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Well i missed my period this month and im only 12 im worried cause i've always been not on time so there is this white stuff and like i have been fingering up there does that mean im pregent???????
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You can only possibly be pregnant if you have had any sexual intercourse.
The white stuff that you have entcounetered is most likely discharge.
Missing your period does not always mean pregnancy, you could miss it because you are stressed.
I would wait and take note of what happens over time. I have missed my period before, and it has come back normal. And vaginal discharge should be white
Hope I could help! Best of luck!
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can you give me ideas on unning for high school president? (link)
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Running for president eh? Bold move! I could nevber do such a thing, simply beacause I am not POPULAR enough.
Anyways, I have been class prez and elementary school prez before, so I will give you a few tips.
Okay, a lot of times you hear that they want a fun president, one who doesn't discuss the issues, and wants to make everything as cool as possible. However, the issues are still important. I would take some of the most important issues and try to change some of them. That way people know you can make an effort and really care. You should also not make any promises. This is BAD to do if the promise can't be followed through. You should also be open to suggestions by students. Hear what they have to say. And lastly, try to negotiate fun days and trips for them, they will love you... NO PROMISES...
Good luck :) hope I could help. Ps. Bright eye catching posters will also do the trick! Helps you advertise yourself better.
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Hi! uhm.. so.. I've only been with my boyfriend for 3 days now, but I don't really feel.. right... around him.. He's really a sweet guy though... I guess what I'm asking, is should I wait for awhile to see if maybe I will feel better later, or if I should tell him how I feel..... (P.S. I am a girl, 16 years old.) (link)
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When you are first dating a guy, it might feel awkward, or you might be questioning your decision at first. I say you wait it out for a bit. You don't want to break up with him based on 3 days of being together. Maybe he will even suprise you, and you will begin to feel comfortable around him. So my advice is to give it some time because you never know.
Best of luck!
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My whole life I've been very sheltered. I have very few friends and I'm not that close to my family. I had 4 girlfriends before I was 18. The longest relationship I had lasted almost a year. I've been single for 2 years now.
I'm a virgin, even though I'm great at pleasuring girls sexually in all other ways.
I've been told a lot that I'm quite attractive, with an athletic body. My family is very wealthy, and I have plenty of money. I have a genius IQ and am going to a university (still living at home) and studying in cognitive neurochemistry and biotechnology. I have traveled the world, and have great social skills, and can make people laugh really easily. But I just don't have any close friends. The friends I do have are all nerdy guys who have never touched women.
I don't really have any friends at college. I tried online dating, but it made me kinda feel like a loser because I cant find a girl in real life to be with, plus meeting in person for the first time might be awkward. The women I go out with have all been emotionally abusive as well, which makes me even more reluctant to really try to get into a relationship because I feel like I'm just going to be treated like I'm worthless for the 10th time.
I just don't know how or where to meet people to be honest. Would you consider online dating to be kind of pathetic? I don't like parties, not that I know enough people to be invited to them. I'm too young to go to bars. And I'm not interested in any school or community clubs.
People always tell me "just go out and meet people go to parties and stuff lol", but I'm just not built that way. Is there something wrong with me? All the girlfriends I have had I met in high school or driving school. Now that I'm not around girls that often, I have no chance of getting a girlfriend, never mind a good one.
What do I do? The only time I really feel happy and satisfied is when I have been in relationships, even bad ones. I'm happy with myself, I just hate being so alone all the time. (link)
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I am going to go straight down to the root of your problem...
First off, you need to be confident. It sounds to me like you are a bit insecure with who you truly are. You need to be able to hold your head up high, and be who you want to be without having to worry about judgement. Yes, even the bravest people have insecurities. You need to stand up as an individual and be confident in who you are.
Secondly, there is nothing wrong with online dating. Many people use it as a way to meet new people that share the same interests etc. If you are shy, then maybe online dating will eventually help you with your shyness. But please do not feel like a loser. Many people use sites like this. They are meant to help you, not lower your self esteem.
To be honest, all you have to do is work with yourself. Keep your head up, and boost your confidence. Be proud of who you are, and what you can accomplish. Take things slow, make small bold attempts... Eventually you will find the women who will like you for who you are. Best of Luck!
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My boyfriend and i had sex a month ago this month when my menstrual came,it came 4 2 days on and off and it was light and brown then it came back with
in the same month with its regular color and lasted the regular 4 days about a week or 2 after that i ate an egg sandwich and and it upset my stomach from then till now I've been feeling nauseous and vomiting intermediately, i took a pregnancy test and it read negative. How can i know for sure if im pregnant or not? (link)
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My advice would be to do the following:
1. Use the internet to see if the possible outcomes for your problem.
2. Take regular pregnancy tests to make sure
3. Talk to someone about your problem to see if they are able to help.
4. Watch for pregnancy warning signs
5. Just to make sure, talk with your doctor
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so im not skinny but i'm kinda chubby and i bought a pair of pants today and they didnt fit when i tried to put them on. So im thinking about becoming anorexic to lose weight. i just dont know what to do. (link)
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You may think that being anorexic is the solution to your problem, but it is definetly not. Being anorexic can cause just as much problems as someone being overweight. All you have to do is approach it with a positive healthy attitude. With the right encouragement, determination and lifestyle change, you can become the body size you want to be. If you still are thinking about it, I would seek some professional help.
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For my project, I have to imagine that the Pythagorean Theorem is running for president(crazy, I know). But anyway, I have to state the Pythagorean Theorem's opinion on four major issues going on right now. The problem is that I have no idea where to start and it's due on Wednesday. Basically, I need help coming up with ways that I can connect the Pythagorean Theorem to issues like:
Occupy Wall Street
global warming
poverty
immigration
terrorism
jobs
Or any other major issue you can think of...
Thank you so much! (link)
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First off let me say that this is the CRAZIEST thing I've ever heard of as a school project. The thought of this makes me laugh! But I guess the teachers just want t be creative. :)
I don't know where to begin, but I would say to pick apart key points in each section. For example "global warming", pick out all you know about global warming, and all you know about the Pythagorean Therum. This should help you in making connections. This project sounds quite challenging, as I fail to make connections as well. If posssible, call up a friend who may be able to help. Maybe a parent or guardian. And if you still have time, take some time to sit down with your teacher and ask for help. Best of Luck!
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I've decided I'm going to try to start writing. I think it could be a fun and interesting hobby I might really be able to get into. But of course I have concerns. I've made up the main story line in my head just not the characters names, titles, and my writing style. Lol a lot I know! It's going to be present day non-fiction with a little twist of horror in it. That's the kind of books I like to read. Not horror as in Stephen king but just a little kick. :) For names I'm just going to get that list that shows every baby name from A-Z. Titles hopefully I will figure out. So my main question is my writing style. I think I'm going to look at some of my favorite series and try that style out. That wouldn't be plagiarism, would it? I'm not going to copy names of characters and stuff just the style. That would be okay, right? Thanks! :) (link)
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I love your enthusiasm for learning and trying out new things. I love to write myself, and have actually published things online, and even won prizes for my writing pieces.
Coming up with story ideas can be really tough, but looking at some of your favourites and getting inspiration from that is a good start. It is not plagarism unless you copy the whole book, or your story is almost completely identical. There is nothing wrong with using books you love for inspiration and ideas.
Hope your new hobby benifits you. Best of luck!
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i had an abortion about 8 months ago an i wish i hadn't. i cry all the time because i want my baby but its too late. i have been thinking about killing myself so i can be with my baby but i dont know if i should. i just feel like a monster for doing it but im only 17 and my mom kinda forced me to get the abortion. i just want my baby back i cant keep feeling depressed all the time. (link)
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For starters, I am against abortion unless used for saving the mother or in other circumstances. I mean things happen, and abortion happened to be in your path.I have no idea how bad you must feel about all of this. Your baby is in heaven now, and that is where it belongs. Killing yourself won't bring your baby back. It is tough to lose a child of any age, but be strong. Don't cause yourself anymore harm. If you need help, talk to a trusted adult, friends, family etc. Please, this is not the soloution. Stay strong for your little angel. Best of luck!
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So my laptop will hibernate, I turn it back on, I see the mouse and then I click it around and nothing happens. So then I move the mouse like over the icons, and then they start to appear. So I click on the Internet, and then minimize It and everything is back to normal. My computer isn't slow or anything.
My virus protection says I have no viruses as well. Not even web threats..
What is this? It's not really a problem. Just a nuisance, and I'm afraid it will lead to worse problems. I just bought this laptop a few months ago.
I just recently put some new games on it, but it hasn't overheated & it's not slow at all..?
What should I do :( (link)
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I wish I could give you a straight answer on this one, but I really don't know what it could be.
Maybe while it hibernates, it loses battery? And then it turns black? Or maybe you should just try turnin your laptop off sometimes instead of just on hibernate. I know this is not great advice, but if it continues, you should call the place where it was bought or the manufacturers for more answers. Best of luck!
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Hi!
My dad works for a dealer ship and often test drives cars to see how well theyve been fixed, and he found an Lg Dare with a broken touch screen. It's a cool phone but I can't even unlock it. I have the LG Octane right now and I want to know if it's worth it to get a new screen for it and use it instead of my Lg Octane. Oh, also, I found out that it had been cancelled. Any help is appreciated.
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ESince the phone has been cancelled and you aren't able to unlock it, I guess there is no way to find the rightful owner who probably cancelled it because they lost it.
If you can't unlock it, and it's screen is broken, I wouldn't waste time with it unless you can find someone who can restore the factory settings. This will enable for you to use the phone. As far as the cracked screen goes, I do not know how much it would cost to replace it. You should go on the internet and find reviews of both phones. If your phone review is ultimatley better, it would not make sense to try and use the other one. Plus, you do not know if the phone has an other damage, and repairing it could cost a lot.
Hope I could help. Best of luck!
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i have the htc inspire and i was wondering if there was a way to add pictures from my computer to my phone? (link)
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The solution I am giving works for most phones and other devices...
1. You have to have a media card and adapter for your phone, or a usb cable.
2. If you do have a media car and adapter, plug it into the computer, if you have a usb cord, connect it from your phone, to the computer
3.Go to "COMPUTER" on your start menu and open up the folder with your phone files.
4. Go to the picture on the computer you want on your phone. Right click, and scroll down to the "SEND TO" option. From their you must send it to REMOVEABLE DISK whatever.
5. It will send the picture to your phone files, and you must put it into the PICTURES folder to access it on your phone.
Best of luck!
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Appeal! Can somebody give me a hand? I don’t know why I can not find my photos in the camera, what should I do? They are very precious for me. Guys, just give me some ideas, thanks! (link)
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If you put your SD card from the camera into your computer, there may be a way to restore the pictures. If you can't, I would go to a place where someone knows about cameras, and maybe they can help you with your dilema. Check to make sure the media/SD card is properly inserted. Best of luck!
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So, I went to a small house party about two months ago. It was fun, and I got wasted. Like, pretty bad. The next morning I vomited about five times and felt terrible until late into the afternoon. That was the first time I had gotten that bad. Though it was really fun to be drunk, my body now cannot do alcohol. Any time I try to drink, I feel nauseous just from the taste. Now that I know my limits, I'd like to drink again, but I can't! How do I get over this? It seems like classical conditioning, but the extinction process is taking way too long. Some help would be appreciated! (link)
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You need to take it easy. It is never wise to drink till you are drunk, drinking in moderation is advised.
So you want to drink again,but due to your past experience, you can't. My advice would be to continue this "healing process". It is one of the best ways to help you.You need to stay away, stop thinking, and get away from alcohol. Find other forms of fun and amusment to make sure you can hopefully overcome this dilema.
If you think you can't go through this healing process, either you can drink, and hope for the best, or talk to someone about it. Maybe they will be able to provide support and extra help.
Best of luck!
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sorry this might be a little long
i have 2 guy cousins that are both 11. they always say really mean about me and normally i try to ignore it, but earlier we were at their grandma's (my great aunt) 80th birthday party. it was a big deal for everybody, so i thought they would leave me alone for her special night. we were taking pictures as a family, and they wouldn't stop saying really mean stuff to me. it was really embarrassing because my older cousins were also around too. i kept asking them to be nice because it was a really important night for their grandma. they were just like "we have to be nice to grandma but not you". i lost my temper and hit one of them and my aunt saw. everybody started yelling at me. i know what i did was wrong and i shouldn't have hit him, but no one said anything to my cousins to stop. later, one of my great aunts told me the same thing that i told them! and then my mom yelled at me. i understand what i did was wrong and i apologized for it but they didn't even get in trouble. and it didn't stop either. it got worse the whole night and they kept embarrassing me in front of everybody. they always do this to me and they even turned my brother against me too. and when their parents actually hear the stuff they say to me, they try to discipline them but all it serves to do is get them to hate me even more. i'm trying really hard to be christian like about the whole thing. i've even tried talking to people about it and avoiding them. but in cases like the one earlier, its really hard to stand there and let them talk so badly about me. what are some things i could do about them when i have to be around them? any answers (preferably something a good christian would do) are appreciated :) (link)
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I find it great that you did end up to hit your cousin, as that is what I probably would have done too. It is a boy thing. They don't mature as fast as us girls can, and can be really stupid. My advice would be to try and talk to your parents as many times as you can. Tell them how they are bothering you, and hopefully they will listen. But don't make the mistake of hitting them again. If it comes down to it, play em (CAUSTIOUSLY) at their own game. If they insult you, do it back. If that lands you in too much trouble, you can always video tape their mean behaviour towards you. Best of luck!
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I am absolutly in love with theatre. I am a theatre performance major and love every aspect of the art.I am however, an actor most of the time. I am just wondering if I am really good enough to make it in the real world. I have started out quite promising in my school. I received an acting scholarship and was the only freshman cast in the shows this year. However, I am a decent sized freshmen fish in a very small pond. How do i know if I am really good enough to make it as an actor? I don't want to waste my time, you know?? I am so conflicted, because acting is the language of my heart and soul and it is all I am really comfortable doing in my life. Really need some advice here please! (link)
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My advice is that you should continue to do what you love... Theatre. If you enjoy doing it, and believe you have a promising future, than go for it. I will tell you though, you might not always make it to where you want to be, and for that case, have a back-up plan. Try out new things and new experiences to help you find something else you will enjoy just as much. You could always try career searching.
So continue with what you love. Believe in yourself and what you love to do in life. Make sure to explore other possibilities that you can fall back on just incase.
Best of luck... :)
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Hi,I'm 13/f,and I'm a vegan/vegetarian.I've been one for some years now.But there's only one problem.My parents hate it.My mom said my doctor said that's not healthy for me,cause I need the protein,but she doesn't wanna hear the other ways I can get protein,while still remaining vegan.My dad just flat out says no,without hearing me out.I'm also a Peta supporter.How do I tell them,and get them to hear me out,and agree with me? (link)
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I actually happen to be a vegetarian myself, and a supporter of PETA. My dad is the only other vegetarian in the house, so I get support from him.
You must explain to your parents that you have different beliefs, and as your parents, they eventually will have to learn to except that. There is nothing wrong in being a vegetarian, infact in some ways it is better for you. And yes, there are other ways to receive protein. If you know some food that can give you that needed protein, ask your mom to buy it on her next grocery trip. Make sure she knows you will still be healthy.
As far as your father goes, it will take more time for him to accept your belief. He is going to have to learn to deal with it. Now maybe he won't listen to you, but try to get your mom to talk to him. Just don't lose your temper.
Good luck- fellow vegetarian/PETA supporter
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i dont want to live , why should i ? i dont feel happy anymore (link)
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I am 15, and believe it or not, I have had thoughts like this of my own. I have made myself black out before, or have tried to cause myself harm. I know this can be a tough issue to deal with, and your actions may not always be the smartest, but you need to get advice from a trusted adult. It may be a neighbour, a teacher, etc. Just make sure you know that you have a purpose on this earth, and suicide is never the answer. TRUST ME
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ok so im a 15 year old female and i have a problem with cutting myself in the last year ive been in a mental hospitiol 3 times i just love to cutt myself and its everywhere i can find and hide and i stopped taking my meds i hate them also i like blood alot now what should i do? (link)
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In the situation you have, I think it would be best for you to talk to someone you trust. If you can't talk to your parents about it, maybe a friend, or another family member. Whoever it may be, you need some help getting through this.
You didn't specify if you cut yourself out of depression, or just for the obssesion. If you have something going on that gives you the urge to cut yourself, then you need to talk with someone to relieve your depression.
If you do it because of pure obssesion, then I suggest you seek help immeadiatly. This is not a good "hobby" to have.
Whatever the situation may be, you need to find a trusted person to talk to, so you can get through this. Cutting is never good, and can cause serious problems for you in the end. You could have a lot of bleeding if you cut yourself too much, or you cut a vein. Also, cutting can leave you with a lot of ugly scars that you won't be able to hide.
So I hope my advice help with your problem... Good luck, and TAKE YOUR PILLS! :)
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Im twelve and ive only had one period. I dont think my mom knows that i know what tampons are. i want to use them, but im afraid she might get mad or something. Im pretty open with my mum, but idk about this please answer! thx (link)
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The good ol' "tampon talk". This can be really awkward to talk about. Just remember, your mom has been through all of this before, I I think she would understand the sensitivity that girls have regarding this issue.
I would suggest sitting in a quiet place with her to discuss this. Tell her that you know what tampons are, and you would like to use them instead of your standard pads. I don't think she would have any reason at all to get angry. If you think tampons will benefit you and your period, then explain that to your mom.
Beware, your mom is probably going to talk a lot on this issue. You know, about her whan she was your age, tampons vs pads etc. Just remember you both need to approach it with an open mind, and in the end, everything should turn out fine.
Good luck - :)
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