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"i feel so bad for her"
I have this really good friend, Mary, and her "supposeidly" best freind is Kate. Well whenever Kate can't hang out or leaves a party early ors eomthing Mary is always like "I just feel really bad for Kate." And maybe she does and all but Mary says she feels bad for Kate like twice a day-no joke. The sad thing is, Kate doesn't give a crap about Mary. She never includes Mary when Mary gets Kate invited everywhere she goes. I am kind of fed up with is cause they say they are best freinds when really Kate doesn't even care for Mary. I don't know if I should talk to Mary cause Kate is her best freind... but what should I do?
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Well... it depends on why Mary feels bad for Kate. If Kate's parents divorced or her sister died or something seriously depressing happened, then it's not wrong for Mary to have sympathy for her. Maybe May just wants Kate to feel better, but Kate just doesn't want to be friends with Mary. Leave them alone.
If the reason Mary feels sorry for Kate is for almost no reason, like if her crush just likes someone else, or something, then ask Mary why it's such a big of a deal enough for her to feel THAT sorry for. Talk to Mary: Why do you like Kate so much? Do you know that she's had those parties, excluding you? Do you notice that she doesn't treat you the way you treat her?
Try not be so harsh or anything. Tell her you just want to know what's so great about Kate if she doesn't even care about Mary.
Hope I've helped
-Jenny C
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