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Hi, I am JenniferI am Korean- Japanese and proud.
I am a clingy person, so I need people who don't mind cling people.
I try very hard not to be judgemental.
I suck at waking up.
I have a two second attention span.
I laugh at the most corniest jokes and make them myself.
I have a lot of Jennifer moments. You have been warned.
I love being tan, so please get that suntan lotion away from me. :)
I can make a party animal look like a party pooper. :p
So, yeah, I'm just your average kind of girl... with a more than needed bit of craving for chocolate maybe? Yup... ♥
advice
Do you think the reason people only dwell on comments that were made to them because the comments made to them is on the topics they are sensitive about and not on the ones they are NOT sensitive about.
Of course it's what they're sensitive about...
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okay i was dating this girl sammie, then she kissed another guy i flppped and we broke up, she said that that kiss didnt mean anything... then for a month she bothered me and said she wanted me back, now i finally relieze i still really like her, and shee doesnt want me back... wat do i do to get her back, or is it even worth it?
This girl is not worth it. Breaking up with her was the right thing to do. If that kiss didn't mean anything, then what was the point of it? It definitely meant something.
Maybe you've had good times with this girl, and I understand that, but if those good times meant a lot to this girl, believe me, she wouldn't have kissed that other guy. If this girl is worth it, she wouldn't have cheated on you like that. You're better than that, and she's the one missing out on something good. =)
Move on. Go to another sweet girl. A girl with a similar personality to your ex, minus the cheating properties. I'm sure you can score another one. Flirt. Be affectionate. Sweet, caring, and funny is what most girls look for.
Hope I've helped
-Jenny C
Dont you think Person A should not dwell on what another person said to them a day ago, a week ago, a month ago, a year or years ago because chances are the person that said something to Person A would never remember saying it to Person A and Person A is dwelling for nothing and why do you feel this way"
Yeah, I think person A should stop having a grudge on whatever was said... unless it was like a really bad remark, like a racist joke or a big rumor (like person A had sex with person D or something) or whatever. Then I would understand person A for dwelling on whatever was said, but if it was just like, "your haircut is ugly," or, "ew, your pimple looks like a second head is growing," she or he should just let it go.
Hope I've helped
-Jenny C
I'm 14 and I have a problem when talking to boys. Whenever I see guys checking me out, I get really nervous and run away and hide until he goes away.
But if I ever do get the chance to talk to a boy, my mind goes blank, and I can't think of anything to talk about except my cat. I'm always a weird, annoying dullard around guys, even though I'm not like that at all around other people.
How can I get over this and behave normally around guys, like other girls?
Wear sweet-smelling perfume, kind of like vanilla, creamy or sugary, so that when you think you're going to freak out near a guy, you can take a deep breath and take a sniff of that scent to calm you down.
Pretend the guy is just a friend of yours. It's hard, but it's possible. Try to imagine what you would reply if this boy was your friend. Try not to act nervous. Don't try to make eye contact with the guy, because it'll mkae you even more nervous.
Giggle at the jokes a guy makes. Guys like it when girls think they're funny. If he is sharing expreiences with you, talk about a similar thing that happened to you or just about how you feel about the situation. Try to keep a conversation going. Avoid topics about your cat, unless animals is your current topic. =)
Hope I've helped
-Jenny C
How can I keep my boyfriend attracted to me? Like wanting to hang out with me, basically NOT wanting to break up with me? I know be myself, but I always fear he wants to break up. I don't know why, it seems we're spending less time together. Help?
Be very affectionate with your boyfriend. Excite his hormones is what I'm saying. ;) Don't go too far, but I mean just make out with him and go to wild parties with him. Show him with your body how much you like him... no I don't mean sex..., unless you want me to mean that. Just hang out with your boyfriend constantly.
Just be loving to him. Show him what he'll be missing out on if he breaks up with you.
Hope I helped
-Jenny C
well i have been going out with this guy for eleven months and our relationship has been pretty good but only problem is i feel like i have gotten bored of him. i feel trapped cause he hates me partying hanging out with my guy friends etc. i feel like i cant have fun anymore and ive felt like that the past eleven months that we have been going out. and theres this other guy that ive liked for a reeeeeally long time.. longer than ive liked my current boyfriend. the guy ive liked for a long time is my type of guy. i have so much fun with him and i like him so much. i love the way he treats me its hard to resist him. but i jsut cant break up with my boyfriend. he would kill himself because he loves me so much. he is so serious about me.. he is erious about marraige with me in the future. he is already out of high school but problem is im still in hs. he is going to the army in a month and he told me not to break up with him cause he plans on marrying me when he comes back. he gave me so many expensive presents for xmas and if i broke up with him how big of a butt would i be?? i dont want to break his heart bcause he doesnt deserve it but i also dont think he deserves me. idk what to do cause i know id be happier without him but i sometimes have to ask yself if i really would be happy without him. idk what i should do.. what should i do?
This guy seems like such a sweet guy. It would be wrong for you to break up with him when he's so in love with you... but your feelings for him are dying, and he's trying to keep it alive.
This is a really messy situation. I think, though, you would miss this boyfriend when you break up with him, and only becoming tired of him because you're eyeing another guy that you think is more interesting. I think you should stick with your current boyfriend.
Talk to your boyfriend about the trapping thing though, because that;s really not right. Isn't it like the only thing about him that's imperfect? That he's too serious? Tell him to loosen up a bit and bring him to parties that you go to.
If you really think you can't handle being with your current boyfriend, you have to be honest. Tell him you know how much this relationship means to him, but that he's more like a friend or brother or whatever than a boyfriend. Tell him that with his charms, he'll get a better girl. Think about it really hard though, because you never know how much you'll miss something until it's gone.
Hope I've helped
-Jenny C
I just got banned for kidding around, mayonnays and i had a dispute and ketchup, her twin had this to say before banning me, by the way read the moderator board, im really pissed now i cant be a moderator... :(
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Okay. First, this is Ketchup. No, you havn't heard of me but you have heard of my twin sister. Mayonnaise.
Anyways, I heard u called her a "gothic freak"
You're a fuckin douche. You need to fuckin get to know somebody before you go and fuckin judge. You don't know her. I'm her fuckin twin whatever you call her, you call me. You need to get some damn manners and grow up. Stop being a fuckin 5 year old pussy. Thats what you are. We're not gothic. And we sure as hell ain't freaks. You need to learn how to give good fuckin advice cause yours sucks ass.
Think before you start fuckin calling people names. Especially if you don't know them. That just goes to show you're a pussy.
Grow the fuck up..
Oh, and you can get me banned. I really don't give a shit. So yeah..what you got to say now?
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Is there any way to become a mod again???
I'm sorry, but calling someone a 'gothic freak' is not a joke. At all. It's offending, and in any point of view I see it, it's still insulting.
I suggest you apologize to her. Understand that it wasn't funny at all. Jokes are supposed to be funny and that wasn't funny, so that wasn't a joke.
Hope I've helped...
-Jenny C
How can you tell if your boyfriend is cheating, mine started acting really shady a few days ago..and doesn't seem as interested in me..any ideas?
Watch him. See if his eyes land longer than normal on another girl. Or if he smiles flirtatiously at another.
Spy on him! Or get your most trustful friends to, if you're too busy. Where does he go most? Have spies there, and see if he's hanging out with another girl.
If you have suspicions on a certain girl, hug your boyfriend in front of her and most guys will lightly push you away or give her a quick, apologetic glance or something.
Lastly, if you find your boyfriend is cheating on you, dump him! Tell him you know all about whoever. If he doesn't work out well with that other girl, and comes back to you, refuse. He's not worthy if he goes around cheating.
Hope I've helped
-Jenny C
Okay yeah the usual from me I like this guy he is everything to me and I want him to know but also I don't. He is everything to me and how are some ways to get them to notice you more? And do you think I should tell him to give him a try?
2nd thing. The time before I liked this other boy and he liked me too then another girl came and she liked him to he stopped liking me and went for the other girl. Then they broke up awhile ago but now I really don't feel the same but he has been ignoring me I don't know whats up with him.
Problem number 1:
Smile. But careful, don't overdo it or you'll end up looking like a clown. Whenever you see him, smile.
Flirt, of course! It's what all crushers must do! Glance at him until he notices, and when he notices quickly look down the floor. Unless this guy is dumb, he'll take this as a sign of interest.
Giggle. Like smiling, this is what you must not over do, but should do. Laugh at his jokes. Show him you think he's funny.
If he's a sports player or something like that, then go to his games and cheer for him! Clap and yell cheerfully when he scores or something. Maybe, if you're a little gutsy, you'll bring him a can of soda or a bottle of water (make sure it's icy cold!) at the end of the game. If his team won, congratulate him... if they lost, tell him that the other team must've been on steroids or tell him he played well anyway.
Problem number 2:
Talk to this guy. Ask him what's going on. Tell him that you still think of him as a friend and you don't like him ignoring you unless he has a good reason. If he ignores you, write him a note and slip it in his locker. Tell him you have no grudge against him, because you've moved on, and that you'd like to be friends again.
Hope I've helped
-Jenny C
Okay, first of all, I'm 16/f and bisexual.
Alright, my best friend, Ashley, told me a few weeks ago how she felt about me. She said that she'll look over at me during one of our classes and she thinks I look hot. I told her how I felt, and we talked for a little while more.
When we were finished, I walked to my car and she told me she loved me. I didn't say anything, but just got in the car.
Now I'm having sexual feelings towards her and I really want to ask her out. Like, yesterday, we were at the movies and I put my head on her shoulder and she held my hand. I kept on trying to think of ways to tell her I wanted to go out with her, but I couldn't think of how to tell her. (BTW she has a girlfriend, and I like her g/f too.)
Anyways, any advice for the confused one over here? Like any ways to tell her I wanna go further than just being friends?
Well, it's good you're bisexual, because then you can hang out with Ashley without asking her out. Invite her to a movie, or a sleepover. Watch a nice movie and constantly hold her hand and show nice, noticeable signs of affection.
And Ashley loves you, right? So what are really the chances of her rejecting you when you really ask her out? Not really likely. =) Admit your feelings about her because she did the same already.
Good luck!!
-Jenny C
well me and my bf were doing great then came along some rumors and he dumped me and i can't get over him everytime i see him i cry and i just want to fall in his arms and tell him i love him now i did that he got me a bear 4 christmas and now 4 some reason i want sex why is that does anyone no?
You just have an increase of affections for him because you miss him so much. It's not really a negative issue, but you guys breaking up for some rumor is. Did you tell him that the rumor wasn't true? You boyfriend should've believed you, but understand that he didn't. Tell this guy you love him a lot, and thank him for the bear.
Give him something special for Christmas. Myabe that'll at least get you guys to be friends, and then you can work your way up from there.
Hope I've helped
-Jenny C
I know it's bad, but this is my question. When me and my friends smoke pot, they always get high and I never do. The most I get is a little dizzy. I don't even get giggly? What's going on?
It just means that you have better control of your mental and physical self. The pot still decreases your health, but it doesn't really affect your actions until it gets really bad.
Hope I've helped
-Jenny C
whenever i masterbate it feels good. but then i get this feeling thats like telling me to stop. is that normal?
Yeah, it's completely normal.
I have this really good friend, Mary, and her "supposeidly" best freind is Kate. Well whenever Kate can't hang out or leaves a party early ors eomthing Mary is always like "I just feel really bad for Kate." And maybe she does and all but Mary says she feels bad for Kate like twice a day-no joke. The sad thing is, Kate doesn't give a crap about Mary. She never includes Mary when Mary gets Kate invited everywhere she goes. I am kind of fed up with is cause they say they are best freinds when really Kate doesn't even care for Mary. I don't know if I should talk to Mary cause Kate is her best freind... but what should I do?
Well... it depends on why Mary feels bad for Kate. If Kate's parents divorced or her sister died or something seriously depressing happened, then it's not wrong for Mary to have sympathy for her. Maybe May just wants Kate to feel better, but Kate just doesn't want to be friends with Mary. Leave them alone.
If the reason Mary feels sorry for Kate is for almost no reason, like if her crush just likes someone else, or something, then ask Mary why it's such a big of a deal enough for her to feel THAT sorry for. Talk to Mary: Why do you like Kate so much? Do you know that she's had those parties, excluding you? Do you notice that she doesn't treat you the way you treat her?
Try not be so harsh or anything. Tell her you just want to know what's so great about Kate if she doesn't even care about Mary.
Hope I've helped
-Jenny C
I asked this question before but I believe I rephrased it now. I have been thinking about suicide for about a year and a half. Now I am really over the limit. My parents won't pay attention to me, I have no friends that will listen to what I say, I don't see any point to living, I am a terrible person and I feel I don't deserve to live. I really don't care about my family, friends, pets. I just find no way to like love them. Are there any sites that can help me get through this? I know it's a bad thought, I'm afraid I might actually go through with it and I just need some help. Again I don't trust people I know, most of the time (such as an adult I know) they just seem backstabing. I am very weird PLEASE help!
Please don't. You have a whole life ahead of you that you can do great things with. You never know what life has for you. I know it sounds stupid, but the future might be saving something for you. Just don't lose your hopes. We care. =)
Read:
http://www.metanoia.org/suicide/
i been getting advice everyday because of me and my ex-boyfriend i broke up with him and i still have feelings for him i dont know what to do can somebody help me cause i dont know if he still likes me so what now please help
Did he dump you? If so, he has no feelings for you. Otherwise he wouldn't have done that... I'm sorry. You probably deserve better, and he's the one missing out on something good. ;) Right?? Get your mind off him by watching TV, hanging out with friends, and meeting other guys.
Did you dump him? There had to be a reason! Think about that reason, and think of whether it was a good reason or bad. If it was a good reason, then you should keep yourself away from that guy. If it was a bad reason, then apologize to this guy about it, and tell him you really weren't thinking and that you have feelings for him.
Did you two decide to just break up and meet other people?? Well follow the instructions I gave on the second paragraph...
Hope I've helped
-Jenny C
OK so, all of a sudden I feel hated by like everyone. I can't stand it, I feel like I'm not wanted [anywhere] anymore. Not even at home! Does anybody have a reason to this? .. Some comforting advice? ...
-Thanks
Aww, don't be like that.
If your parents didn't love you, they wouldn't pay for the electricit bills that come from you playing the compiter. They wouldn't buy food for you for you to live on. They'd dump you in an adoptation center if they didn't love you. So don't be so down.
Your sisters or brothers (if you have any) love you too. They just might not show it... for some reason. But they do love you.
Spend some more time with your family and friends. If your younger sister or brother is struggling through homework, help them. If your older brother or sister plays sports at school, cheer for them at their games. Throw a sleepover party, and invite all your friends. Watch comedy films with lots of laughs so you'll feel closer together.
Hope I've helped
-Jenny C
I am a male, I'm 17. I really like this girl in my grade - I've liked her for over 2 years now, but I've never had the courage to tell her. Just recently, I finally got the courage to ask her to a movie - but I realized that she had plans for the evening so that didn't work out. I phoned her the next day, asking for another movie, but this time I got the answer that she had "plans" I just don't know what to do. How can I find out if shes trying to ditch me, or if shes actually busy. I don't know what to do. Please, if some one can help. I just - I think of her at every moment, I see her eyes all the time, I don't find anyone attractive anymore, I've started to write poetry - What can I possibly do?
Aww... that's so sweet of you.
To find out, stop chasing after her. If this girl really did have plans, she'd call you back at some time when she's not busy and tell you that she can go to that movie. If the girl doesn't call you back or mention it at school, she wasn't busy.
If this girl doesn't call back, I'm sorry. She doesn't deserve you if she does this anyway. You sound like a very friendly, affectionate guy that deserves better. Trust me, the girl's probably the one missing out on something good.
If she does call back to say she's free, take a shower. Dress normally. No tuxedos.
When you're at the movies, put an arm around her. Buy popcorn and tickets for her. The girl will appreciate it, and she'll be more attracted to you. If you're going to watch a horror movie, hold her hands at the scary parts. If a romance, look into her eyes at the make out scenes or something.
Hope I've helped
-Jenny C
im really confused about this. When your about ot have sex, like he starts taking off your clothes and you start taking off his when would you put the condom on. I'm really confused
thankss =]
Right when all your clothes are off. Before he 'enters' you...
How can you tell if a person you were dating for 10 months is not over you.. hes 15 years old
Ask yourself this:
Does he still show me the same affection she had shown since the start of the relationship? Does he still seem to pleasure in hugging you or kissing you?
Does he still compliment me like he means it?
Does his eyes still contain the same interest it had when we first went out?
Does he still ask me to go out to places with him as much as he did before?
If you find, "No," as the answers to most of the questions, then he's probably lost interest. And if he did, don't worry. You'll find other guys out there. In the whole world, there's an estimate of more than a million guys.
Hope I've helped
-Jenny C