 student council in two months and some other leadership positions! and i need to start being extra nice to everyone (im usually nice) how can i do it without sounding or looking too fake?? (link)
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be yourself but keep your good deeds quite so people don't think your doing it for the title...but the people who you helped out will surely spread the word on how nice you are
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Guys like to say girls are difficult but guys can be just as difficult too. There's this guy who no matter how hard I try to not like him, he stays in my mind constantly. I know most would say move on but the truth is I can't. He's not dating anyone at the moment but he loves to flirt a lot. We've been friends for awhile and it didn't seem like him, but he played me. He promised my bestfriends that he wouldn't hurt me and also he let them know that he liked me a lot but he never came around to asking me out. Should I still wait for something to happen even though it's been months, or just force myself to move on? (link)
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don't force yourself just move on slowly or you can ask him out if you like him that much
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I don't know why, but my stomach always hurts. It hurts at LEAST once a week. And it's not cramps, it's just like a stomach ache. But I get them all the time! I hate it, and I don't know what to do. The other day I got one in school and I had to go to my next class and I was afraid I'd get sick. I mean, I never do, but it feels like it. Does anybody know what this is, and what I can do? (link)
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i think you should tell your parents and have them take you to the doctor immediately just incase if it is something serious...try to remember how long these pains have gone on so the doctor knows what you have or what you don't have
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How do you keep a conversation going? I usually say something then it comes out stupid and i stop. (link)
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what you should do is think of a subject that you and your friend(s) have n common and just go with it like for ex. talk about music what type you like and what type you don't like
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hey okay today in the shower i used like tons of conditioner and now my hair is dried and it feels rrreealllyy greasy and like looks it too but i just got out of the shower and it smells like i just washed it to and my hair si really frizzy andi straighten the crap out of it.and i wash it only every 4 days do u think that the stiffness and greasy feeling will go away ? (link)
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i have the same problem try to cut back the use of your conditioner and if the problem still continues ask your doctor or a dermatologist what you should do
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dear, helper i really need help! i am overweoght and i hate doing boring exercises and nasty diets ( i ahve cravings) so please give me some advice.
sincerly,
in need (link)
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this is not really a diet but you can start by slowly eating less sugars until you basically don't eat too many sugars such as drinking cokes and other soft drinks you could lose some major weight when you cut back on the sugar but you have to take i one step at a time or else your body won't get used to it if you take drastic measures
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There's this kid in one of my classes who's obsessed with me. I have never talked to him before this all happenened. He got my screen name from one of my friends, and he's always talking to me. He says he likes me alot, and the truth is, I dont know him and I don't like him. I just want him to leave me alone. Everytime he comes on, I put an away message up, but he still talks to me! He's like, tell me when you get back. What am I supposed to say to him?? I just want him to leave me alone, he's starting to creep me out! (link)
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you can be straight forward with him and tell him that you don't like him in that way or any other way and / or you can block him on your buddylist
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I never know what to say when im talking to my crush. Sometimes, its akward because i would have nothing to say then it would turn out to be dead scilence. I get kinda scared about what he thinks of me because hes an outgoing guy and i only wish to be outgoing enough to fit up to his standerds. How do i bring up a good conversation without it being akward, and what if i cant think of a topic to bring up what should i do? (link)
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i have the same problem if you both have somrthing in common like you like a certain type of music or anything else that you both like would work too and don't think of yourself as not good enough for him cause maybe your just too good for him my advice is get to know him vefore you jump into any conclusions
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i'm 13/f and i weight 115!! i want to lose 15 lbs. and FAST, i already skip meals and sometimes i even make myself vomit... i know it's not healthy but i see myself as the fattest person on the face of this earth. i gained like 15 pounds over the summer and i have no idea how! i have a boyfriend that i havn't seen since the begining of the year and when i see him again i don't want to be all fat. but thats beside the point... does anyone know how to stop food cravings.. besides diet pills cuse i have no idea how i'd get those, and my friends said they don't work. help please (link)
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ok first of you are not fat when i was 13 which was only last year i weighed the same your in perfect except for the vomiting and skippin meals you really should eat healthy and workout at the qym or go on a diet without starving yourself because if you keep vomiting it not only hurts your vocal chords but it also burns your mouth so it isn't a smart idea i know i might sound like your mom or something but you really shouldn't do that all you really need to do is cut back oon sugars like coke, candy, and other stuff that is sweet you can have them occasionally but not 24-7
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heyy, my friend told me i should go out with this guy who happened to be her ex, but theyve both dated other people and moved on... so now hes my b/f and we like each other a lot,and when we hung out at the mall the other night with my friend she started liking him again and now shes making me feel all bad cuz shes like "oh i'll never stop liking colt, and i will always love him" and "he was mine but now you have him" what should i do?? and how should i handle my friend?? love, lauren!!
ps.. colt is my b/fs name (link)
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ask your friend if it is really ok with her because sometimes people are in denial then tell the guy that u like him and see what he says
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Im a male. Theres a Girl I really like. I don't think theres a possibility that she likes me back. I don't want to do anything wrong to get her to like me. I dont even know how to act around her. Do you have any suggestions on how to get her to like me? (link)
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here's a tip why don't you tell her how you feel?? yea i know that's too mushy for a guy, but she might like you back there's always a chance, but tell her in a secluded spot so it's "special"
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Okie! I am 5'6 and I weigh about 128 lbs. All my friends tell me that I am skinny but I have hips and I dont like it.I think that I have fat on on my hips and they tell me that I dont but I really want to lose some weight and tone up some more. I used to have a 6pack but I let myself go a few years ago when I started high school and stopped playing soccer after 13 yrs. What should I eat and do to stay skinny. I do sit ups and sometimes run but what else?
*Sami* (link)
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i have the same problem my friends call me a toothpick and i'm not; try to eat healthy work out and eat less fatty snacks do a sport again it might help
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My friend and I like the same guy. He goes to my church, and my friend comes to church with another one of my friends, so sees him on Wednesday and stuff. Anyways, she and her friend just found out who I like a few days ago because I decided to tell them. And I'm glad I did. But, she didn't know that I've liked him longer than her. Like, ever since this school year started. He's older and goes to a different school. Is this wrong that we both like the same person? I know that her feelings aren't hurt or anything, but should I let her know that I've liked him for like ever? Thanks and I rate well. (link)
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trust me i'm in the same situation don't tell you're friend too much because even though you might think that she wouldn't tell him your business she might just to get him cause thats what happened to me; tell him that you like him i regret now that i didn't tell him because my friend who only met him for like 2 weeks and shes only seen him twice too asked him before i had the courae to tell so tell him that u like him or face the consequences
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15/f. So I like this guy, and I think have a pretty good chance with him. Well we've only seen eachother twice because we both are friends with this one girl. I havent seen him in a while but we talk online and I just love talking to him and stuff. He said I was really pretty and yeah anyway. He needs a job a this one store, and I know who owns the store. So i'm going to try to get him the job..if I get this job for him hopefully somehow that will raise my chances of going out with him.(haha) I'm just confused because if I never say what I feel, we'll just be friends. But what if I do tell him I like him and he doesnt wanna go out with me? And then our friendship is ruined. I dont know what to do. Sorry if this is confusing! *I rate* (link)
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tell him how you feel i know this sounds cheesy but trust me i went through the same thing except i was really nervous and i brought my friend with me to go to the movies with him and my friend is goin out with him now and i regret not tellin him that i liked him alot so tell him how you feel and if you two hit it off then great if not telll him you still wanna be friends so he doesn't feel like he's lost you
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This is a serious question, so please don't joke about it. I know it's long..but if you read it, I'll really appreciate a decent answer. My friend and are both 13 and female. Yesterday at lunch my friend wasn't eating. She usually doesn't eat lunch, but I hadn't really caught on until now. I asked her why she wasn't eating and just said "I don't know". I asked her when she had last eaten a full meal and she said it was about a week ago! Only a couple of her close friends know this, but I was the most recent one to find out. Why aren't her friends doing anything about it? I've been thinking about it all yesterday and today. I had a long chat with her online last night about it and she answered some questions that I asked. One: I asked her (again) why she hadn't eaten in the last week. She told me it was a way to relieve "stress". She also said she thought of doing this, since it is better than cutting herself. Her parents are divorced so she says to one parent that she eats at the other house and vice-versa. Basically our whole lunch table knows this about her, so one of my friends buys her a snack everyday. We try to make her eat it, but she just turns her head and shuts her mouth. She said that she won't let it go that far. I told her that this is going to become a bad habit for her and she needs to start going back to her regular eating before it gets worse. I never would have expected this to happen to her. She's not fat (and she doesn't think she's fat either), she's NEVER sad (always happy and hyper), I just don't know. I know I have to tell someone about this. But I didn't think I would ever be in a situation like this. It scares me. She told me not to tell her parents or anyone else. I want to tell so badly..but at the same time, I just want to let it go! If I tell, I'm so scared I will lose her as a friend. I need someone to help my friend and me. Please. (link)
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go tell her parents before she does serious damage to herself if you were her friend u would tell her parents because if she doesn't eat at all she might have health related problems if you just don't have the courage to talk to her parents then talk to the school nurse and ask him or her to help you out and talk with your friend about the consequences of starving herself
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Well, my 14th birthday is coming up and I am thinking of a camp out. See this is gonna be totally different bc/ this year i'm goin to have the guyz sleep ova as well of th gurlz. We r goin to be sleeping in tents together and....with that i know something is going to go naughty..haha. Well, i can't wait for this party and i'm rele excite there are going to be 5 guyz and 7 gurls. How am i going to have a cool party wiht out my parents checkin up on us every hour. I mean it's not like anyone of us would "do it" but we might get close and i don't want my parents to find out cuz they're rele strict. How can i do this with out 'm knowing? also, do u kno where i can find tnet heaters and coolers. thanks so much roxy (link)
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if i were you i would invite my friends and some really responsible people that i no and explain to my parents that they are really trustworthy and i am too so they don't need to worry about us
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