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Girls only how do i talk to mum about tampons
Im twelve and ive only had one period. I dont think my mom knows that i know what tampons are. i want to use them, but im afraid she might get mad or something. Im pretty open with my mum, but idk about this please answer! thx
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The good ol' "tampon talk". This can be really awkward to talk about. Just remember, your mom has been through all of this before, I I think she would understand the sensitivity that girls have regarding this issue.
I would suggest sitting in a quiet place with her to discuss this. Tell her that you know what tampons are, and you would like to use them instead of your standard pads. I don't think she would have any reason at all to get angry. If you think tampons will benefit you and your period, then explain that to your mom.
Beware, your mom is probably going to talk a lot on this issue. You know, about her whan she was your age, tampons vs pads etc. Just remember you both need to approach it with an open mind, and in the end, everything should turn out fine.
Good luck - :)
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At some point your mom will have expected you to experience menarche and for you to have told her about this happening. She will be happy for you and likely delighted to answer any questions or concerns about menstruation you have.
There shouldn't be a thing that's embarrassing about it for either of you as it's a normal thing that all females deal with. Why on Earth would you mother be mad at you for experiencing something that all girls will at some point or for wanting info on how to handle it effectively? I think she would be more upset if you didn't disclose this and ask her about tampons.
Just tell her privately what's happened and reason you want to use them over pads/liners. Most teens do because of sports, swimming etc. I would just tell her straight up and ask her outright about them. If you can be open with her about anything else in your life you can definitely be open about this.
There shouldn't be anything to fear here. You may think it's embarrassing but she was once your age and likely in the same boat talking to her own mother about it. It'll be fine. It's better to ask and be informed rather than experience difficulty with this.
You really should talk with your own mother however, if you have an older sister, cousin aunt, grandmother, friend's parent, health teacher whomever you also might trust you could ask them about their experiences and advice on what to do about tampons or not to do. I do think however, that just talking to your mom and getting over this initial talk is best. She's a girl too and knows you would someday approach with questions like these.
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